Please in the name of whatever God you pray to,call him and give him the job.But also let him know about what you both had back then but you really love to help out as she chose him.Make him appear ok and please tell him he can be on it till he gets something else.
I guess it is about the friendship right,pls keep respecting her home but dnt also make him feel she asked you.Relate with him man to man,he'll feel ok trust me and since you have some sense of reason this will help keep you incheck that she is taken

$wtme:


Swtheart God bless u I was there last week,I love d sch so much d kids I saw there r aje butters n they speak English so fluently but omo d money no be small thing o,520 for my 2 kids even if they say we can stretch d remaining payment if not we wud be looking at 700+ a term for my 2 kids

hahahahhaha! My sister training children now no be come chop oh! Yes, the school is realy nice no be lie. Didnt realy hav idea that its that high.

zinylizzy: hi mamas.good work y'all. i'l soon start work and will be doing night duties ans weekend duties. my baby is 9 months old.will I be able to get a nanny dt will look after my baby nights and weekends when i'm at work? hubby is not around now.getting a live in househelp has been difficult. my mum is still working

You cant tell if U can until U try , I mean try talkn to d few U see. You may get, expecially those living aone. U may just broaden your search width. Well for me its dificult to leav my baby all alone at night with "stranger", but U'r on a thight corner now so I'l sugest U also invit her when you'r around and see hw they fare.

Goodluck Dear

$wtme:


Tnx so much n God bless but pls give me more options

You can check out Brainyvill Internatinal school, at Wuse 2. They are very good too!

veronix: Hello mothers, I decided 2 give ​​​your advice a trial bt with the cotton bud cos I've been using my lil finger. OMG! I just tried it dis evenin and b4 I cld say jack robbinson, the young man released the bomb. I tried it again lyk 3 times απϑ he really released it all. So hɑքքվ! Kudos 2 Ŭ all.
Another probs is that m baby boy has full hair απϑ all of a sudden, I started seeing dandruffs. I began puttin plenty of johnson baby oil but its not working and I don't really want 2 cut my baby's hair. What can I use 2 get rid of those things.
Thanks once more.

Wow! I can only imagine how releaved U must have felt! "oh at last!" and in your boy's mind he will b shouting "freedom!"

My son's hair was almst developing dandruf too, jst around the top soft part only. I didnt notic it earlier until one day when I decided to "plait" it cos it was full and grown and I wntd to explore . I reduced the oil I was using, mixed a very litle quantitu wit coconut oil and tried to wash well but gently, I made sure I washed away d previous oil and not jst d sufface hair. I letter noticd it reducd and den no more. Now his hair can be held one(can pack one) and no drufs. I'll cut by wkend; so eager.lol.

However Dear, nothing stops you from triming d hair oh, I wantd to but neva had opportunity and tim I kept procastinating until now that his comb is far far bigger than mine oh. I didnt regret though bc it preventd cold and servd as pad when he had a minor fall once..... heard there are baby shampoos dont knw any and cant testify of it.
I hope this helps and somone else could tel better option.

Hummingbird: ...motherhood isn't easy bt @ d end its all worth it

I wouldnt have said it better! Very true! Dearie, I am adding my strenght to yours oh! Wish you'r close by wouldnt mind throwing in a hand from time to time... Take care ok? This bundles of joy will always bring you joy!

***search deep down to see if the desire for twin still exist***

@Honie...Thanks Dear. Ok I'll just continue. It wasnt funny today oh. D mother of the girl even said dey noticed blood in her poo and she had few rashes( of course it may be reaction to oda tins). One wnt b abl to account wat a child is reacting to bc U are not aware of tins like this. Ehn! My mind is always der oh, if he is grown and could tel me things its diff. these LO are still building their immune system for crying out loud...lol. they always say I am always in a hurry to come and pick him, beta for me oh, he is my childand wont INCONVINIENCE me.lol...If I can, den what is stoping me mbok? .....hmmmm kulikuli...May God watch over our kids. Amen.

