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Baawaa:
Charles boy's daughter graduate and Charles boy is still busy pearing nose, pearing mouth, pearing lips, pearing eyes the grandpa that need DELIVERANCE

VT Not daughter, but a grand daughter making his grandpa proud. Let's learn to be less judgmental.

And somebody will tell me there is no God?

If I were you, I would not have rushed to the internet to divulge this information about her. You are going to make the work of the police kinda of difficulty now.

Femi congratulations. Your wife has definitely made you super proud.

DanseMacabre:
Should be 'sabuwa da kaza, ba ya hana yanka', and it loosely translates as 'familiarity with the chicken (by the owner) doesn't prevent it from being slaughtered.'


Quite apt.

True word. I served in Kd. That is the saying of the Hausa man when it comes to killing of non Hausa.

lofty900:
Northerners are very peaceful I keep saying it. I served in the north. My students are also traders in the market and whenever they see me a southerner coming to the market, they'll surround me asking me to come and buy from them and I got the best deals ever. #500 cow meat will full my pot I'll even get tired of eating meat. I watch free matches at the viewing center. I walk freely with my phone in the night and no cultists or agbero harassed me. Why are my saying all these? It's only a few bad egg is making the north look bad, if you have never been to the north, you'll never know. Igbos have the biggest houses and pharmacies in the north and they're happy. Leave them alone.

That a chicken is close to you, doesn't stop you from killing it when the time comes. A word is a enough for the wise.

samguru:
Good day All,

I got married to a single mother last year and she pushed me to ikoyi marriage registry for consummation,this was due to the pregnancy and she was afraid i will dump her.
I have been noticing this fierce behaviours from her before we got married i taught it was due to her condition (pregnancy).Behaviours such insulting me"you are mad, e no go better for you and so on".I was tolerating this thinking when she gives birth she will change rather it got worse.

If anything happens in the house, she will flare up to the extent of threatening to attack with bottle,infact she smashed my smart phone on the floor, tore the money i gave her to pieces and so many other nasty behaviours like cursing me unclad,dipping her hand inside her vi***al to curse me,call my mother and insults her, preventing me to go out when she starts her madness(locking the door).

I have left the house for her since last year december and i have been trying to file a divorce,but most lawyers contacted advised the marriage is to young (less than a year out of which we only stayed together for 6 months) that the court may ask us to go back to our families for resolution.The few ones asked for over three hundred thousand excluding appearance cost to press for divorce.

Please i am tired of the marriage i want dissolution as soon as possible, as i am currently working on some projects that demand my marriage certificate or divorce certificate,also lawyers advised me not to attempt to marry if divorce has not taken place.

Please i need your advise, please help me, am losing sleep over this matter,i will also appreciate if i can get a legal service on pro bono.

thank you God bless you all.

Please go and contact DPA. Search for him on facebook with that name. I can endure anything in marriage, but not domestic abuse.

PenisCaP:
Op is a blatant liar.. that was money given to him to take the kid to hospital i dnt know wht people gain in spreading falsehood.

DPA asked the father to play along because they need all the evidence to nail the proprietor and the Dpo who asked that the girl's father should accept the 100k been offered him.

Topgainer:
We were not told who the assulter is and why the Barr. Ugwonye wants to take it out on the Proprietor.
The proprietor of the school is acting circumspectly, because for such to happen in the premises of her school questions the standards of such cheap establishment .
DPA should focus on appropriate therapy for the child and education support for her. I am not in support of hunting that poor proprietor.

FYI, the proprietor's son is the rapist here. Are you satisfied now. Nonsense.

pweetyoge:
same story line all the time. my project topic was on child/girl trafficking, during my research i realised greed, unhealthy competition n poverty is the underlying factor. They claim ignorance bt the truth is they know exactly what they are getting into. They are not as naive and stupid as the media portrays the story. They all know either one way or the other( old stories, friends,neighbour who has done same) , but the love for quick money and the obodo oyibo syndrome blur and becloud the right sense of reasoning. who travels outside a country through the desert without knowing it is fishy? Pls they should cut us some slack with the same old gist all the time...

