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Dat was from yesterday's Rhapsody of Realities Devotional.... Aww!!! Yass, Nothing indeed works without the Holy Spirit

I don't have a problem with what she complained about but I'm bothered abt this sentence she made..

"I sew a lovely top with the Ankara"... Pls it just sounds somehow, why not 'made' instead of sew

It's sha funny to the ears, she might be correct tho

lilmax:
lol see who's talking about maturity

in 2018, a "mature" girl that should think of marriage is having a male bestie?

if having a male bestie should be tolerated because relationship is not easy, then you should fix yourself before you think of having a relationship.

so babe, the guy did the best thing ever

Did u even read Okay if you read, did you understand Or like your fellow male counterparts you quickly concluded I was supporting her... I wasn't supporting anyone, I stated that the young man allowed her to have a male bestie. Y did he continue when he knew she had a bestie? The young man is to blame for this as well, pls read and understand next time

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be. She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly. Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys, talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort... He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong" and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not. I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection. On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready

I cant stand disrespect.

I read all the comments here and not one single person advised you that relationship is not an easy sail.... This only shows that we have hypocrites on NL or most people don't know what love is. From what u posted up der, u simply allowed those things... The moment she told you or u knew abt her male bestie, you shld have communicated with her as a friend and her man that you can't stand it and it's disrespectful and at such u will not entertain it. Rome was not built in a day! The next girl will give you attitude, and the next, and the next.... So u will continue leaving? Do you know how mentally challenging that is? That is why you should not rush into relationships, it is not for babies. Build friendship and your friendship will blossom into relationship. From your post, it's not much of a big issue but Wat I see on your own part, is that you have been observing and keeping things to yourself which is not good. Communicate with your next partner, it will save you from all this drama and lastly, relationships require lots of work and tolerance. Everyone giving advice here did not tell u how they beg their ladies or how their ladies beg them, nobody is perfect yet, so if you feel this is something you both can work out fine, go ahead and work it out. This is not an issue, it's a phase and it will pass.

Pls don't blame her blame yourself for rushing into a relationship with someone that has attitude problems! Didn't u see the signs before you asked her out? Or u didn't even observe her, u just asked her out? Pls look before you leap next time!

Who is this one The word love has really been abused!!!! Why would a man still be in love with his ex? He would have married her na. Sha, I don't blame the cheap ladies, I blame the man that has no standards/self control whatsoever.

Abeg if u are reading this, if u know u are not ready for marriage, don't marry. It is not for kids! Ensure that u stop your cheating habits before u enter, if not, it will destroy your home. It might tarry but it will definitely happen.

Op I hope you practice what u preach! People give others bcs they love, not because they have a lot to throw around. If any woman does not like it when her partner cares about her, then she has a problem. Which 1 is December? Only local and naive girls will ask you for money because December is coming. There are no rules in giving, if you have, give wisely .. If you don't have, don't give, it's simple!

Aww this is so cute, which everyone can act like you... Y'all should please forgive him, Biko!!

For those of you that don't understand what the OP is trying to say...

i Loved this girl at first sight but i didn't ask her out because I wasn't ready to date any girl then. This girl, later asked me Out and I gladly accepted. To me, I thought it was God at Work!
We started dating... Few months after, she humiliated me but because I love her, I ignored it. Two weeks after the previous humiliation,she gave me the worst moment of my life. To my surprise, she called me and told me that I offended her. I was like, what the heck!

I begged her still for almost three weeks. She was getting home late everyday cos she is an apprentice. During the time i was begging her, I found out her colleague at work had poisoned her heart towards me. I noticed with the way they act with each other whenever am talking to her. i wanted to tell her that "your friend now decides your life for you abi?" But I remember Action Speak louder Than Word, She might have that in her mind too...

