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Where iis this product from, is it locally made? I will encourage you to put a price to it Including cost of sending to any part of Nigeria. It gives your product credibility

Rest in peace

So sad
Wish I could hear some of his songs again. Mos nairaLanders would not know him as he was of a different generation.

How come I'm seeing a different picture. The one on the right appears to b a guy with broader shoulders, thicker legs and even taller stature than the girl on the left

It sounds good but as others have rightly said, not enough information. How are d prices. Is it equiped with night vision? Motion sensitivity, zoom etc pls throw more light here since we r here and you are here

itsoscar:
This was the same thing they did in delta state useless pdp.

In Delta, the figures from the poll units suddenly transformed themselves @ collation Level. No one can say otherwise as the only media station Is State owned. E go better!

ignis:
Did you just wrote same sex marriage?
God forbid.

What makes u think its been encouraged by d west but to curb societal vices: paedophilia, sodomy, ashawo, aristo and yes rrape! All's a function of konji

ignis:
Polygamy is the simple solution.

Thank God somebody has seen d problem looming ahead of Us Africans. is ether we accept d wests solution and allow same sex marriages or we go back 2 our own age old solution to balance d skewered family structure. Else some will never get married or have legmate relationships thus cut off d fodder for so much cheating

please anyone with the know how should enlighten me

clemz88:
Dats gud

So how does it work? Like online radio or perhaps like DStv radio?

Potential you say. Hehehe . So because your friend lives in the U.K means he has potential. Does he stay with the royal family? Please wake up. If I were a girl, I'd prefer to date a guy earning 70k or less in Naija than one who is an immigrant in d UK

Chucks2015:
lol thats a different opinion. Mastering of emotions is something he clearly needs to do cos he cant keep been indecisive. However i feel he can be uncomfortable with her number. the problem is him letting her know. As for calling him a loser and unattractive. He is still got the girl remember. How can u be sure she is not dating anyone? Like women dont lie or deceive. I think she is but she is keeping him there cos of his "potential". but we can never know. He did ask and she said No. but didnt expect a yes anyway, her behaviour alone rigs of it imo

Hellooo . So please tell us how many girls have u slept with? Can u really remember, honestly? Except you and your guy are still lads then I'll Understand your naivety. My guy, is either she has done it before or she has not. The number is inconsequential. Get used to it. Tell your guy he needs to get laid more, sow his wild oats. He's still unprepared For relationship hassles

My friend Wether its you or your Friend that this is happening to need to grow up because the man herein is still a boy. Unsafe unattractive and a loser. So what if she has dated twelve guys? What is he currently doing with her? Even if guys hit on Her doesn't that mean she is attractive? Or would he b content to date a woman no other man wants? I bet he won't.
She agreed to date him despite the number of real men asking her out only to discover she settled for a child!
He better not call her for d next month while he works on growing up and mastering his emotions , also give her time to miss him. And no she is not dating anyone else she'd have told him CLEARLY or dropped a very obvious hint

It is actually a thing he is wearing with pride. Trust me

starlingbawa:
But then, I agree with you that it's a bit absurd to hear such comment from one's girlfriend and honestly, you should be worried dude.

I would be!!!

Spoken like an A man. Lord of HS feelings. How afar-a. thIs WORLD is a wicked place. We just have to plaY fsafe

why should you be d one to accept the retired-hustler as a wife.
To put your mind at rest, do some digging. You can employ d services of some one who can do it for you. send a mail to backgroundqenu@yahoo.com. Or ping 295710E6

Lex11:
Just secretly follow am for night... you go soon know. Be cool though.

while It may b anger, it was born out of a terrible gutter foundation. You need to dig up as much as you can about her real person. But be as covert as u can.

lilmax:
That woman should pack out if she wants to survive the man has plans deadly plans.... She might beg him for life.... I like the man

She should run, run and keep running. Not even to her parents hoUse. Though she should go and tell them everything then drop out of sight. The man is deadly and I'm not being literal. The lover boy too should run cos he's a gonner

If you are sure he has the money then you may be Interested In what I may tell you.

