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these are all true signs of a good and perfect relationship, however it is very difficult to find all these qualities in any relationship

muystoy: Marriage is one of the most important things—and one of the most life-changing endeavors—any of us will undertake in life. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out, and certain characteristics can make it a little clearer to you that she’s the one. Here are 10 signs that the woman in your life will make a good wife.

1. She’s trustworthy and loyal
A great wife loves her man…flaws and all, and takes the time to show him how much she appreciates him every day and will not be out doing something she shouldn't be when you are apart. This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents.

2. She’s emotionally stable
Your future bride should display confidence, have a real life of her own, be able to stand on her own emotionally and should be happily going in her own positive direction with no signs of emotional baggage. Furthermore, she should be able to meet you at an intellectual level, constantly surprise you, keep you on your toes and deepen your attraction past the physical realm.

3. The two of you have similar interests
If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.

4. She respects you
The woman you decide to marry should be a genuine person who considers you in every situation and will be on your side no matter what. She should not be the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life.

5. The two of you have great communication
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.

6. You have great intimacy together
The way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a big influence on whether the two of you will stay together after wedding vows are exchanged, so the intimacy between the two of you should be on point.

7. The two of you can laugh together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humor in the little things and can have a laugh together.

8. Her finances are in order
When you get married you will accumulate debt together, but you don’t want to marry someone who is up to her neck in debt and has no income. You may feel you should be taking care of her, but it still feels good knowing you have someone who has a reliable job, good credit and is responsible when it comes to managing her money.

9. She’s beautiful inside and out
The woman you decide to marry should be beautiful on the inside and the outside and will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. This doesn’t mean that she has to look like a model, but she should be so well put together that you’ll be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light.

10. You are both in agreement on kids
No marriage will thrive, nor perhaps will any marriage survive, in which one spouse wants children and the other rejects any notion of children. When considering marriage, if both of you are in agreement on the notion of children, you will likely be entering into a pleasurable, long-term marriage

vikeb: I have been having series of arguement with ♍y wife as she @ the slightest of opportunity speaks ill of ♍y Dad nd family members.This started after her Dad and mine had some heated arguements over some issues as we prepared for our traditional marriage which took place two months back.Am from the western part of the country while she is from the east.Please,I need advice on Ђ☺w to handle this issue cos as i get very pissed each time she makes such statements. -̶̶•-̶̶•̸Ϟ•̸ŤђαϞĸ Ɣõú•̸Ϟ•̸-̶̶

this can breakup your marriage if you don't handle it properly now. let her understand that it is boyh of you that are in a relationship. she has left her parents and family and is now with you and your family. she is now part of your family. the sooner she accepts that the better for her. they can make life miserable for. let your parents settle their differences by themselves. she is not the one to do that.

this can breakup your marriage if you don't handle it properly now. let her understand that it is boyh of you that are in a relationship. she has left her parents and family and is now with you and your family. she is now part of your family. the sooner she accepts that the better for her. they can make life miserable for. let your parents settle their differences by themselves. she is not the one to do that.

chaircover: Just remind her that her kids that she is going to give birth to and will love so much will share 12.5 percent genes with your own father that she is badmouthing all the time, and so she is effectively bad mouthing her own kids

. . . . . and when she points one finger, 4 fingers point back at her . . . .period!

On a serious note, start as you mean to go on, so you had better nip all this in the bud now before it gets out of hand. Tell her that whatever it is is between the 2 fathers and does not concern you two and any further insults from her will be taken personally.

she has to go back to her family for a start then they should see the guys parents on how to take care of the baby.

HumbledbYGrace: Problems but I know sumthing will pop up for the benefit of the girl in question

There is a girl,she just turned 21,living with her boyfriend at her boyfriend's family home.

Her boyfriend is a brother of a close friend of mine and had always looked down on me because people believed I was dating the guy secretly but things got worse wen she got the guy.She couldn't even stand my presence eventhough the guy was with her,the problem is the guy has been a cheat for as long as I can remember.

Moving on,the guy made the girl pregnant and their baby would be 2years this march...The guy is seeing another girl now and just few days ago babymama was out on a night vigil when the guy brought the new girlfriend into the room,while busy babymama returned early from the night vigil and cought them in action....

When she asked the guy he asked her if she noticed something wrong and escorted the new girl home,returning home and ignoring babymama.

On christmas day,babymama went out with the guy's family and the guy brought the girl in again and shagged her.

Now the problem is babymama,was too proud wen still dating the guy with no child then,she fought with a relative who took her in since she is an orphan,so she moved in with the guy.Now the guy doesn't want her anymore and she has nowhere to go,adding that no woman can stay with such a man.

