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Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 10:00am On Oct 29, 2010

Plutarch:
Tnx ink n creamish. U both sound more as feminists. While i think u v your points i also bliv dat a guy's initial approach atimes will determine d lady's game. Raw guys n se.x hunters tend to get more girl than d church boys. I v overheard a lady telling her friend of not having s.ex wiv her marriage-bound born again bf n yet she carries as many guys as she like.
Dear any objection?

Objection? It depends. Is the boyfriend aware of her other relationships? Were they in an open relationship? Or was she just cheating on him? Where they exclusive as a couple?

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 9:54am On Oct 29, 2010

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=540898.msg7037327#msg7037327 date=1288341346]Inked, yes it takes two to tango, but how many women will boast of their sex escapades? Men and women are different. There are also some things that women can do that men will never get away with.

Most women always feel like they gave up something after a guy sleeps with them. Ever heard of the term giving it up, or putting out. Men are never asked to give it up or to put out. Why? Because you do not have to ask or beg or persuade a man to knack. Why are there more female hookers than male hookers? Most, if not all, men will sleep with a woman for free!

"He used me, after I gave him my body and my heart" is a song a lot of women sing after a relationship comes to a bitter end; do you think a man will ever say that? If any girl wants to use my body, she is free to do so, 24-7.

If you think about, sex is actually between two people(50-50), but pusssy is more glorified than the p.enis, hence our dilemma![/quote]You have a point but women today are becoming more aware of their sexuality and desires. Yes, you're right there are things that women do that men will never get away with can never, but I don't necessarily agree that most women feel like their gave something up. I will admit with some women there is a sense of [perhaps] regret but I don't necessarily think it applies to most women. Me for example, even if i don't like the guy, I don't feel as though I gave up something to him. Hmmm, you pointed out some things that are making me look at this convo from different angle. This may sound silly, but have you tried to think or look at this from the female perspective?

emymama:
i have a similar case Nerd, a gal i've been with for some yrs now wants me to do , to me it is too hard so i keep on controlling myself.

Hmmm, well I'm guessing your not ready to have s.ex with her?

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 9:28am On Oct 29, 2010

Plutarch:
@creamish,
U got me quite wrong. Am not arguing about how whorish is it to get a lady laid afta 3days but its just funny to me how a lady gives herself out quite cheaply 2 a guy who care less n makes ordinary communication difficult for d guy who seem honest n care more.
Dear any reason?

There really is no reason. A girl can who have s.ex with whoever she chooses whether she's know him or for two days or two years. It's all a matter of choice for some.

Computers › Re: Apple Vs Non-apple Computers by InkedNerd(op): 9:25am On Oct 29, 2010

da student:
i am using a 13inch mac book pro,may 2010.The effizy is cool and i like the fact that i am not plagued by viruses and it fits in my small bag so no one even knows what i am carrying.The mac osx software are just amazing.Installation of software only take a second(copy and paste into applications).screen wise,just think of a huge 13inch glossy iphone screen.the retina display,the camera.Its just generally sexy.the multitouch track pad is just awesome.Vm ware fusion lets you load windows as a program and delete it into trash in seconds.i can't shout anymore.

Yupp, Macs just feel way better. I miss my Mac cry

. Can't wait to get rid of this wor wor Windows thing angry

Food › Re: What Food Do You Miss Eating? by InkedNerd(op): 9:20am On Oct 29, 2010

Chai, your making me hungry. There are still some Nigerian foods that I eat but sometimes not having all the ingredients or substituting ingredients is annoying, especially if you can't get them right away. Can't wait to go back home cry

Romance › Re: Is Love Really Blind. by InkedNerd(f): 8:56am On Oct 29, 2010

Love is blind for those who aren't wearing their glasses

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 8:52am On Oct 29, 2010

shemdoe:
its funny coz that proves wat the poster has been sayin , inked your bf doesnt nail you then another man will

No it doesn't. He was referring to women and I was referring to men. And the guy I mentioned is not my boyfriend.

Creamish:
huurrayyy!!

. . . . im not surprised at dis . . a guy nails a chick on d 3rd day . . he gets praised n she gets d shame . . . like it wasnt both of u dat did it on d 3rd day? *sheesh!* no difference btw u n d chick as far as im concerned. If u think its whorish for her . .its d same for u.

Tell am!!! A lot of guys on NL seem to forget that it takes two to tango.

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 8:44am On Oct 29, 2010

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=540898.msg7037056#msg7037056 date=1288337928]Inked, do not jump to conclusions. I never said you said it was about your looks. I was simply hypothesizing. As for 'Animasaun', abeg no mind me. I always stupidly assume that all Nigerians can read and understand Yoruba. It means one who has and is not selfish.[/quote]lol, ok I see. Ok, I guess I learned a new word today wink

Romance › Re: We Can Fight Against Hatred With Love by InkedNerd(f): 8:30am On Oct 29, 2010

Nice one

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 8:12am On Oct 29, 2010

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=540898.msg7036915#msg7036915 date=1288335908]Inked, this is new for me. I don't it is about how you look, because even if you were the most hideous girl, guy go still wan knack; so, I must accept your story, but this is amazing.

Inked, I did not know that you live on Animasaun street. Most women I know actually like guys like that. Abeg, we need more women like you. women who accept us just the way we are grin

[/quote]lol, I never said it was about how I looked. Personally, I think I look fine. If he doesn't like my looks then he can go kicks rocks. Animasuan street? Please explain. I'm not saying I don't like him because he hasn't tried to get in my pants--I'm actually a lot closer with him because of the fact that I haven't had s.ex with him. He said he doesn't wanna have s.ex with me so I've already accepted that. I was just a little baffled in the beginning when he first told me. At some point in time I realized that me pressuring him into having s.ex would be no different than him pressuring me to have s.ex. We're still close and he still tells me about all the previous and present girls that he sleeps with.

