₦airaland Forum

CAPTIVATOR:
You have a point , many men are Mentally weak in their own homes, manipulated expecially with Sex and Food. If some men should speak up, he will suffer in some ways, either he doesn't get sex or food for days, so they keep quiet. Some others fear she may accuse them of having something with the maid.

Men need to be trained to see sex and food as bonus in life. A man who sees sex as nothing and could cook for himself is hard to manipulate, but they are few

Another problem is that many people see marriage as a do or die affair, if you marry a woman who pretended to be good only to change after marriage, kick her out if she fails to change or if you can't cope
A man should be in control from the beginning and if your wife is stubborn or deny sex and food because you corrected her give her some space, she will be the one to come back and apologize.

One of my uncle s wife was one of those women, she disrespected him, hardly give him food. It got a stage my uncle had to divorce her, all the important people begged him to take her back he refused saying he wouldn't let anyone kill him before his time. After 3 - 5 month the woman came back begging him, her took her back and we haven't heard any complaints so far. Men should take charge of their wives, let her know who married who, it is only when the woman married the man that the man can't have a say.

Offpoint1:
Not for salary earners only, there's salary earner loan call "Advanced Salary Loan" ,Quick-Loan is for everybody, as far as there's been a consistent cashflow in and out of your account for the past 6 months, you'll get a loan.

Ok

faceland:
I can swear on my balls that before you can qualify to borrow one million, you have paid (in the past) outrageous interest of at least 800k (in a short period of time). Someone owing 1m doesn't mean they received even 600k from the loan shakes . Most of their loans are 40% interest with two weeks duration so in a month they make 80% (almost double their money in a month).


These people are not banks, they are slave traders from the East.

The person borrowed from about 21 different apps, I know someone who has borrowed from more than
10 apps if not more

IamAtAnger:
It shall not be well with ur father for raping you or maybe ur mother which created this scar in ur heart abt other reasonable men

Look at how hurt you are because of a simple statement jennyclay made but it's ok for men here to call women all sorts of names and no woman will insult your mother or father ,there re so many petty and uncouth men than women in Nigeria today.

Offpoint1:
If you need (QUICK) loan avoid loan-sharks. If loan is the only hope left to meet your urgent need, use your bank. Most bank has made getting loan easier now, with just 1 click on their app, ussd or internet banking. Their interest is peanut compare to loan shark and you have 12 months to payback. (50k loan from your bank the interest is less than 10k WITH 12MONTHs liquidation period, while loan shark interest is between 30-45k and duration is a month or 3.)

I don't see reasons why people still use loan shark, maybe you think bank still requires Collaterals for quickloans.

Bank loan is for salary earners only, loan shark gives anyone with a bvn

MuslimIgbo:
Show me nonsense
Una too dey deceive una sef

You for prefer to marry a leftover na
Girl wey numerous guys don pass around like football.
People's view on sex and sexual morality speaks a lot about them...
Will you like to train a daughter whom you can give out decent and as a virgin or the one that will have even brought guys home to come and 4k her under your roof?
You think God didn't know what he was doing when he chose virgin Mary to birth Jesus?

I can never support a wayward lady sleeping around, but you need to know that not being a virgin doesn't mean a lady sleeps around or she's wayward, I'm sorry if you feel offended by my comment

Very funny the organizers forgot bobrisky is isn't a woman, they should could given him the same award under his own gender, I'm very sure he paid more for the award, period.

dettolgel:
That you don't have respect for your mom does not mean that you will come here and tell the whole world that your mom is brainless and an ashawo.

Having a child like you is enough to drive her into such trade.

If I may ask did she start before you were born or after your birth?

A thief believes that every other person is a thief, I can see you a shameless man from the slum typing from one face me I face you, a responsible man from a good family background will never send this kind of a message to anyone, this is how you know people from good family background but you see people like you from probably a broken home without parental care and love easily throw insult at others because you won't care if I insult your own mother. I don't have time for a classless animal , it's not my fault that your harlot mother left your father to become a full time prostitute and died of STDs making you thinking that every other women are like you mom.

PaulH07:
Oturkpo girl.

