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Romance / Re: Lady Shares Her Much Older Lover, Sparks Mixed Reactions Online (photos & Video) by infogenius(m): 9:52am On Sep 10 |
If this man’s wife and kids see this video? Hmmm 4 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Scores His 900th Career Goal by infogenius(m): 10:13pm On Sep 05 |
Congratulations to him and Portugal. Indeed he’s done well for himself and Career. 3 Likes |
Health / Re: Man Recovered Dead From Well In Kwara (Graphic) by infogenius(m): 7:53am On Aug 05 |
Gross. I hope an investigation will be carried out. Looks to me like suicide. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Experience With Women Round The World. by infogenius(m): 7:44am On Jul 27 |
Very informative thread following.... 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: 24 Year Old Nigerian Charged For Stabbing British Army Colonel-picture by infogenius(m): 2:47pm On Jul 25 |
The account doesn't not suggest he's a Nigerian except for his name. However, it's so bad if he's a Nigerian and he goes out there to stab people. Possibly the guy no well sef 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Nairalanders, My Wife Wants To Destroy Our Marriage Ohh!!! by infogenius(m): 2:24pm On Jul 25 |
Surface2AirToto: I am sorry about what you are going through. U need an advice and i will provide one. The current issue in your home is largely due to your wife taking free rides to and from work with a guy. While there may be underlying issues, this is the primary concern at the moment. The Bible says in Matthew 5:29-30 (NIV): "If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell." And in Mark 9:43-48 (NIV): "If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out... And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell..." Please note that these verses are not meant to be taken literally but serve as a metaphor for the seriousness of sin and the need to take drastic measures to avoid it. It is very likely if this is not handled properly it will lead to sin. So you have the responsibility to prevent it/ What I'm saying is that if this issue is not addressed, your marriage may deteriorate further, affecting your child. What can you do? 1. Stop her from riding with her colleague at work in his car. 2. If she refuses to obey, consider informing her family. 3. Remember that as the head of your family, you have authority conferred upon you by God. Don't let her undermine it. Avoid physical confrontations and unnecessary arguments. Make your stand clear and be decisive. If your stand is not respected, consider escalating the matter to your pastor or her family for counseling. my two cents 1 Like |
Family / Re: Chizaram Okoh: This Child Is Missing In Enugu (Photo) by infogenius(m): 3:55pm On Mar 09 |
This is news that gives a creepy and chilling feeling.. Dear God preserve, keep and hand over this daughter of urs alive to her parents IJN |
Romance / Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by infogenius(m): 2:56pm On Feb 29 |
Simply put, it’s in their blood. It takes only God to help them back on clean tracks until then, they are never totally repentant |
Family / Re: A Strange Woman In My Home! Please How Do I Go About It? by infogenius(m): 11:17am On Feb 22 |
Interesting Your husband is the main player here. Many of those things she uttered were borne from what ur husband had told her. She’s taken ur place in ur home because ur husband empowered her. If u use force to move her out, then realize that u have not seen the last of her and I can assure u it will get messier. What is husband doing and saying in all these? His response will give u a pointer if u are still needed or not. To me he seems like another weakling. What will those calls do for someone that is hell bent on her stand to stick with him? If I were u, I won’t fight the lady, let the man fix her and if he can’t there’s no point forcing a dead horse to drink water. He’s best bet is to leave the house for and move some where else if the lady really get ogbanje |
Romance / Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by infogenius(m): 6:41am On Feb 10 |
Op U have made a big mistake by renting an apartment just to cohabitate. I am not sure u have started saving for next rent because u already had a full year notice . As far as I am concerned u got urself into this from the sweet talk of a fair lady. U have had ur full from ur lusts and ur eyes are now open to see clearly that u can’t take over her responsibilities. Well it’s time to man up. Here’s my advice. I understand u both love each other and hoping to get married someday. But, As the situation is at the moment, u will have to take steps. 1. She will have to leave and go back to her brother’s place. She is not yet ur wife, I don’t see a reason why u both will live as man and wife when u are not married to each other. The moment she leaves 80% of ur problems are solved. 2. U will need to step up ur money making game. Look for other streams income and venture because u can’t keep urself together, maintain a relationship talkless of getting married and paying expedient bills like rent just depending on what you are doing now. U will choke 3. From now on, never make any relationship one sided, both of u are in it. U contribute more as a man but ur girl must also contribute too of course asides her body. u must tell her from the onset, for eg ” hey I stock the home with food, u buy the gas” In marriage it’s like this too or else u go quick die. U are under no obligation to take responsibility of a lady u ain’t married to when u are not her father. That’s her father’s job until u marry her. That is y u made a big mistake by cohabiting. In conclusion, Let her leave ur house immediately but continue to maintain a decent relationship with her until u get married. Get another hustle to improve your financial security. Or else u won’t go far in life. All the best. |
