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Teepy0392:
Fcda?

you wrote fcda and left . What do you have in mind. Do you mean it is a good place to work?

badmajor:
conrais pays 101K for level 7. And that level 7 is 8 in ministry.

even with the new minimum wage sequential, level 8 does not earn up to 80k per month

NigeriaBam:
Before Minimum Wage was #51k

No. it was something like 57

frank417:
Thought the same, but i called someone working there and he confirmed it is not up to 50k take home salary

its not true. It is more than 50k

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Those kind of men are not easy to come by

sundayolowo:
190k

the school fees has really skyrocketed

Who is mark? Funny boy

AkandeJoseph99:
She just called me now that she's been worried because she didn't see my call today that hope I'm good. But she didn't allow much talk as usual.

Just watch as the movie plays. She may be testing your love rate. Besides, she may be playing hard to get using what relationship experts call "reverse psychology"

Honestly, with all due respect, where did you conduct your research, and how many people who have married 10 years and over have you interviewed before coming up with this conclusion?

Gisbourne44:
Pls someone help me.. Is the form still on sale?

Have been waiting for this for a long time only to miss it?���

The site is still opening. Be fast if you still have interest

Genea:
If you are doing wedding for 200k, that means you are broke, how then do you intend on catering for your family

Honestly, that's the truth.He should work and hustle for more money

Late Dr Myles Munroe said "if people want to leave you, let them leave, your destiny is not tied to anyone that left". Get the message

But somebody at the peak of his career as you said, should be buoyant financially. Why the complain?

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Your writing is so coherent. Good writing skills you've got. You said this man of yours has changed very well of late. It means he has his own good sides too.Still put great eyes on him to differentiate between when something is faked or when it is real. For now , cheers!

Who has scored an average of 220 so far?

Is this not a repeat of Romeo and Juliet?

So somebody will study medicine or engineering and still needs pgde to teach those scientific/ technical stuff. So he is saying u need a pgde to perform surgery. He is ignorant

Please what subjects areas are engineering students going to be assessed from. Is it physics, chemistry, mathematics & english? Besides, is the use of calculator allowed?

umarjatto1984:
Pls who can assist me with the list of Msc. Accounting and finance? Very urgent

go to the PG School(MIS) they will show you the list even if it has not been uploaded

hibrahim:
Please is the list for pgd mechanical engineering list out? And how can I check my name?

go to the department and ask for Engr Ibrahim the PG coordinator for Engineering and for Mechanical Engineering as well

georgedaniel01:
I have been admitted....M. Chemical Engineering

did u check online or you went to the department

Kelklein:
..and also endeavor to submit your Application form to the PG school if you haven't done so already..especially if you applied late..

They are still accepting the forms..

True

I was at my H.O.D's office yesterday afternoon. He told those still expecting their names to check through their phones or use laptop to do so. He said the PG school is still uploading the names that the department sent to them. He said if you check and didn'nt see ur name, probably it has not been uploaded

Success2407:
please which department is it. please post the picture if possible. thanks

you may have to visit the school yourself as seeing, they say, is believing

I strolled into my department to see for myself. The first list was already pasted. Uniabuja has poor information platform. I was surprised to say the least

The list is far from being released as it must be sent to the departments again for admission shortlisting before being returned back to PG school

iTearHerToto:
Being the only son in the family, my mother understandably also put me under pressure, that her time is almost up in this world and she would want to see me bear children before her final exit. That was the pressure that pushed me into getting married before my NYSC. We got married soon after and look forward to a happy family with our kids. But we both agree that she will not “take in” until after my service year”


I don't understand Why not just wait and marry her after service since you didn't want her pregnant then? Or why not get her pregnant since you were already on pressure before going for service Now the story doesn't sound like you were being pressed.

Plus you left a Hoe her starving all months and couldn't allow a Hoe her to visit you for once to get her punnna fed and warmed up. Something that you can rent a hotel for just a night and the story might have been different. Or you so broke you can't afford 3k to lodge per night?? Oh don't tell me you forgot she's a Hoe woman. Why Audu Why

Anyways

Lemme just say your friend understood your old momma's plight better than you did and decided to help. Your friend mike should be awarded unless you want thunder to strike you for not being grateful

Pukes

u are correct, he could av been allowing the wife to be visiting him on a regular basis. He cant say he couldn't afford 2500 or 3000 to lodge the wife in a cheap guest inn around where he was serving considering it was still a new marriage. He could av looked for where she should av done her I.T there at Osun, which was very possible. I guess she was kind of lonely. Besides, she must av thought her husband was cheating on her over there. It is painful but the both of them is to blame on this issue, leave mike alone.

Flowkeyyyyy:
pls wen is the list to be out?

you will surely know when the list is ready

I was in the PG school yesterday to make submission. Honestly many people are not aware of this development and will miss admission if they dont submit their registration form- the one with embossed photo, specially those in far away states who are only expecting to check their names online.

igweGC:
Please Help, I want to apply for Masters program in Uni Abuja...is it too late? Are forms still on sale?

This thread has been so boring, everyday they will Say add me on whatsapp group. Is it whatsapp we came to this platform to achieve? I finished my first degree from Uniabuja and still get first hand information. For now, printed forms of the applicants had been sent to their various departments for shortlisting. It would later be sent back to PG school for final consideration and addition of names. I got this information from the current H.O.D of my department.