₦airaland Forum

Rolexxxy:
I have been in relationship with this my guy for four years but things never happened the way it is happening now.

I am sorry about that. It's possibly as an indication of the relationship coming to an abrupt end.

Rolexxxy:
I
My guy doesn't pick up my calls regularly.

Because he doesn't find u interesting. Most likely he is bored stiff hearing ur voice.

Rolexxxy:
I
He doesn't invite me and anytime I propose to come, he forms too busy

Ok, u don't worth his time anymore

Rolexxxy:
I
He drinks alot and doesn't buy anything for me.

He is just behaving weird and I am not okay. Please advise me as I am not ready to lose this guy as I have done so much for him.

If u don't lose him now, u will lose him sooner or later. He doesn't need u any longer.
This relationship is not worth sticking with, however in ur next relationship, create and maintain value that ur guy will cherish and won't want out Please this goes beyond s3x

As an advice, begin to live without him so that when the relationship comes crashing u won't break with the crash.

Y is that lady shouting like a mo ^ron at the background?

Fake transfers will increase massively during this period of cashless Nigeria. We all need to beware.

Funny enough, the offer of 100k monthly will not attract an expert affiliate marketer. Honestly, that sum is not worth his or her time with the job description you have stated above.

This offer is for rookie affiliate marketers i must confess.

Please kindly improve that offer to attract expert hands.

Theophinio:
Alright sir

Thank you

The pleasure is mine u are welcome Sir

Theophinio:
Good day sir

My friend in a approved country by clickbank for their affiliate platform wants to open an account for me on clickbank

Please will I still use VPN to access it whenever I want to login

Thanks

Good morning sir.

If u are logging in frequently, u would need to do that using VPN.

Op
First and foremost, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of your children. You have been through a lot in your previous marriage, and it's understandable that you are hesitant to get married again.

It's important to take the time you need to heal and feel comfortable with any decisions you make.

It's also important to get to know this man better and have open and honest conversations with him about your concerns and what you are looking for in a partner. It's good that he is willing to accept your children and be a supportive partner, but it's important to make sure you share common values and goals for your future together.

You may also want to consider seeking advice from a trusted friend or family member, or even a therapist or counselor, who can provide an outside perspective and support you in making a decision that is right for you and your family.

Ultimately, the decision to get married again is a personal one, and it's important to take the time you need to make the right decision for yourself and your children.

All the best.

Ficklemind:
I really don’t know how to stop thinking, not even for a second my mind is always faraway please help I’m slipping away....

I’m a woman of 27years, lonely, don’t have a relationship, not financially ok , don’t have any skills even though I just graduated waiting for mobilization and I planned to acquire one while in service.

I never actually thought about life much till I graduated, I gained admission when I was 20years and I actually thought I still have much time to achieve a lot of things in life . It was now I realized how much time I had wasted in not paying much attention to my life even when I know that it never too late.

My financial life has been basically sponsored by me Incase you are wondering how I get funds to live by. Last year, I got a casual job , did a thrift business though not something big but I was able to saveup and was able to live on that even now I still have something I can depend on without asking from anybody by living within my limit.

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.
I feel like a failure like I don’t have purpose for my life, I crave for intimacy but even if I get someone who likes me or wants to settle down with me I’m not sure I’m ready for that now because I’m not financially stable yet.

Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?

The bolded is were ur problem lie and solution lies.
As it stands u are not ready for marriage because there is something missing. U have not found ur purpose in life.
Finding it purpose and aligning with it is the most important thing on ur scale of preference.

Get books online or watch videos on YouTube that will show you how to find your purpose in life and go ahead ,find it and fulfill it.

You will find happiness when you find and run with ur purpose

kingthreat:
Why is it that some ladies get easily pregnant in a relationship but when it comes to marriage, they now have problems conceiving.
One of my female friends, her only child is the one she had with her boyfriend while dating. Once they got married, they have been trying and trying but to no avail. Her mother-in-law greatly disapproved of the marriage.
Or should I talk of one of my neighbors who had 2 from different guys. Only for her to enter the marriage with a well-to-do man and problem happen. She can't blame the man either as he fathered one daughter when he was in his 20s.
A colleague told me it is spiritual, that some wicked people start reasoning some people's matter when they are married. This I don't want to believe. Will like to hear more opinions on this.

Conceiving a child is a complex process that can be influenced by a variety of physical, emotional, and environmental factors.

When couples have difficulty conceiving, it is often referred to as infertility, and it can be caused by many things, including hormonal imbalances, age, lifestyle factors, and underlying medical conditions.

It's not uncommon for couples to have trouble conceiving after getting married, even if they had no trouble before.

This could be due to stress and changes in lifestyle that can come with marriage, as well as other factors such as age, underlying health conditions, and genetics.

There is no evidence to support the idea that spiritual factors are causing infertility in these cases.

While belief in the spiritual realm is personal, it is important to rely on science and medicine when it comes to understanding and treating infertility.

It is always best to speak with a doctor or a fertility specialist when one is having trouble conceiving, as they can help identify any potential underlying causes and recommend appropriate treatment options

ayo84:
The form field, : Product (SKU)* , i have no idea on what to put, if it was a packaged product from abroad, it would have all the specification labelling

SKU stands for “stock keeping unit” and — as the name suggests — it is a number (usually eight alphanumeric digits) that retailers assign to products to keep track of stock levels internally.
Invariably, If a product has different colors and sizes, each variation has a unique SKU number.
U will provide a unique number for the product and fill in the form field.
For example if the product is a black givenchy shoe, u could provide an SKU number like GIV10001 and then for a brown Givenchy shoe GIV10002.
I hope you get it now.

