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Oh, what a miracle, Glory be to God of Adeboye and co. More zombies to their business centres!

The shepopotamus has bad set of advisers

DanielGb:
What about the tithe?

tithe is a scam.. you pay to enrich your pastors

Oma307:
and how is that your problem, leave us alone, we will continue to pay

don't mind them my man., let us continue paying. Only giving to pastors guarantee our blessing and success in life. After all, it's our money

Dedicate 30k for rent monthly, live reasonably with 80k per month. With that, is like you are not paying rent. Try to have savings of about 20k monthly. Let's see how far you will go

Demaduka:
Fr Kelvin Ugwu MSP,
YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG OR MISCONCIEVED . PAYING MONEY TO A CHURCH IS QUITE DIFFERENT FROM PAYING MONEY TO A PASTOR. IT IS WRONG TO SAY THAT THE MONEY YOU PAID IN THE CHURCH IS MONEY YOU PAID TO THE PASTOR. BY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, IF YOU ARE A REAL FR. AS YOUR NAME SUGGEST, IT SEEMS THAT YOU USED TO CARRY THE OFFERING GIVENG IN YOUR CHURCH SAYING THAT IT IS MONEY MEMBERS GAVE TO YOU. IS IT RIGHT OR WRONG?

IF ON THE OTHER HANDS AN INDIVIDUAL DECIDES TO PACKAGE HIS OR HER JANUARY SALARY FOR A PASTOR, WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE IF IT IS RIGHT OR WRONG?

To slap you is my priority now!

etrange:
I'm sure you didn't read that article.

I did or are u one of them who uses principles of fear to bully your members to submission?

Please forgive them sir, remember you followed someone to beg OBJ for forgiveness when we knew this person too looted my dear country and you even urged us to vote for him for president.
Thank you and congratulations to the accountants in advance

First fruit ko...
Last fruit ni...
Awon OLE!!

taneez:
Sir don't be tempted. I think you should plan outing every month with her deliberately ( with dates both agreed) like kayaking, hiking and traveling . If you leave the planning and execution to her she will procrastinate because of her personality( she is most likely a phleg) and the children.

Both of you should read 'travel with a pen' blog (www.travelwithapen.com) so that you can plan your trips ( you can start from republic of Benin). I am sure when you do some very fun activities she will be the one asking for more. Don't forget to plan DELIBERATELY.

Thanks my sister, the funniest thing is that she will not deliberately pick up a quarell with for no reason, the problem is the she doesn't just have time for socials. Her job is her priority. The marriage is becoming terribly boring and divorce is not just an option. I have called her to tell her how her attitude is almost giving me hypertension...I have come to realise that is her nature and am finding it hard to cope.

This is quite interesting
Let me comment form my own personal experience.
I knew my wife now was exactly like you when were dating.
I loved her wholeheartedly with everything I had. I talked to her severally about the need to change her attitude to win me totally. She promised to. This assurance made me to leave the other two that practically showed green light..
Even though I knew her "uncaring, cold, too silent attitude was constantly breaking my heart, I believed she would change.
Fastward to now, we are married with children but am all alone. We still live together but she is just not the type that know how to make man happy, very unromantic, zero social life.. just no communication. I demand for romance almost all the time we are together, she doesn't just give a damn. I work in a different place only come home to see them maybe once in 2 months.
Am not always glad to come because her attitude are uninviting.
This I live with as I write this....
Totally heartbroken.
My opinion on your topic. Ralationship should be 50-50 thing. Incompatibility is not an option. I only love my wife but her love for me is too cold. Am suffering silently. Am always tempted to seek happiness from other ladies of good attitude but am afraid.

Olugbenga1234:
Lol. This is a joke right? 650k??

confused here!. Costly or too cheap?

Police and thief
Bread and butter
Geisha and sardine

Don't thank me. What are friends for?

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to get the pregnancy aborted , you are wasting your time.