So Today a similar Story like mine happened:

My friend really loved this single mother of one. He loved her with all his heart and not with his brain... He found out she has been cheating on him. This babe started begging my guy but, he said it's over between them. She invited him to her house today. To my surprise, although i wasn't there, this babe knelt down for my guy that she cannot afford to lose him. She confessed that her friend was the culprit behind her wrongdoings. That her friend told her that my guy has nothing to offer her. I just felt weak when my guy told me everything.Upon all the love, what else again?...

Girl Friends, What Do You Gain From Advising Your Friends Astray? And Girls That Heed To Their Friends Advice, What Have You Gained So Far?

OP you are the one at fault here

BTW- By The Way (Chat Slangs and they are always in Cap. Letters)
btw- between (Abbreviation)

So don't accuse people for misunderstanding you... There is a difference between small letters in construction of sentences and capital letters. You don't start sentences with btw and expect them not to think it's between *rolls eyes
Don't quote me please, just my observation

Jd50:
I do not think Linda should have dignified her with a response. However the record must be set straight, I gave birth to my daughter in that same hospital (Emory Midtown Hospital), it is one of the best hospitals in America and I can tell from the pictures even to the food plates were 100% valid and true based on my experience at Emory Midtown.

Wow madam u signed up today just to defend Linda Ur love for her must be deep!

Most of you condemning this lady don't even know what rape is or what is termed rape overseas hence your silly and nasty comments.... It's not Africa Magic kind of rape. Maybe they were friends or dating before, I dunno... But as long as you try to touch her (even as your girlfriend) and she sez NO to you, it is termed RAPE!!! Even if she dresses seductively and she does not give her consent for sex, u raped her.


Nigga wants the child now because he sees how cute his child is and now he wants him back? Or maybe he has not been able to get a child elsewhere

uba1991:
for compering tuface with a crook who is contesting for number one seat of d country shows ur level of education. any ways even kanu control ipob from isreal,so thats not new. GOD BLESS BUHARI

For supporting Buhari amidst all that is. Going on in Nigeria means u are a bloody hypocrite... Did ur president not go out for medical treatment outside Nigeria? Which is worse?

wristbangle:
Please use your sense for once. We are all tired of PMB, no doubt about that but is this what a supposed intending president should be doing?

Is he telling us there are no astounding hotels to hold meetings in Nigeria? Please spare me the security scrap because no one can arrest him for political meeting. Afterall, it's not a coup.

Nobody is saying they will arrest anybody but before they took the meeting to Dubai, there was a reason why.... There are insiders everywhere working for buhari so one has to be careful. In politics, u don't trust anyone, everybody is always on the watch. It's a deadly game and for someone like atiku who has been in the game for a long long while... Trust me when I say, there was a reason why this meeting held in Dubai. Politics is a dirty game and if you must play, you must play dirty... Talking from experience tho

Wat is wrong with some Nigerians sef?? Are people that daft? U think politics is entertainment that u people will control on Twitter? Shey 2face did not see Nigeria before he took his wedding to Dubai? The questions y'all should be asking is "how safe is the meeting if they hold it in Nigeria?" Will there be any disturbance or leak of information from the other party? I don't support atiku but I think, as long as it's his money, he has the right to carry his meetings to the Bahamas if he feels safe in that way. Wasteful u say? Is it ur money? Abi is it Nigeria's money.... Please we should focus on relevant thing and leave politics for the Game players, y'all should gaan continue controlling the entertainment sector bcs the political sector is not for social media kids

Me personally I use lemon honey sugar scrub to exfoliate. I use my Diy organic lotion with my body talking oil at night, it gives me that glow

On the shelf creams/lotions are no longer as effective... You can make your own scrubs, lotion and cream... Mind you, it doesn't bleach, it is purely organic... Your skin should glow at least and not be dull wether black or fair...
Do u have uneven skin tone? Exfoliate
Do u have dry skin? Moisturize
Do u have acne/pimples? Get an acne or face organic cream
Do u have dull skin? Take vitamin Supplements and drink lots of water

If you are interested in making your own lotion/cream and scrubs, pm me... If you are in need of organic ingredients like essential oils and co. , you can also pm me... There is a limit to what I can say here

That I have house helps working in my house, I'm an ajebo, a snub and I don't do anything.... Wawuu and this people don't even know me. Lmao if only they know the kain work dat I use to work In the house when I was staying with my folks, they will remove ajebo and start calling me kpako.... Only the pepper I use to use grinding stone to grind sef or the starch that I turn when I was much younger...Human beings sha! They are always quick to criticize

The snub part, na everyday rumor be dat... I select my friends for crying out loud. Is that a crime I don't associate with negative people, I build my circle around positive minded people and result oriented energetic females, not females that will be talking boys boys all the time, I no get time for such silly gossips.

