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RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 8:17am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
No relationship shocked, really and you seem to know much about relationship, I have loads of questions if i may warn, but i gatta go to work now. Lemme have your skype or Ymessenger id, that's if you dont mind
lol, I'm not saying I haven't been in a relationship. I'm just saying I haven't been in an open relationship before. Give me your e-mail address and I'll send you an e-mail.
RomanceRe: Nairaland Girls Need To Be Skooled On What Love Is by InkedNerd(f): 8:07am On Sep 28, 2010
Vic2k3:
MEHN ike ikwu okwu gbasara ihea agwu la mụ undecided
Hehehe
RomanceRe: I Need Your Words Please: by InkedNerd(f): 8:02am On Sep 28, 2010
Go meet other men--Without wife and kid of course, get a hobby, buy a dog. Just do something else to occupy your time.
RomanceRe: Nairaland Girls Need To Be Skooled On What Love Is by InkedNerd(f): 7:50am On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=521291.msg6834395#msg6834395 date=1285655966]Nairaland gurls order of preference is so much that they even refuse dating brad pitt's like me

Esp the tpiah's,-,queeneva-,tink_sh,-Jennycandy,-madladies and inkerdnerd
[/quote]lmao, Brad Pitt for where?
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 7:47am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
Ok, thanks so very much for taking your time to skool me. You are also open minded too, that's commendable too wink Are you in an open relationshiphuh cause you seem to know alot about it
Thank you. I'm always happy to help wink. No, I'm not in a relationship. I'm just open to love of all forms. I always try to look at life from different perspectives. If you have any other questions about it, feel free to ask wink.
CrimeRe: settlnnnnnnnnnnnnn by InkedNerd(f): 7:43am On Sep 28, 2010
And exactly what was said in this argument? Can you please provide a back story to this post?
Music/RadioRe: Which Song Is Playing In Your Head At This Moment by InkedNerd(f): 7:15am On Sep 28, 2010
"The APL Song" by Black Eyed Peas & "El Kilo" by Orishas

Makes me think of Nigeria. The first song makes me cry cry
FamilyRe: Is Chisom Only A Female Name Or Both Sexes? by InkedNerd(f): 7:11am On Sep 28, 2010
Hmmm, interesting.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 7:08am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
Yeah, i really need to widen my horizon, hope it's advisablehuh
It depends. If you're in a solid relationship then yes. If not then no. The reason I say no is because the present status of the relationship is a bit rocky so it may actually make things worse. There's a possibility that it may bring you two closer. You'd really need to sit down and evaluate things before you make the decision to get involved in an open relationship. It's nice that your open minded though wink.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! I'm Tripping For Inked_nerd! by InkedNerd(f): 7:00am On Sep 28, 2010
ice234:
thanks am back now
wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: Urgent Pls: What Do U Do When Your Posting Privileges Is Revoked? by InkedNerd(f): 6:59am On Sep 28, 2010
You'll probably have to wait till it wears off. The same thing happened to me a while back.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 6:53am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
SSS means [b]S[/b]ingle and [b]S[/b]eriously [b]S[/b]earching But this can't be said to be love. So, you advice rather than one being a playa, one should have an open relationship, righthuh Whyhuh
lol, I wasn't advising you to get involved in an open relationship. I asked if you have considered it. It doesn't always work for everyone though. Does it sound like something you might be interested in?
RomanceRe: I Slept With My Best Friends Sis by InkedNerd(f): 6:51am On Sep 28, 2010
Hmmm, interesting. Kinda seems like a slap in the face for your friend but if you wanna do it then that's on you undecided.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 6:38am On Sep 28, 2010
Ok, an open relationship is essentially having your cake and eating it too, romantically speaking. When two people agree to be in an open relationship, they admit they love and care about each other but mutually agree that they want to see other people too. Oftentimes those in an open relationship consider themselves to be in love with each other, but they can have lesser attachments and sexual relationships outside of their main love interest without any ill effects on their primary relationship. By the way, I have no idea what an SSS site is. I had a friend who was in an open relationship with a girl due to the fact that they were in a long distance relationship.
RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 6:12am On Sep 28, 2010
12large:
yea cnversating as in 'hi', whats up and so on. but am talking about taking it to the next level. inke so as a naija girl if i tell you after meeting u for 2week's aye i want to sleep with you, would you ever talk to me again
If we're getting good sexual vibes from one another then yes.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 6:07am On Sep 28, 2010
Osama10:
I was referring to your last sentence.
Well, its two different sensations. Vaginal intercourse isn't the same masturbation. The sexual goals are the same--to have an orgasm/climax but its different [I suppose]. Both vaginal s.ex and m.asturbation provide simliar yet different sensations which varies from women to women.

Uclloyd28:
No, truth be told, i don't know hows is done or even what it entails, Plz throw more light on that
Well first of all, do you know what an open relationship is?
RomanceRe: Nairaland Girls Need To Be Skooled On What Love Is by InkedNerd(f): 5:56am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
no, not at all, not tryna vent my anger on any body. check this topic https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=5154.msg6833986#msg6833986, you will understand.
lol, like I said before men do the same thing. Its no different.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 5:52am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
My ex will refused my even suggesting that, talk more of her doing it. Why can't one have a true girl when he's out to be real and faithfulhuh When i switch on my playaz button, dem good girls will start flooding, why are good girls always humming with the bad guyshuh?
Stop using girls in such a general manner. We're not all the same. Just because your down on your luck relationship wise doesn't mean you need to become a player. If I let every damn fool that pissed me off get the best of me, wouldn't I be a bitter woman? Of course I would, but I'm not. I refuse to let the minority ruin it for the majority. Hmmm, have you considered an open relationship?

