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Eto is miles away from both people he's been compared to.. How on earth do you even call diouf with this lot? I have seen attackers but I have seen few on the level of eto....

The problem is not even the amount she's calling o..my issue is the person who looks this typa way saying such...with the value of her face, she'll be lucky to see 50 naira weekly...� �

Texman21:
If this makes fp i will cut my dick and post it

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Bro!!! Redeem your promise o

I feel sad for you and wish you had a mind of your own..most times we don't know what we have until we lose It..our worst enemies are those around us..aside relationship, Learn to keep your things private and guard them jealously...wishing you the best as you forge ahead...

clevvermind:
It was really fun those days. I don't enjoy nairaland as before. Just strolling in and strolling out.

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Bro we can get that interesting and captivating forum back if we improve on the materials been dropped here regularly...this was a very interactive forum but now you see and read insults, name calling and all manner of discouraging stuff on here...we will surely get back our nairaland

clevvermind:
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I'm here bro....thanks for the mention...what's good everyone?

LesbianBoy:
Make una sofree dey lie o. Even private jet doesn't cost that much

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Bro!!!!���.... Even the largest cargo ship that was built by samsung in 2015 as stated on google which I just checked before commenting is about 609mill dollars for everything...haba that bros shouting 3.3bill dollars for just a ship? Bros we don't work in your company o but that 3.3bill dolls na lie abeg

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Sadly that's the truth

clevvermind:
The Nigerian army is a real virus worst than coronavirus.

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My brother it is so painful that such things will go unpunished but they have just cost a family a life and grief..it is so sad really sad...for just a lockdown more people have lost their lives due to carelessness from the security operatives than the virus itself..

BamBella:
Bro!

Can you please just stop replying already? . Because it seems the more you do, the dumber you sound.

Build peace by offering an apology for doing the right thing? Mehnn, it appears to me that you're a bonehead.

If this is how you manage your home, then I'm sorry to say you must be a dingbat.

Stop justifying the trash you wrote up there already.

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I hear you sir...please advice the OP and ignore me..is that too difficult for y'all to do and must you insult and call names? Y'all grow up please and I respect you enough to respond nicely because insulting you won't change the fact I said what I said and don't Care what you or anyone who has no idea who I am says..cheers...

Mystery9:
You mean he should apologize for doing the right thing . Are you kidding me!

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No sir..what I meant to say that no one seems to understand is that as long as he didn't go beyond his budget, that's perfect...now all he has to do is first of build peace by offering an apology that will calm her down then when she's calm you can correct the attitude she exhibited and tell her you don't appreciate it but if he avoids her or ignores her, his house won't be conducive for him...some women understand the subtle methods...not everything needs to be handled with aggression bro..hope you understand me sir...its just how I would have handled the situation if it were me in his shoes...works with my wife always...when I'm aggressive towards her, matters become worse so I use the subtle means before passing my message

lanreHeda:
.....LOL, you people should chill for inferno001 na.....I'm sure he was just giving his opinion though I think its very wrong and not feasible in the long run

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Bro help me tell them o..it was my opinion and I didn't force it on anyone o..thanks for being matured enough to know everyone has an opinion

luluosas:
You are mad too including the show off woman

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OK sir...

ocelot2006:
Apologize for what? Is this some sort of joke. The brother has not TWO MONTHS. His action equally saved his family money. His wife ought to thank him, not chastise him. If she's not satisfied, then let her use her own money. Families are trying hard to survive, yet you want him to apologize. What a joke.

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You're the first person responding without insults...thank you...all I wrote was my opinion sir and everyone is entitled to theirs

LadySarah:
Get out!

I recently dedicated my baby without spending on entertainment. Useless showoff even when the man's pocket is crying.

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You can make your point without insults you know..try and advice the OP correctly since I'm wrong...why are y'all wasting your time responding to my own advice?

Youngzedd:
Keep SIMPING

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Ok sir

Captainrambo2:
sharap bitchh ass nigğer

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OK sir..

sandra50:
Apologize for what peace...Oga you are really a weak man as people are calling you..instead of you to tell him to ignore or tell her to behave you are saying he should apologize and make the way age wants it next time,with who's money?

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All of you insulting me don't have an idea...I advised OP based on what I would have done..did I force it on anyone? Did I say he must implement it? Its my handle and I am allowed to contribute same way y'all are...so why not transfer the energy and advice him better since mine doesn't make sense to y'all? Do y'all know how I handle my home? I'm not saying what she did was right all I'm saying is most people especially women attach importance to every first in their lives and it's understandable to want more for her kid but asking him to shout or beat or ignore her won't bring peace to his home..he can make her comfortable with the apology then caution her about the attitude exhibited... So that makes him a weak man? Na wa o

Tribalism123:
U are not only weak
U are possessed.

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OK sir

Businessman1986:
Sorry to say, you are stubbornly UNWISE, and WEAK. And it's not all about you. A father, husband has to be the backbone of his domain. The example starts from the head. A ROTTEN and WEAK head should be cut off.

Grow some man balls . . .

