₦airaland Forum

SafariHunter:
Cancer ooo
What's happening na
Abi na GMO dey cause am

Na why I dey try chop all natural these days o, Fresh tomatoes, vegetable from garden, local chicken,local rice, okpehe and crayfish instead of Maggi, real catfish no agric.

I dey drink water wela.

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Pretty much everything people eat or drink these days in Nigeria to appear posh is a direct entry to cancer university. Prepackaged foods and adulterated/fake drinks are readily available. Even the satchet or bottled water they drink cannot be guaranteed.

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SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

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There is no need to cancel the wedding now because of the inherent shame to you and your family.

If you must take pain, take it like a man. And nothing brings such a ridiculous amount of pain than divorce or cheating.

Be a man!

By the way, have you considered praying for her

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I guess one can conclude that it is a crime not to be fraudulent in Nigeria.

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AngelicBeing:
Hian, how prayer take enter this saga na.

The girl is meant for the street, although she was married but she actually belongs to the street, a leopard 🐆 cannot change His skin ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂

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Didn't you read the commenters asking him to stay in the marriage and pray for her? God wey don remove Nigerian sim card from his phone tay tay.

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Counterigbolies:
prayers get answered bro

We prayed for God to help us reject the packaged fraud n he did

Go n check economic global statistics n see how they rate Nigeria high, I know your next point is about pump price.

Check fuel price increased statistics first

Your packaged fraud go don run go Ghana if na him b president cos e no Sabi face trouble but to japa

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I hope global economic statistics pay your bills.

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But the lady is right.

A lady begged him for money that he doesn't have and he is even explaining himself like he owes her. The angels need to block his destiny too

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Another evidence of how Nigerians abuse prayers and deceive themselves. Stay with an adulterer and pray for her until a big STD devastates his life?

Keep praying. Tinubu is another evidence that prayer is useless. All that prayers, fasting and kabashing and we still ended up with Tinubu who is grinding everyone's balls on a stone.

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Thank God!

If it were to be Nigeria, the repair will last 1000 years.

To fix ordinary potholes take 20 years.

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3 main reasons people don't do medical checkup:

1. Finance.
2. Ignorance.
3. They are scared of bad news--the thought/stress over a particular ailment can kill before the illness.

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InfoGuru118:
https://verynigerian.com/breaking-court-sentence-ex-power-minister-saleh-mamman-to-75-years-imprisonment-over-n33-8bn-fraud/

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Court of Appeal will step in and do the needful.

Until a looter is tied to a stake facing a firing squad, looting won't abate.

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Tenses:
This Desmond Id1ot wants to go against the builder of lagos?


This is what you get when you place your fellow human in the same estate as a god of your fore fathers.

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Looking at the man in blue to the right of the speaker in the first picture, he could use all the financial help he can get. I am sure that even 5 cups of rice and N5k will go a long way in his life. He looks pitiful.

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These are the ones bold enough to seek for treatment. What about those who hide or the majority with unknown status?

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Lolz.

Wake up call.

Now that Alex Ekubo died at 40 with no wife nor child, all the men in their 40s who are still playing the field are forcing themselves to settle down. They have seen how vanity life can be with just material acquisitions.

If anything happens to Mr. Darlington, others will end up enjoying all the hardwork he put in his house.

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FreeStuffsNG:
Until it is confirmed , treat this as fake news.
Liver cancer stage 4 is not sudden heart attack and at no time was it reported that he is down with illhealth.

He has a family and associates who can confirm. Please wait.

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They said that he died of "liver cancer"

Just take it for what it is and move on.

Many people have doubts as well

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Jman06:
It is not uncommon to see internship students being used in our public hospitals to do the jobs meant for fully engaged staff. This trend portends a serious danger as it puts the lives of patients at risks! Interns are students undergoing the last part of their training! They're are ment to be taught the practical aspects of their professions by fully licenced and engaged professionals in the facility!

However, what we now have in many public hospitals is a situation where these interns are taken in place of full staff members and the result is that errors upon errors are made by these interns at the detriment of patients! Many patients have died while others have suffered economic losses as a result of this dangerous trend.

In an ideal situation, interns are not meant to interface directly with patients. It is the job of fully licenced staff members of the hospital to care for patients while delegating minor duties to the interns.

The minister of health must rise to the occasion and put a stop to this anomaly! MDs should be made to employ fully licenced staff members and avoid using interns to do jobs meant for licenced professionals because these interns are not yet fully licenced to practise their professions! We have enough licenced professionals in the various healthcare fields who are ready to take up jobs in our hospitals! Let's stop putting the lives of patients at risks with this dangerous practise! Enough is enough!

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It is a choice between interns or pastors' olive oil.
Medical professionals japa a lot. One MD cannot see 200 patients in one day. So you know who to blame. Even those who hang around have to go on strike sometimes to get paid due benefits. Go figure!

