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Reiyvinn:
Last Bullet:

Hoes will be hoes u give them attention, love, money, family,
security, loyalty, gifts and send them sweet messages
everyday but that is never enough lol they go cheat on you
with an idiot then comeback to you and realise that they
fvcked up coz the dude they cheated on you with is as
fvcked up as they are. Don't give them kids, don't put a ring
on they finger fvck them and pass them on to your homies.

AntiWailer:
See children properly raised.

Not some children who transfer the aggression of their irresponsible fathers to anybody around.





NB: dnt bother insulting me on this. It is my opinion and i understand that it is not ur fault if he is irresponsible.
Just Move on.

Jglad:
U can as well, Send me my flaws personally... If u really wanted to help.

And thank God I told u, I edited before sending.. U didn't really want to help, u just wanted to show off. Thanks anyways. I did learn a few things. Thanks alot

Celeggist:
http://setnaija.com/tb-joshuas-death-is-near-funke-akindele-needs-serious-prayers-buhari-will-rule-till-2019-pastor-faleyimu/

BeClever:
So if Buhari gets you back to where you were with a broken leg and damaged eyes after his 8yrs in office, you would still not see anything wrong?

lordkit400:
Billionaire businessman and Chairman of Forte Oil Plc, Femi Otedola is pictured as he kisses his mother Lady Doja on the lips during Visits.


Such an adorable family.

Oh and in one of the photos, you will see the billionaire with his ‘kpalasa’ phone, Lol.

I'm confused but only mother and son knows better.


See photos below;

Source: http://www.flexygist.com/2016/12/17/photos-billionaire-femi-otedola-kisses-his-mother-on-the-lips-during-visit/


Lalasticlala, Mynd44

rokiatu:
And she will still get cheated on by this fool.

soulpeppersoup:
Go to school I beg you because you have economic sense. It is stupidity to save what you can't keep. Invest what you have to generate what you need.

Furthermore, your tin god did not save $25 billion. Go read again

jonili:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/12/41-exempted-items-fg-dumps-cbns-forex-policy/

hotspec:
A disastrous combination is when u have an incompetent AFONJA-Kemi, heading an economy team with an unstable IPOD-Emefuele as d CB governor for a clueless and directionless kunnu-sipping SHEPHERD from Sahara desert BUBU rulling a zoo.

Captainbells:
So your definition of promiscuity is the way a girl is dressed and her sexual status?
What do you mean dress half unclad and not being a Virgin? What has that got to do with promiscuity?

And how does one being "local" constitute promiscuity? Actually you contradicted yourself by mentioning high end areas as well.
So where in Lagos can we find the "good girls" you wish to meet for autographs??

I'm sorry but this list depicts no sense!
In your bid to sound intelligent, you've actually succeeded in creating a thread with little or no sense to make out of it as you do all the time.
Live and let girls live!


Naija girls don suffer I swear

PhonePlanet:
See this one? your knowledge is so low as i just schooled you so really, I DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE!!! I'm way better than you.

And this is what a real article from someone who has the knowledge looks like.
https://www.nairaland.com/3077978/lets-talk-android

Please you that bought data. Spend it wisely and educate yourself.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

Driftingking:
"Many years back, a man proposed to me over the phone. To make matters more baffling, he proposed via text message. I was weak.

I later asked him if that is how men propose to women in his village and his response was "My father proposed to my mother through NIPOST". And he meant every word." Lol - (Chioma said)

So ladies and gents, can you make or accept a phone proposal? Lets Discuss

http://otownloaded.com/someone-abroad-proposed-someone-nigeria-phone-see/

Homguy:
like someone said, WE ARE MEN! Chalenges shouldnt win you.

I had a somewhat similar experience some years ago. while at the university due to studying a medical course i failed some courses and had to repeat a year. My girlfriend stoodby me but since i was repeating she was now in parr 2 while i was still stuck in part 3. She started chatting with one guy that i later got to find out was ab alumni of my uni. Long story short, i logged into her facebook page abd found out she was also dating that guy. I confronted her and she confirmed it and broke up with me. I then made up my mind to be as successful as i can as a way to revenge my ego. Fast forward to early last year, she tracked me on facebook while i was serving and came to visit(despite beibg engaged to the other guy). Just some days ago, i posted a pic of me and my new official whip online and i got several comment,s but she sent a msg about How i am now a boss,And how she wishez she was mine. Women live success. Everybody lovez success. So dont cry over this girl rather work hard and pull your weight, make decent money. She might not come back to u but she wld respect u alot and might even regret leaving. Work hard bro

Ujuhot:
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.

At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age. So you are always left with "Nkechiyere" anyone that comes from them willingly. To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23. And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.
I mean where is the money??
You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.
Still putting hands in to many things hoping for good. All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude. You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls. When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies. Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.

Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back. Then one day she calls you and asks you "where is this relationship heading to?.
You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship. Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her. And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.
You just hold yourself and play the good guy. You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well". Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.

You have to be the cool guy and wish her well. One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself. She was talking to the guy a long time before now.

Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played. Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time. Would you have made it or not? She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.

In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already). I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend. No comparison there.
And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about. And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else. Your heart is broken into smithereens. In this hall of fame, you are all victims. Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.
At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.
To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now. And that's your home and abroad. Can life be more unfair at this moment?

6 years later. You are 30 now. Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become. You are one of the happening guys in town. You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit. Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall. You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by. Of course, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves. That's part of the job description. Sampling. And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall. You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave. She is 24, ripe for marriage. Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears. She loves how it sounds.

You are on chat with her always.
And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.
Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her. Why do there chats seem more like interview. And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of
"Where is this relationship going to". And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken.

You see we are always going to do this to ourselves.

Written by @jaetomz


What goes around...

Comes around

joycesims:
Go and hustle man! you'd definitely find love again

AllTheWayUp:
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I fear for Sanusi's freedom


Buhari will soon order DSS and EFCC to clamp down on Emir Sanusi for speaking the obvious truth.[/size]