Politics / Re: Ex-Reps Speaker, Ghali Na’abba Is Dead by infogenius(m): 8:51am On Dec 27, 2023 |
Ghali Umar Na'Abba was a Nigerian politician who served as the Speaker of the House of Representatives from 1999 to 2003. He was a prominent figure in the Nigerian political landscape and was known for his outspokenness and his commitment to democracy and good governance. Here are some of his most famous quotes: "The legislature is not a rubber stamp. It is not an extension of the executive arm of government. It is a co-equal branch of government." This quote highlights Na'Abba's belief in the importance of the separation of powers and the role of the legislature as a check on the executive. "We must not allow the enemies of democracy to take advantage of our temporary setbacks. We must remain vigilant and continue to fight for the values that we believe in." This quote was spoken by Na'Abba in the wake of the impeachment of President Olusegun Obasanjo in 2003. It shows his determination to defend democracy even in the face of challenges. "The Nigerian people deserve better than they are getting. They deserve a government that is transparent, accountable, and responsive to their needs." This quote is a call for good governance and reflects Na'Abba's commitment to improving the lives of ordinary Nigerians. "We must not allow our differences to divide us. We must come together as a nation and build a better future for all Nigerians." This quote is a plea for unity and reflects Na'Abba's belief that Nigerians must work together to overcome their challenges. "I believe that the future of Nigeria is bright. We have a young and vibrant population, and we are rich in natural resources. If we can harness our potential, we can build a great nation." This quote expresses Na'Abba's optimism about the future of Nigeria. These are just a few of Ghali Umar Na'Abba's most famous quotes. During his time, he was a complex and controversial figure, but there is no doubt that he was a significant figure in Nigerian history. His quotes will continue to inspire and challenge Nigerians. RIP Sir 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Restitution by infogenius(m): 12:27pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Good Afternoon Omoluabi. Going through ur post got me laughing really loud and i will tell u y in my response to the folowing Newborn27: My dear, gone are the days were women were ready to die to make a relationship or a marriage work. If the relationship is toxic and not working, its better to abandon and embrace what will work in one's life to make life better off. A relationship with anyone is to add to ur life and once the relationship is not beneficial in a any form, which includes improving your mental health, social well being and ur person in general etc. It isn't worth it. kolework I have in my social circle women that against all odds walked out of toxic marriages. They have kids, one of them a very very good friend. Her husband is well known to me but he is not my friend, possibly just an acquaintance. We had spent some time together at various times in the past. They separated while was pregnant with her third child. The man left her homeless and without a job and two kids. I don't like remembering those dark years. She had practically called me to tell me that she wanted to terminate that pregnancy because of what she was going through. Did she love the man? Yes she did after all that was why she married him.The lady did most of the work in the home from income generation to household duties. The man just lazied around, hung out with his friends in the evening to smoke and drink. Just like any man in that sphere, he womanized heavily. Yet her woman didn't really mind but prayerfully hoped he would change. But when it gets to the point that he would beat her in their compound just because he has been found out that he's sleeping with a neighbor. It tells you how bad it got. Well, my friend has been separated for 4 yrs, in this four yrs she's been able to build her life back, doing well as a businesswoman, will complete her master degree in Law this month and recently got a good job in an oil and gas firm.Her three children are doing well. She's not in any romantic relationship at the moment. Incidentally the man wants to come back into her life to make her life more miserable than he left it. Because he perceives money and good life Y am I telling you this is for u to properly assess if ur relationship with ur man is worth given a try again. If the relationship will NOT make u a better woman. Honestly Forget it! Newborn27: I am beginning to think so too. However, it happens like that sometimes. This trash we call love can make one so stupid. You really need to pull urself back together. This is important. Don't make urself a tool to be used. Ur man is a N/lander and will read this. So many things will go over his mind. As a result, you could be making urself very vulnerable especially if he doesn't give a hoot about u and how u feel. If he still loves you and still wants to share his life with you, good. But if he doesn't babe, there is no point MOVE ON and Forget HIM. U will be very crazy to attract his sympathy through this post and get served HOT LUNCH on a sunny day after all u been served breakfast already. Newborn27: Must it be with HIM? Newborn27: Ask your heart again what restitution u should be making is all about. Don't let your emotions fool you again. Afterall it led you to where you are today. Look at areas in your life you should develop in the coming year, this makes more sense to me than craving for a guy that may not even be thinking about you. Newborn27: Reframe your mind. Reframe your mind. Men can be scums too U are obviously making bigger mistakes telling him u still love him openly despite everything he's done to u. U are simply saying hey guy, kill me if u like i won't stop loving u but i am sure in ur dying moments u will hate the day u met him.Don't wait till then, use ur head, but if he reaches out for reconciliation u can consider of course after weighing so many factors but if he doesn't my dear, move on. In conclusion, we have had to let go of many valuable things in our lives which includes people at certain points whether it was convenient for us or not and we didn't die but got much more valuable things, built better relationships and became even better. New and better things only happened to us because we let those old things go. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by infogenius(m): 9:06am On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx: There’s a big red flag. If u are not sexually attracted to her, there’s no need going into a relationship that will lead to marriage with her. The reason is not far fetched as both of u will definitely cheat on each other. |
