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aboyaji:
Please, this is not a good example. Schooling and worshipping the Lord are not the same.

Oh really, wats the difference please stop being religious!!!!

DBestDoc:
Read the bible my friend, you'll see in the book of psalms 50: 9 down, you'll understand that God owns everything and he doesn't need your stuff for himself.

The tithe you put in your church is actually for the pastor, to service his needs and other projects at his discretion.



The only way to give to God is to give to your fellow brother or sister in need.

Yes, Jesus said somewhere in the bible that on that day, he'll reject the man that saw him hungry but didn't give him food, saw him naked but didn't cloth him and he was in prison but wasn't visited. What did the man say?

He said Lord, when did i see you hungry and didn't feed you, naked and didn't cloth you...
Jesus replied, whatever you do for my brothers, you do for me and whatever you didn't do for them, you didn't do for me.

We ignore the people that are helpless and in dire need only to service the need of a man that has got all going for him.

Read the bible people, and ask the Holy Spirit to give you understanding. He will.


Whenever you give to anyone, you'll surely receive the blessings attached to giving. Tithing has the same principle, but it's wisdom to tithe the right way.

Give where it's need and gonna make a huge difference to the receiver, that way you see the evidence of what you gave and you'll be happy in the end.

OGA Know-the-bible, one thing is to read the Bible and the other thing is to get revelation knowledge. That same bible sed, the letter killeth buh the word giveth life... don't become too familiar with the Bible that Uve decided to restrict urself from learning new things from that same bible. I am still learning Gods word and I'm growing in it everyday and it's that same bible that sed in Malachi that We shld bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse and the Lord will open the windows of heaven unto u such that the blessings u will receive there will not be room enough to contain it. I'm following it and it has been producing massive results for me, I don't care who eats the tithe, that's the person's business, all I kno is I've obeyed God's instructions and I've gotten my reward!!!! If u like give ur tithe to beggars, I did not see that in my bible, I only saw give (out of ur own pocket not from tithe) to the needy and God will reward u buh that one is different from the Law of Tithing. OGA take ur own make I take my own, all man for himself. Make I dey here dey work my own salvation jejely

TrueHeart365:
why should it be confusing to worship where you wish to since we all claim to serve one God and should preach one truth?

the way modern day christians have colonised God is so appaling.

i remember jesus and his disciples gathering to worship with whomever and wherever they setttled.

your body is the temple of God not the building
you worship for he said you should not forsake the assembly of the saint. not you should worship with this church or that churxh.

we call christian gatherings "church" yet divide ourselves.

I believe u are Christian, so stop selling urself out... I want to ask u a question, if u skul in uniport, where will u write ur final exams? Uniport abi? Or will u go to Unilag and write exam because we are all "students"... don't deceive urself, some church doctrines contradict wat the word of God says... Mind you, we are not dividing ourselves, we are only gaining knowledge buh from different sources

zicoraads:
Lol. Which lady doesn't? That's one thing every lady likes

buh some guys don't like to give too much attention, it's like a SIN to them! Dear Future Husby, pls Spoil me with Attention

I love Attention!!!!!!!

Churches? U are spose to worship in just 1 particular church except u want to change church. U are confusing yourself the more if u decide to start attending two churches. Pay ur tithe to the church where u receive divine instructions as well as divine blessings. You are not paying ur tithe to the Man Of God, u are paying ur tithe to God.

Crauxx:
All this one na nonsense talk. Did they know what was going to happe?
They were constantly nagging thier husbands not to watch football and am guessing that made the man leave the house.
You cant tell a man not to watch football. It was an accident not that the women were right or something.

What kind of construction is that one

U beta not be a stubborn somebori... wat is nonsense talk der na? Men shld learn how to listen to their wives sometimes bcs u dnt kno wat they see, Nor be everything be Nag Nag Nag.... Men learn how to listen to ur wife,gf,sister,mother, daughter. I kno some Men that hav lost their lives bcs they refused to listen!!! Anywayz it has already happened, may their gentle souls Rest In Peace!!!