They both have a role to play.... Don't leave Fathers out of it! My dad contributed to my upbringing so u can't necessarily leave it for the mothers alone... Fathers have Great Roles to Play As Well!!!

I don't know what people are raving about ooo. I won't even play this song twice, as long as they didn't kiss, they are not dating, they are just playing on people's intelligence. BTW, what do girls see in wiz kid sef? Moving on !!! See Tiwa eating Wizkid, really So that's what STEW is all about? Nigerians kuku know how to celebrate rubbish

Anyone that supports this man or do as he says is dumb... He wants War and BTW, who gave him so much power sef that he is talking like one mini God... Ibos, is that your savior? If he is, he is so rude and authoritative. When a man is too proud and stubborn, he will lead his gullible followers to an early grave... Which South South is he talking about? The last time I checked, it doesn't belong to one person, so he cannot make such decision. South South will never be for Biafra and anyone that is against Nigeria and it's growth is an enemy of the country.

seborrhic:
I just find it odd that a deeply religious woman,an evangelist for that matter,would still have the urge to have sexual intercourse with any man.
It is not wrong,but I was feeling they shouldn't have any sexual feelings.
Modern marriages and sex test your born againism because what if the Ooni likes doing it in different styles,positions and locations in the privacy of his palace.Or if he likes having and giving head.Would she oblige or tell him its against her beliefs and teachings and walk out of the marriage?
Just asking.

As a married man or woman u can give your husband or wife anyhow he or she wants it... It's not a sin, you can give him/her tail if he/she decides to have that, it doesn't change anything. Stop overthinking it, life is not that serious

There is nothing like born that way.... Nobody was born to be gay, u people should stop already!!! The western world comes with their useless definitions from the pit of hell so that people can go away from God.... Feminism, LGBT, Y'all think you know better than God? Remember the Tower of Babel Where they thought they know better than God ,what did God do to them Also Read your bible very very well, this time carefully, u wld see where homosexualism was mentioned as the signs of the end time to prove to y'all that it is very demonic. God saw Feminism ahead of time before he instructed women to Submit... Y'all don't know better than God

Secondly, being religious and being a Christian are two different things. Religious beings are carnal beings even though they know the full bible but spiritual Christ like beings are lovers of Christ, they are not yet perfect, but they listen to the voice Of Christ with the help of the Holy Spirit. Jesus Said I know my Sheep and they My Sheep hear my voice. The problem with us is that we don't listen, happiness is from within, your happiness is not tied to anything or anyone. Look unto Jesus and Live!!!

If you know you are Gay, Note that this is not to condemn you, Jesus loves you but being Gay is not one of it,you can't serve two masters at the same time. You have to Choose! Yes God wants you to be happy but not this way. There is a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end thereof is destruction. Think twice before you take the wrong step. Being Gay is Demonic, very demonic. If you want to stop being Gay, Confess Jesus as your Lord and personal savior, ask him to help you to stop being Gay, start studying the word, win souls, by the time you become so attached to God, u will notice that you will start hating anything that is not of God. Not by power nor by might, ask God to help you.

People like Nina that use to make guys on NL insult us so.... Yes u can forgive but let your forgiveness have limits... She is just doing mumu mumu for miracle

tayooluwole:
See what we are saying... You have to correct my english with respect... Cant you say... BTW sir, it's Cheers ! and not sheers sir

sorry Sir, don't be angry Sir but It's Cheers Sir and not Sheers Sir. Have a Lovely Day Ahead Sir, Thank You Sir! Hope am Forgiven Sir?

tayooluwole:
D guy tell you say him be child of satan ? Him self no know God as you know am ? So, stop saying you sees things differently...