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Computers › Re: Apple Vs Non-apple Computers by InkedNerd(op): 8:04am On Oct 29, 2010

@4llerbuntu: I'm not concerned about the price. As long as I have one while I'm in Naija then fine. LMAO @ the abomination, I know what you mean. My cousins were raised in Naija and the UK and I was talking to them about my old Mac and how much I preferred Macs and they pretty much gave me the PC version of what I said. It was an interesting convo grin

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@Double N: Cool, thanks for the link kiss

. I'll be sure to keep this place in mind when I go back to Naija. I was also thinking of just buying a Mac from here and sending it Naija. I just wasn't sure if I'd need a universal outlet. Idk if it worth all the trouble to buy one and ship it or buy one while in Naija.

@Ifedisky: Yes, I have used Windows as well. I've been using Apple products since I was in elementary school so I'm pretty much used to it. I'm studying advertising so its important for me to be able to know both systems. Majority of the work I will encounter in the advertising industry will involve me using a Mac. As for why I called it 'Apple' as opposed to 'Mac', it was to distinguish Apple from the other non-Windows companies. Sometime I say Mac, sometimes I say Apple. It just depends on the content of the convo and the exact product that I'm referring to.

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2010

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=540898.msg7036868#msg7036868 date=1288335176]Buhahahahaha. Inked_Nerd, I love you, but that is the funniest short story you have ever posted! Honey, men are vastly different from women. I have been in the position that guy you mentioned was. The reason I was not having sex with the girl was not because I did not want to, it was simply because she knew about my escapades and, consequently, I sort of slipped into the friend zone.

You think sey the guy no wan knack? Why don't you give a direct invitation and see if he will turn you down. Inked, the guy has missed his window of opportunity, but he wan knack o.[/quote]I already gave him a direct invitation. He told me that he wants to but that he won't do it. I've had this conversation with him at least three times now. I know about his sexual escapades and the girls that he's been with. I'm pretty sure I may have met a couple of the girls he's slept with too. The dude just won't budge. And what did you mean by 'story'? You think I made it up or something?

Romance › Re: Women And Their Complexities by InkedNerd(f): 7:53am On Oct 29, 2010

Hmmmm

Culture › Re: Eastern Chicks (mostly Ibo) Top The List Of Gay Women (lesbians) In 9ja: by InkedNerd(f): 7:52am On Oct 29, 2010

Ooooh, ok I see wink

Culture › Re: Eastern Chicks (mostly Ibo) Top The List Of Gay Women (lesbians) In 9ja: by InkedNerd(f): 7:48am On Oct 29, 2010

What's Hostel B and C? huh

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 7:41am On Oct 29, 2010

slap1:
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Nvm

Romance › Re: Ladies Are You Convinced By A Man's Tears? by InkedNerd(f): 7:39am On Oct 29, 2010

bawomolo:
so a man showing emotion is pathetic now? lol

I was wondering the same thing as well. People need to eradicate that ridiculous notion that men aren't supposed to cry. A lot of people think crying is sign of weakness and that only women cry. What they don't realize is that they're indirectly call women weak as well. Smh @ some people.

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 7:30am On Oct 29, 2010

slap1:
Nwa oma were nwayo, ugbu a wu ututu.

Hmmmm -__-

Family › Re: Cheating Wife Busted On Radio by InkedNerd(f): 7:26am On Oct 29, 2010

Hmmm, smh

Food › Re: What Food Do You Miss Eating? by InkedNerd(op): 7:21am On Oct 29, 2010

Phate07:

Ok. You have succeeded in thoroughly reminding me. It has been close to a year now since i last had one. Am getting me some ofe nsala soonest!

Eh ya, I'm sorry cry

. If it makes you feel better there are some foods I haven't tasted since I was a little kid and I miss those as well.

Romance › Re: Serious Question : Would U Leave ? by InkedNerd(f): 7:17am On Oct 29, 2010

Hmmm, idk

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 7:15am On Oct 29, 2010

abioila:
*cofs*dis chick self.

If you have a problem with my post you can go jump off a roof tongue

Fashion › Re: ***Hair For African Women*** by InkedNerd(f): 6:16am On Oct 29, 2010

SA Goddess:
My only problem is when coming to work, I just can't get the style right for some reason but otherwise I am good.

I am sure I am going to have many happy days with my hair but girl allow me to vent from time to time, it's not all smooth-sailing, this is new to me so I am sure you will understand why I get frustrated at times, but I appreciate that there are people walking me through this journey, it will definitely make it easier!

Hmmm, what style are you going for?

Romance › Re: U Give It Cheaply To One Guy And Do Long Shakara For D Other. Girls Why? by InkedNerd(f): 6:11am On Oct 29, 2010

@OP: What you said is no different from when a guy meets a girl and has s.ex with her on the same day while at the same time will take his time chattin' up another chick. I know guys that do that. One guy in particular that I know, I have known him for quite a while now and he has yet to have s.ex with me despite the fact that he's been talkin' to me for a while now while he hasn't had s.ex with me, he goes around sleepin' with other girls. In fact one time, I asked him why he as s.ex with with other girls and not me and he looked at me and said "Idk, I guess its because I don't actually care about any of those girls. Your a nice girl and I don't wanna hurt you and have you end up in the same category as them". At that point all I could do was just look at him like this >>> shocked

Celebrities › Re: Nigeria Contestant In Mr World; Is This A Joke? by InkedNerd(f): 5:54am On Oct 29, 2010

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=536687.msg7036426#msg7036426 date=1288323535]^^^ He looks like one of them NL clowns. i.e bk.babe97[/quote]looool, chai.

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