Ok, d second thing is more like a question. I couldnt get all d seed from the okra blended so I made it like that for my boy. I gave him garri for the second time(couldnt make semo den and he had been taking d soup befor now althoug witout d 'seed' per say), I observed this evening that his poo had few of those seed ;o . Guys, what do U thnk? his stomach cant digest it yet or wat? was thinkn of not stopn d soup oh since I give min of two daz interval befor gving again( he loves it so much and wouldnt even alow me pause when feeding him)....confused

hey everybody! sincerely coming here makes me feel relax, U get to ask yoursef is this thread on nairaland? I doubt

hmmm two things happened today oh
My neighbor and I use the same creche for our babies. laat week I got to the day care center and discovered a staff(abi na nanny) gave this 1yr+ kulikuli she was off dt week but jst breezed in so I didnt get to C her but saw d baby with full mouth and was told she givn kulikuli by dt nanny, it was then removd frm her mouth after my complaint, I was angry. I sisnt C d nany who did dt nonsence to a xhild with few teeth...dt kind "stone! wat if she swalowd it? hmmm today I got free time and went der, d babies fada too went der, no b small tin oh! My husband cam sharpally asking for refund as he is withdrawing his son. she knelt dwn begging oh as it would cost her her job. The canadian owner eventually came to meet us(came in from a trip) and was furious and sorry.... I got so angry and wantd to C d owner and thank God she came, yjis so called nanny had distributd tom tom to some of d kids befor ooo. Imagine her saying she cant giv my baby anytin na, but U gav to A, hw am I sure U wnt do same to my boy.... She was almst sackd oh but I pleaded oh as she has learnt her mistake...dont giv anytin that is not in mt babys bag, not even water biko! I still have dem on trial as d devil U knw is better than d angel U dnt knw....God help us........

Weldone Ify, U'r doing great. Pls I'l like to know the quantities of chin chin U do, I mean what are Ur mesurements and price? need some, but not d very hard, crunchy ones as its for kids.

anticipating Ur reply. Thanks.

@op thanks greatly for reminding me of kankan(hope I spelt it rit). I use to enjoy that dish back then in lag... OMG I miss those hot pepe saurce that goes with it! hmmmmmm

^^^ you'r not alone Dear! I thnk you'r the third I'v noticed... who no like to learn better thing? Weldone ogo spyda, great job!

Chillisauce:

The food is already in the plate. Only you two moimoi?

of cours I'm not alone in the house! Not for me oh Again, dnt be too fast to conclud...

Chillisauce:

U eat too much for a lady

Funny, dnt be too fast to conclud. that I cook and took pics to upload here doesnt mean I dished it to eat, nah! watching my weight very closely...cant post an apple I took for lunch or garden eggs I had for dina...

missmishel: well done mothers. very educative thread. learning new things from here always. pls mothers that keep babies with day care, pls find time to check on them in the noon time too. my frend went to check on her daughter today around 11:00am, only to found out her baby was on sleeping drug. she couldn't even wake up untill she left. she was so angrey but had no choice cos she was going back to the office. some of these day care use sleping drugs on children and it's very bad.

I no fit shout!!! what? sleeping pills for kids?!!! angry but had no choice?! choic must come ooo. Bc of things like this, I try to create time to sneak in to check on them oh. hmmmm, God help us oh!!

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,hahahahaha dh na sharp guy!frm second day of rejection he took over,pls let me ask ooo,hw does dh's react to sucking milk filled bossoms?crazy question abi?abeg make una ansa jare.@jade hmmmm,hw much i pray 4 twins,God plz ansa me ooo,my cousin is seriously hvin a bad time,d mornin sickness coupled wit three very young boys,nd currently d mum is on child visit(omugo) at d youngest daughters place in us.shes so unhappy,it was xcitment dat dh visited after 3mnths stay in at his wok place in another country,nw shes left alone wit hurrible mornin sickness.

Hahahhaa I lgues he does more of fumbling(spelt rit?) than sucking for milk per say(at least for nw), he couldnt try it when I had full bossom during the kunu regim.lol... I must say watching weight and breastfeeding jst twice a day made the milk reduce greatly, till now no swolen/very full br.east, its jst very normal, no single pain at all.

I feel so sory for your cousin oh!!!!

