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RomanceRe: Times He/she Stand Up For You Or Did Not Stand Up For You? by InkedNerd(f): 7:07pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=520282.msg6838649#msg6838649 date=1285696826]Geeez, u had to give me a history lesson, huh? The point is I was right, bow down! wink

Anyways, lets cut to the chase. . . . when Ima hit that? Thats the point of all this convo, right?[/quote]Sorry, but I had to school ya. I didn't get involved in policy debate just so I can let it go to waste. And no you ya can't hit that. I may be open about my sexuality but it doesn't mean I'll let anyone do me. Oh by the way, I bow down to now man cool. Its genetically impossible for me to do that grin.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! I'm Tripping For Inked_nerd! by InkedNerd(f): 7:03pm On Sep 28, 2010
Vic2k3:
inked are u there?
Yes, I'm here.

1759:
Pierced how is the merger and acquisition going? Are you closer to signing a deal?
lol, there's no merger, acquisition, or signing of any deal.
RomanceRe: Does Love Mater In A Relationship When Money Is There by InkedNerd(f): 6:58pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=520037.msg6838552#msg6838552 date=1285695982]utter rubbish that is bull droppings and bull crap![/quote]Yeah like that face of yours tongue
RomanceRe: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 6:54pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=519715.msg6838527#msg6838527 date=1285695825][size=14pt]
African culture permits us to cheat thats why we MEN can marry as many wives as possible

This guy in question is only following african culture @ a very early stage, so its not news for him 2 cheat

@least he even loves the poster in question and used a condom

(we men are allowed to cheat but african women arent allowed to) grin grin
[/quote]You misogynistic chavanist little pig!!! Keep prancing around here with that pseudo manhood of yours. Your using that as an excuse?!?! You truly disgust me--You and many other men on this romance forum.  You all complain about women doing you wrong yet here you are rearing you ugly little chavanistic head in here. And you have the  audacity to sit here an defend your idiotic ways. Now if someone had done this to your daughter or even your sister, how would you feel? At this point, I really don't care if any of you think I'm a raging feminist. All this double standard female bashing is ridiculous. You all would have been cheering and supporting the guy if it was the other way around.
CrimeRe: settlnnnnnnnnnnnnn by InkedNerd(f): 6:44pm On Sep 28, 2010
Outstrip:
People seem to forget that the same lax laws in Nigeria that may protect an abusive woman might also benefit the woman if she decides to have him beaten within an inch of his life. Be careful what you wish for. The only thing that we can prove from what he says here is that he does not respect her and she does not respect him. He is quick to talk about how he brought her from that dreadful evil country Nigeria and brought her to the American promised land and therefore how can she just slap him. If I had to listen to a man talk about how he saved me every single day I might have to slap him too.
Coming here and talking about how he brought her here so that everybody can start talking about how ungrateful all these young desperate Nigerian girls can be says a lot about you. I personally hate hitting of any kind. It does not matter if it comes from the husband or the wife. I hate verbal and emotional abuse even more. In my opinion it is even worse that physical abuse in some cases.
Good points. Abuse of all forms is wrong.
RomanceRe: 99 Per Cent Of Africa Girls with Big Stomach by InkedNerd(f): 6:40pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=519878.msg6838492#msg6838492 date=1285695497]Hw can a female be NL male love-peddler grin[/quote]Ya wanna know how, I'll tell you how--It because we can see through your he-she façade grin.
RomanceRe: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 6:37pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=--190-- link=topic=519715.msg6838475#msg6838475 date=1285695338]WHETHER THE GUY CHEATED OR NOT

IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE,

WHAT MATTERS MOST IS HE USED A CONDOM
[/quote]If he is cheating, he shouldn't have been doing it in the first place!!! Don't make it seem like he did her a favor by using a damn condom.
RomanceRe: Does Love Mater In A Relationship When Money Is There by InkedNerd(f): 6:32pm On Sep 28, 2010
Tosinville:
Poster,

You are already know nigerian girls loves money more than any other thing so i do not except any question like this on NL so don't let any girl pretend to u on here if find love so important.

Look, Nigerian girls will date monkeys if MONEY grows on trees.
And if punanny was hellfire you'd all go up in flames grin.
CrimeRe: settlnnnnnnnnnnnnn by InkedNerd(f): 6:08pm On Sep 28, 2010
ZIM DRILL:
got a solution for you plan your holiday to nigeria once you land whop the shi/t of her and give her the phone 911

she slap you becoz she knows how the system works in US
Oh so you like advocating domestic violence eh? I'm not gonna lie, she shouldn't have put her hands on him but your solution isn't good. That can escelate to more violence within the relationship. No wonder there some much domestic abuse in Nigeria. Neither one of them has the right to put their hands on the other.
FoodRe: Why You Shouldnt Eat Bread In The Uk. by InkedNerd(f): 5:57pm On Sep 28, 2010
Ewwwwwww, omg. Grossssss. Omg, and I eat a lot of bread. Thank God I was picky about the bread I ate when I was in the UK grin. I'm sure its just a mistake. Could have happened in any country. Its still gross though tongue.
RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 5:56pm On Sep 28, 2010
kokoye:
Decades ago, when it was the same way in England and the South of the U.S . . would you say women were hated in the west back then as well?

