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princfred:
It can help knock you out of the delusion that guys are afraid of you just because you earn a living. The fact that few illitrate guys show you respect (just like they show their fellow educated guys respect) does not in anyway imply that men fear empowered or successful women.
Those white ladies have lived the civilization and guys still comfortable colonize them una wey be learners dey reason fear.

They mean a lot to guys who sabi that's enough to keep a lot of them in check towards your type.

I didn't want to quote anymore but you are so full of negativity but I don't blame you, I blame the society who has conformed you to this state of negativity. You have been airing negatively on this thread ever since it started and trust me, it doesn't show how much of a Man U are, instead it shows how dominating you can be. People like you cannot hold down a strong lady because you will end up abusing her and making her feel worthless. Princes need princesses and as your name implies, act like a prince and stop behaving traditional, it doesn't suit you or it doesn't suit your name

@biterkola was just trying to explain This to you in simple terms but i was shocked how u twisted it, capitalized on the ones that bruised your ego and ignore those beautiful strengths she displayed there in words. She never told you she does not value her husband, her husband is her King and she treats him that way. What else do you men want? She does not depend on her husbands money ... You didn't see that part but u were quick to condemn her... It shows how hypocritical you are. Now you are against independent ladies?? If you want dependent ladies just go for one but don't expect independent ladies to behave like dependent ladies . The latter do not care if you abuse or disrespect them, but the former values respect, love and attention and once you give her that, she can be everything you want her to be.

I am simply amazed at your display of immaturity tbh and that's why I had to quote you. Learn to appreciate women. If not for anything for your mother's sake, appreciate them. Learn to see the good in people, nobody is perfect . I am sure you have lot of flaws but I bet that only an immature person will use it against you. No relationship is perfect, no marriage is either, it needs two patient individuals for it to work . So please work on your attitude and have some level of respect for the womankind.

JESUSBOIY:
I seem to have lost faith .

Please do not lose faith... That's all you have.Guard and protect it like your life. Give attention to the word of God, listen to motivational tapes by men Of God. Everything u need is in Jesus, don't look elsewhere.,. I was once like you, I remember but I can't even remember when last I cared abt Wat people think. Instead right now, I have the ' I rule the world" mentality.... How did it happen? I submitted to Jesus, I became born again and I followed his words bumper to bumper. If I make mistakes or err, I ask for forgiveness and continue my walk with Jesus. I can say I am a very radical and stubborn follower of Jesus , that is , no matter what tricks the devil throw at me, I still hold on to Jesus and see what he has made my life become... My dear, please don't lose faith, everything u desire is in Christ, Hold on to him and he will teach you how to break free from every challenge you are facing. Remember he said, not by your power, not by your might... So Jesus realizes that there are some things you cannot stop by yourself except you involve him because life is Spiritual... God created you to be Bold, Fearless and Conquer the world but the devil is trying to change that for you, so you have to lean on Christ so that he can help you fight these battles and trust me, U NEED FAITH... REMEMBER WITHOUT FAITH IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE GOD... UR FAITH IS YOUR CONNECTION TO GOD FOR THAT SPECIAL MIRACLE. JESUS LOVES YOU, JESUSBOIY!!!!

Nairaland never forgets!!!! So as you type here, remember what you type cs in the days of reckoning I will bring it back and remind you of what you said and you shall all give account....

After God, Fear Humans!!! As long as you decide to love someone you can never be too careful and if you say you won't love, you are simply not existing, don't deceive yourself. The Greatest feeling in the world is to love someone and be loved!


Thank you all for viewing this topic!!! if you like quote, I will no longer respond to any quotes from here and to all the nice men in the house, Greater You I Pray and continue being good, do not change because of anybody because at the end, We do not live for ourself, we live for God.
Whatever will give God glory, do it but anything that will not, try your best to avoid it.

All the Best!!!!!!!!

tayooluwole:
Woman, get the hell out of here... You can not understand, what this guy called nho4 did in my life with that her comment is immeasurable... I have suffered enough in the hands of ladies... He has just emancipated me from captivity of finding woman all about that will later probably kick my ass to emotional slavery... Since i read his comment, i have been busy deleting some numbers on my phone... Enough is enough... Love from women of now are days is truly a scam...

If at the end of all this rubbish u wrote here u still go ahead and date a girl in the future, then u are the biggest hypocrite ever!!! Right now, I won't really pay attention to you cs I can see that u are still hurting, when u are done hurting, please just stay as u are and don't date again. Go to brothels and patronize prostitutes but later don't come and cry for us when the repercussions come knocking. Men are hustling, preparing themselves to be a better father for their kids, u are here listening to foolish counsels

peacezy555:
I am very sure he has a girlfriend. many people online live d opposite of what they portray in social media

I pity his girlfriend if he has one... Don't mind them, they are pretenders! That's how one after insulting women here sent me a PM.i just dismissed it immediately. Hypocrites! After they have met all these village mgbeke begi begi girls, they will come here and type trash when they don't even have spec for ladies. Any thing in skirt they follow, they will come here and type like kids

DeckXavier:
I'd say you're the one who's infuriated... That you had to make a thread about someone's else's opinion.. I can quote whom ever I like, deal with it

Lmao u got it all wrong....I wasn't infuriated , I just wanted to change ppl's mindset about certain lifestyle.

