Amza07:
my wife no longer respect me i canot blame her, i think the main reason is because she is fedup of the current situation am in.
I lost my job and am out of business, some days we cook without oil and somedays we fast because we do not have anything but i dont Stop loving her but why is she givingup on me now?

I am sorry about what u are going however,
A few reasons y reasons y she's given up on u are,

1. You are not doing enough to get out of your present predicament.
It's like she's the breadwinner of ur family, everyday na the same tin, same story, same body language etc

2. She's has seen that u don't have balls and u are among several people hoping for a miracle. Guy, miracles no longer happen with folded hands. You have to make miracles happen.

3. A woman gives her love and herself to a man that she's sure can provide security and security for ur wife and children comes with lots of responsibility. In ur case, she's seen that u are not responding to ur responsibilities accordingly and so she's beginning to feel insecure.

4. She's sees u as a lazy man. Lazy here connotes laziness of the mind. U really need to work on ur mind by making it very positive with action following.

My, guy I will advise you change ur social circle and ur attitude to life. Do this and know peace in ur home

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

This is a BIG RED Flag.
I am not sure it was God that showed u this lady. It's possibly an illusion borne from infatuation.


If u marry this lady. be ready for series of showdowns when it comes to money.
This is because she's in only for good times and u will be alone during low periods.

Guy, biko wise up!

I won't say these are unusual but not every blogger do them.

1. Building a list from my blog
2. Posting valuable video content
3. This is the unusual one, Running consistent paid ads on articles (not offers) on my blog

@op, that's just the way it goes in this very materialistic world.
Na so she wan become single mum just like that because of material things

Lesson learnt and ur mind made up. Go ahead with ur plans and don't allow fake cry and useless begging deter u.

Pickin wey say hin mama no go sleep must be ready not to sleep.
God help our ladiez

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ok

While searching, u can download an e copy free online.

Possibly still better than staying back in Nigeria.

Yeah, indeed the war just stop life in Ukraine. Life must definitely continue.

TMSMedia:


https://www.instagram.com/p/ChUe-bervWj/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

That’s the level of knowledge he has. He can read ps 47:1 to add to his knowledge base.

kumulus:



Like a sure manchi once told me, “Na Federal Government job” lol


Man must whack, woman must knack


…….problem no go finish

this is hilarious

Bvlgari:
Wahala ProMax for a man who refuses "to do more" after drinking 2 monsters etc, after a lady engaged him for the night.

The lady was having none of that and kept insisting that he must continue "to do the do" no matter what

Things dey really happen o my people the end part is so interesting hahaha


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzOY7oTddm4

lol.
Real wahala. Sex na work no be beans.
The man from his countenance is a weakling. The body is willing but JT is weak.

op
Don't settle for less for a wife.
This lady is premium tears.

If u want to live a long fruitful and happy life, please and please dissociate from her.
The RED flags are damn too much, i don't know the reason why u are still in a
selfish and one sided relationship like this.

If na jazz may ur eyes open now in Jesus name.

Please walk away, there are better and more respectable ladies out there rooting for you.

rainlover:


Thanks for sharing boss. What affiliate network will you recommend for beginners?

There are so many affiliate networks one can kick off with. Niche + affiliate programs in google.
However,
Warrior+
Market health
More niche
Amazon
Just to mention a few

People get mind o.
Well, i wish her the best with the police.
I am sure she will slay through the hands of the police
and come off with a reasonable way of settling her debts.

Well noted

Newborn27:



Thanks for your contribution.

The business I did wasn't a long term one....I did it within a month period.

It was selling of career day's costumes in which I traveled from Ore to Lagos- Idumota within 4weekends.

As soon as the program ended the business also ended.


My teaching routine never give room for other activities not to talk of business..even during holidays we'd be on seminar.


Some persons advices me on content writing when I was at the verge of losing my job then but I don't know what it entails and how to balance it with my 7am- 6pm routine.

Its all right. Your mind is very active as i can see however, u just need a unique twist to get going again.
I can see in your signature, that you are a conqueror which I like.
And u know that a life of victory, triumph and conquest can only be achieved with help and leading of the Holy Spirit.

In the light of that, Kindly sit with the Holy Spirit to inspire you,
open your eyes an lead you on the victory, triumphant path of a business that you can
do with lots of profits to show even with your tight schedule. Is 48:12

I will like to talk privately with you if you don't mind.
U can reach me on whatsapp through the digits on my signature

kmaster007:
I have a very close male friend. We are not dating and we haven’t really done anything romantic although we have told each other almost everything about ourselves and we have spent a lot of time together gisting and generally having good times.

I just like him as a friend but I am not sexually attracted to him.

He actually hasn’t ever asked me out but sometimes he sends me some odd text messages talking about how much he cares for me and how much our friendship means to him and all that.

Also he has dated and broken up with about five girls since I knew him.

I see him as just a normal friend, more like a brother but I am beginning to suspect that he sees me as more than a friend because he gets angry when he sees me talking with other guys and he always tries to act over-protective.