By the way Osama10, I'm waiting for you to rephrase your question.

RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 5:45am On Sep 28, 2010
12large:
book number is easy men, anybody can give you his or her number but after conversating how do you tell her u want sex
Hehehe, "conversating" isn't a word. Personally, I think you need to be honest with 'em and tell 'em what you want. I had a guy who was straight forward with me about what he wanted and I was cool with it. Keep in mind though, each girl is different.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 5:41am On Sep 28, 2010
Osama10:
And for you what is it? cheesy
What do you mean? Please specify. huh
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 5:35am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
I know s.ex desires are strong. From a girls point of view, what can a girl do when she's way too Hot and the guy is not aroundhuh answer that bearing in mind she loves having s.ex plz
Well, all I can suggest is m.asturbation but that can only do so much. Some girls really enjoy m.asturbating and some don't. For some its nothing close to the real thing.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 5:25am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
lemme ask you, why is it that some girls go gaga once they've had se.x and will spread their legs for every manliness n Harryhuh Dose se.x control women like that muchhuh
lmao, the same reason men go crazy for the punanny. There are man who will have s.ex with anything that's got a v.agina. Your question isn't just limited to women. We as human beings are sexual creatures. People have needs--Some more than others. There are those who can't live with s.ex and there are those who can. Its all about needs and desires. No two people are the same when it comes to s.ex.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Not Obedient To Me. by InkedNerd(f): 5:16am On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=521103.msg6832318#msg6832318 date=1285616331]Don't be partial grin grin grin grin grin,d man knows what he wants. grin grin grin grin[/quote]
Oh please
tongue wink
RomanceRe: Nairaland Girls Need To Be Skooled On What Love Is by InkedNerd(f): 5:14am On Sep 28, 2010
What are you talking about? Are we all like that? Have you met all of the girls on Nairaland? I understand that you're hurt but please don't take it out on us. Besides, there are men on Nairaland that do the exact same thing that you say.
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 5:10am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
lemme ask you, why is it that some girls go gaga once they've had se.x and we spread their legs for every IBB n OBJhuh Is Se.x that strong om womenhuh
I don't really understand your question. What's IBB and OBJ? Can you please reformat the question?
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 4:37am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
We once lived far from each other, so she had sex with another dude during our 2nd yr, evidently, it was sex, no feelings. her defense, she couldn't handle sex drives as we had sex daily then, Me i found it hard forgetting back then, so the cheat ugly picture lingered and i had to break up three years later, but now, i believe u have gone pass the bad feelings, but you know, Once beating twice shy

In the 8 months we broke up, she swore with a bible too to wait for me, no matter the time frame, she said i will come back to her cause we were meant for each other. I like the current girl, no doubt, But i have a feeling these words will slap me soon, The Devil Who Know Is Better Than The Angel You Barely Know (pardon me if the saying is wrong o)
I understand what your saying. You can forgive her but it doesn't mean you need to forget it. I never believed in the whole "forgive and forget" bit because when someone cheats on you, the memory will always be in the back of your mind. Ultimately the decision is up to you. At times in life, you need to take a chance with certain things. If you giver her another chance and she messes up then I suggest you ditch her. I think you also need to talk to her about her the the s.ex aspect of your relationship. I understand that sexual satisfaction plays a role in a relationship but if she needs to step outside of the relationship for s.ex due to distance then you two need to talk. Communication is key is a matter like this. Her stepping outside of the relationship rather than talking to you about the lack of s.ex due to distance was an act of selfishness on her part.
RomanceRe: Why So Much Hating On Naija Babes! by InkedNerd(f): 4:11am On Sep 28, 2010
lol, you two dey make me laugh. Please don't argue and stick to the topic wink
RomanceRe: Is This Normal? by InkedNerd(f): 4:03am On Sep 28, 2010
Uclloyd28:
I really love my Ex, she swore with the Bible never to go back to what caused our break up, She sounds changed to me, We dated for Five years, and one thing i love about her is her ability to tolerant me, Am very stubborn and too demanding, She handled me for Five years, Her Flaw was that She Cheated, My People Of 9Town, Is this Reasonable and wise huh


And Secondly, I dated another girl for 6months and she barely tolerant me, But her good side is that shes caring and has the right words to say when you need them the most, Her Flaw, She behaves holy than thou, and she puts her friends before me, which my EX never did

Please MAKE UNA ADVICE THIS IBO BOI cool
Hmmm, I suppose you can give it another go if you really want her back or if you feel that she has changed. I personally, would never go back to a cheater but everyone is different. You need to ask yourself some things though. If/when you take her back do you think you'll be able to look past the fact that she cheated on you? Often times I see people who get cheated on and later on in the relationship during some random argument they bring it up in the argument they try to throw it back in their partners face. I hope you don't mind me asking, but what was it that caused or lead her to go astray from the 5yr relationship?

Osama10:
Once a cheat always a cheat so you decide.
Not necessarily. There are people who actually learn their lesson. Its not always certain.

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