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duality: @ poster, go and read your books first. make good grades. be the best you can be. you already said you don't believe love exist. and that's fine for now. run away from those guys telling you they love you. they'll get you more confused about love. in fact tell them to go and tell your parents that they love you. (i mean discuss with them about it) then they've passed the first test. now ask yourself what you want from life. set your goals. find out if the person who claim he loves you fits into YOUR OWN future goals. find out if he can help you actualize them. in the course of these, you'll find true love and you'll know it. you may not need nairaland to know if its true love. lastly, activate your spiritual eyes because things are sometimes not what they seem to be.

The truth! all the truth!! nothing but the truth!!!
21 gun salute for you...!

swetypie10: Good day friends, there is something that is confusing me, every body that come around me keep saying he loves me, infact the way they act, is so real but i will be wondering if they are really telling the truth, i don't believe love really exist, because every body say they love me, can one love more than one guy, times a guy will always want to have sex with u, he will say is Cos he really love you, is that really true, i in person i don't really believe love exist, i will like to know how to identify a guy that truly and really in love with a lady, what are the signs the lady will see or notice? because i don't want to fall a victim in the hand of the wrong guy.

the truth is that it will be difficult for you to know the good one if you don't get close to him. but you have to be very careful and guarded. some may appear good but are nothing but wolves in sheep clothing. this will be of help... http://realdeeplove.com/2012/12/signs-he-really-loves-you/

sexkillz: 1. A guy that loves you will NEVA ask For Sex Instanta!(That's if he ever Does)
2. He doesn't Promise You unrealistic Gifts
3. He Corrects you when you go wrong
4. A guy that loves you will neva make jest of you in front of Others
5. Is always after your well being Generally
6. Would really Sacrifice a lot for you
7. Should i really Continue?

you are right, but in number one a guy that loves you may not ask for sex instanta, but he will ask latter or it may happen unconsciously

donroxy: Ahahaha

dem don scatter people marriage ooo !!!

you follow scatter the marriage now!

naijalatest: this can make you go crazy if not properly handled. however if you still love your partner and want to keep your relationship, you have to trade with caution. cheating may look like a sweat game, but when caught, it is always devastating both for the cheat and the cheated.

true talk.i wonder if cheating will ever be accepted

Bootylicious: I am a yoruba girl and the most common love/pet names i hear are Ifemi ,Ayomi and Idunumi .Almost every yoruba girl calls dre beau this way. I am wondering if there are any other pet names in yoruba language and would love to learn what other tribes call their beau..

your love for your man determines what pet name you give to him

Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

you forgot marrying cause we have the same birthday date

Roses4u: I really need some advice. There is guy in my office who has been hitting on me for close to a year now. I always refuse his advances for a relationship cos I feel he is a player.

I have caught him on several occassions, staring at the legs and butt of other female colleagues. Although I do like him but I feel he is just lusting after me. Should I give him a chance or what do think? Please advise

shine your eye o! this may be of help... http://realdeeplove.com/2012/12/signs-he-really-loves-you/#.Ub8621E3irw

CFCfan: The Brave Warriors of Namibia will host the Super eagles of Nigeria in a 2014 FIFA world cup qualifier in Windhoek, Namibia. It will be recalled that the eagles defeated the Namibians 1-0 in the first leg in Calabar in June 2012. Ike Uche scored the only goal of the game.

The Super eagles can advance to the playoff round of the African qualifying zone, if they beat Namibia, and Malawi fail to beat Kenya. The reigning African champions can also extend their unbeaten run in FIFA World cup qualifiers to an astonishing 23 consecutive matches.
Venue: Sam Nujoma independence stadium

goodluck super eagles

humnsikan: A lot of people are at lost when it comes differentiating between dating and courtship. Now here's the difference: Dating may not necessarily lead to marriage, while courtship begins after a proposal has been made. Only courting partners are to refer to each other as fiancee.

*FACT*

sweetcheecks: Excuses are made to do abortion and most of the time they are valid reasons to do so but they are never right. A foetus at medically allowed stages to abort is already a human being. Just a picture to remind us of the action.

HELP STOP ABORTION, IT IS MURDER!

true talk

makelove2m: Sex help to strengthen the so called love and or relantionship, in real sense both goes together depending on what one wanted to acheive first, for me, no sex - no love

i agree with you that sex helps strengthen love and trelationship but disagree on no sex no love.

ogb5: any help with the cuddle or the shopping mall or both?

i'm available for the cuddling

haitto99: u use dat cheating take f**k up

no be lie

[quote author=Wiz-Prince]In 1985 when IBB was the President of Nigeria and our teachers told us that Buhari was the former president... Our teacher also called us leaders of tomorrow.
27 years on, IBB and Buhari are still contesting for President! It's either our teacher lied to us about being the leaders of tomorrow or maybe tomorrow hasn't come! Happy Democracy Day [/quote]wondering what they are still looking for

today May 29,2013 makes it the 14th year of the return to civil rule in Nigeria after so many years of military Governance in country. You will agree with me that during the era of military rule, there were no such thing like militancy and insurgents in the country. however, back then there was no press freedom and the rights of the citizens are not protected.