Barselonia:
@Op... u forget something ooo

university system
u applied for electric and electronic engineering for jamb, Dey give u horticulture... dats dream killer.

I never can understand jamb or whoever invented it. Why make the exams yearly and why unify the process. INfact why write exams. When we want professionals to build the nation we are sensoring the people from getting edUcated. Imagine someone who is so passionate about molecular biology must fiRst pass English language or he kiss his dreams good bye. Such A waste of genius.

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post=29058457]I pity your mother[/quote]I'm telling you. The poor old lady would have cried her eyes dry by now

hatelove:
To all the single ladies and even married you can learn from my experience.

Im not a script writer neither im i a story teller im writing my experience first hand

10 years back even in my wildest imagination i wont come up with such a thing.
Ive been very regular on nairaland my friend introduced the sight to me when i was in uni. i spend almost all my free time here

Hubby is not responsible for my family and everyone in my family is grown up already im the second to last

I married hubby when i was 19 years old then i just gained admission, im 29 years old currently
Hubby mum n dad are late and my mum used to be her mum best friend so when he wanted to get married his family taught i wont be a bad idea and mum also said its okay if marry him seeing how close he was to the family.

My brother and my dad never liked the idea of polygamy for me but they said they cant choose for my husband.
My brother and my dad are the only people in my family aware of his decision
My brother said i have been away from my kids for 3 months plus and my life was becoming miserable by the day because i was complaining of how i wanted to be with them.
His decision for him to keep it away from me was only tempory and he cant fight my husband over his decision he can only support my decision so anything i come up with he will give me his 100% support.
MY dad said he had personally discuss with my husband and he doesnt have bad intention for me and our kids that he doesnt like polygamy because of the stress and all that but he doesnt see polygamy as bad.
WELL their explaination goes on and some sound logical

IF i sound like im supporting the new wife is because i want to give myself reason to be happy and i dont want to involve myself with any emotional thinking anymore because even my dad said i was too emotional and always taking things seriously but he never knew i will learn the hard way.

Ive promise myself to always make logical decision

Ive discovered that i can only make myself happy because just as im hurt hubby is happy and preparing for his day today
Im not going anywhere at least for now i want the new wife to come in and meet me so she can share her husband from the beginning of their marriage, i will not give her the joy of having a man all to herself and probably raise my kids since she has decided to share let her come and share with me though hubby has provided a seperate accomodation for her and he said after their honeymoon is 3 days per wife, i will see how it will turn out to be if the enviroment becomes too hostile for me then i use the exit.

I dont have much to say anymore, ive decided to do more of my reasoning logically.
MY HUSBAND has choosen his path.

PERTAINING TO JOB i will start applying for job at least to get something doing.
My husband fixed me on a salary before but i dont know if it will stop or reduce since we are about becoming wives.

I dont regret marrying early whether arranged or not is one of the things i thank God for everyday, my womb is presently covered with fibriod so medically i cant give birth to anymore children.
I got diagnose of fibriod when i was pregnant with my first child, the doctor initially taught it was twins until my baby grew to some certain level then we realise the other one isnt a baby, doc advised me to continue giving birth since it didnt affect my fertily after my 3rd child it had my womb covered then i had an operation but unfortunately it started growing again but im at peace since i already had 3 lovely kids i decided to take a break from stressing myself out because of it.

Yes i cant deny the fact that i took advantage of my husbands quietness
He is not bossy
He was also very patient with me, he had been patient with me when i was much younger he used to tell me that he will cut me some slack because of my age and he is ready to wait for me
when i was 28 with same alttitude we got seperated by then ive learnt my lesson but little did i know that i have already lost my husband.

Im taking responsibility so people can learn from me, i dont need to hide anything anymore
A man that told me if he courted me he wouldnt have gotten married to me.

AS THE SAYING GOES TWO WRONG DONT MAKE A RIGHT

ALL THE SAME I NEVER KNEW IT WOULD GeT TO THIS POINT, deep down in my
soul im tired of life, im weak and unhappy, no appetite, the only thing that really kept me going is NAIRALAND and my kids, thanks to you guys, you are indeed a family, thank you all.

