God1000: This is heartbreaking revelation, I blame African leaders for everything, for making our people wandering all over the world, a continent that is blessed with so much mineral resources but corruption has brought us to this sorry state, I see a lot desperation in our people to travel out everyday because of the unpleasant situation at home
Such inhumane treatment, Greek authorities are wicked
/ Blame both sides of the equation. The people empower charlatans as leaders and want to japa when shit hits the fan. Citizens of other countries fought hard to keep their society sane. It may seem that Africans (especially West Africans) want to keep running from generation to generation . That is the only plan. Nobody wants to be a hero.
Everyone believes that it will favour him and his family until reality sets in. Call it selfishness! /
ScotHarvath: I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.
We have two kids.
Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.
I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.
I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.
Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?
Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.
I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.
I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.
/ Go to women’s forum. Listen to everything women say they desire in a man…then be the opposite.
Dogalmighty17: Quacks. Better not to have used any concrete at all than do have used what they did up there. When people hear concrete for road they think it is just ordinary mix and pour. Concrete has grades and different mix types. The least acceptable concrete grade is M30 which what they are doing up there is no where close to. I doubt when this concrete sets it can take up to 2000 psi.
/ There was a time a report like this would elicit empathy. But after watching how Nigerians elect their leaders, those who could help chose to be indifferent.
It is pointless trying to save those who don't want to help themselves.
In a country where people are barely surviving, the National Assembly is preoccupied with buying a "befitting" plane for the Presidency after the VP just moved into a N20billion "befitting" mansion. /
Halo22: I have been trying to contain my disgust over the life threatening lifestyle of my landlord and his house hold, but then, it has reached the brim. I would like to make the story short cos I humbly want to seek advice on the best way to tackle this issue at hand.
I live in an environment where we are not that populated in the compound. Every person or household minds his or her business in order to maintain peace and tranquility as well as oneness as was literally advised by the landlord in his preaching of novel peace which has completely been foiled by himself in particular. He has a wife with female children who are all adults. What still baffles me is how the daughters will end up being wives in future. That would be topic for a later day.
Fast forward to early this year, I noticed a leak in the pipe that connects to their own house's toilet and quickly alerted the wife on the need to fix it so it won't deteriorate. When I saw the woman couldn't do much to fix the breakage, I organized some of my neighbours, particularly men, to talk with the husband (landlord). Lo and behold, the man apologized for the inconveniences caused and promised to fix it Asap. Two months down the line in April, we politely met him again to remind him of the dangers of the odour that oozes out of the pit, he again promised to fix it and up until now, the pipe remains unfixed and has completely gone bad, emanating irritating odour all over the compound whenever it rains, mostly my own corner of the building.
At first, I thought about parking out of the compound, but I still have about 6 months' rent running and starting afresh to look for house, the stress, extra payment and all that are not worth engaging in right away. Please what is the best step to take in this situation considering the fact that the wife is a nice and considerate person, just that the husband influences her negatively. I don't want to have issues personally with them. I humbly ask please.
/ Your health is priority. Call a plumber. Talk to the landlord. Take before and after pictures. Let the plumber fix the problem.
Time to pay rent. Deduct the cost. Let the landlord do his worst.
While you wait to report to a government agency and their reply, you are endangering your health. This is an emergency.
/ They need a white coach even if it is a homeless man from Italy who cannot differentiate between soccer and basketball. They will respect him more just because of the colour of his skin. The psychological damage is eternal.
tetralogyfallot: I've never bought tomato as expensive as this.
/ Something you could easily have planted in your backyard. But all of una dey form big man. They should increase it to N5k. Farmers need blessings for many years of hardworking.
/ When she runs to social media with a swollen face, people will see evidence of physical DV without considering the emotional DV she subjected her husband to prior to the upper cuts.
The elites rant about war and patriotism knowing that at the end, it is the idiotic supporters from low and middle class that will be sent to the war front.
The children of Russian Oligarchs are in UK living like princes and princesses.
/ As long as Nigerians continue to be irrationally emotional in business, politics and religion; they will continue to fall for old scams. Nothing new. They behaved exactly as expected.
/ It may seem that the god of Pentecostals are only good at collecting tithes and offerings. He has to rely on Nigerian Police to obtain justice for his self-acclaimed servant. What happened to sending divine fire to consume Ijele? If you can gather a multitude of zombies through unsubstantiable claims to finance your lifestyle, by all means do. Na God buttered your bread. /
/ Let the military keep arresting those that kill them. They have been returned to the battlefield to kill more soldiers. Good for them. You can't cure stupidity.
/ Like a prophet, in 2022 heat of campaigns of propaganda, I foretold the effects cum impacts of Tinubu 's presidency as shown below. I am truly enjoying the tragicomedy.
cococandy: And whose fault is that since the women typically don’t propose? I mean yall want traditional women right? So they wait for you to propose because that’s the expectation. no?. They are in these relationships with the understanding that it’s leading to marriage based on what has been said between them and the men. Meanwhile these men know deep down they are only there to waste the ladies’ time.
How is this not an indictment on men instead of women?
Won’t you people still be the ones to raise your fingers and start doing body count when the women leave relationships they don’t think is heading anywhere serious?
I really dislike when you guys pretend like you mean well but deep down you know you’re being disingenuous. Because there’s no option she chooses out of all that you guys have presented to her that will be good enough for you. She’ll always be at fault just for existing as a woman
Pls 😒
/ It is open for interpretation. You can take it whichever way you want. Make out time to visit hospitals and you will notice the prevalence of fibroid surgery among women in their 30s. Don't add to the statistics. You have no business hanging with any man who shows no seriousness and marital plans after 1 year of relationship.
Five years relationship? The lady is a fool.
At 40+, the nieces and nephews have already moved on. The only ones she will have, if any, are her biological children.
VersatileVee: It took me alot of courage to open about this online after so many years. Please help me find a solution.
I wish there is any permanent solution to this skin infection. I've been suffering from this for more than 7years. It's itchy and worsens Whenever I sweat, especially after doing some work under the sun, the infection becomes swollen a bit and I feel pains all over my body because the salt inside the sweat touches the infection. It is very painful like when someone adds salt to a fresh injury!
I recently did a skin endoscopy test and have taken the medication prescribed by the doctor twice but all to no avail. In the past I took so many drugs and rubbed so many antibacterial cream including funbact A but the infection persisted, right now I am feeling heat and can't sleep because of the itch. I wish I can express my pain in voice, I can't even go shirtless in public or do any activity that will result to me sweating, some days I bath four times to avoid it getting worse. I wash my clothes every day and don't wear any one twice before wash but all this has resulted to it getting more worse. I wonder the final solution, please help out!!! I am tired.