Also, let us learn how to listen to our inner spirit, God has given us a spirit to guide us, let us all heed to dat inner voice, it is the Holy Spirit telling u what to do. Imagine if that Chelsea fan had not obeyed his inner voice, he wld hav joined them too... Let us all learn from this, May God help us all and help us not to be stubborn IJN,AMEN!!!

henryhemon:
Why do you think you 're the one who is smart when you 're playing yourself. Men are smart once they realize you 're non committal then won't commit to you,agreed there are men who waste your time but I leave this with you......no real man will see a very responsible lady who has the qualities he wants and wouldn't wife her expect he has no money yet. So if you 're responsible and adds value to any man you will get marriage proposal but.if you 're the 'usual' Nigerian girl I'm sorry no one will take you serious even if it's 20 men you 've in your life.

You have a point tho buh we are only humans and sometimes even when men meet that responsible lady they want to be with, they'd still want to fool arnd yet keep her and hurting her In the process unknowingly. Mind u, if a lady decides to cheat, der are just some u can never catch, u won't even kno, she'd be loving u and respecting you buh she has her options open buh u, the man might never find out. U only see wat we want u to see. I'm not trying to justify cheating cs for me it's too much wasted energy and I dnt kno how to waste my time buh it's safer to keep ur options open. I don't cheat cs it's a personal decision buh I have a lot of male friends that I talk to when I have rship issues to distract me buh it doesn't mean i have anything to do with them. So I guess that's wat the poster is trying to say.

Some ladies tend to stop every form of communication with their male friends when they start dating. It's wrong bcs when the guy decides to misbehave, they'd have no one to talk to bcs they hav pushed their friends away bcs of just one guy. Soon the girl will start takin things she doesn't normally take from the guy bcs she wants to keep her rship buh in a case where she has ppl to talk to, she can be able to walk away for the man to realize himself and correct his wrongs if he truly loves her

This is veryy true!!!!! I've seen ladies who commit to one man and at the end, the man gets bored and chooses sum1 else leaving the lady in the dark, feeling confused and abandoned.... ladies keep ur options open until he puts a ring on it.... if u like not hear word, na u Sabi!!!!! Some guys will not like this buh it's the plain truth, when a lady shows that she loves u too much, some of u tend to abuse it and take advantage of it but if she has multiple partners, she won't even send the things u do (less nagging) leaving u to be more attracted to her the more

archymacho:
I wanna write ILETS. Can I get tips about how to go about it successfully ?

There is a previous thread on that already here on nairaland just search for it, read from the beginning to the end and u'd get all the answers u seek, including links to study materials too... I'd be writing it too buh I got my resources from nairaland

chronique:
A large percentage of ladies with multiple piercing aren't clean or decent girls so if someone says something of such about Tboss, it wouldn't surprise me.

Dats the thing, d girl is not a decent girl so they shld spare us all this holy art thou attitude

Lokoyen:
I guess u didn't watch d video. Go to YouTube and watch it again. That's not asexual harrasment for Godsake. She slept naked on d same bed with kemen.is kemen a log of wood? Besides the moment kemen made d move she objected and kemen Kept his cool. How is DAT sexual harassment?

No sir, they sed they want to bring Oyibo rules to naija and it states that sexual assault is a crime and there is something called groping (touching som1 without the person's consent) buh the question is, if that's a criminal offense that means 80% of naija guys are guilty of doing that... they shld start from the root.
I want to also ask y Was she was giving the guy green light, showing boobs, letting him massage her naked and all those slutty things... is that how an average Nigerian woman behave And she wants me to support her actions

U see wat I am saying, he that is without sin let him be d first to cast the stone on Kemen the

GloriaNinja:
AY AND HELEN PAUL MADE A FOOL OF THEMSELVES.