Today is my husbands day and a new phase in my life, though i owe myself the duty to be happy im not happy

I PRAY FOR GODS STRENGHT IN MY LIFE AND MAY HE GIVE ME WISDOM JUST LIKE SOLOMON TO DEAL WITH THE SITUATON.

THANK YOU ALL, YOU ARE INDEED NAIRALAND FAMILY.

OP, God bless you for your decision to stay however you shouldn't see it as a battle between you two women. Welcome her, genuinely love her and be an take her as a kid sister or even a twin and watch your family turn to a mini heaven on earth.

The likes of @Jumbotron, I chose not to respond because its alright to have your own opinions about what you think the world and the marriage institution ought to be. My advice is for the OP on the realities of life.

Some people here have said you OP maybe a man, maybe a fictional story but incase it is real. Take good advice and stay in your marriage! And do your part. Congratulations on your new wife (yes she is also your wife as well as your husbands) and happy married life

Sorry to send this late but OP, you need to read, understand ALL I put down here before you make a mistake.

From your story, I sense you are from the S/E or S/S Nigeria so I'll talk to you like a sister.

You are married to one of the best beings that have answered the name MAN in todays world.

Your Husband has done nothing wrong in the sight of Man or God

YOU DON'T OWN ANY OF THE CHILDREN, YOU NEVER HAD AND NEVER WiLL

NEVER EVER atempt t o curse/ aRRANGE PPL TO BEAT UP YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG. HE IS NOW YOUR father and HEAD over you, SPIRITUALLY, SEXUALLY and he's ranked in sprtual heirachy far above YOUR PASTOR. IF YOU HAD GIVEN HIM THE RESPECT YOU ARE WRONGLY GIVING TO YOUR PASTOR, YOUR HOME WiLL HAVE BEEN PARADISE .

That You did not start a business even if not a job is entirely your fault. And sorry to tell you, your parents won't want you back and no man will ever take you more seriously than a mistress no matter how pretty you are. You have no skills and your degree Became worthless after keeping it for 5 years after leaving school( no experience)

If you leave, your kids will still have half bros/sis and if you don't bring them up ALL up with love, they WILL forever hate themselve and wreck the family. You as the first wife must ensure it never happens.

It is possible for you all to be happy.

Finally I know of some families succesful at polygamy, a friend told me recently that while growing up, she never understood why all her friends had one mother while she had two. She only knows the mum who bathes her is different from d one that feeds her as a child. She didn't know who was her real mum until well past puberty. YOU CAN DO IT !

I find it disgusting when people will be forming advisers like they are infallible. The man had a bitter experience but instead of swallowing his loses like others, he chose to bring iT to public notice so folks can learn from his experience. But what am I saying sef, who knows if the Scammers are on NL

ruffhandu:
Not your first time does not make it right bro. A lot of advice has been offered you here, take heed to them.
Insist on any of the following:
Do a transfer
Issue a chq
Take the person to the bank if he insists on cash
Wave the taxi you need, don't let them stop for you, especially if you just came out of a bank
Above all, draw closer to God and be spiritually alert always

ehixking: He graduated " 5years" ago and has dabble into various businesses...., once had a poultry,he tried making pure water,
But his business collapsed and had a great fall like humty dumpty
When he tried cassava farming was worse than anyone could ever imagine cos he couldn't even feed himself while waiting for his farm to mature

The cynics will say he didn't try hard enough. This is the same experience most stand-alone entrepreneurs face But sadly, some are to full of their ego to admit it. Let's start calling a spade by It's name only then will We have a fighting chance to grow this nation the way it ought to be, to become what he ought to be...the pride of the black race!

Nigerian Graduates Initiative against Unemployment

HMM,
SO MANY DIVERSE OPINIONS. WHEN PEOPLE LAUNCH OUT TO ATTACK SUCH A MOVE MAYBE THE BIGGER PICTURE SHOULD BE CONSIDERED:
MR PINEAPPLE FARMER, HOW MUCH OF YOUR PRODUCE GETS ROTTEN BEFORE IT GETS TO YOUR CONSUMERS?
OR EVEN THE IMPORTER THAT THING YOU IMPORT FROM CHINA HAS GIVEN JOBS TO AT LEAST FOUR PEOPLE OVER THERE, THE PRODUCER,THE ASSEMBLER, The ADVERTISERS and the SHIPPER...