I wouldnt use the word 'HATE' . . just some conservative culture (originated by the west of course) that some are still holding on to . .maybe for selfish reasons.
I'm not saying that the behavior is native to Nigeria. It happens all over the world. Both in the past and present day. Often times things are shrouded with words like "tradition" or "conservative", in reality all it is a disguise.

Olami099:
what does it mean?
It means my brother.
RomanceRe: Why So Much Hating On Naija Babes! by InkedNerd(f): 5:40pm On Sep 28, 2010
lol, how you dey now?
FamilyRe: He Found Out Dat All His Children Isnt His Except: by InkedNerd(f): 5:37pm On Sep 28, 2010
KAYD007:
@ inkked nerd>
at this stage of the relationship, there's nothing to work on angry
and i take offence at your statement that ( ., or separate if its too much for him to bare)
which reasonable man in the right frame of mind will not find such "too much to bear"
you make it sounds as if the man shld just shrug it off, ohh darling, sweeti, no problem its just one of those things. abi?
Take offense to whatever the hell you want. There are some men who do over look things like that. So if you have a problem with my comment then you can go jump off a cliff. If you want let your head explode with anger. You act as though I've done something to you. Get over yourself. Besides, did you not notice that there are other children involved? The poster stated that one child was the matter of this discussion, not all six.

Madukaele:
his first son out of 6 kids , i belive he was conceived during honey moon, D guy is on fire now as am writing dis, guys whats your advice. if u r my neighbor will u kill your wife? funny thing is sh said it was d devil but no wan say who b d children papa. DEVIL MAY backside
Had it only been that child I would have said for them to seperate but there are other children in this equation. Redirect your anger somewhere else because I haven't done anything to you. Just because you wouldn't ovewr look something like that doesn't man that another man wouldn't either. Everyone is different.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 5:25pm On Sep 28, 2010
Eh ya, I miss the British summer.
RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 5:22pm On Sep 28, 2010
kokoye:
Do you really believe women are hated in Nigeria?
At time yes. No one ever wants to admit it, but its true. There are elements of misogyny within Nigeria [and many other African] culures.

sansiro:
@Inked_Nerd , SUPURUM OYIBO, NWANNEM, LOVE your VOCABS.
Nwannem nwoke, thank you wink
RomanceRe: Times He/she Stand Up For You Or Did Not Stand Up For You? by InkedNerd(f): 5:16pm On Sep 28, 2010
Ok, I got it wink
RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 5:10pm On Sep 28, 2010
kokoye:
Na you speak big grammar so na you go explain am

misogynis . . . kini?

grin
Misogyny is aversion to or hatred of women. To get a better idea of what it is, take a li=ook at this link>>> tp://www.wordiq.com/definition/Misogyny
RomanceRe: Times He/she Stand Up For You Or Did Not Stand Up For You? by InkedNerd(f): 4:53pm On Sep 28, 2010
I sent you an e-mail yesterday.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! I'm Tripping For Inked_nerd! by InkedNerd(f): 4:53pm On Sep 28, 2010
Vic2k3:
@Inked. Sure, so how do we meet up? wink
Ummm, on YIM I guess.

daduke2k:
U guyz been on yim? Its gud if u knw her berra . Am held up now would have done dat since. *sad face*
Nah, we're not on YIM [yet]. What are you help up by? Been busy latetly?
RomanceRe: Please How To Do Tell A Girl That You Want intimacy by InkedNerd(f): 4:44pm On Sep 28, 2010
kokoye:
Straightforward ke? na dirty slap be dat o
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Are you sure you are Nigerian . . or ever lived in Naija? because most naija babes do not have this level of confidence. Blame it on our silly culture of pretence.

