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Uclloyd28:lol, I'm not saying I haven't been in a relationship. I'm just saying I haven't been in an open relationship before. Give me your e-mail address and I'll send you an e-mail. |
Vic2k3:Hehehe |
Go meet other men--Without wife and kid of course, get a hobby, buy a dog. Just do something else to occupy your time. |
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=521291.msg6834395#msg6834395 date=1285655966]Nairaland gurls order of preference is so much that they even refuse dating brad pitt's like me Esp the tpiah's,-,queeneva-,tink_sh,-Jennycandy,-madladies and inkerdnerd[/quote]lmao, Brad Pitt for where? |
Uclloyd28:Thank you. I'm always happy to help . No, I'm not in a relationship. I'm just open to love of all forms. I always try to look at life from different perspectives. If you have any other questions about it, feel free to ask . |
And exactly what was said in this argument? Can you please provide a back story to this post? |
"The APL Song" by Black Eyed Peas & "El Kilo" by Orishas Makes me think of Nigeria. The first song makes me cry |
Hmmm, interesting. |
Uclloyd28:It depends. If you're in a solid relationship then yes. If not then no. The reason I say no is because the present status of the relationship is a bit rocky so it may actually make things worse. There's a possibility that it may bring you two closer. You'd really need to sit down and evaluate things before you make the decision to get involved in an open relationship. It's nice that your open minded though . |
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You'll probably have to wait till it wears off. The same thing happened to me a while back. |
Uclloyd28:lol, I wasn't advising you to get involved in an open relationship. I asked if you have considered it. It doesn't always work for everyone though. Does it sound like something you might be interested in? |
Hmmm, interesting. Kinda seems like a slap in the face for your friend but if you wanna do it then that's on you . |
Ok, an open relationship is essentially having your cake and eating it too, romantically speaking. When two people agree to be in an open relationship, they admit they love and care about each other but mutually agree that they want to see other people too. Oftentimes those in an open relationship consider themselves to be in love with each other, but they can have lesser attachments and sexual relationships outside of their main love interest without any ill effects on their primary relationship. By the way, I have no idea what an SSS site is. I had a friend who was in an open relationship with a girl due to the fact that they were in a long distance relationship. |
12large:If we're getting good sexual vibes from one another then yes. |
Osama10:Well, its two different sensations. Vaginal intercourse isn't the same masturbation. The sexual goals are the same--to have an orgasm/climax but its different [I suppose]. Both vaginal s.ex and m.asturbation provide simliar yet different sensations which varies from women to women. Uclloyd28:Well first of all, do you know what an open relationship is? |
Uclloyd28:lol, like I said before men do the same thing. Its no different. |
Uclloyd28:Stop using girls in such a general manner. We're not all the same. Just because your down on your luck relationship wise doesn't mean you need to become a player. If I let every damn fool that pissed me off get the best of me, wouldn't I be a bitter woman? Of course I would, but I'm not. I refuse to let the minority ruin it for the majority. Hmmm, have you considered an open relationship? By the way Osama10, I'm waiting for you to rephrase your question. |
12large:Hehehe, "conversating" isn't a word. Personally, I think you need to be honest with 'em and tell 'em what you want. I had a guy who was straight forward with me about what he wanted and I was cool with it. Keep in mind though, each girl is different. |
Osama10:What do you mean? Please specify. ![]() |
Uclloyd28:Well, all I can suggest is m.asturbation but that can only do so much. Some girls really enjoy m.asturbating and some don't. For some its nothing close to the real thing. |
Uclloyd28:lmao, the same reason men go crazy for the punanny. There are man who will have s.ex with anything that's got a v.agina. Your question isn't just limited to women. We as human beings are sexual creatures. People have needs--Some more than others. There are those who can't live with s.ex and there are those who can. Its all about needs and desires. No two people are the same when it comes to s.ex. |
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=521103.msg6832318#msg6832318 date=1285616331]Don't be partial ,d man knows what he wants. [/quote]Oh please ![]() |
What are you talking about? Are we all like that? Have you met all of the girls on Nairaland? I understand that you're hurt but please don't take it out on us. Besides, there are men on Nairaland that do the exact same thing that you say. |
Uclloyd28:I don't really understand your question. What's IBB and OBJ? Can you please reformat the question? |
Uclloyd28:I understand what your saying. You can forgive her but it doesn't mean you need to forget it. I never believed in the whole "forgive and forget" bit because when someone cheats on you, the memory will always be in the back of your mind. Ultimately the decision is up to you. At times in life, you need to take a chance with certain things. If you giver her another chance and she messes up then I suggest you ditch her. I think you also need to talk to her about her the the s.ex aspect of your relationship. I understand that sexual satisfaction plays a role in a relationship but if she needs to step outside of the relationship for s.ex due to distance then you two need to talk. Communication is key is a matter like this. Her stepping outside of the relationship rather than talking to you about the lack of s.ex due to distance was an act of selfishness on her part. |
lol, you two dey make me laugh. Please don't argue and stick to the topic ![]() |
Uclloyd28:Hmmm, I suppose you can give it another go if you really want her back or if you feel that she has changed. I personally, would never go back to a cheater but everyone is different. You need to ask yourself some things though. If/when you take her back do you think you'll be able to look past the fact that she cheated on you? Often times I see people who get cheated on and later on in the relationship during some random argument they bring it up in the argument they try to throw it back in their partners face. I hope you don't mind me asking, but what was it that caused or lead her to go astray from the 5yr relationship? Osama10:Not necessarily. There are people who actually learn their lesson. Its not always certain. |
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Are you in an open relationship
cause you seem to know alot about it
