₦airaland Forum

TheAfricaQueen:
Your post is the most sensible post from a Male, I wish there were more like you. There are many men who will expect a girl they took to Mega Chicken two times to get on her knees and blow him out but will not return the favour. Do people know the STDs one gets from oral activities? Yes you were a condom for penetrative sex but you just openly give and receive oral with no protection.

That is why God created marriage, you can be p.o.r..n starsbwithin the confines of a marriage with no worries of catching an incurable STD.

...oh my!!! See ehn, I'll pray for your husband to be the best version for you...don't ever give any man aside your husband MouthAction...wish I know you personally but I'm going to follow you on this forum...you have blown my mind with your reasoning...kudos!!!

TheAfricaQueen:
Many men will say oh no I cannot do it, because of the smell or that it is degrading.

Men also smell down there, it smells like musty, sweaty, stale urine, from what I have heard. It is also degrading for women to offer services to a man that doesn't even value her enough to wife her up.

The best solution is to decide to become exclusive, wife her up and then when you want to start the 69-action, you both take a long luxurious shower with scented soap and clean yourselves up and enjoy yourselves within the confines and protection of a marriage.

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This is one of the most sensible thing i have read here on nairaland from a lady...God bless you wherever you are..please if you want the full exclusive service, just wife her and have whatever style or whatnot in the confines of matrimony..you won't give a prostitute head jobs so how do you expect a regular girl to blow you when she has no idea how many dicks she has to blow before marriage?? If you want complete service go and marry o!!!

laydoh:
How do you know she's innocent. Because she doesn't lock her phone? Don't be delusional.
Some people are just too smart. She knows if the bf finds out she locks her phone, he's gonna think she's definitely cheating.
But she didn't do that, trying to play smart, trying to tell the bf she's not hiding anything.
You wanna tell me why you would delete your bf's chats?
99.9% people lock their phones. Why didn't she do the same? She's definitely trying to proof a point or trying to shift goal post.

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Sir, I understand what you're saying perfectly and I agree some people can be deceitful but here is the thing, she doesn't put a code and like op said, she doesn't keep messages even his but she is with him at the moment..I'm not making excuses for her since I have no idea what the actual truth is anyways but the assumption that she's cheating simply because she is deleting messages is the bone of contention here..if she's with him and deletes his own messages, who is she then hiding from since she is with him?

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purples25:
Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

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This is so true..she doesn't lock her phone, she let's you use it at will and you still wanna dig up what you haven't seen..op just wants to be the angel and see her as the bad person...I clear my chats and messages on a daily basis because I fear getting hacked so does that mean I'm cheating on my wife?? Op grow up and leave that innocent woman alone...if you're tired of the relationship, break up and stop trying to pin a target on her back

Great to hear.. In these trying times, no matter your religion, ethnicity, background and color, we need to pray for everyone even our perceived enemies.. One soul lost to this virus will surely affect a family and the more people get infected and die, the more it draws close to us...stop wishing this virus on anyone even the illiterates and adamant ones..let's pray for our country and everyone in it to be safe and please adhere to the rules of safety...may God see us through these trying times..Amen

yuswrld20:
and it is paining me as u dont reason well
wether u av chop frm david giveaway tat y u are saying nonsense.piss off

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Sorry if what I said upset you...now you know how it feels like to be criticized by someone who doesn't know you...and as for giveaway, if only you know how comfortable I am, you'll not mention it again...Shalom..

You did wrong by agreeing to go buy bread that late in the first place...

yuswrld20:
see this man sha,wetin im dae talk sef

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Let me explain it very well so you understand... You can call Nicki minaj retired today because you knew her when she was the most sort after female rapper on the planet..you can say mean things about davido because he's successful in his chosen field and he's known world wide...now, if you're not popular and doing well in your own business or career as much as these guys, your opinion doesn't matter

yuswrld20:
afta nicki minaj don retire,he con dae collabo.were he dae when she dae top billboard.
instead of make he go collabo with ariana grande,halsey,lizzo or riri.

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when you show your achievements in your chosen field, then your opinion will matter..

