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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Allisgud: 5:43pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
BigYash:leave am motivational speaker still dey whyne am 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Isabi4lov: 5:43pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
ThatCEO: I no be your wife , I go support my guy . |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by oxiide22(m): 5:43pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
jerryforgood:may God continue to bless you 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Mobog(m): 5:44pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:It's not easy at all. Just stay away from remembering how money disappeared. Pray for prosperity and you'll see it. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 5:44pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
GenSpecifics:minus gas money, inlaw money, nepa bills, security, and other unforeseen bills in that same month? Dey play 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Treassured: 5:44pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Danisaint112: True. But some well Informed Yoruba Men too are Joining the Train now. Poverty Is not an Option for people who knows what they are doing!!!! 13 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by BigBashiru: 5:44pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: Your first paragraph is the litmus test that's what every guy should check in a lady before getting married I.e. if she has that mentality....guess you were carried away by romance.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Emmanuel909090: 5:45pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Lol |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Gerrard59(m): 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: That is actually more expensive than having children inside a marriage. Also, no responsible family will hand you their daughter in such an arrangement. None whatsoever. Baby-mamaism is expensive. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by juniorstar(m): 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
myami:No drop money for upkeep and your wife toiletries you go know say sex isn't free. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Dpatch(m): 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
It's just like saying sex is all about having kids....! |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by BigBashiru: 5:47pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: The women know exactly what they are doing. Marriage is a negotiated agreement...she negotiated lifetime provision and lured you with romance. Lifetime provision by a man to a woman is an unfair arrangement in this day and age and she knows it. She is just exploiting you financially and she knows it. Reject exploitation and demand she make her own moni and use her own money on herself. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by FireUpNow(m): 5:47pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:Being single doesn't guarantee being rich. There is not like having a wife as a companion, kids to call your own. Life is a stage because without kids and a woman in your life at old age you will know how important it is to be married |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by TrumpDonald2: 5:48pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by juniorstar(m): 5:48pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla:They are already made. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Gerrard59(m): 5:49pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
myami: Sex is not free. I don't know why you people keep saying this thing. Nowhere is sex free unless the man is very handsome, and that won't continue for long. You pay at a point. Even the sex sef, if it was free, why are married men the biggest patronisers of sex workers? Why do they complain that their wives decline them sex after having children? 13 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 5:50pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I know it’s not bread and beans before. The whole thing I want people to learn from my post is that don’t get married if you are not financially stable. Because that’s what marriage is all about and it’s not something special. End of quote! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by thunderbabs: 5:50pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
JASONjnr: Bros, marriage no be like your tomatoes ooo. Shey village people dey haunt tomatoes, abi dey know Emiefele And the cashless policy, abi tomato younger sister dey call for financial help from tomato husband. Abeggiiii 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Allisgud: 5:51pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
seanwilliam:and this is how u will do paying school fees till they are done, until one money breakthrough happen 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Rubbiish(m): 5:51pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
ThatCEO:That's the bitter truth my brother! 99% of married men that are not financially buoyant give up their comfort for wife & kids. I have friends in this category & they hardly buy anything for themselves. I just say within myself, I just hope the end is worth it for u guys. 10 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:51pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: They know this already. No need reiterating it. End of quote! 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 5:51pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Gerrard59:Oil dey your head my brother. Don’t mind that guy! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Allisgud: 5:52pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
seanwilliam:u supposed write small book on marriage 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by ciencee(m): 5:53pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
That your 5th paragraph got me thinking...... JASONjnr: |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by NapoleonHill: 5:53pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: I spend over 150k being single per month. That's on months I'm determined to save. I don't know how much I'll be spending being married. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by BigBashiru: 5:53pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:And the Christians will tell you you are still not allowed to hv a mistress or second wife.....in case the first one is not very pleasing to your eyes anymore..... 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Ologundudu2020: 5:53pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Bro am single and recently I had two company around, in bid to make life easy, I’ve spend over 1.5m in that two months for daily upkeep. I refused to be married until have what to sustain me for the first 15-20yrs or more. It’s really a difficult task for the males and it’s ain’t even worth it, cos the sex which they tend to offer in return is even almost cheap everywhere 12 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by ravensckar(m): 5:54pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:Mr. Man, take it easy with the hasty generalization. Your own marriage may be about paying bills but mine isn't all about that. As a matter of fact, when I was a bachelor, I was wretched and lacked focus in life. I was living in one room apartment and was always thinking of having se.x with random ladies. One Naira I don't have as savings talk less of achieving anything tangible in life. Then, I got married and my perspective changed. I became focused on my job and life. Within 5 years, I don build house, buy car born two pikin and started enjoying life. In summary, marriage brought me that change of perspective and today I'm happy. Yes, you'll pay bills in marriage. Lots of them actually. But if you accept that responsibility and man up, it will make you better focused. You that have bills to pay will never engage in frivolities or financial rascality. Secondly, whatever it is that you do as a daily job, it will help you to become up & doing since you now know that lots of responsibilities rest on your shoulder. Just speaking from my own perspective though. Marriage has been a blessing to me. It woke me up from my slumber and made me implement that radical change that was needed to turn my life around for good. I pray to God that it should continue that way. I ddon't want to go back to being useless biko. 20 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 5:55pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
ThatCEO:Yeah I mean buying things for myself is another thing entirely. I spend 50k for that too! |
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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Bruno3000(m): 5:55pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Stop lying oga. God never commanded everyone to go get married 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by chatinent: 5:56pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: I think N100k in two months in this time is not bad bro. Mine, my Kuda, wetin I see I don spend since January shocked me to the core. The problem is not marriage. The problem is doubling the income. 2 Likes |
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