₦airaland Forum

ebuka10box:
Been trying to make ends meet in Nigeria but the country hasn't been hustle friendly, suffering today and smiling tomorrow. I tried running the 2years visa last year but it was futile, I decided to give in to the 3 months visit visa.

Please can I get a job under 3 months? even if it's a menial job, I'm a graduate though but keep that one aside for now. I don't wanna come back to Nigeria now.

What do I need to come along with while coming to Dubai?

Can I save up and move to Canada or Europe at the end of 2years?

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From experience, dubai is not an easy place to just jump in and get a job..I met a lot of guys who had accommodation issues and slept on stairways or parks because they had stories that weren't true...just make sure you have enough money to pay for your accommodation and utilities for the 3months pending when you get a job!! No one will assist you for free in that country and please don't overstay beyond your due date or else you will regret it terribly...

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate liars like adeboye. He will end up in hell for misleading so many people with false teachings. People like him make Islam seem better than Christianity. Nonsense

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If you're a "born again" christian, your last statement will never have been written..stop lying about being a christian because I doubt you are...so your Bible didn't tell you false teachers and teachings will happen? Now you want to say because of few people whom you term fake, you will consider Islam better than Christianity? Laughable

LegendHero:
They have succeeded because Azikwe the useful slave willingly gave them power right from the genesis and that boldened them all though these years.

They succeeded because the useful idiot Ekwueme played second fiddle for Shagari in both 1979 and 1983 when his people could have supported a more intelligent Awolowo for the position of presidency on both occasions.

They succeeded because the useful idiot called Ojukwu campaigned openly for Sheu Shagari to the run up of the 1983 election even after the Fulanis dealt a heavy blow on his people not too long ago then.

The Fulanis succeeded because the useful nobody called Sylvester Ugoh slaved for Bashir Tofa while his people voted against a better Abiola who won majority of the other southern votes (SS + SW).

You ibos think you are wise, Nigeria did not start in 2015 so stop all this rubbish of dragging Tinubu name everytime to buttress your half truth.

Since 1999 to present, two southern presidents used almost 14 years out of the 21 years and yet we southerners still complain of Fulani dominance everywhere like babies throwing tantrums.

If the two southern president could be foolish enough not to make things right for southerners, how is that the Fulani man’s fault? I hate it when people that always proclaim intelligence are crying and feeling inferior to the fulanis everytime.

2023 again you guys will vote a weak southerners that will still please the North at the expense of the South and the cycle continues in 2031 where our children will start screaming Fulani dominance again.

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Bro I wish I could see you!!! Don't mind all these people shouting tinubu like nigeria started 2015...we have always had weak southern leaders but its only tinubu that they keep calling..buhari is only doing what jonathan and obasanjo couldn't do for their people. The typical fulani man knows the strength in numbers and unity in common goal that is why they always have a step ahead...

Well written piece..the thing is, people at the top don't know how to run a government. Most tussle for electoral positions is just a means to loot money and have protection whilst doing it..have you seen the viral video of the supposed SWAT training Very laughable but sincerely saddening to see...we don't want them to be taught to fight but to be technically, mentally and emotional equipped for an all round service!!! How do you fight who you can't catch or apprehend?? I still saw individuals with protruding bellies in a "SWAT" training...for heaven sake, we won't get it right until we make electoral positions less attractive financially..when those in authority only have servitude in mind, we will pull this nation out of mediocrity and doom..

ILoveDemMANNA:
Oh yes. It is very important.
While also not forgetting Justice for Anambra 40


While we are investigating the Lekki incident,
ICC please kindly help us Anambra youths to quicken investigation into this heinous crime of over 40 bodies of able bodied men killed, burnt and fed to the fishes!!
It has been swept under the carpet for some years now.

Every life matters.

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It still shocks me people are quiet about this particular crime against humanity...akwuzu sars should be investigated from 2013 till 2020...past and present governors who turned blind eyes to this wickedness and all those involved should also be investigated...

