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Omoluabi16:
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Lol...

Tiwa mi... Nice one

brownjulie:
am tired of all this their political brouhaha, leave the man alone, he is entitled to vacations and seriously, I don't care where he decide to spend it or why he chose to spend it there.

The last I checked, nobody tied a leash to PMB'S neck. Nigerians are simply demanding answers to why and where. And I stand firm to say that it is only logical to give the answers

holuphisayor:
Offset?
Upset
Anyway leicester/draw

Lol bro... A draw will favour the wish

I just long to see an offset in this season's EPL

TonyeBarcanista:
@OP:

You are wrong! The bail money money is to be paid to the court and will be kept in the court's custody until after the trial. Should the accused jump bail, he forfeits the money. If he doesn't, he's refunded the money after the trial is concluded.

Documents or certificates of ownership of Property worth the said amount for bail can be tendered and left in court custody pending the final ruling. If accused jumps bail, sureties forfeit the property too...

AccaPack:
The best thing for u is to end your relationship with your bf.
Reasons:
If u choose not to tell him, he will find out someday if he "truly" loves you. You can't lie to a faithful partner and get away with it. That's nature.
If you choose to tell him now, two things will happen;
1. He will never accept you back if he truly loves u because u betrayed his trust. All he would think is that, u guys had little misunderstanding, and u had sex with another guy, that means u will do more when married.
2.He might pretend not to feel hurt and turn u to sex partner, then discard u when he gets tired of u using the reason above as an excuse.

Well said. Very true

I see the igbos get country they want, I just pray it happens peacefully. Humans have rights...

Nice blend... Cute Dija

Not surprised

Iceprince is an example of a gentleman... I wish them well

Rad1cal:
Ibori is an overlord and kingmaker in Delta, you can keep your rants to yourself.

You can call him a "kingmaker or lord", the truth still remains that he is a criminal. A man who embezzled public funds. We celebrate mediocrity in this country and that's the sad truth.

Tolexander:
Those praising Abacha, calling the loot, a reserve are myopic!

If Abacha had not died, what would happen to the loot?
Still a reserve abroad I guess?

Get the fun out of this and stop taking things too serious. They all know what is right but have chosen to laugh even in hardship, sad news and the realization that Nigeria had bad leaders... Lol

The signs were glaring

Cool combo

berryBee:
Chai..Ur wife is cheating. Op sorry to say it, but u were too lenient with her in d past when she showed these cheating traits. Now she has turned to full blown kesiah. u hv confront her about it and don't give her room to deny it again.

And if u still want to make it work with her, forgive her, take control and dont ever give her room to mention d word 'ex' in ur house ever again. Even if na ex wey don turn pastor

I like the part were you made reference to the past and the signs shown...

The sad part is that op can forgive her but it will take God to build trust again and once trust is lost the stability in that home will be questioned... #FFT

elantraceey:
What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.



@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.


She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.


Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.


#Myhumbleopinion



Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice.

And when all these don't work, what next?

wristbangle:
When a lady makes the first move, she suppose to be diplomatic in her approach and such move can be approved when she and the guy have known for long albeit him been a dude who is too shy to express his feeling.

Perhaps maybe the lady you are talking about oliviaarims was too forward in her approach and also dressed seductively. There are ways to make your move on a guy you have crush on come out of his shell of shyness and if despite your move he is still not proffering his love to you, just assume he is not into you and that doesn't make him less of a man.

Well said

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

Very wrong advice

Normal stuff joor

Now this makes me laugh out loud..

Guy you never see wife yet

hob:
Thank God for the person that created makeup, if not



All guyz will b wearing dark shades just not to look at some faces


she pretty thou

Yes oh, this lady is cute with or without make up

nairalander2015:
Good day nairaland.
As I write this... I am depressed, simply depressed.. If suicide led to heaven mayb i would have been a victim.
Truly itz nt everyone who smiles that is happy.
MY story
I was born into a deeper life family 20yrs ago.. And I can say i regret being born into deeper life.. I would ave preferred been converted there than being born there.
My travails started in secondary school.. Wen i failed to attend a fellowship, my mum talked harshly, slapped me an said i was a dishes disgrace.. Just because i failed to attend a school fellowship.. And I knew that I wasn't a bad kid.. Jes the gentle type.. Since then it has been bad... When others celebrate their mum.. I can't.. I am as far from my parents as anything.. Jes because they are deeperlifers.. I can't seat comfortably with my parents.. Cos of principles. Next was the battle concerning trousers.. She woke me up one black night with a thundering slap over a slim trouser.. Imagine dat was @16.. I cried and cried dat day.. Dat God made a mistake borning me in deeper life... Jes because i walked with a girl.. She banned me from going out..
Even at a young age... Threatened me that she"ll disown me if I marry a lady who wears wigs, trousers.. Omg.. Now.. I am in the university.. I never want to go home. I hate home.. I am depressed.. So so depressed.. My dad didn't send me any cash for a month cos a friend told him I failed to attend a midweek service.. Imagine.. Yet i am not rebellious. I know fellow guys like me who had big problems with their children but they were rebellious.. But i am not
I feel depressed writing this.. Spirituality without love is a disaster.. Aw i wish i wasn't born to a deeper life's family.. Itz a curse.. I am tired.. Itz threat all the time. I am not close to my parents.. Imagine.. Seems i should just die.. I now see my mum as a enemy.. Anytime i see her i am sad.. Talks too much about simple things in a bad manner quoting Bible over needless things.. Watching ball outside is a sin.. Visiting friends is a nono.. Cos they are highly placed in the church.. Yet no one to share my burdens with.. So sad... Yet they think i am happy..i know many out there experience something similar but are helples.. Oh God have mercy on me.. Itz calamitous to be the child of a fanatic especially if you don't wanna be a fanatic also.... Advice pls.. What can I do? So so depressed.. Feel like dieing to be reborn elsewhere

Report them to their spiritual head or pastor.

Confront them politely and with diplomacy.

And please change church. You need to know God for yourself and nothing says that when you stay in the church you were born into then you are on the right track. Christianity is not fanatism...

blueandbirds:
Sorry about your predicament bro, my only advice to you is to report your parents to the pastor in charge of the deeper life branch day attend, lay all your grievances to him so dat he can talk to your parents on your behalf, hopefully they will treat you wit respect, but if they don't you have to do it in a rough way by your self, you let's dem kno dat you no more a baby, it's not gonna be easy but trust me you will get your freedom from dem...

Makes sense

ibkgab001:
Sony is a joke when it comes to the phone matters

Sony isn't a joke my brother... I use one of the Xperia phones and I can tell that Sony phones are very good. Their products standout, but the perception of the consumer matters alot.

sinaj:
I will walk away

Wow. Walking away is a high level of maturity. Cool though

The guy is the fool

Brilliant

finalboss:
if they want war... les give them... biafra problem is too much

I bet you really don't want to experience war. Don't ask for it. May God help Nigeria.

If that's the reason u broke up I think you should go back to her. She loves you. Discuss the demerits of a blood oath. You don't see such ladies regularly. It is well

ojeota:
I dont Know how you feel but the best thing to do now is to forget about everything bothering you and concentrate on yourself.
Nobody knows what the next moment holds the only one we are sure of is the one we are in.
So live your life moment by moment and forget the past.
I wish you quick recovery.

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