DeckXavier:
madam rest abeg, real man this, real man that.. You no dey tire? I'd say a real man is someone who lives above societal norms.. Someone who steers his life in whatever direction he so wishes.. So madam keep your "real man" to yourself

So y are u pained? Y do u care? I am entitled to my opinions right and the last time I checked I didn't quote you.

morningstar55:
If you were expecting me to asslick you by sharing this post,you are better wake up,cos real men do not asslick...plz help me pass this to your asslickers "If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex,women will respect you"...Btw,stop begging for shares

U talk like a lady, I am surprised u are a man, oh I meant boy

I forgot to add, real men respect women and they don't talk like cowards
Secondly I am not begging for shares, I was only telling real men who support my views to share my post so that people can knows that we don't only hav men like you, there are better men out der.

2buffagain:
That emboldened phrase only works on the idiots of this generation TBH
Men of this generation couldn't give 2 shits about what your ever-morphing, self-inclined, parasitic definitions of what a real man is.
They make their own definitions, and are enjoying their lives free of such obvious societal scams...to the detriment of y'all who have little to nothing to offer anyway.

Go and cry if ee too pain you

Lmao stop deceiving yourself... Why did u now emphasize that u are one, hypocrite

gloria34:
its not true, get that thought off ur head. probably u have gone thru a lot, so have lots of girls. I once dated a guy that asked me to marry him, went thru his whatsapp once and found out that he also asked same of three other girls. I just quit, yet I still believe in love. time will reveal it all. if we continue with this mindset, our future husbands and wives will suffer

Aww, I can perfectly relate... But do u know some ladies will still see all those things and go ahead and marry because of desperation, you made a wise decision to walk away, like you sed, with time, everything will fall into place. Keep believing and you will attract the man of your dreams!

propanet:
How market Op, Who is leading?
Are those in support of the guy's post leading or those against it?

Evil spreads faster than Good nah I am not surprised!

princfred:
For a long time even till recently I keep telling Nigerian ladies that their mentality will turn men into beasts and it will be very negative on them ladies but they won't hear. Most of the guys supporting him shared or have tales of how a girls orientation and doing changed them from otherwise lovely folks to mindless f*ckers. This is just the beginning.

Who is deceiving who? At the end of the day, they will suffer it too. U think men have not done worse things to women as well? Is that what you think? It's only a man/lady with no values that will allow a wrong relationship change him/her. Let's call a spade a spade. Nigeria's economy is bad but will u gaan do yahoo because it's bad Only a person with poor moral upbringing will follow that path come what may. Life is a Choice!

ashewoboy:
ladies are stupid. that post may get him a pvssy. I know a number of them must have sent him message. ladies are hypocrite. "guys, never support a lady in any argument"

Just like you sent me a message?? You are the biggest hypocrite ever!!!! You just exposed yourself, it shows how hypocritical u lot are, u tell people to do one thing and later do the opposite of what you preach. I don't pity people like you, I pity your gullible followers. Maybe you should lead by example and stop sending messages to ladies here on NL since they are stupid.

chinchonglee:
was actually doubting ur stupidity...

nt until i saw dis ur post..all i av to say to u is..


U NOR GET SENSE!

See u that have sense , u are so senseless that u didn't even know the right business to start... Oh What a Baby!

MichaelBukamzy:
Your are just a pained evening newspaper. You ladies aint gonna be allowed to mess with our emotions anymore. deal with it granny.

Lmao if I tell u my age, you will be amazed but good luck with your thoughts tho

TonyeBarcanista:
S.A Entertainment to Governor Udom Emmanuel and Nollywood Star, Ini Edo with S.A Digital Media, Mrs Meflyn Anwana, at the pre-event Press Conference

This woman, Meflyn is a positive lady to hang out with... She is an amazing personality! We were spose to start an all girls forum together but I guess she was too busy for that, she is full of life and pretty too

MichaelBukamzy:
Am yet to see the real women here,it is not for them,because we identify them with their characters.it now implies that only awon slay mamas and feminists are mad over that comment? nho4,you are hero mahn. Educate them nho4,pussy aint worth the emotional stress. make money and give those godamn leeches the prettymike treatment. no be feminism(equality with men)una want? lonelyness,heartbreaks,disapointments and regretts go kill una when una clock evening newspaper. our mothers didnt grow with your kind of mentality.since you slay mamas insist on "no love without cash" you will get "no cash without pu%%y. una want the so called real men to offer their lives to please una but in return, nothing to offer except pussy we adamu,iniobong,obinna,olamide,ehis,nelson, and cucumber dey 4uk with reckless abandone. rara oo

You are just a child that lacks comprehension! Typical Beer Parlour Rants

Tombrown3:
So it's only by love someone can have sex and make a baby abi? I have been listening to you quietly. Don't provoke me ooo....

please do not be provoked, so u are the type that can sleep with someone when u don't love the person... Wawu!!! Baby Mama Gang Spotted

SlayQueenSlayer:
I have no idea what my profile says about my gender. I didn't select any gender. Maybe the default is set to female. I have taken care of that though.