Let me by zayn malik

Jkyoung:
I type this with tears in my eyes. I decided to share say this here because if I need somebody to hear my voice, as I approach my end.
If I write this on Facebook, family and friends will see it and panic will set in, I don't want that. Devoid of our differences, Nairaland is also family to me.
The choices I made in life are mine, but the forces at work are overwhelming. I was weak to their manipulations.
All I ever wanted was to be an Engineer, to make mama proud and take care of my siblings.
Believe me I have Love in my heart. I wanted to just be a better version of myself but nothing seems to work.
When it seems like I am making a little progress, my desires are there to remind me that I am only but a prisoner.
It appears to me that I was created a failure. I failed my family once again, myself, Society and God almighty.
Now I am not afraid of death, I am only sad as I picture the face of Mama, Papa, Brothers and sisters crying while I lay motionless oblivious of everything( I know I will surely hear their wailing from the other side)
I don't want to be judged, but that isn't really my choice to make.
The next 3 weeks will be very crucial to my existence, if I survive it, then I will know that I will grow old and reach 95( I have always told anyone that cares to listen that I will live to 95).
I know they are not reading this now, and nobody that knows me personally is; I just want to tell mom that I love her. To dad; All I wanted was to make him proud. To my brothers and lovely sisters: I love you guys, take care of mom and dad and succeed where I have failed.
To my Nairaland family, God bless you all. I will miss the Afonja's, Ipobs, Nyamiris, Brown roofs, red mud, Arewa's(do they even have any special insulting name like the rest of us?)Lala and his snakes, the feminists( feminists are wonderful people, thank God they don't breed well). Lol

I sincerely pray I survive this. Precious Blood of Jesus Christ, Save Us and the whole world.

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If you need help, please genuinely ask for it...the pain you will cause your loved ones and friends will not be worth it...you don't know the love they have for you..nobody has an expiry date to be successful so please don't give up..I wish you could speak up on why you think you're a failure so we can help you out the best way we can either by offering encouragements or solutions...don't give up!!!!!! The world has something you need...don't throw it to the dust

I'm enjoying this already...I done buy land here o...don't keep us waiting bro...good story.. Please mention me when you update bro...I wan read am as e dey hot...

Anuoluwa1234:
Not eba, I guess it is gusgus.. I don't know if I get the spellings though

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No its waakye...gusgus is plantain I think diced into bits..

This brings back memories...GH was a beautiful experience for me..this is waakye and its very delicious.. Fufu and light soup, kenke dorkunu with tilapia and pepper, banku and okro soup...4 years was bliss..having plans on going back for a visit August... Thanks for this

aristocrazzy:
She's has lost her mind again. Edo people are crazy....!!!

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Please try and have common sense next time and not generalize an insult to a particular tribe...use your head...if cynthia acts crazy, feel free to call her out and don't insult everyone because of one person...is it right to call all igbos ritualists or all hausas ignorant? Is it right to insult all yorubas just because of one person? Don't be stupid!!!!

Oluromantic:
Wetin small pikin know than to chop indomie and bobo drink. Real men eat eba and step it down with Gulder.

Not the shapeless fatties though but I like thick, chubby and shapy girls like ronke odusanya. Thats what fit men like us endowed downstairs. The kind of girls that when you pound them through any position, you'll hear KPA KPA KPA KPA! That sound is motivating, tantalizing and makes you enjoy what you do and not want to stop.

The sight of their bulgy pusssy, the puffy V-grave with the pusssyline buried within their locked up thighs for you to explore out by yourself...chai. So sweet let alone their boobs and ass. Unlike those ur skinny bone that on standing alone, the space between their thin thighs can contain another leg with their flabby pusssy whose pusssyline is almost reaching their abdomen and flat yansh. You no Sabi better thing. Maybe you're short sha and endowment pass endowment too

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If you were in the same town with me, I would have given you catfish pepper soup with your favourite brand of liqour...you be man abeg....you just said all I would have said

If I write what I have in my head , you will surely regret posting this disgraceful thing here...are you mad? Did he marry you to take care of your family or is he your family's meal ticket? Your foolish father has the audacity to mandate him to even pay an amount and your black brain allowed you to call a man who takes care of you irresponsible? You're lucky you're not back to your poverty stricken home because that man is actually a good man..if It where me, you'd have been long gone typing this In your dad's house!!! Now I see reasons why rich families won't let their sons marry from poor homes..y'all are too entitled abeg...so he should die because he married you?!!! Tueh!!!!!!!!!

Juliusmalema:
Xenophobic but here there is terrorism, fulani Herdsmen, tribalism.


SA is far ahead of Nigeria in all ramifications. South Africa remains the anchor of Africa.
There is no indices for nigeria to beat that...

SA remains the pride of Africa.

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OK...now talk about what the thread is about or shut your mouth...

These people never learn..you have no significant thing you can point as a means you make the kinda money that supports your too lavish lifestyle yet you wanna always show off..please being rich is not by always showing off on social media..we have silent billionaires too who made their money from fraudulent means but don't shout...you might get away with it for a while but not forever.. If you eventually get a hit from the streets, legalize your funds and stop letting greed rope you in for "one more pay day"...it is sad though..