She needs advice though she doesn't know that I know her situation buh I feel for her

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it is not easy to leave an ex, especially the first love or the one you lost your virginity to. however, if she knows what she want she should leave him completely. if they are just friends, their discussions will not be that romantic. my question is have you confirmed that she is still a virgin? don't you think the ex has slept with her and that's why it is being difficult for her to break up with him? don't give yourself heartache, better look for someone too in case she finally breaks your heart

brandybabe: Pls NLers help me out,I av this babe av bin dating for about a year nw and we are always talking about marriage..she often tell me ow special I am to her and that I'm the only 1 she has eva been talking to abt marriage,always telln me I'm the best eva blah blah blah...I really love her so much and I trusted her so much,so I dnt choke her,she was very free. On the 2nd of September last year,I mistakenly saw a chat wit her frnd wia the frnd said 'its not as if u r cheating on him' I tink we had a small misundastanding den,so wen I saw that my trust was re affirmed again and erytin was goin on well until december wen I started seeing some changes.I asked her abt it and she said notin is apnin dat I shldnt kill mysef ova sumtin dats its real,so I dint ask her again bt deep down in my mind,I knew sumtin was wrong...few days lata,we're 2geda,cuddling,kissing and touching and wen I noticed we was into it very much,I pushed the questn to her again and she started feeling sober and afta few tricks of peting her,she confessed that its true that she jst started seeing her ex again few weeks ago that she only wanted to get bck @ him bt didn't knw dat she wld fall ..I was shocked and dissappointed and I cried cos truout the tym we've bin 2geda I was 100% faithful to her..she started begging me that she was sorry that I shldnt leave her that she loves me wholeheartedly but she was jst confused,I rmbr that 9t,she called me approximately fo 1hr 25 mins,begging me and I told her I av forgiven her and truly I forgave her dat day cos I really love the girl..we saw again the ff day and wat I saw shocked me cos she was still chatting wit the ex like lovers bt I dint say anytin till I left her..later on dat day I told her I wanted a break,that I tink she nids to really tink if I'm the 1 she wana b wit or the guy bt she kept begging me that its me she wanna b wit fo d rest of her life and she wanna av my baby blah blah bt I told her no,I nid a brk...she sha kept begging me for two days and told 1 of her frnd to beg me too and that 1 did and she told me that I shld pls forgive her that its me she truly loves that she has let go of the ex,so I forgave her and I moved on wit her cos I really really love the babe...
Few days ago,I was chanced to be wit her fone again and I wanted to confirm weda she has deleted the ex off her bbm I got the biggest surprise of my life,the guy is still there..then I decided to read their chat and I was more perplexed at wat I saw...my gf was asking the ex wen he wants to marry ,asking the ex if sum1 (the ex's female frnd) knew they are dating cos the ex used the girls pix as dp and she told him she was jealous abt that...
I'm now so confused and its killing me softly cos I dnt knw wat to do..been askin mysef lotta questions lyk
1.Does she truly loves me lyk she claim?
2.Ok,if she truly does,why is she still goin bck to her her fo dat mata
3. If she doesn't love me,why does she always tell me its me she wanna b wit me wen she can always go wit the ex completely and leave me alone.
NB: I'm not giving her money oo and I dnt fink is about a good s3x cos she still a virgin,yeah a virgin cos even the day I saw the last chat wit her ex,I still confirmed the virginity. Nairalanders pls help me out,I'm goin crazy,I dnt knw wat to do.

Sapphire86: Hmmmm without saying much, I think u r her safety net. If it doesn't work out wit others, u'd always b d fall back plan. Sorry

no more no less

Eghosa kelly: If a girl tells you no, it does not mean that her response can't change with time because it is possible that present circumstances does not permit her giving you a positive response but I will honestly advice you to move on to more stable and active girls who are bold enough to tell you how they realy feel about you because Waiting for her could just be a waste of time. Forming hard to get is out dated

true talk. forming hard to get is outdated

this is true. some might even be having the feeling that their relationship may crash at any moment and so start looking for replacement on time

emijoe: frm my own xperience,such type of gal maybe in a serious relatnship and probably wana keep u as a spare tyre incase of her relatnship heads 2 gutter

usdane: pls i would like to move a bit off topic. dou relevant. If a girl starts asking you for advice on how to deal with boys approaching her. Saying that she does not like them that she has a fiancee' alrady (not me, another guy, which i doubt if she truly has)...she keeps on calling me and asking germaine questions. What does that possibly translate. Thanks

As a teacher, you should know that theory alone is not enough. so go practical with her and see if she will not give you true confession.

guy no be lie. just get closer to her,start showing interest in her interest and she is all yours

Martowskin: somtimes u guys just get me confuse. Wat else do u want her to tell u, must she say yes b4 u knw she said yes. Dat is d hand writin on d wall. Sowi to say u ar just 2 blind to c it or u ar myopic in nature. My guy dat girl is already in ur palm. Just look 4 a perfect position and giv ar a kiss. A kiss only i said notin more pls. Just 4 confermation.

most of them play hide and seek but nowadays, the bold ones even start toasting you before you approach them. the ones that doesn't know what they want keep playing hard to get while their mates are getting married every Saturday

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DailyNews: I was expecting Mikel to be on the final list because he has greatly improved, now pushes the game forward and making attempts to score...now I am pissed...sighs

thanks a lot and hope i will get the best out of this forum.i am an article writer and blogger interested in networking and info marketing. I manage www.realdeeplove.com. my page on FB is www.facebook.com/realdeeplove .once more thanks a lot.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Welcome!

I created this thread with newbies in mind. A newbie is a new member that does not know how things work around here. Pls do not be shy to ask questions, not matter how silly and inconsequential you think it may be. . .

There is also a separate thread for compliants if you feel you have been insulted or bullied by another member. www.nairaland.com/639119

There are two moderators on this section, (Jaybee and Sexkillz currently) and they'll be here to answer your questions along with the other friendly older members on this section.

This thread is basically for newbies to introduce themselves and get quickly integrated into one of the most interesting and popular section on Nairaland, the Romance Section. . .

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