Thank God for a Nigeria film that brought to open the activities of those involved in human trafficking . I would have fallen a victim, but then I had watched the movie. My mum who was ignorant of what I was been coarsed to go into, was very happy and encouraging me to travel to Italy. I had to tell her that there are no job anywhere for me safe for prostitution. I have to let her watch the movie. I believed strongly that before the movie so many people were ignorant, but after then, I refused to believe that those girls don't know what they were getting into. I so rest my case.

Frederick2017:
Hey bro, we barca fans ain't dogs. Watch your tongue.
I sabi sey juve equalizing goal dey pain.

Madrid is definitely going home without the cup tonite.

Barca started the league with Real Madrid right?Where Barça dey na. Pepper eye. Yeye dey smell.

Please send to my email too. crystalexm@gmail.com.Thanks.

This is serious oh. I will advise you go to the barrack to lay complain. The soldiers there will be willing to give you female soldiers to teach her a lesson. She will confess all that she said she didn't do.

ojlifa:
We are not convinced until we hear from the man,the journalist is suppose to get comment from both sides before reporting,any one sided report is an attempt to attack somebodies character,in fact for the fact you mention where he is working,we very well know that the intention is to get him fired

The company needs to be careful with this man, if he can do this to his wife, then no staff of that company is safe where the man is.

lalaray:
For those of u who mock people who r going through depression, may God bless u richly, one day it will b ur turn n then and only will u understand

Thank you dear. How have we become so heartless that all that comes out from our mouths are killing words. May God help us all

Leave Efe alone. My brother followed Donald Trump during his Election campaign and he followed back. The night he won the election, he unfollowed my brother. Efe has the right to unfollow whoever he damm choose. This is not an issue for debate.

GloriaNinja:
See as they are rejoicing as if they are the ones that won the prize, that's why Nigeria is not moving forward.

why do you rejoice with your sister or brother on his or her wedding day. Are you the one getting married. Learn to celebrate with others, yours will come faster. I so submit

Good morning. Please is there anybody that is into the sales of cement. How much is a truck of cement now. How much profit can one make from a truck. How do one make arrangement to secure a truck load of cement.

Good day. Please I want to know of Glo still allows one to transfer airtime. If yes, what is the code for that.

Another voice lost. R. I. P

I want to call on the attention of Mr President, Minister of Education and the various agencies vested with the power to fight corruption cases to please come to the aid of staff of Federal University of Petroleum resources. Since the Vice Chancellor, prof Akii Ibadodhe came to Fupre, the staff have experienced from one salary cut to another. First, it was 15%, then 6.5% and finally 5.5%. This has been going on since October 2014. Last year December, we heard that money was released by Federal government to pay staff their promotion arrears, incremental steps, and several other allowances, but the Vice chancellor and the governing council chairman been led by Senator Amange Bariga has connived together to under pay staff. Some staff who are supposed to receive close to 500k are being paid less than 120k. I therefore call on Efcc, Icpc and other bodies to swig into action to investigate the Vice Chancellor and members of Council.Mod please let this get to Front page. Let the world see what is going on in Fupre.

Zdoh:
Blacklist the number,Shikena!!!

i am a complete novice on that. Could you please show me the process involve.

Why are people just viewing and not commenting. I beg make owner put mouth for this matter. How you see am

You didn't check it out before making payment. I ordered for kenwood blender from jumia. When it was brought, I insisted in checking it out, jumia agent told me I can't open it. Gave him back the blender, told him I can't pay for what I have not tested. He took it away, the next day, got a call from jumia that the blender will be delivered and to be tested. It was delivered the next, I checked it out and did the testing, confirm it working before I paid. I nor fit shout later.

Please I need you all to pray for my friend. She is in a bad shape. She was moved into the intensive care unit today, and she is at the moment being placed on oxygen. Oh God, help my friend to leave. Will not forgive myself if anything happens to her.

Hayomee:
This is so sad and I so much felt for her, she did absolutely nothing wrong by falling in love but one mistake she did was the steps she took in the relationship. I felt she was too fast in her steps and the unfortunate guy took advantage of that. She should be more careful and watchful and also take things really slow next time becos by that you ll have time to really know the other person and their real intentions and feelings towards you. Best of luck to her in her future endeavors

Thanks so much. The break up is affecting my friend seriously. Have to take her to the hospital when I saw how she was looking. If I had delayed, she would have died. Her Bp was reading 140/90. She is on admission now.