Anya

Anyacho

Delightsome2023:
hi good evening.
How have you been

I'm good and you

CAPTIVATOR:
The sad thing is some women who comment this same thing like yours are also guilty of the same act. Lot of women lack self awareness , they lie to themselves alot and this prevent them from seeing things for what they are

Sometimes I wonder why Nigeria men can't or don't control the actions of their wives, all you guys do is blame women, as a man of the house you tell your wife to treat the help well or take her back and she must obey you but you guys can't even control your wives at home only to come to a faceless blog and be insulting women, as for me I will never treat any human bad justsoyouknow.

ukaface:
You for help them na

Lol, that's their live oh , if they choose to live that way their biz, if I were the one I will either shave some part and cut other parts to look more clean

AndrewTate:
thanks a lot for your observation. God bless you too 🙏🏾

Amen and you

advanceDNA:
That florida mayor is every intentional about minor welfare....

He has also banned gender-change medical surgery and puberty blocking injections for minors

Oh, that's good

MuslimIgbo:
IF HE DIDN'T MEET HER AS A VIRGIN THEN THE GUY IS A FO0L AND A LOSER

We know your great grandmother is still a virgin, can we hear word, if you think marrying a virgin is a prerequisite for happy marriage come let me show you something

But they allow minors to change their sex which have more psychological effects on them as they get older

DonEd:
Just like what they did to R Kelly. It's obvious there r forces trying to make silent the black big names in the music industry

Nigerian thought and reasons why people get away with crime in Nigeria, wasn't R.kell found guilty?

Dracula123:
This is/was a friendship that wasn't built on romance. There's no part in your story where you asked her to be your girlfriend.

The fact that you are generous to her doesn't mean you can do whatever you want whenever you want.

Sending her out of your house isn't bad since she's not giving you what you want, you should have given her a little token for TP. Don't forget you were the one that called her to come

My thought too, she may have turned him down because there s no definition of what they are, women understand direct words not parables, he asked her to come and cuddle him but in his mind he wanted sex and maybe he was going beyond what she expected and and she refused to give in . Personally I have many Male enemies because I turned them down so I understand the scene but I can see that this writer has conscience and that's a good thing.

AndrewTate:
What if I’m depressed and I asked for your balls for rituals to redeem me from my depression?

Know the value of things to people before asking for them. If he needed cuddles he could have paid for one. If he needed it that bad, whether he has sex with them is his own decision. She’s not his girlfriend, “BOUNDARIES” is a word used in situations like this! Whether you’re spending or not. He said their relationship was with no strings attached. The best he could have gotten from her was words of encouragement or if she had enough money to help him out. NOT THE BODY! Whether sex is involved or not! If a lot other women have devalued themselves before the world it doesn’t make it the norm!

Your comments here shows there are good and intelligent men on nairaland who have good understanding not those myopic and double standard men who are quick to call women olosho but now against a woman who refuses to be used . , in your other comment you mentioned that women s thought processes are quite different from men which is very true, i respect people like you. All I see from the story is that the girl is not ready yet and may want a defined relationship before going intimate. God bless you

And what is regina Daniel doing on the?





Oh I forgot she married a billionaire

That's his own view but there are so many people in need on the internet and this same give away has helped millions of people, by putting food on their table, paid their rent, saved some people s life in one way or the other.

Wicked woman, should have atleast wrapped her up.

Those ladies look some how to me. They should atleast shave na, or cut of the breast abeg

If find a baby like this, I will go with him or her

But he bleeps prostitutes, this man wey dey lick ashawo toto, he even wanted to marry the girl self. People come to social media to tell lies and gullible people believe them.

When 2baba said they should hold governors responsible last year, a lot of people went for him, all this state governors and senators are the main people impoverishing Nigerians, although bad policies from government is another one

Beautiful, once I have enough money I'm going to adopt like 3 children,,, mine will be age 0-2.

Where do people like this come from? Such a wicked woman, look at rag the innocent girl is putting on, only God knows what girl is going through in the hands of this woman.
Just imagine how she would be treated at home .

This people re responsible for most death of innocent women you see all the time, they are fond of pushing people out of fast moving vehicle here in Abuja, they shouldn't let them go free.

Is it alekwu that killed the man, do delta also have alekwu ?

Even if it's only cabbage and onions that they re eating the price is higher so what healthy food price is this