Jade William:
My sister went 2cut her tube now dat sh has 3kids&her gyane said he doesn't do tubal ligation for women under 40.Sh uses IUD but sh said her husbnd complains of d rope.Hmmm

wow! If its thier norm not to cut until 40, then make I dey intensify on my prayer concerning the monopause after all wantd kids

Jade William:
I don't knw of anyother good brand.D paed said sh's sure of 7seas so dats d one sh mostly prescribes

Thanks Dear

Jade William: @itsmelex vry true.My gynae told me wit d injections;contraceptives&d implant on d hand dat i might add weight&breast tenderness&so on but wen my body adjust,d side effects wil wear out.Me I dey go tie tube.Abeg giv me d link.My sister is also interested.Sh has 3 already&sh's done but sh was usin IUD b4. Sh said he husbnd was complainin he was feelin d rope&s**t so abeg tel us where they're tyin tube jooor.Wetin sef.

Walai I dont know where them dey tie oh! na @tjskil fit know, she talked of it being done in naija. My own na to CUT the tube if monopause no come quick after I am true with "baby making"

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,no no no,nofin is wrong wit addin okro,bt for a starter who is not used to bumpin fins in his mouth durin feedin wont find it a pleasure at all,he might entirely reject d whole food because of it,jus prepare nice tasty n light, ogbono with deboned ice fish,as u feed him press d fish as though u r mashin it,at d same time checkin for bone,nd he wud eat.

Alright, was wandering cos I give my boy okra and he loves it till now.

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,hahaha i jus remembered wat u said initially.let me tell u dh is waitin for LO to get his mouth off d nipple 4 him to score anoda goal,so prepare,its comin soonest.@jade i fink xclusive bossom feedin is perfect if u cn sustain it 4 a yr.d baby will grow lik cerelac ad babies,hardly fall ill.

Honie Dear I taught you had me covered in your prayer against any goal for now? No be lie oh! In fact d second day of rejection DH continued from where baby stoped oh @Jade has said the real thing, We are all the counting daz thing oh, and can only say " Ah! thank God!" when we see that color droping.
For me, exclusive didnt stop the period oh! I did 6mnth EBF but at exactly 3mths after delivery the thing startd oh

@tjskil I don free am oh!

When I was grown up there was this woman always sitting on her varander outside her house. if U see how OBESE this woman was ehn! she had a customaized chair and she hardly move, I mean she was OOOOBEEEEESSSE! OMG! my mum used to greet her and have a litle chart and when she cane fir omugwo she was telling me that it was family planing (I thnk the drugs or so) that caused it, she started adding uncontrokavlt after the plan. I still think there may other reason, nay not even be the pkan but I still they fear oh, what of if it was true....hmmmmm God help us....

Jade William:
I used NAN 2 frm 6mths.SMA gold is also good if u can get d original unles u want 2go for foreign milk lik Aptamil,similac,Emfamil,cow&gate&d rest.
Add soyabeans to ur baby's pap too.Its good 4kids.Do u knw abt 7 seas codliver oil? It helps wit baby's bone.Ask ur peadiatrician abt it.SMy paed advised me 2use it wen my baby was abt 5mths.

Jade pls do U know another brand of codliver oil apart from 7seas? Realy looking for good alternativ that my baby may apreciate. thnks

Honiepie24: introduce solid(swallow)wit draw soup(ogbono without okro)until he gets aquinted to eatin soup.another recipie i lov 4 starters is soft boiledand mashed yam,plantain or irish potato,yu can boil it in meat,chicken,fish stock or ordinary water,spice d stock normally bt wit lil or without pepper.wen its soft boiled bring them out nd mash wit a fork den pour palm oil wit salt to taste on it nd feed him,wow,certainly he weont object.

pls can I ask any effect adding okra?

k4kenny:
@itsmelex. Similar thing happened to M̶̲̅ε̲̣ when my boy was teething at 9mos. He refused d b/milk. I was in so much pain for abt 3 days. Just when I was heaving a sigh of relief, this boys started demanding his property muyjk$ore than ever, I went to overflowing boobies to completely drained. So still dey observe him o .
Rily enjoying d thread, keep it up mamas

Thanks Dear. still observing oh. Still no interest today, but taking nan2...no going back oh!

tjskii:
My sis I tire,but one has to be chosen,me I no fit do natural method o,cos once hubby touch me na belle,if he jus look me sef wth sex on his mind na belle,

Now this should be the joke of the week! Got me realy laughing! Abeg girld well oh, no even try the natural oh this one way sperm dey even pass from eye .God go help us oh!