I'm trippin for you oooooooooooooo
Yes, I am Nigerian. Due to a lot of sexist and misogynistic beliefs towards women in Nigeria, the opness of female sexuality in Nigeria tends to be frowned upon. I have no inhibitions when it comes to my s.ex and my sexuality. Abeg o, no trip lol.
RomanceRe: Times He/she Stand Up For You Or Did Not Stand Up For You? by InkedNerd(f): 4:39pm On Sep 28, 2010
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=520282.msg6837512#msg6837512 date=1285687084]Didnt I say ure a "typical Nigerian" cus u love to argue unnecessarily? Mexico is North-Central America. Depending on how ure describing the surrounding areas u can either describe Mexico as North or Central America; sorta like how Eastern Nigeria becomes Southern Nigeria depending on what region u r describing in relation to it. . . . didnt your Mexican bf's teach u this?[/quote]Excuse me, I know what I'm talking about. The only reason the term "Cnetral Amerca" was coined was because the North American goverment [specifically speaking; the United States], wanted to differenciate themselves from those of the the lower geographical region so stop making it seem like I just lost my mind and have no idea what I'm saying. And when I say differenciate, I don't mean because of the lower regions speaks Spanish. It was done my means of xenophobic beliefs and fears. And why are you referring to me as the "typical Nigerian?" You know nothing of who I am and I highly doubt that you've met every Nigerian to make such a comment.
FamilyRe: He Found Out Dat All His Children Isnt His Except: by InkedNerd(f): 4:29pm On Sep 28, 2010
Why the hell would he kill her? Did anyone ask him to play judge and jury? Tell him to go get some DNA testing done. Sounds like they both need to work on their relationship or seperate if its too much for him to bare.
RomanceRe: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 4:18pm On Sep 28, 2010
lyndadev:
Let me ask you one question and i need a direct answer.
Do you still believe the guy is cheating based on the BAG of condom found in his car assuming all other factors remain constant(he's still caring,loving,does not show other signs of a cheating partner)
First of, they weren't in abag. Second, based on the information the poster provided about how free condoms are distibuted and the type of condoms that they were, it seems as though he he might be cheating. Unfortunately for her, there is no sure way to tell. He can remain caring, loving, and not show other signs of a cheating partner but actually be cheating. Do people not put up façades in front of others? She may never really know the truth. There's a posibility that he's telling the truth anfd leaving the condoms might have slipped his mind. I mean, how many clinics do you know that give expensive condoms like that? [Just a thought]. He may be lying he may be telling the truth. That's why I said that is if she stays in the relationship then then she runs the risk of him cheating again [if he is actually cheating] and if she leaves well, then she can find someone better. Yes, I know there's also a possiblity that if she leaves and he actually wasn't cheating then she'd be assed out but its just something she needs to think about and keep in mind before she goes further. Indeed it would be sad if she left him only to find out later on that he was telling the truth but I guess its just a risk she'll have to take. There are people here telling her that she should be happy that he's using protection, I mean c'mon are you kidding me?!?! Would any of these guys be happy if their girlfriends were cheating on them? I highly doubt that they'd sit there and say "Oh well, I should be grateful that she's using protections" If the shoe were on the other foot they would have told the dude to dump her ASAP.
RomanceRe: Urgent Advice Needed by InkedNerd(f): 3:49pm On Sep 28, 2010
There really isn't much you can do except get over it and move on. I mean if they really are in love then what are you gonna do--try to break 'em up? If you feel betrayed by your friend and can't trust him anymore then I suggest you not be friends anymore. As for the girl, she's already made her decision, so leave her be. Let the two of them run off into the sunset. Your time will come. Don't let a minor setback like this get you down.
RomanceRe: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 3:45pm On Sep 28, 2010
Top9jajamz:
Are you all kidding me? First off,i'm disappointed by d analytical skills of queeneve,d porter,inked_nerd on this particular case.lets reason from d 'cheating' guy's respective.if i were him i wouldn't put a BAG of condom where d porter gf can easily find it and if i'll be that careless,i'll put it under the drivers seat or better still in d boot of d car where i keep simple mechanical instruments and it wouldn't be a bag but just 2 or 3 for each episode and i'll replenish as necessary.the reason he probably left them in d car is because he has no need for them in d house cos you guys do it 'skin to skin'.i believe he was given d box of cd's and he had to leave wit it cos obviously he couldn't leave them in his office desk so he had to take 'em to his car and thats where he 4got 'em until u d poster, i'll be frank wit u woman.your man might be cheating but dis condom has little or no connection and cannot be used as 'evidence' so if u insist u must catch him,look for clues elsewhere but my advice is u forget dis incident and move on.don't throw away what u have because off a lil suspicion.work on your insecurity.enuff said!
Be disapointed in me all you like. I said what I needed to say. Besides, just because you wouldn't be s.tupid enough to leave condoms out in the open doesn't mean that another man do the same. Did you not see that I said that perhaps it slipped his mind?
RomanceRe: 2 B Faithful Is It A Crime by InkedNerd(f): 11:24am On Sep 28, 2010
Spyker:
Have you not seen mothers who advise their children wrongly? Don't you see mothers who love one child more than the other and who do anything for the child they love most? I said only GOD deserves 100% trust and I won't change my statement. I trust my mother always but I reserve 100% for my God, it is only God that can make me trust my fellow human being without having reservations about that person.
Ok whaever undecided tongue
RomanceRe: What Is Love? by InkedNerd(f): 11:17am On Sep 28, 2010
seunbanme:
Love is a gamble,
Sex is a game,
Boyz do the thing
Girls get the blame,
1 night in pleasure
, 9 months of pain
1 day in hospital and
a junior needs a name
Nice poem kiss kiss kiss

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