₦airaland Forum

madamkoko:
MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE.

Yeah but how do you know if the choice you make is the right one? the one destined for you? that is the crux of the matter!

Painful to say, but no one is ideal!

Gamine:
He made a Choice to go look for her.

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But the choice of who in this case was not entirely that of the man, she was chosen for him, destined for him, agree

May be this will explain what i am driving at: the friend in question wanted to marry. He prayed and fasted for a while with no one in mind, then he had a dream in which he saw a slender, dark complexioned lady. Her name, location and other details were also given. He told us this before he left for the location. They've since been married.

Gamine:
Advanced Common Sense [size=5pt]TM[/size]

thats all.

still thinking: but what of those whose partners were revealed to them in dreams? sometimes people they have never met before? you can't stretch the issue of choice and common sense too far without running into more questions

Regardless of the mess we humans have made of the marriage institution, i believe God who created us male and females has a purpose. That purpose includes [but not limited to] marriage.

Gamine:
Matter of Choice.

Destiny is the choice that becomes You

yeah! you've taken me to a whole new realm of thinking and re-thinking there!

I need advise from married couples and matured adults in the house on this: is a wife a matter of choice or destiny? when you have got choices to make, are there any inward witnesses to indicate who is the one? or you just go ahead to pick who you like most?

huxley:
I would use it to kill him

Arrrrrrrrrrrggggggggghhhhhhh!!!! kill BABA GODDEY? my hand no dey-ooo!

AnthonyKil:
@Topic,
If I have his powers, I will make all girls have sex with me. Espeacially the plus size ladies. LOVEEEEEEEEEEEE to taste them. So sweet and delightful.

You will just kill yourself in no time my brother, I bet you there are better things than that!

Waxxy:
@maerlet and haywhy,

I just need to confirm a few things with some peeps and i'll give the details on this thread. However, if u need me to send you information and al developments in private, then send an email to walelead@yahoo.com and ill keep in touch.

Where are the ladies though, a'int no party without the ladies

though I am new here, I raise up my hands-oh! i am watching out here for details, but if you no mind, u fit drop a line for me, i even have a few suggestions but make i keep them for inside until they are needed.

manmustwac:
stop corruption in nigeria and throw allthose politician thieves in prison

Remember the power is just for a period of time. I can assure you that immediately you give it back to God, the politicians you imprisoned will file an appeal, and of course they will win [no be Nigeria we dey?] and they will be back to continue,

Necorios:
Wel,u must knw that b.almyty has prt 2 whch is evan almyty nd they re old movies so bak 2ur ? If i av GOD powers i will, oh no! I changd my mind seein what hapn in b.almyti proves no 1 can be as GOD because he has a reasn 4evri cause that is unknwn 2man. My dear poster i sugest u go bak nd re watch that movie because u wil never wish u were him nd if u do u wil lose alot dan gain,because i remember a line in that movie it says 'NEVA PLAY WIT FREE WILL' u re human being dnt u want 2enjoy free wil? Jst an advice,dnt even thnk about it!

thanks for the additional info. of course i do not wish to be like Bruce! am just allowing imaginations to roam!

Thank God at last! for members of R.C.C.G worldwide, welcome to the next level!! to all the critics, God bless you!!!

I watched an interesting comedy called [b]BRUCE ALMIGHTY [/b]recently. It is about a God-critic who was eventually given the privilege to play God for a while, and what a hilarious mess he made of it! But it got me thinking, if you have the powers of God what will you do with it? any opinions in the house?

It is high time our leaders [or rulers] plug the loopholes through which politicians siphon our resources, tidy up the tax system to make it more effective, recover our stolen wealth and introduce some kind of social security for the teeming desperate masses. Even with these horrifying reports, if another organization announces mass vacancies tomorrow, countless numbers of folks will still file out for it and you will still hear of similar tragic tales. the people are simply poor and hungry and will rather die trying than sit in one place to die. its unfortunate that successive governments have failed to realize how serious the issue of poverty is in Nigeria, or they callously ignored it.