THATS WHAT THIS GROUP OUGHT TO BE ABOUT, A FORA FOR THE YOUNG BRAINS IN THIS COUNTRY TO COME UP AND ACHIEVE FOR. THEMSELVES AND FUTURE GENERATIONS WHAT THEY OTHERWISE COULD NOT HAVE ACHIEVED INDIVIDUALLY.
IMAGINE WHAT WE WOULD ACHIEVE IF WE COULD PUT OUR BACKS TO GETTING SOME OF THESE THINGS LOCALLY. BY THE PEOPLE FOR OUR PEOPLE …

Please, look around you,
if you see a society to be happy about, then ignore and go back to your routine. But if you don't, then the 7th day of September is a good place to be.
discus with friends, stop to think.
there I this story I heard some time ago of a set of chickens that were bragging to their counterparts in the next coop that theirs was better, the poor guys never remembered that it was still a chicken coop no matter the "package". and ironically, the same bitter fate awaits all of them. welcome to reality check 101

please Mr stainless,
this your move although laudable has to be approved by the pioneers of this dream in the person of the Op and i am not aware he has said anything to this effect. the body meets in Lagos and that is all that has been passed across.
attention @Ehixking, please verify.

stainless655: Dat is gud but al d unemployment graduate 4rm south-south we shuld meet in delta state university convocation hall on 7th sept 2013 dat same day in delta state..pls cal 08068728977 for detail.

ehixking: channels TV just informed the they would be around on saturday the 7th to grace the occassion..
May God bless you guys

That's Great Mr Ehis.

for those on this thread and the former thread who cannot step out of their selfish cocoons and look at the Nigerian picture holistically and say enough is enough, i can only feel pity.
People are converging from all over the country and some Thomases think it is out of joblessness. can jobless, brainless people think with such oneness of purpose? when the American pioneers gathered themselves together and did THE SAME THING, i'm sure their likes were there to call them jobless.
beware of those who will begin to sing a different song after this movement gathers steam.
The Movement of Graduates to Upturn Economic Imbalance is begun!

To achieve greatness is a function of conscious collective input.
No nation in the world have ever grown to super-power status except by collective state resolution for principled and progressive growth.

When we hear of figures and figures used up for bogus schemes and abandoned projects plus pointless state functions in the name of state banquets and a plethora of other Ceremonies, let us always remind ourselves the obvious implications of that. that for every million Naira Spent on wasted projects, ten Graduates have lost a hope for an average income. For Every Billion looted. 1000 Graduates would never see a meager income, lets not talk about the likely dependents and aged parents of such a graduate else the figure would triple. What of our children, borne and yet unborn? A question for those "lucky" to get "comfortable" jobs; What about the future of YOUR CHILDREN? i have asked of those around me and these are the answers i get on the average:
1. God Will do it again, He"ll show them favor as he showed their parents.
or
2. I will send them abroad to settle for a better life.

what does that imply? This situation will only get worse, everybody knows it.
there is a saying that if all were kings who would serve?
if we continue on this path, eventually we'll all be doing menial "entrepreneurial" tasks; making clothes and shoes from fabrics imported from china, repairing phones imported from china, fixing hair imported from Brazil, working as labourers in construction sites manned and run by foreigners, when we can make those fabrics, shoes, bags phones and equipment here.

on a side not,please can any Engineer in the house tell me if it really does beat the competency of a Nigerian Graduate to design an overhanging bridge, a road, a tunnel a simple locomotive train that justifies the importation of technicians even down to raw materials and equipment thereby taking what we ought to benefit and giving it to outsiders? it beats my imaginations to high heavens.
Where did all those bright kids go? who appeared on NTA jets-club in those days with designs upon designs of equipment prototypes? don't tell me, They are all begging-to-apply in banks and oyel companies cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

How will it get better? How did India do it? How did Singapore do it? how did China do it? can we even summon the chutzpah to attempt the Gandhi-kind of resolve to always wear Calico until India of then could make better fabrics? i wonder!