Romance / Re: This Is What The Rich Folks Don't Want You To Know About Hookup Girls by infogenius(m): 5:42am On Aug 13, 2023 |
astonished: Oga make una dey try read and understand well. My post didn’t encourage sleeping with hookup girls but rather put in a simple sentence all what the op wrote in his original post I get wife and even when I was a single I didn’t do hookup so I don’t know the cost implication of sleeping with hookup girls. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: This Is What The Rich Folks Don't Want You To Know About Hookup Girls by infogenius(m): 4:07pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Unfortunately, many of the readers won’t understand what op was trying to say. All he said In a simple sentence is instead of going into long relationships because of sex, having it with hook ups is far cheaper and saves time. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Wife And Side Chic by infogenius(m): 5:12pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
@ op No blame games, the die is cast, and finding a solution is the only thing that matters. It's very complicated having two women pregnant for you at the same time, but there's always a way out. To answer your question: You wanted her to be pregnant for you, that's why you put her in the family way, so there's no mistake with her conception. Your side chick wants to keep the pregnancy. You have it in mind to raise children through your side chick. It's very clear that your actions were deliberate, and you should have properly thought about the consequences before venturing into it. Your analysis of the situation prior to these complications can still work. All you need to do now is to incorporate your wife's pregnancy into your scheme of things. Here's where I am going: No ABORTION Tell your wife about the development; it's better she knows now than later. You will just find a suitable time to make her cry. It's most likely you have made plans to cater for your side chick once she becomes pregnant. Let your wife know what plans you have made. Just make sure those plans won't affect your wife directly. Finally, I will advise that you also discuss with a trusted mature family member as it may also have cultural or religious implications as the case may be. God help you, Sir. 3 Likes |
Health / Re: Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 10:46am On Jul 25, 2023 |
Teetee777: Many thanks, deeply appreciated. I will check them out |
Health / Re: Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 8:56am On Jul 25, 2023 |
Teetee777: Many thanks for ur submission Black seed oil that Yorubas call adin dudu right? U mean oral intake too? |
Health / Re: Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 8:40am On Jul 25, 2023 |
V[color=#006600][/color] ahnie: If u read my earlier post, I said she shaved her head. Just that now, hair is beginning to grow again. She will shave again as it stands. But honestly I am bothered too |
Health / Re: Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 8:37am On Jul 25, 2023 |
Timoleon: There’s nothing to see on her scalp at the moment except for bruises from the relaxer, comb and the things she’s administered on her scalp |
Health / Re: Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 8:35am On Jul 25, 2023 |
ahnie: She’s shaved her hair about three weeks ago, to properly attend to it but same thing. And as I write her hair is low |
Health / Urgent Help With Lice Infestation by infogenius(m): 7:22am On Jul 25, 2023 |
I'm seeking some assistance from those who have experience with dealing with hair lice infestations that seem to persist despite various treatments. A close friend of mine contracted lice from her salon last month and has been trying various remedies, but the problem continues to worsen. Initially, she tried retouching her hair, followed by using camphor and cacatin. Unfortunately, the itching and biting sensation persisted, and she had to resort to scraping her hair at one point. Even after switching to camphor and kerosene, the issue persists, and she has used different products like dematol, zhens, relaxer, and aloe vera on her bald head, but nothing seems to be working. Her pharmacist and salonist have also run out of ideas to help her. The situation is becoming unbearable for her as she spends most of her time dealing with these creepy sensations and bites, constantly applying different products and using combs and brushes to remove whatever might be there. The problem doesn't seem to be improving; in fact, it appears to be getting worse. As a result, she's starting to consider the possibility that this might be a spiritual issue, as she cannot find peace and can't even go out without being disturbed by these infestations. If anyone has encountered a similar situation, especially a long-term hair lice infestation, and has found a practical and effective solution, we would greatly appreciate it if you could share your experience. Your advice could be immensely helpful in bringing some relief to her. Thank you in advance for any assistance you can provide. Disclaimer, The picture below is not her head.