I see no reason why happily and sexually active couple should control their urge. Remember, good sex is part of marriage obligations for progress. Simply advise them to re-consider embracing the use of condom even if all other methods fail. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed. They are both mature and legally married.
If you have any other good way of helping them, please suggest. For married couple to control urge?, E nor easy!

Religion's best friends are foolishness and gullibility

In the event that trump escapes the impeachment in the long run, Suleiman would be seeking relevance for the rubbish prophecy

skykenny:
One man that eminently understands how the universe operates. HBD Sir.

stop glorifying mortal man. Only God Almighty eminently understands the universe he created.
Note that religion was introduced to Africa by the whites....
You never can tell how authentic all religious sect are.
God is not an author of confusion.
Oyedepo is a good business man. No doubt about that!

Albinoflash:
Today is my last day on nairaland and my last day on earth,this life is truely unfair to some people,i can't continue to dwell in misery.am gonna miss nairaland and football when am gone.11pm tonight the gate of hell will be opened to me.i have been the worst creature since birth and i curse that day i was born 25th december 1992.what a wasted life

please don't commit suicide oooo
rather strive to overcome whatever worries you have. I have bigger worries than you do now but I look back and thought of the effect of my death on my family.I just had to shelve suicide to prevent calamity.
Please you can still make it my dear

Davash222:
Be sincere to yourself, if you're God will you grant him eternal rest

if truly I exist, I will put him in hell

Nooooooo...
All religious are scam
Jesus story is a myth.
A pastor whose wife has been sick for years in a church I know has been praying for years. No result yet..
Don't remind of Job story oooo... Another myth!
Jesus story is just invention just for political reasons

RIP to the pastor
May God give the family the heart to bear the irredeemable loss
But I think winners anointing oil is powerful, why the pastor no apply am before embarking on the journey?

Anas09:
Every Criminal is afraid of Jail, that's why every sinner is afraid of Hell.

@Op, it doesn't matter what you say, if you don't repent And die in your sins, you'd go to God's Jail, Hellfire.

@Op is correct
Free yourself my dear

Adeboye is over rated

Why did the god of Adeboye allow the kidnap in the first place?
Did the anointing oil finish in RCCG before the journey?
Why can't Adeboye perform miracle for their release without involving police after all god has drunk tea in his houses before
All these religious folks are just preying on Africans' gullibility.
Even those who forced in on us are of as stupid as we are

Other countries can have all, I care not as long as Nigeria has Jesus as our lord as saviour... Jesus will build better things for us

salbis:
I would be much surprised if this guy no dey batter em wife for house. If his were to be in a saner clime this guy would have been a goner from the senate, but in Nigeria anything can go. Just watch out! FTC

Try to see the wife's face. I think you are right!

I would have loved to bear my mind on how the woman really looks, but am afraid of slaps from Abuja

This ugly trend of considering suicide over any little issue should be totally adressed. It's actually a worrisome development. Why would someone consider that in the first place?.
As for me, if any issue bothers me so much that it seems insurmountable, I will just kill myself instead of commiting suicide

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, Na real nonsense, some of this bulshit going on in several churches in Nigeria have no scriptural backings, it reminds me of how another church refused to dedicate a child when she was born on the ground that the man is not a committed member of the said church, the man ignored them and dedicated the child himself in his house and that child just graduated from the University this year and is doing well, all this religious dogmas are bulshit to me. Go and check that overseer very well, he is not perfect and might even have a peck in his own eyes, if I am the couple, go to court, do court marriage, take your wife home and go and eat her garden of Eden, no time for religious bulshit from pharisees

you bear my mind

chibu4u2:
Sometimes I wonder what is been taught in Nigerian universities offering Engineering as well as medicine.
Most of these breakthroughs are being researched in mostly universities.
Well basically theories and ancient notes from lecturers used in their own time.

as long as we have Jesus, no worries!!

aladura1:
A fool say in his heart, there is no God

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