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James4358:
I inherited seven stems of Cocoa with a plot of land in the village that was only good for Agriculture from my dad about 5 years ago when he transion to the other side. I was struggling with a Para military job that the pay couldn't take me home.

I decided to look homeward. Applied for study leave, went back home to my father's land, cleared the only plot he had and extended the cocoa farm of seven stems to about 300 stems as at today.

I initially did 900 nursery for transplant but only about 300 survived.

Today my farm pays me more than what I spent 5years to study in school.

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I don't understand how people who live in rainforest region refuse to feed themselves. Farming should be included as a God-given right. What's the difference between those who blame the FG that they import petrol and the Nigerian man who buys bulk of his food stuff in the market? A man will interlock his whole compound and turn around to complain about prices of yam, pepper, tomatoes, vegetables in the market. People will appear helpless even in the basic things they can use to help themselves. Oh well...

Congratulations OP.

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I'd rather trek from Osogbo to Ilishan-Remo than patronize AirPeace. The way he extorts his brothers and sisters during Xmas season is too painful to ignore.

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Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!

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Without medical reports, you are already blaming village people. You described what could be subarachnoid hemorrhage. Other than looking healthy, do you know Ugo's preexisting and underlying medical conditions? All these recent incidents of "collapse and die" didn't emanate from village people. How many people do routine annual medical check-up? Many people are not even aware that they are hypertensive.

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A pastor that cries for humans instead of invoking fire and brimstone from heaven is fake. Sarah is a pulpit hustler. That's all. Why is she interested in heavenly land when her mansion is already in heaven?

Christians!!!

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Atiku should change the title to " Why Opposition Parties should rethink not adopting Atiku as the sole candidate". He is crazy.

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Sadly the people will fall for this rubbish again.

The same format whenever election is nigh.

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lordm:
If civil servant with lower salaries are building, what's your excuse?

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The civil servant told you that he saved his salaries only?

The way Nigeria is structured, it is difficult to ascertain anyone's source of income. Heck! A yahoo boy with no employment can build a duplex.

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Any Catholic condemning this is a hypocrite.

That's all.

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That's the real deal.

Why pay N10k for a plate of food that tastes like maggi and crayfish in fancy restaurants when
one can enjoy homestyle cooked meals from street vendors for N2k?

I believe that street vendors are not getting enough love.

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Caaz:
10days ago I sack planted 40 sacks of yam seedling on top a sewage pit....the job was very tedious and actually I fell under the weather.

Only for this my rose the nosy neighbor to corner me and asked me to take them of that the weight of the sands are going to sink the sewage pit.

I rejected her verdict.because it was recently plastered by me for this sole purpose.

She sad because she did same and hers collapsed .i told her that mine is entirely different.thanked her then walked away.

Interesting to chip in that...this same nosy neighbor has this penchant for finishing all my veggies for free.

I really want to know if the sewage is really going to collapse due to the fact that it's raining season.

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Time to put a hidden camera.

Your neighbour may harvest them before you.

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Salutation is not LOVE.

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OverCalculating:
When a man allowed his financial affairs to be controlled by his wife, it means surrendering, it means everything...


In case you don't know, the $280 Million fortune that is controlled by Jet Li's wife is already a great deal for many women out there.

Before he married her, she was the Miss Asia and a retired actress. When he married her, he was proud to reveal her to the world as his financial manager.

T@he Martial arts legend, Jet Li proved that his wife, Nina Li, a former Miss Asia and retired actress, manages all his finances, including his $280 million fortune. Despite this, Nina avoids luxury items and focuses on caring for her husband and their family.

The couple met during the filming of Dragon Fight in 1988 and married in 1999 after 11 years of dating. They have two daughters together, and Nina has successfully handled several investments for her husband while keeping a low profile.

Jet Li once joked that he doesn’t carry cash or credit cards, relying on his wife, his financial manager for money. Nina values a simple life, staying out of the spotlight and prioritizing her family.

That could be the reasons her husband made huge success. A lot of women today may go as far as divorcing their husband because of his wealth and their insatiable quest for more money.

Like Nina, another person that comes to mind is Folashade Okoya. Although she was young when she got married to her Billionaire husband, she didn't let the wealth get into her head by living a flamboyant life or thinking of outshining her co-wives. Instead, she helped the man to grow his businesses by being her Finance manager.

This is a special message for all couples out there. Men should learn how to trust and surrender their Financial Control to their wives at certain stage in life and the wives should not betray the trust by craving for frivolity.

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Exceptions do not make the rule.

Don't focus on outliers.

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Pootle:
why do they allow this guy media briefings, because no real information is passed, just him going against his enemies

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I guess you didn't hear the part where he stated that he pays them for the interview and they wanted to change the topic.

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Which one in the picture is the billionaire?

I don't understand.

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Wait!

So Germany truly rejected FFK.

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