Justdulla:
some ladies act desperate and a sharp guy would sense it. he would promise,chop,collect change,clean mouth and vamooze.
I don't know why ladies act all desperate for the sake of marriage. I remember ma ex,I told shawtynto chill for me,she said age wasn't in her side now she's Gona marry someone that looks like Obasanjo jux cos she wana get married like her friends..
advice your friend to enjoy her life with or without a man,she should have fun and look too mehn

My friend wasn't desperate, if she was, she probably would have chosen to marry any of the two guys who have been asking her for marriage for 3 years now. Mainwhile, the two other suitors have very good jobs. Thanks for your advice. She will read them and hope she draws strength from it.

Justdulla:
why would she blame you nah,as far as am concerned,you aint a prophet. Meanwhile she should move on once bitten twice shy.
I keep telling peeps marriage is overated

I encouraged her, thinking i was trying to help a friend be happy again. People are heartless.

I have to create this new moniker as I am a very popular nairalader and also the sensitivity of this matter. Please I will like to beg fellow nairalanders to help me sincerely advice this friend of mine as she will be reading up very thing said here. Please let's be matured in giving her advice. I really can't put all the details together, but will try as much as I can to pen the relevant ones. My friend has had her own share of bad relationship in time past that really affected her love life. She was finding it very difficult to love again because of the trauma she went through in her last relationship. Until recently when she connected her childhood friend on facebook. And they began to talk. When the guy found out she was still single, he quickly asked her out saying he had a crush on her while they were growing up but he didn't had the guts them to approach her, but that this time around, he won't let her slip away from him again. They began to communicate seriously on phone. My friend came to break the news to me. I asked her if she felt anything for the boy, to my surprise she said yes, you need to see the excitement on my face. I was so happy for her, cos I knew what my friend have been through. I knew suitors who have been coming, but she kept telling me she doesn't feel anything for them, so you can understand the reason why I was happy. At least i am very much aware of two guys who have been asking her for marriage for three years now, but she wouldn't agree, because she couldn't love any man, besides she is already in her early 30s, so I was so so concern for her. Guess you now know why I was happy when she finally told me she has fallen for the guy. But in all of this, she told me one thing that was her major fear. The guy doesn't have a job. My wife and I encourage her not to let that bother her yet, I gave her instances of women who have helped their men to stand. My friend is doing pretty well, she has a good paying job and a few connections here and there. So helping the guy get a job won't be much of a problem. The guy invited her over in the month of May last year to his place. They both reside in different states. She stayed for like a week and came back. She was very excited, told me the guy proposed and she said yes. Again i was excited for her. She said she spent 70k for the period that she was with the guy. Gave the guy money to buy some equipments for his business because he wants the guy to be up and doing. I told her it's OK. She sent the guy money again to go for training and to also help the guy execute a contract he said he got. November last year, she went to meet the guy again. And she called me and said she is suspecting that the guy is seeing somebody else, and that the guy is also stealing from her. This is a guy that my friend told how much she is receiving and also handed her ATM card to. When she went there November she was still the person who footed all the bills as the guy told her that the contracts he did, he hasn't been paid. She also gave the guy money to send to his parents. She was able to get one of the numbers that she was suspecting ,she took the number and called the person, only to discover that, the girl is the guy's fiance. And behold more revelations were unravel. He engaged this girl a week after my friend left the guy's house and he is going to do introduction by the end of this month. My friend went ahead and called the guy's younger brother to report the issue to, only to discover more shocking lies. The guy now is angry with my friend that who gave her the right to call the girl and his brother. My friend is a shadow of her self right now. She is blaming my wife and myself right now that we encouraged her to spend her money on the guy. I have taken the blame for that, thought she was doing it for somebody who appreciates good. I kept asking myself these questionings, where did my friend go wrong, why are we so deceptive in nature, was it wrong for my friend to have been transparent to this guy. Please you guys should help me talk to my friend. She will read all of your comments. Couldn't write down a whole lot that happened.Mod pls do the needful. Thanks