Dat wat nah It's that not their job To make a fool of themselves and get paid for it So wait oo I want to ask u one honest question, wat do you want Nigerians to do abt this Kemen-Tboss drama? If we use it as joke, they will take it p... if we talk abt it, they wee take it p.... Wat shld we do?

I see nothing wrong in what the guy has done.. y are u all insulting him? He only did the right things for the wrong girl, he shld move on.... buh guys sha, a lady will cheat and it will be like the world has ended buh when they cheat, it's nothing... they expect we ladies to forgive and forget, guys una well done ooo

All these ones the OP is saying i hope he abides by it tho cs one thing is to talk and the other is to do. Dnt let another man's opinion ruin ur rship. For me, there are no rules in dating, one is allowed to compromise sometimes and dats how we learn. Guys never be too rigid, never be too scared to date, let it flow, let ur spirit guide you to do the right things to ur lady cs honestly there are no rules!!!! Treat her the way u want ur future daughter to be treated and ladies treat men the way u want ur future son to be treated!

It is actually good bcs he paid the price for our redemption, our happiness, he sets us free from bondage and darkness... he declared us free!!!

prof1990:
No offense to anyone here but it is really bad how we celebrate mediocrity.

I follow the show very well and up till now I don't understand the hype about this Efe. Dude is just a talkative, supposed to be a rapper but can't drop lines,speaks horrible English. BBNAIJA no be poverty alleviation scheme abeg. Tboss and Efe to me should not even be in the house anymore.

See a talented mind like Bassey not being in the finals.

it's really bad knowing you can be stupid and people go still vote for you.

not voting but after Bassey, bisola for me is the next in line y'all just hating because she loves d*ck and she doesn't hide it.

The thing is, if we look at perfection b4 we select ppl, Buhari will not even smell presidency seat. There's something called Grace and Favour, it has given the unqualified, qualifications.... If u don't see anything in Efe, others do... Thank God it's just ur opinion.... See Bisola wey u dey support, she doesn't even have self control as a lady and u tell us to vote her? Abi na rich kid manipulator we go give our votes to, or is it the one that doesn't have her stand, just to do follow follow.... Abeg leave Efe for Us Biko, he's the most qualified so far

dfrost:
That's all. Nice one.

Thank you!!! Learning from you

It's funny how most of us here are bashing the woman when funny enough, it can happen to even the best of us... there is no excuse for cheating!!! Most of the ladies here are forming baddo sneh, giving advice and all, buh dnt be surprised that they are also going through same if not worse.

You say, she shld start dressing well if U like wear all the latest shoes and be a slay queen, a man that still wants to look out will look out. Reasons being that some Men are just chronic womanizers, they can't stand the presence of another lady, ugly or not, they want to get down with her... at least tonto Dikeh is an example, abi e get who slay pass that one again Buh her husband still cheated on her... Call it Karma buh der are still other pretty ladies out der that didn't do bad things with any married man, buh still ended up with a Man that cannot control himself

So this cheating thing is wrong buh der are some ppl trying to give flimsy excuses to make it look right. The best advice is that Marry a Man that fears God and love you at the same time,so that at the end, when the day of reckoning comes, the fear of God will constrict him and he will come running back to u.

P.S: I'm not saying Married Women should not Dress well oo buh I'm sayin it's not a warranty that ur Man won't cheat on u still!

dfrost:
I quite disagree with this submission of yours albeit your opinion. So I should disown my dad because he doesn't have money to finish up my training in school that he has already started? Evil never begets evil although some pick it over doing the right things. What stops the man from telling his wife that she is misbehaving? Like seriously a man controls his home not the other way round.

One of the problems with some men is drooling

over the physical features of a woman and not looking inside her beautiful side. Haba? So there is nothing that his wife reminds him of that puts smiles on his face and discard the immoral stupid thought of his at that moment his third leg is pushing him to the cliff? There is and there will never be an excuse for cheating. Real men don't cheat. For better or (for) worse.