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OK sir

Wickedtruths:
You are not intelligent and this your post is a confirmation. You lack intellectual and emotional intelligence. You can't control your self and you lack commonsense. The other day, you opened a thread to cry and lament about women. Today, you are suggesting he begs a woman with unreasonable expectations.

Being a man is not only by having male organs, it is by being able to lead and make decisions that save the home. You are an effeminate lily-livered man and I suggest you start attending women meeting.

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You're right.. Area commander!!! Strong man!! I agree with all you have called me...its a faceless forum anyways so enjoy...next time look in the mirror and tell yourself I'm not the reason for your anger so please advice the OP based on your masculinity and wisdom and leave a lily-livered man alone...cheers

Wickedtruths:
You are a very weak man and people must be ringing roughshod on you. Not everyone is destined to suffer that. He has absolutely nothing to apologise for. Is it wrong not to waste money? Let her do her worst. Apologise for not wasting money on mere celebration? Your advice is a foolish one.

No wonder you were complaining about men being an endangered specie. You are very weak with poor judgment.

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What rubbish is this one saying? I made a comment and you're not the OP...not everyone is destined to be aggressive with their approach...you're a strong man and I'm weak? OK you win..my thread on men being endangered has nothing to do with this in anyway but your Brain didn't tell you this...I am enjoying my marriage because I know when to be aggressive and when to be subtle...probably if you had sense you'll see where I said I'm happy he didn't exceed his budget..the advice was for him to make peace but yet again your aggressive strong man brain didn't see that part...won't respond to you again...

topstone4:
Apologizing will only make her take him for granted again and again. A man should know when to put his foot on the ground

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Bro there are subtle ways to achieve same result you just said...i run a home and I know how tasking it is for we men but not everything needs to be done with anger..him not exceeding his budget already implied putting his foot down..all I'm saying is con her into understanding and making peace bro...wisdom is profitable to direct...cheers

Shormiey:
Apologize for what now?

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Bro I'm not saying he did wrong by spending within his budget... See ehn this Is a win win for him because party is over and he didn't exceed his budget now the second win will be to make her feel she's right and pet her into understanding your situation...him also getting angry won't make the home peaceful o...sometimes we need to stoop to conquer and making her feel she's right, he wins both ways

mmsen:
You shouldn't capitulate to unreasonable demands.

This man did the right thing. He looked at his budget and spent that which he could afford.

Had he spent all of his money on this one ceremony and couldn't pay the other bills when they come up this woman would screaming up and down about how 'useless' he is.

OP, don't mind her, just ensure that the things that are genuinely important are taken care of. Some people will complain about the sun coming up.

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You're right about him not accepting her excesses and I think my first line suggested that...what I was trying to say up there is him finding peace after the naming and not slating him for following his budget...now the naming is done, she's upset and the reasonable thing to do is find peace...don't advice a man to ignore his wife when you don't stay in his house or know how they live....

TheAfricaQueen:
I agree with you, one doesn't need an oath, convent or even marriage to remain faithful and loyal to your partner.

Adultery is rife globally and these couples took vows before the priests and their family vowing to be faithful, for better and for worse, till death do them part. However in the first sign of trouble, both parties cheat or want to end the marriage because they do no longer have things in common. Even marriage is now meaningless, unfortunately.

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Unfortunately so true...no one wants to make marriage work anymore..little challenges and then the drum of divorce starts beating and they abandon ship at the slightest...wish we have the sincerity our parents had...

TheAfricaQueen:
It is meaningless, the euphoria after copulation drives these great declarations of infatuation and or lust. A year or two later these two people who did this act would probably be in the next relationships.

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I think for every wise and sensible person, this should be a no go area...most people don't understand that the same thing they'll do with the oath or covenant is what they can do without It..same determination and zeal to stay with their partner because of the oath can Also be achieved without It..it only takes self control and discipline..

My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

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For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!!

TheAfricaQueen:
1 of 3 of the independence leaders who sought for independence from the British for selfish reasons, to get his snout in the trough. Till this day, his progeny will never know poverty because he looted for his generations yet unborn.

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We've been cursed with bad leaders from time immemorial and he's not an exception.. Reasons why Dubai is a haven for most of them even when we could have been better than they're with the same oil and landmass.. they have deserts everywhere but we have agriculture and other things but see what just oil did for them ..they made the right decisions for their citizens but ours are just a curse...so sad!!!

TheAfricaQueen:
That's the best thing ever, marrying your best friend, when the lust and attraction fades you can fall back on your friendship. I thought I was going to marry my "bestfriend", but he broke my heart. So I am thinking of getting a pet because honestly I am tired of the whole lies with dating and courtship nowadays.

....that's crazy for real...so sorry about that..don't worry, there's a blessing in every disappointment. What belongs to you will always be yours so whatever doesn't end up in your grasps wasn't meant for you In the first place...I wish you all the best but a pet won't replace a man o!!! ��

TheAfricaQueen:
Hahaha now you are flattering me we should all pray that God sends a partner that is the best person for us in everyway.

...fortunately I'm married to my bestie and she's gold...I pray you find yours if you haven't already...cheers