14 years after the return of civil rule in the country, can you say you are satisfied with the dividends of democracy so far?

Let's hear you views and opinions

http://naijalatest..com/2013/05/democracy-day-in-nigeria-2013-14-years.html

Adufaye: after u

kai!

Adufaye: Am beautiful
Am in school
Am seein ma period
Dad didn't lemme out
Send me airtym I wanna call ma frnd(her bf)
Am not beggin u
U don't hv t.fare can't cum......
He is a frnd(sexmate)

lol!... more

badoist: Nollywood Actress, Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha Loses Mum

Nollywood actress and producer, Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha is currently in a state of grief over the loss of her mother, Mrs. Grace Egoyibo Chukwuka. She lost her mother on the 22nd of May, 2013.

The death of the "On Bended Knees" producer's mum is coming few weeks after actor and colleague, Chinedu Ikedieze, lost his father. It should be noted that another actress, Moyo Lawal lost her mum to the cold pangs of death two weeks ago.

Confirming the news early this morning via her official twitter handle, Chioma said;



May her soul rest in peace.

RIP

[quote author=32-D]where can i stream live on the internet[/quote]i will look for it online and get back in touch with you here

BB12: What a ridiculous question
If the husband is weak, she should seek help and make him stronger. Marriage is not a union you come and go as you please

No more... No less...

lynpetra: Distance can NEVER stop me from loving a man that am in love with even if am cheating.Every single thought of him is wat keeps me going.

i would have called that real love...but... the cheating...

1. I have a boyfriend but he is not in the country.

2. The lecturer called me but i didn't answer

3. Am not bleaching my skin, my natural color is just coming out.

4. Am on my periods.

5. I went to visit a guy in Port Harcourt, he gave me N50,000 and he did not even touch me

6. I don't love you because of your money.

7. He is just a friend.

8. I love u too!,

True of False?

Add yours......

bigfat08: [size=15pt]a very cruel way to communication in a relationship ..to bad [/size]

Why?

albridge: Is it acceptable for a married woman to have sexual affairs outside her marriage because her husband can't satify her in bed?

funny Question. adultry is sin no matter how you look at it...QED!

Gbadebo01: This happened today. i was at work., i asked ma female colleague who was married if she had 'chops'(something u can munch on) and she opened her bag... and i saw the condom.. though its none of my business but i can't help but wonder..

expecting or already booked an away match

Ochason: When ever i thought of my secondry school days i just wish that i could still get together all those my crazy friends back cos we did a great havoc in school then.
I don't know which of d stories to share here but let me begin with this one.
Bak den in secdry sch. We use to snek out of sch.to go and club.smtims we wil snek out to go and play playstation chei dat thin nearly chop my sch.fees an my pocket money. Somtimes we wil finish around 11pm wit no money and we wil start treking bak 2sch.of abt 2hour jouny. Also i cnt 4get d days we use 2visit d teachers qrts to go and do some crazy stuff. I rmemba 1day we snekd in into d gals hostel at nit jus 2go an do so touchin tinz it waz only God dat saved me 4rm d bulet of our get man an d kind of run we did dat day inside d bush i bliv if lion was in dat bush it wil tak off. Menn it was a wildernex dat we did d maraton race oh i beliv evry animal in dat bush dat day took off at d hearing of ou foot step.and we wea five in numba dat day an na for bush we stayd till arund 2am in d morning b4 comin bak. Chei i cnt 4get dat day in a hurry.
I bliv most of us must av do some nurty tinz or crazy tinz while in secdry sch. U can share ur own experience here. I wil b ryt bak wit more of my experiences.

window jumping

tai wo: Hi Guys, Now that we are old enough, we can reminisce on our childhood days, I remember this particularly time of the year every primary school will be on break now, my school would have recruited some of us for the march past (I wonder why not debate, or sm quiz, mayb cos we were in the military era) and we visited the LTV grounds for a display in front of Col. Buba Marwa... I never really made the squad tho.. I miss the days I won't wake up in d morning and the first thing on my head will be how to make money... My experiences r kinda boring share yours.. Happy children's day.

lol!