Awww loving u already.... blowing kisses from afar

Yteflon:
STFU .. shina has no moral qualification to give such an advice... the street no their story... they plenty for IG.. forming motivation

So u must insult person b4 u make a point? How old are you? At least he is beta than you that has no motivation to give

udemzy101:
Which mumu passion?

You think that guy that studied accounting and later decide to teach a sec school did it cos he have passion for teaching?

It's all about the money, the money will develop the passion.

Money can never develop passion!!! It's just as tho u are saying beauty brings love and money brings happiness. Not True, dnt be deceived!!!

spartan117:
Someone who has made d money is advising u to chase d passion instead, won't u now use ur head to know dat it's d passion dat brings money
This is d reason why many people are poor

I just tire!!! That's y we have so many 419'ers around bcs most of our youths are impatient!!! See them celebrating ignorance and callin it clap back! Yes the man is shocked, shocked at his ignorance and stupidity. Poor Mindset!

How do we kno if u are not lying Cs those tears seem fake to me... u were naive abi u marry for money and connect, the thing did not play according to wat u planned na, u are crying crocodile tears... u Berra go bak to ur husband's house and dnt act like ur mother. Una think say na Yankee una dey Divorce here and there, marriage nor be bf and gf oo, if u Neva ready, stay ur own, make others marry their marry in peace. I'm tayad of seeing all these failed marriages!!!

Billyonaire:
Keep your ignorance very close to your heart. I am not one of the Hallelujah boys, neither do I believe nor depend on your Sky Daddy for my ever-increasing supplies.

You are not only ignorant, u are foolish!!! Wat are u ?? I won't be surprised if I find out u are just 13 years old cs only a fool will say God does not exist!!! slowpoke!

Billyonaire:
For those who pay Tithes and Offerings, now you know how your sweat is shared, not among Angel Michael and Angel Gabriel, but your donations, tithes and offerings are shared among Wet Angels.

I pray that u don't end up with this annoying mentality of urs cs u will end up broke and u'd find out that ur money easily goes down the drain when u work for it. Go and read ur bible, when people give tithes and offerings, they don't give it to make the pastors prosperous buh to make themselves prosperous and there is a blessing attached to givers... So, Accuser of the brethren, stop letting the devil use you and Repent from Ignorance today.

AREA!!!! Like if u Rep Wafi )

hoover420:
Hmmm
You said women today are doing what the same thing Tboss did to get to the top #smh
Please speak for yourself!
There are still notable women out there like my mom

Oga I didn't say women... I sed So many!! It's obvious that the notable women (including ur mom) are not part of the so many. Don't be quick to comment, understand b4 u quote :*

Tboss is not anybody's bae... yh she's slutty buh it's a game... y is every1 taking it p Kemen was only a victim. So many women today are doing the same thing that Tboss has done to get to the top. So y are we all acting as tho we don't kno wat went down. It's a Game!!!! Tboss is a desperado and we kno wat desperadoes do. Anything for the fame and money. I'm not supporting Tboss so nobody shld quote me, ayam just sayin that it's a game.

Wats this crap about? Y are the family members being irrational in their thoughts... na Kemen be the first man wey dem set up Dem send Kemen make him go sleep with woman for big brother house Efe nor be man?? Bassey nor be man Kemen shld gaan learn self control... mtcheww... this is a lesson to guys that it doesn't mean wether she gives u green light or not, be careful who u hav sex with cs ladies are dangerous. Joseph almost lost his blessing to potiphar's wife sposin he had obliged... so let's all learn from this I dey vex abeg...

Hydrojin:
If your dad had known ni aunty kemi, that you would become so useless. He would used you instead of your brother as you claim.....



In falz voice....You indulge in some hot drinks you haf join bad gang

It's beta not to say anything at all cs u made no sense. What if she's saying the truth? Do u kno how wicked this world is?