How on earth do you give rules to fanatics and expect them to follow it? We're our own problems in this country and we deserve the leaders we have...Lagos Ogun and abuja was shut down and no one had a say on reducing it because we knew it was gonna help curb the virus but these same people who are worst hit are relaxing Lock down just because they think they're above everyone else and the president agreed to this?? I know most blames will go to buhari but let's be factual, who are those advising the president? Who tells these much lies to make him agree to somethings he ordinarily shouldn't?? Illiteracy is a big disease and disadvantage...

haiti007:
Okay
We both assumed, because we're ignorant of what transpire between them.

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Its not proper to make assumptions just like that especially when it has to do with sensitive issues like this...how hurt do you think her people would be if they were on nairaland seeing your first comment...i apologize if I came out harsh on you but its just not nice to assume...she can't defend herself now because she's dead so it hurts the more..

haiti007:
Something must have lead her into their bait. Most likely covetousness

....oga shut your mouth abeg!! Stupid talk!! I have a sis who attended my wedding and was on her way home and entered one chance car. They stabbed and beat her up after calling and taking money from us...when she was dropped off and was on the floor begging for help in the pool of her blood, so many people passed and called her names like ashawo and some said maybe yahoo boys used her not even caring to find out or help first...2 Muslim women helped her to the hospital and called her family who finally located her...so when next you don't know a thing, shut up!!!!! I'm 100% sure you're the type to judge first before getting the full story...what if she was deceived into selling her wares to them? What if it was at gun point? Just what if??!!! Do you ever think that not all Nigerian girls depend on men for money?? I'm so upset at what you just typed because you might just be wrong...

Humanoid01:
You need heavy slap for the back of your head.

If na wetin you want be that, then why your nor just waka go okpo house? You think dating is an avenue for calming your sexual hormones?

... You can easily answer what he said or not without resorting to insults!!! Can you yes or no??!!!! Op, I personally can but a woman looking to go into a relationship should either be self sufficient if she doesn't want sex or be a virgin..you can't go sleep with other guys and then expect "boyfriend" to pay the bills yet you ain't giving him pleasure...if he goes out, you cry he's cheating but you still expect he pays your bills...if you don't want to be sexually active, stay away from relationships period

JasonJidenna:
When the better South speak, our South West neighbors joins our oppressors to call us "5%" because their brother is the second in command.

What would you want us to do?

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My brother, leave them to be looking for the south south to talk when all they have done is support the govt from day one because osinbajo was made an "audio" VP...this govt has a couple of years left and when another govt comes and they complain, we will call them 5% and support it...las las all of us go get sense for this country

Eulalia:
If you understand the true meaning of the word "Christian" you won't be saying all these. I can't blame you cos even some Christians don't even know the privilege they have and their kingdom right as Christians and are still living under the bondage (law). How much more you who doesn't understand that "CHRIST" is the only way.

Shalom.

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Ma, the word "christian" means Christlike or behaving like Christ..what I was trying to pass out there is that as humans, we don't even know what's beyond immediately we close our eyes to death...most religious books have their accounts of what is obtainable after the death of a man and my question is, how sure are we that ours is the right thing? I am a Christian and an ardent believer of the word and doctrines of Jesus Christ..certainly not arguing what is wrong or right but just asking a question of "what if"...

Eulalia:
Ok. He didn't die in Christ so what do you expect?

.....so you think it's only Christians who will make heaven? Let it not be a shocker to you that you'll meet many "Christians" in that same hell and then see a Muslim or pegan or ATW in heaven..no one knows the heart of God and the heart of man..we all have religious books for all the religions and they all have their accounts...

awhybliss:
If they open banks and office, dose it get across to administrative office, like schools, marketing, production companies and the likes?

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No bro..schools, churches, social gatherings, sports activities,recreational centers and businesses are still indefinitely shut down for now..only banks, food processing and manufacturing companies, markets and neighborhood markets, federal government offices with only a certain grade level allowed to function and construction companies...that is for the 3 states on lockdown...aside them, each state will deem what's good for them and then adhere to the general mandated regulations...

igbowoman:
They are still in the same region so no wahala
By the way how many people did ElRufai infect with covid?Has he told us?