Is this true? Did she actually do that? You mean she had the effrontery to give you just one meat when you don't even deserve food? No!!! she must leave that house today!!!! She gave you food na that's why you have strength to come embarrass yourself here...foolish talk.

fuwaski:
Heiyaaa... To express ursef don hard u? English ain't easy for u. Na to follow trend about bleeping of babes dey sweet u pass... Nothing wey dey come una community good... Tufiakwa... Azi gbakwaa.
Ur mata don tire me to settle abeg

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Guy you can have a personal insulting battle with the lady you have been exchanging words with from the first page but one thing you shouldn't keep doing is generalizing and insulting all Edo girls and calling them prostitutes or cheap... Use your head and keep the insult to the person who is insulting you only...please be guided

Girlfriend you say? No can do sir!!! It's not only absurd but totally degrading. If you had asked wife, I'll consider it If she is ill or can't move or just gave birth..aside these things, I won't try that nonsense..and please don't tag this disgrace as a show of love...the money, time, attention, affection, sex and kindness is enough show of love...washing pant isn't !!!

Ilamina:
Because you have a jaguda stomach

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Which one is jaguda stomach again biko?

This is so wrong to say.. I schooled in Ghana and had most meals and there was no time I fell Ill because of food..was there for 4yrs and enjoyed most of their food...maybe it just didn't go well with your stomach....

pyyxxaro:
Whenever your sac is scratching you , use Sandpaper

Sandpaper very well , then use Izal to wash it immediately




Anybody that mentions me , Olumo rock wud fall on his Big intestine

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Bros you just made me laugh out in public���.. You no try o!! ���

Is it that these footballers don't think? What's this pattern with Instagram models? Neymar was saved by a camera footage and Ronaldo went through hell for this....gold diggers won't rest till you're ruined...I pray he has proof to clear himself if he truly is innocent....if he's guilty, let him face it head on..

Wisdom is profitable to direct...obey your leaders was also stated in the bible and the govt has specified on social distancing so I think he's doing the right thing since the people won't stay home...since they need his prayers and still want "holy water"...

cococandy:
Please don’t let him stay in your house.
You have forgiven him but be wise.

He’s clearly jealous. He’s coming to your house to see things for himself. You can’t predict what he will do after that.

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Op if you're smart o, just jejely take this advice..would he have called you to apologize if you didn't make good of your life? One thing for sure is this..don't eat with the devil at all because even with a long spoon, he can still break it and harm you...wisdom is profitable to direct!!! Use your head...

The people bashing the OP simply because he posted something y'all don't agree with doesn't make sense...most stories posted here are either fictions or creative ideas of the writer..most are not real...even if it where real, na your story? Why so hurt? Those also bashing him because he asked for assistance here once or so don't know anything about life...so he shouldn't post because you feel or know he's broke? How many of you bashing him and calling him broke are wealthy? If you haven't fed him before, SHUT YOUR DAMN MOUTHS... Cheers

Reference:
CCTV without either impregnable defences or active deterrents is like NCDC and Covid 19. Observe, record, announce.... but no solution.... practically useless. Those miscreants will still rob, perhaps rape, maim and kill.

With over 60 years of burglary, robbery, assault, kidnapping experience, no Nigerian entrepreneur has thought it worthy to research and deveop devices ir home prote tion systemssto deter, capture, maim or kill intruders. This I have thought about for ages and will be doing something about that in the not too distant future.

If you can build and equip a house for tens of millions, what will it cost to protect it actively.

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I like what you just said...will be interested in talking to you privately...

icenti:
;DYou highlighted the keynotes out. I worried how it will make her feel even though I know it's the best thing for her

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Bro in the journey of life, always put yourself and your aspirations first...love yourself 10 times before you love someone else once...consider yourself 10 times before you consider someone else first...if that same girl had been in your position to make this decision, what makes you think she might have considered your feelings? Its a 50-50 thing that she might or might not...so now sit down and put your plans on a piece of paper and if she doesn't fit in bro, let her go...life is too short to string anyone along or play by the rules of others...her taste in guys might change immediately she gets to school bro so just focus on your life and forge ahead...cheers

With all you have said and responded to the contributions of people, its obvious you know what you want period!!!
1. She "looks" slutty to you
2. She drinks gin
3. She is an illiterate
4. She can't have kids now because of her educational pursuit that will last 4yrs or more
5. You said all these yourself!!!!

So now with all these you've said about her, what more do you want people to advice you on? You already have your answer...cheers

For me, I think its important to take the name of the husband when married..changing a marital status and moving in with a man means you have decided to be one with the man and since men are heads of a home as it is generally agreed world over, its only natural to take the name... although it's not a must, but most people won't know who is married to who when documents are submitted If both parties bear different names..I guess at the end it becomes a thing of choice for the couple to make..cheers