It became so annoying that one day I had to ask him what his problem was. When I tried talking to him about this attitude of his, he got angry and started acting funny. Now we are not on talking terms because I told him to respect himself and give me some space.

He is my very good friend and I like him because he’s a nice guy and I don’t want to lose his friendship.

You won't loose his friendship because he will grow up. It isn't every lady i am close with that i date or sleep with. There must be well defined boundaries to every relationship. It's good you have told him to behave himself, this would put him in check.

Overtime you can reach out to him just to know how he is doing and also to let him know you still care as a friend and sister.

imagrg:
Whenever I go online, the first website I visit is always Nairaland. I am beginning to feel that I've become addicted to it.
For many years now, before I visit any site at all, I always at least check on the news headlines on the front page. This has been a daily routine for years now. So, how do I break this addiction?.

I am in your shoes. However, i am thinking of ending my visits as there are important updates i get here.
But if you have to break your addiction. Clear your history on your browser or uninstall the app and consciously don't visit the site.

When the urge comes, just ask yourself what for? your answer should repel the urge.

YourHighTension:


Buy and read the book 'The Richest Man In Babylon'.

It's a small book. Read page by page, digest and practice it. I am sure it will help you.

More importantly, the answer to your question would have dawned on you by the time you finish reading it.

You are absolutely right.
Op can download a free copy online.

In addition Op, i think u are trying 35k is peanuts as it can't make u live out of poverty, however, the business you are into can given more attention so that it can increase your earning potential and help you diversify into other businesses.

Kindly of necessity read and meditate on the content in the pages of that book The Richest Man In Babylon by George S. Clason

emmyluizzz:
yes some months ago I came here to complain of my joblessness

some Nairalanders even mock me because I commented on some posts..I don't know. Im just happy. Is actually a security job at a Catholic church. The pay is very good plus accommodation and three square meal every day..

Thanking God

Congratulations Bro.

Make the best out of this humble opportunity and the Good God will help you

Miracleade88:
On the 20th of July my bestie said that i should take her out to a shop-rite so i went into my room to dress up immediately then we entered a cab but unfortunately i didn't know that she and her friends have planned it because we had a little fight between us but have apologised to her and she said OK that she has forgiven me but i didn't know that she has not forgiven me.
so as we got to the front of the shop-rite there i met some ladies which were my bestie's friend so my bestie told me that i should go inside that she would come and meet me and i said okay
Then after 20 minutes i came out then i saw those ladies and my bestie shouting and yelling at me calling me thief! thief! thief!
pls what should i do, should i forgive her or what?
you can contact me here please.

This dream does not seem to be a good one. Kindly pray against open disgrace and akoba adaba..
God will help you through.

Maverick777:

hopefully it wouldn't get to that.

OK, It's alright

iamwilliamsfx:
I’VE been with my boyfriend for two years
now and I really believe he’s my soul
mate. He loves me and treats me like a
princess.
The only problem is that he’s very
jealous. I daren’t keep in touch with male
friends, as it’s just not worth the
interrogation. Socialising with men even
in a group is a no-no.


....My friends are getting fed up with me, as
I hardly ever go out without him. As a
result, I see less and less of them. I’ve
always assured him I’d never cheat on
him, but this hasn’t helped his insecurity.
How can I prove he can trust me?
Kemi, by e-mail

This is very risky and u may end up paying with ur life. The most risky people one can go into relationship with are unsecured partners.

Ur guy is a security risk because of his level of jealousy. kindly find a way to end that relationship for ur own/family sake.
Such a person can kill if he suspects anything.
I am saying this from experience.

Maverick777:

Whatever action the wife would or would want to take regarding anything would go through the husband first, don't you think?

Yeah, but it also depends how the impregnator plays it. Because if the woman suspects foul play ( which is more likely to happen), the woman may run the show herself or make use of other people.

Maverick777:
Top of the day Fam!

A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid(who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!

HOW IT UNFOLDED
Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.
The husband is a pilot and always never at home(the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate(just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.
I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months(not like she's a novice).
Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).
So technically, his wife might even return before him.
He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.
I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.
The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!
I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...

Any mature suggestion is welcome.
cc; mynd44
seun
lalasticlala
front page please.

This story get as e be.

You guys will need to cook that tale that the maid ran off with a guy as well. I am sure the wife will be held responsible for the maid’s whereabouts.
The police may get involved in this fairytale and Your guy is a suspect so are u.

Make una cook this lie well because it doesn’t show how smart u and d impregnator are.

aidameoryou:


OK, where are you based off?
Could I make use of your payoneer acct?

Let's talk if its convenient for you, let me explain in details.

Ok, kindly chat me up.

aidameoryou:


Do you have a payoneer acct?
Reply me

Of course I do

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Good day guys,

I hope this post stays.

It's time to earn with what you have. 

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Talk they say is cheap and that is exactly what this man represents. Talk sh^t just to get what he wants.
Very incompetent set up.

Many people think it is bread and beans or by mere talk to be an effective and efficient leader.
Well we can see it after all.