₦airaland Forum

can some people now take a rest.

Wayo wayo people everywhere

Gboom:
If he has been loading you will a lot of gifts you would not be too keen asking him those questions

Which gift and why won't I ask all the necessary questions that needed to be asked .

I can never be blinded by money or gifts with all what's happening in our today's society.

Just like the saying that says " a closed mouth is a closed destiny"

When you decided to go blind in a relationship be ready for those eyes to be opened in marriage.

How much gift will a person gifts you that could be compared to your mental health

As for me o I'm ever ready to ask questions and never tired of asking questions.

I strongly believe in communication.

Tinubuwins2023e:
I'm 100% certain this is an obi supporter. They are dumb as fu*k. Zombies, headless mob

Why you come dey lie like this.

ibinaboonline:
Is it just me or did someone else notice this is a begger? They call them cyberbeggers, which is different from a scammer. How are you sure he's not in need of the money he's asking for?

All na same , mechanic no let person different them with mad people again.

😂😂😂😂 lol lol local scammer

Happy birthday Banky 🎉🎉🎉

Gboom:
Most of you girls are gullible to always allow boys to scope you.
I remember while I was growing up as a teenager, at the back of my mama room was a passage and boys and girls will always come there to chat in the night. Anytime I noticed I normally scatter them by throwing water from the window, put a torchlight on their face or start to caution the girl directly that you want get belle or you don turn to ashewo. The few that know me among the girls will report me to my mum or confront me and I will turn it to fight and since they cannot beat me they will become my friend by force

Thank God you said boys what of matured guys that are married and lied about their marital status and even lied that their wives are dead.

I met someone of recent , I asked about his marital status and the likes , I went further to ask him if he has got a child outside wedlock, he refusing telling me at first , then we met the second to time , I pop up the question again , he then agreed that he has a child with his baby mama bla bla bla.

So you see , for the fact I was the one asking he was feeling reluctant to answer me .

He was like , he never wanted to talk about it , lemme just stop here .

Kobojunkiee:
1. They shouldn't be forced to marry them but they should be mandated to take responsibility for the mistake they made, as that mistake na human being, a responsibility and burden that should be shared with the woman.

If they ain't forced to marry them , why the hatred on single mothers .

You as an individual can you marry a single mother ?

The stigmatization on single mothers is unseemly, many of them are facing a whole lot of challenges.

Ladies should know when to ZIP UP and make use of protection.

Omotola was celebrating her wedding anniversary the other time , and people were like is good to marry and give birth early .

Yes it's good to marry and birth early especially with a supportive spouse .

Had it been her husband wasn't the caring type and a honest man , what do you think would've become of her .

Nigerian men need to change their mindset towards building a family , the average mind of a Nigerian guy is akward .

Gboom:
The answer is no.
I have a brother that mistakenly impregnated a lady sometimes ago eventually they became husband and wife, but my brother is not always proud to call the lady my wife up till today though they have kids.

Majority of those who get pregnant out of wedlock especially ladies (older ones) did so to pin the man down for marriage

We have so many younger ones that are also impregnated by men through lies and deciets

Most of your genders are fond of telling lies just to get in between a ladies leg .

No matter the high rate of oloshoism in Nigeria it won't make men to stop raping ladies or their own biological daughters.

Once you're responsible, you're responsible and vice versa .

It can only be a mistake if the sperm was transferred into the woman's body without the knowledge of the man .

Why sleeping with someone you don't love , when they were shouting harder , harder , what were they excepting? Stone abi

That's why babaymama is rampant, so many irresponsible men out there .

Mouth don dey change no time for haters , just keep shining on

Na wa o

myami:
how much be your bride price? make I cum payam sharp sharp

No be only sharp sharp na panasharp 😜

He did tried

He also tried

He tried

myami:
be my babxmama, let me take care of the bills

I'm not an advocate of babymama , those that got married legally and still enjoying their marriages, they did not come to this world with two heads .

lolu2019:
u must be stupid.

Why the insult , just today he decided to be honest

How many times will they tell women , never to leave their daughters with their fathers after separation, those that are not separated sef , they're sleeping with their daughters .

Na their ways be that

Sleeping and raping their own biological daughters especially the yolobo Muslims

ThatCEO:
I believe say Na True say u dey pay bills, but if u find bf or husband now, one naira of your money, u no go gree spend again.

The same u wey dey pay bills when u single, go suddenly turn stingy because a man is in d picture. Make una dey talk to una selves

I no be your wife , I go support my guy .

SmartGadgetz:
First confirm the pregnancy if it's yours or not. After then, I want you to understand that marriage must not be one sided, nobody is doing nobody a favour here.

if she isn't lady, focus on nurturing the pregnancy but bear it in the back of your mind that you mustn't marry her because she had a baby with you. Just saying. If she is not corperating or starts to misbehave, tell her plain that you can't tolerate it and if it persists, marry your other girl that is ready. Don't wait for no one. I hate mind games.

He mustn't marry because she had a baby for him after having the baby hope you'll go and marry her .

That's how some of you are doing , baby mamas are increasing day by day .

What happens to protection or abstinence ?

At the end of the day , it's same you guys will be bashing single mothers here and there .

I do tell ladies that we are the ones at the receiving end , getting pregnant for a guy that you're not married to won't make him to marry you , if he's not ready for commitment.

At 26yrs she's an adult but behaving like a teenager.

Whytestar070:
What did seun add to nairaland,why am i so addicted to nairaland?

Hahaha 😂,even me sef dem don no me for work

I never get one sef

Uniquekriss:
I have a feeling this isn't true, I'm in Benin and we all know that Bini people are still very culture minded and traditional, how would the family be staying a stone throw and know about this sacrilege. It's a made up story .

It's definitely a made up story , I know that after the elections they'll come up with stories just to bash ladies .

When they say that husbands should take their wives along , they will say no .

Eazzii:
Iyaebe, what would I gain from lieing? If you are in Benin, I can show them to you sef.

You wan hear the truth , dem dey fuvck each other but does the man not have his own life to live ?

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

I won't be comfortable.

Cheating

Lies and deceit

Uncaring attitude.

As a single lady sef , na so so bills upon bills

This tribal war no fit end for nairaland, I bin think say na mature people dey here sef

Facebook no do reach nairaland.

Irishman22:
Boric capsule. I have it. Were is your location

I heard it has side effects and a lady suffered from it after using the boric capsule .

It was my friend that told me , she said she saw it on tweeter and people were asked to donate for her cos her pussy was smelling heavily after using the capsules.

I see my person tweet

Abeg make dem no arrest you