Well i think it is as a result of poor orientation. Instead of simply saying "Please excuse me" .

ayo84:
I am having issues setting up products for my jumia seller account, i need some one who can help me set it up.

What are the problems u are experiencing? U can state them here if need be.

dazzlingd:
You go like kanck am ba

Una no know pass knack for this forum.
No be only knack na chook.
Na so dem dey knack?
I no dey interested.

na odeshi she put for waist?

Human brutality must be stopped. This kind of sh**t happens more in the barracks.
I saw a lot when i was serving in a barracks.

WiszyFraud:
Some things prevent us from being happy. We need to notice these things and give up on them to be satisfied.
We need to be serious about it, or we will miss the opportunity to be happy in 2023.




Happy Weekend Y’all ✌️

I love this article. Happiness is very free we only need to change our attitudes positively.

Nice one once again

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PImlCvfqN7o

Nollywood actress, Uche Ogbodo and her man, Bobby Harris, tied the knot traditionally in a ceremony that took place in Enugu state on January 5, 2022, IGBERETV reports.

The couple share a daughter together, while Uche has a daughter from her previous relationship.


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnC1-Ydgd3y/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

All the best in their marriage. Hopefully, it will be an enviable marriage.

Tunagee:
Maybe the woman committed a very open adultery

It's not connected to cheating, according to him one of his reasons was that his denied him sex several times because she didn't want to add more to the 7 children she had bore already. The denial got him bitter. Others include lack of respect and some other issues he feels cannot be reconciled.

The pastor is spot on on this

A man in his sixties who still shares same home with his wife of his youth told me last year that his marriage ended more than 20 yrs ago. That his wife was just in his house because of his kids and to fill space.
They don't sleep in the same room, the man cooks his food and the woman caters for hers. It is when their kids come around that they stay together for talks.

BigShishi:
Man brags about sleeping with his best friend's gf

He just showed to the world how irresponsible he is. This action can shut doors against him because he just demonstrated how dishonest he is..
This guy just dug his own grave with his own hands.

Op, honestly, I like ur enlightening post.
It's coming when I have just gotten a good friend that is stretching me in Yoruba.
Thanks for the post.

LEXYNIL:
Morocco are very fast and aggressive in attacking line because they have so much ability in times counter attack which they can push France with that. And they are very rough and I dont see them winning the game because the Atlas lion of Morocco are well clinical with their front line.

They are not as clinical as the teams they have beaten. What has really helped them is the team discipline and the defense. Unfortunately against France I don't see them winning in 90 mins. France is most likely to edge them, those long crosses for Giroud will cause them a lot of problems. Unlike Belgium and Portugal, France will definitely score against Morocco.
Wishing all the semi finalists the best tomorrow and wednesday.

SMJay:
What is the brutal truth about life after marriage?

1. Marriage is a never ending story.
U keep discovering new things about ur spouse every single day.

2. Despite the plans and attacks on marriages by the devil, marriage can be very exciting and sweet.

Slmgirldippussy:
I remember that year India win Nigeria 100-1
It was Thunder Balogun that scored 1 for Nigeria
His mom was around at the stadium. She shouted Thunder Balogun change to left .booza he yielded his mama call , change to left leg ,kick the ball and scored
India plays started crying

U remember like say u watch am

Tunagee:
The guy should bounce back financially and bring in another woman simple.

No o, On top wetin. What makes u think the new one he brings in won't be worse?

Whether it is man or woman without money no one which includes family members will respect u.

It's either people look up to u or look down on u and money to a large extent determines this.

Amza07:
my wife no longer respect me i canot blame her, i think the main reason is because she is fedup of the current situation am in.
I lost my job and am out of business, some days we cook without oil and somedays we fast because we do not have anything but i dont Stop loving her but why is she givingup on me now?

I am sorry about what u are going however,
A few reasons y reasons y she's given up on u are,

1. You are not doing enough to get out of your present predicament.
It's like she's the breadwinner of ur family, everyday na the same tin, same story, same body language etc

2. She's has seen that u don't have balls and u are among several people hoping for a miracle. Guy, miracles no longer happen with folded hands. You have to make miracles happen.

3. A woman gives her love and herself to a man that she's sure can provide security and security for ur wife and children comes with lots of responsibility. In ur case, she's seen that u are not responding to ur responsibilities accordingly and so she's beginning to feel insecure.

4. She's sees u as a lazy man. Lazy here connotes laziness of the mind. U really need to work on ur mind by making it very positive with action following.

My, guy I will advise you change ur social circle and ur attitude to life. Do this and know peace in ur home

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

This is a BIG RED Flag.
I am not sure it was God that showed u this lady. It's possibly an illusion borne from infatuation.


If u marry this lady. be ready for series of showdowns when it comes to money.
This is because she's in only for good times and u will be alone during low periods.

Guy, biko wise up!

I won't say these are unusual but not every blogger do them.

1. Building a list from my blog
2. Posting valuable video content
3. This is the unusual one, Running consistent paid ads on articles (not offers) on my blog

@op, that's just the way it goes in this very materialistic world.
Na so she wan become single mum just like that because of material things

Lesson learnt and ur mind made up. Go ahead with ur plans and don't allow fake cry and useless begging deter u.

Pickin wey say hin mama no go sleep must be ready not to sleep.
God help our ladiez

[quote author=Ademolu2002 post=117488585][/quote]ok

While searching, u can download an e copy free online.

Possibly still better than staying back in Nigeria.

Yeah, indeed the war just stop life in Ukraine. Life must definitely continue.

TMSMedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/ChUe-bervWj/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

That’s the level of knowledge he has. He can read ps 47:1 to add to his knowledge base.