On the name, I don't understand how that implies female. It actually implies that I am a slayer of slay queens.

I am 101% straight. The closest I ever come to bi is when I had a 3some with two bi ladies.

At the last sentence, Ewwwweeeeee Yuck

rockyh:
Some ladies words n actions make guys take such useless n unedited actions a lady I was bn serious with once told me that if I will have sex with her I will first pay her money before her coming to see me so she doesn't look like a prostitute before me she even went as far as quoting the figures to pay her so if u are immature n meet such ladies u will think n behave like the guy in question I see relationship as a leverage to broaden ur mindset about marriage so never say don't need a lady but say u don't need a lady who sees relationship as a piggy bank

Very true, it's better said that way... He even said mother and child is the most important but how will the mother have the child without the father I think he sees women as objects and it's amazing how people are applauding this mindset. Maybe he is not ready to have a family sha or he doesn't want to

ajericho:
I just wonder what's special about this their confronting opposition party,you come dey call am boldness lol

No oo, I just generally like Wike, it's not about what he is doing right now

morningstar55:
Well...i just liked this post and i'll do it again and again.Btw..i'm a real man...to all the real men out there,here is the quote"if you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex,women will respect you".

By their words u shall know them , u don't need to tell us that you are a real man... A real Man does not advertise it the way u do, it shows in their posts

akinszz:
The guy is right... The problem is we don't like to be told the truth.

Wat truth are you talking about? Please truth is relative, Wat is truth for you might not be truth for me biko

N0favors:
That’s why you’ll never find man on Nairaland. Shame

Shuu lmao who is praying to meet a man on Nairaland Dem they give award *Rotfl... Funny you!

2buffagain:
I am not "Mr MGTOW".

I am simply educating your ilk (be they man or woman) of the realities of psychological responses and the situations that cause them....something you should be looking into instead of pathetically complaining in this thread.

Grammarian go and educate your MGTOW people because they need it more than I do and mind you I am not complaining, I am simply enlightening a certain set of people on a particular topic. It is an opinion thread not a complaint thread. Get Understanding, it will profit you

SlayQueenSlayer:
And who is your sister? This guy here can get you pregnant in one sitting.

Sorry oo, no vex no be fight na... Your profile sez u are female and even your name implies that u are female too or are you impersonating Slayqueenslayer really That's so gay or are you bi?

2buffagain:
You're just caught up in your feelings because if ALL men thought like this (i.e thinking only about themselves, like most women do), you females would become quite wretched.

Men are already thinking like this in droves.
Have you never heard of the MGTOW movement? (Men going their own way)
It is growing into quite the popular lifestyle. It is as a response to the unheard frustrations of men over the current modern years, and also to men who have been victims to women....seeing as men who express their pain regarding women just generally get laughed at.

That's what happens when you keep laughing at peoples pain. They stop caring after a point and forge a life of happiness away from said pain and other pointless social norms that, upon honest personal evaluation, doesn't really benefit them as it does the other party.

You don't have to pray to avoid MGTOW men as you can bet they are ALREADY avoiding you.
You naive females tend to think that the only way a man can have sex outside of marriage is by wither paying for it or lying to some girl.
I assure you, a man does not need to lie. He can state the terms of whatever "relationship" he wants and that won't stop women from still applying with their CV. Only idiotic men lie for sex.

MGTOW is only going to grow. Did your bible not tell you these times were coming?

No be only MGTOW , na MGWAGON.... The person u quoted is a male to start with and you can promote your movement somewhere else or better still create a thread for it rather than promoting it on other people's thread Mr MGTOW

millionboi2:
u are not permitted to love a sitn governr.

Lmao.. Says who I admire him, sorry to say, not that kind of love u think

SlayQueenSlayer:
He is married with kids.

Not that kind of love sister.... I admire him, sorry to say!

I Admire Wike... He is so courageous and Bold

I can't stop laughing... I saved it already

My fav part

GOFRONT:


Dude should be drunk by now, going by the way people are ordering crates of beer for him......

Infact he received a credit alert from somebody ontop that comment

Who saw that part where someone suggested to him to share the money with some other less privilege guys online?

Well, as for me, I have done all he wrote on that comment before, that is, (staying without having a girlfriend because of the trauma that is involved). But I came to a point, I couldnt continue that way. I gave it up, cos I couldnt cheat nature. I need a woman.

We must need a woman, we cant cheat nature, We must need a woman, I repeat we must need a woma

Please share the original post , it is an opinion thread, thanks for your sincere input once more