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He said it in this write up that he infected 4 people...read it again but this time carefully...cheers

Lol!!! My experience was terrible...moved into a new area in my ss1 and was strolling one evening just to know my environment very well then I saw a girl at a shop and was blown away..walked to the mallam's shop to form trying to buy something when I discovered I had no money in my pocket...as she walked away, I told the mallam I was coming back so I ran to her and said hi and she gave me a condescending look and walked away..it was evening o but I started sweating madly...I then ran after her and told her I just wanted to tell her she was beautiful and I walked away..I almost fell because I could feel her stare at me..dated her months later after we met in an inter-school competition..

Prechgold1180:
Nothing wey Abba kyari Nur go see for hell fire

....this is senseless and sincerely disgusting..I also don't like his person but please don't joke with dead people wishing them hell

My brother, we can't be sure what to call it but I for one thinks she's enjoying the wrong attention...she must not cheat before you confront her...sit her down in a relaxed environment and tell her you discovered she changed the name of the Same man you once complained about and she also deletes his chat which makes you suspicious...insist you don't want her contacting such a person because it makes you uncomfortable..make it clear you won't repeat this meeting about him again or else she will see a change in the marriage that won't favor her..whatever she does after that will determine where her loyalty and heart lies

Great news op..y'all shouting and calling him names for sharing his good news here are all hypocrites...this is a faceless forum and no one will go spoil his employment!! Una too do abeg..he has seen a good woman who loves him with 30k and willing to stay with him and you call him a simp because he made "his decision" that has nothing to do with you o!!!! Op congrats on your double blessings.. Cheers!!

leosahm:
ashawo like u

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Some guys are funny o!!! You don't even know this person yet you call her something like this? Do you have sisters or a mum? Op posted and she responded so why was she made the subject of discussion to warrant such name calling? You need to get your head and emotions in check or else you'll insult someone one day who will nail you and this time it won't be a faceless forum.. Grow up

Hey listen bro, life is hard yes we know and being a nigerian makes it harder to achieve your dreams especially when you have no helper in the right places..but I don't think leaving is the right thing to do...Most of us don't believe in taking risks...I won't advice you go into dubious ways to make money but think outside the box...we have so many people who wake up daily without an idea of their next meal or next 5naira..we have to keep pushing...like I always advice, Its not greener on the other side o...if you have no one who will accommodate you in europe till you find your feet, please don't go o if not you'll regret it...I wish you all the best and really I'll put you in my prayers daily so God shines his light and countenance on you because I have met men who were to give up but got just a hit and they never looked back...

mastermaestro:
You are sound mentally I have to say. The nonentity said politicians with 'history' of spreading fake news. Many people have very poor education and they barely know the meaning of words they use.
So one false post qualifies someone to be named among serial peddlers of fake news? I think he just wanted to take a shot at her. Worst of all, he even placed her at the top of the list.
This post was primarily targeted at her.
Useless post!

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These people just think we all don't have brains like their zombies!!! How on earth do you add iweala to this list of fraudulent, perpetual liars and fake news peddlers?? The op knows what his aim was but only senseless people will buy into this post

So okonjo-iweala made one statement and you tag her amongst these lots? Where is femi adesina and Laureta onochie that lies on a daily basis? This list won't be complete without them o!!!

Perfectnumber6:
Just this and some of you will still be happy Na WA for Nigeria

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sisisioge:


So the lashes could only go one round! Hmmm...after the husband, not the interviewer? The girl and husband dey craze

� �....but it really happened..I have even heard of blue eye..my wife told me about it and why women buy these things from jaaruma and her likes...

drnoel:
Not all men but the good ones. Problems is the hood one die fast, the bad one outlive the good ones. This life is just shitty

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I agree with you sir..

nrexzy:
That's d problem they now crowd themselves in ministries praying, some go to all lengths....
They now forgetting it's the basic law of nature...
Do to others what you want others to do unto u....

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You couldn't have said it any better sir..

nrexzy:
Yes sir...
They hunter goes for bigger games.....

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Karma is real and these women doing these things have forgotten that they'll marry and want a happy home.. If you go after the single guys no one will fight you but its the big fish that another woman nurtured to that stage that is entering their evil eyes..