Hummingbird: criously dis got me laffing hard really,wish I could make dis kind of prayer..m prayin too,wen my babies r 3years old,all shots before den shd be offside..I pray oh Lord..

Amen!

made this friday night...pepesoup with diced chicken and gizard

sunday...jelof rice, moimoi and diced beaf ( hey I ran out of time for church and couldnt make the veg as I planed and decided to just put som into the almst cooked rice )

Jade William:
I don't knw y men don't go thru al these s**ts

Jade you can SHOUT that again!!

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,congrats on easy weaning,some peepz xperience a hard time doing so.jus b careful,anoda bump is on day way,''eyes rolling''

Thanks oh! In fact I relunctantly tried again today and he refused. I am really gratful to God oh and I pray I dnt experienve any pain, none at all so far. Heeyyy!!! Honie abeg take back that part of 'another bump on the way...'. walai I never ready ooo over caareful sef oh because I have chosen to do the natural birth control method (this is because I tuk over 12months befor marriage to study my body and can tell almost for sure). My boy is almst one and no goal yet, I desire he is exactly 2yrs befor another goal will take place....
***claps hands, closes eyes and prays*** Oh God please dont forget my request oh, Junior should be 2yrs old befor I get pregnant again and pls let monopause just begin after I and DH decides childbearing is over, I wouldnt want these negativ effects of contraceptives. I know You can do this for me. Thanks God. IJN. Amen

judii: pLs, make sure u pump and throw it away before letting him suck o! That's what someone told me.

Thanks oh. Up til now he stil is refusing it and I'v concluded to stop he will soon be one.To be frank I 'packaged' my breastpump after introducing solid...not ready to go that direction again at this stage biko. lol

Honiepie24: well i feel yur baby is gradually weaning himself,once he starts to reject suckin,he will hardly go bk to it,did u do EBF for him?i fink u shud gradually start introducin supplement feedin,so he wont starve.theres nofin to worry about,kip pumpin to kip it fresh nd always offer him,even if he dosnt suck,let him play around it abit until he completely rejects it.all d best.

I did exclusive ooo, without water until exactly six months! He still is rejecting uptil now,3daz nw, even when I offer him so he could sleep he will hold the thing play horn with it until he sleeps. My Dear I am stoping, yeppeeee!!! will jst mak sure he eats more balancd food...thanks

maxiflexi: My colleague saw me buying bananas for my almost 8mth old baby & asked if I dewormed her @ 6mths. This is the first I'm hearing about deworming a baby, mum & MIL say its not necessary. Pls mums in the house, when did u deworm ur babies?

My son is 11mnths+ and not dewormed, but I'v given him water from saint leaf once. I googled about this somtime ago and didnt find where babies are dewormd, just toddlers for some, mayb I'l check again...
curious too....


@all, the point of breastmilk getting spoilt(in d bossom oh!) is gradually given me concern oh. For two days now my boy has not sucked from the breast(and I'v stoped bumping), he just turns the ni*pple to switch button and uses his tumb on it. I'v always wantd to stop earlier but dont knw why am concerned now. I think he is teething now and maybe the reason for refusing to nurse, but should I be concernd of giving him 'spoilt' milk if he choose to suck later today or tmrw?... realy concerned.... or I should just stop?....arrrgggg!!

$wtme:

I gave my kids Milo from 6months n yes they stooled at first n I reduced d Milo,d stooling stopped when they started getting used 2 it.Seriously I av never heard of beverages 4 kids maybe u should ask her so that we can also review it n try it out.

Thanks sis. I have stoped the milo sharpally.lol. its just very litle oh, not more than 2baby feeding spoon! Will try again maybe next week or even later. She said she couldnt remember names but will definately find out when I see her in person.

tjskii: The 1st time I gav my son milo,he also pooped,I figured it was cos his system wasn't used to something so sweet(same thing happened when I started giving him bananas),so I gav it a space of bout 3days and I tried again,gradually d pooping stopped.

Dunno much bout beverages for kids though,I just waited til he was a year old when I cud be sure that to a certain extent his system cud handle wholemilk and adult beverage

Thanks oh. Same thing happened to my boy too when I tried finger bananas, since then I have not attempted finger bananas again. He will be one year by month end.