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How True Is This Jumia Platform by infogenius(m): 6:35pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
It's most likely a scam even for the fact that jumiapay is not among the payment options there, na to run. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Like This? by infogenius(m): 6:30pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Jaybee3456: This is very funny if it is true. If this ever happens to me, then it's very likely she will not ride in that car for a very long time or not at all. Honestly! I am in that school of thought that if u don't support or exercise patience for a course, u no go enjoy the fruit it bears. 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: Women's World Cup: Super Falcons players plan boycott Over Allowances by infogenius(m): 11:42am On Jul 07, 2023 |
I perceive greed at play from the federation. 3 Likes |
TV/Movies / Re: You Remember The NTA Ladies Of The 1970-90s? by infogenius(m): 3:38pm On Jul 04, 2023 |
Tokumbo Ajayi"s demise is the one that hurts me more. Great times way back with these presenters 1 Like |
Health / Re: I'm 34 Years Old And I Bedwet. I Need Help Please by infogenius(m): 11:40am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Adeshi: It sounds like u're going through a tough time right now. I'm really sorry to hear that you're experiencing difficulty with bladder control Bed wetting, also known as nocturnal enuresis, it can be a distressing issue for adults. It's important to seek medical attention asap and an appointment made to see an urologist. While waiting to see an urologist, there are a few steps you can take to manage the condition: 1.Talk to ur partner: Let ur wife know what's going on and that you're doing everything you can to manage the issue. This can help ease her worries and keep the lines of communication open. 2. Maintain a consistent bathroom routine: Ensure to empty ur bladder before going to bed and limit fluids intake a few hours before bedtime. 3. Use absorbent products: u will need to start wearing absorbent underwear or using bed pads to protect ur mattress and bed sheets. 4. Monitor your diet: Avoid consuming caffeine, alcohol, and large amounts of fluids, especially before bedtime, as they can increase urine production within ur body. 5. Practice bladder training exercises: Strengthening ur bladder by gradually increasing the time between bathroom visits during the day can help train ur bladder to hold urine for longer periods. 6. Try moisture alarms: These devices can help wake u up when you start to urinate, allowing you to get up and use the bathroom. Over time, this can help condition ur body to recognize the sensation of a full bladder during sleep. 7. Kegel exercises: Strengthening your pelvic muscles can help control the flow of urine. Kegel exercises can be done at home and are shown to be effective in reducing the symptoms of incontinence. While u wait for your appointment with a urologist, it won't be out of place to consult with a primary care physician or a specialist in internal medicine or family medicine. He/she will evaluate your symptoms and provide guidance or recommend alternative treatments. Additionally, you can reach out to other urologists or healthcare providers in ur area to see if there are any earlier appointments available. Sometimes cancellations or other scheduling changes can create openings for earlier consultations. I wish u all the best sir 6 Likes |
Family / Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by infogenius(m): 3:44pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote] Yes I will over and over again. She’s one of a kind compared to the type of ladies wey dey outside now. Honestly, what is obtainable now can’t stand a chance to replace her. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Hurts More Than A Breakup? by infogenius(m): 1:55pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Breakups can certainly be painful, but there are other experiences that can also cause significant emotional pain. Some examples might include the loss of a loved one, betrayal by a trusted friend or family member, or experiencing trauma or abuse. The depth of emotional pain that someone feels after a breakup can vary depending on the individual and their personal circumstances. |
Family / Re: How Can I Turn My Life Around At 23 by infogenius(m): 1:38pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Purvan: I'm sorry u're going through such a difficult time. However, It's important to seek help immediately if u're experiencing suicidal thoughts or ideation. U can reach out to a helpline or a mental health professional for support. This u can easily find in ur university. Turning your life around may involve taking small steps towards improving your mental health and well-being. I can provide some suggestions: - Seek therapy or counseling to address the trauma u have experienced. This can help u process ur experiences and develop coping skills. - Focus on ur studies and try to make the most of ur time at university. Consider joining a club or group related to ur interests to meet new people and build connections. - Consider reaching out to old friends or family members to reconnect with them. - If you're interested in starting a romantic relationship, try dating apps or joining social activities to meet new people. - You can also consider moving out of ur parents' house if u feel like it's holding u back. Look into renting a room or finding a roommate to share an apartment with. - Start or improve ur relationship with Jesus. I can’t emphasize the kind of relative peace u’ll will experience. The relationship can be enhanced by studying and meditating on His Word and of course attend a Bible believing Church. And forget to PRAY Friend, kindly remember that life is full of ups and downs, and it's okay to ask for help when u're struggling. It takes time and effort to make changes, but taking small steps towards improving ur well-being can make a big difference in ur life in the long run. All the best |
Business / Re: The Top 10 Online Stores In Nigeria by infogenius(m): 1:03pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Olx no longer operates in Nigeria. Kindly update your records. You can replace that with jiji and wakanow |
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