May be this personal account will encourage you more: I applied in December 2006, i was denied, i re-applied in April 2007 i was still denied, their reason for the first refusal was that i presented a forged bank statement, on the second occasion, i presented the same set of documents attached with a note from the bank . This time, they say the ''interest calculation'' on the bank statement was not proper. We then went on appeal and you will be surprised that at the hearing, they have no single evidence to defend their claims. I got my visa in August 2007 and i am since in the U.K. It could be painful, especially when you are sure your documents are not from OLUWOLE, i felt the same way, but don't give up, go on appeal and don't forget to pray about it, good-luck !

Otokx my brother, If you want to wait for the time when every pastor will become like Jesus Christ before you serve God you will wait forever! even after listening to recorded sermons as you suggests, you will still have to come out and practice what you have heard from God and believed, that is service to God, 'getting busy' for HIM

We all feel that way sometimes, one of the ways to overcome this is to identify a group within the church you have interest in, take up a responsibility there and get busy for God! i had a similar challenge way back, then i joined both Drama and Media departments, and that has made going to church very exciting for me since! Don't forget the mind is like a garden, you need to prune it constantly to keep it beautiful and avoid 'weeds' overtaking it. Bless you

my honest submission is that couples should have separate rooms if they can afford it, too much intimacy can be suffocating. I, for one have moments in my life when i just want to be alone to reflect and meditate. i will definitely have a private room when i marry and that will not make me love my wife less.

Eziachi:
Please tell your English wife that their refusal is a blessing for her in disguise. Why on earth does she want to be a Nigerian citizen? Have you introduced her to Sapele water or what that has turn her brain upside down? Many of us want to throw Nigerian citizenship into the River Niger if possible and someone is sane enough to want one. She can have mine if she is that desperate. I know blind Nigerian patriots will all come out of the wood works now and jump on my throat but they knew I am saying the truth.

But how many places do they travel with Nigerian passport if they has an alternative? Those useless people at the embassy that call themselves diplomats need their heads examined for refusing any willing lamb a citizenship of a yawaa country like Nigeria. This is what happen when you have a gworo chewing mallam as president, a junta bastard man as senate president, a former hungry teacher as vice president, a motor mouth as speaker and a nonentity of Ojo Nmaduekwe as foreign minister.

bros, i understand your anger but that was too rough and raw, especially the name-callings! don't you see from even that report that for NAIJA, all hope is not lost yet? Let's keep hope alive pls.

why not go to their website to find out

thanks, Studentetc, but i don't think there is any need for suing the girl. i rather pray for God to forgive her and myself because, i too did similar things to other girls for some time. As for you Pataki, i no know how old you be wey you want make person spell everything out before you go understand, i no be which, i be Godpikin.

thanks, Full Depth, I think nairalanders shoud be considerate and matured enough to keep quiet if they have nothing meaningful to add to a thread. There are plenty avenues to do 'catch-up' than on this forum please.

i was in J.S.2 she was in S.S.1, her mum ran a restaurant, we were neighbors and i use to stay at her place to kill time. one  particular night, she asked me to stay longer to keep her company. i agreed. after a while, her mum suspecting nothing went in to sleep, she then took me to their parlour, my heart began to pump as i did not know what was going to happen. she undressed and, it was a horrible experience for me, till now anytime i see her, i can't help but remember

What God has done so far through pastor Adeboye and every other man/woman of God ever known, what HE will yet do through all of them and the ones yet to manifest, constitute just a tiny bit of the immeasurable power of the Most High God. There is no way human mind can fathom the ways of God, and till the kingdom of God comes, there will always be those who chose not to believe and those that will not believe anything beyond human reasoning.

if the world ignores the blackman, it is the world that will lose, i congratulate America for this courageous step in the right direction.

watch out for turkey!!! they have this relentless ruggedness that is the stuff of champions. they are real fighters. its either they win or the team to win will have to beat them to do so

abeg, let him look for a more naijaic way of protest next time, he is even lucky to get noticed