Na wa oo... If he is a TRUE child of God, he will not talk like that in the first place. I have the right to say whatever I want to say with my mouth, if he uses his mouth to proclaim negative things, I use my mouth to proclaim positive things. Mind you, Every Child Of God are not the same, we have babies, we have matured and spiritual beings, we have carnal... So from his words, u can tell if he is spiritual or physical since he deals with reality

tayooluwole:
You have already configured your self to remain antithetical to what ever any man says on this thread, I think this is exactly the content of your psycology and aspirations at this moment. Anyway, i wish you best luck as a hardworking woman you are claiming to be... Sheers

You still can't even comprehend the simplest things that I am a child of God Any Man? Sorry to burst your bubble, scroll up and you will see that not all men agree with this school of thought, only the negative controlling ones accepted this theory. Do u kno who a child Of God is Maybe u should research on that so that u can understand properly... BTW it's Cheers! and not Sheers

princfred:
Why is it that when woman are faced with realities outside their safe zone they resort to attacking the messenger and deflecting from the message . Which of my points so far have or can you counter with reality based logic?

I am a woman of God, we don't see things the way the world sees them. There is no message for me to take there as long as it is negative. I only listen to positive messages so that only positive vibes can flow out of me. I don't say words just for saying sake, I say words to inspire, build and encourage... So if your words do not do any of that to me, I do not take it. We all have choices in life, and this is one of the choices I have made in my life.

chinchonglee:
fish brain...pls park well.

after all dis ranting dis morning, u ll go to ur BF's house in d evening, f*ck him nd collect transport fare back home...



i repeat. PARK WELL!

U see why I said u are dumb because you talk and think in a dumb way. Ur type cannot comprehend my kind because first, my kind of woman will have nothing to do with your backward kind. Now I see y you talk like this , Wat u described up above is the kind of relationship u do. Smh !!! Transport fare Really Waawuuu! U must be a local man that's why u think locally . Pervert!

tayooluwole:
Madam, the guy was explaining the conciousness of men when it comes to relationship to you i clear terms but u still have the courage to be struggling in the defeat of analysis to remain relevant in the cage of falsehood ... He never go against hardworking women but was of the opinion that women regardless of class and status must respect thier husband...

Falsehood? See young Man first, I am a child Of God and I don't see things the way people of the world see it cs that's what my Lord has instructed me to do and I will do it. I don't live my life the way everybody else lives it, I guess that why I am having exceptional results in everything that I do and it's okay if you cannot comprehend where I stand because even the same bible told me that the things of the word are spiritually discerned and it's like foolishness unto mere man , they can never comprehend neither can they understand. The scripture has already told me that people will look at me as though I am insane but it gladly shows I am on the right path.

Secondly, did you read her post? Did you see anywhere where she typed she does not respect her husband ? She didn't say or state that, you can go and re-read again. The young man was just quoting out of context. Do Have a nice day!

chinchonglee:
bros u re too brilliant 4 dis woman u re exchanging quotes with...
pls save ursef d stress..



all i can understand frm her own side is jst mere unnecessary display of personality...dats if she is nt even lying...

If that is your definition of brilliance, then you are the dumbest man I have ever met. Follow Follow

princfred:
I appreciate and express reality. Unfortunately most of you have been left to live in lala land for far two long that reality has been completely lost on most of you. The fact that am dishing out undiluted reality-check doses here should make you feel lucky to have unfettered knowledge of how the mind of many men actually consciously or unconsciously function. So you can be better informed for your own good and that of the man in your life.

Wow, you are really dominating.... I should feel lucky I don't need this sort of negativity, I know how to treat my man right and trust me, my man is nothing like what you think. So understand that men are different, not everyone is traditional. You have not taken any single advice on this forum from any lady, so why should I take yours? Things are not done that way at least not in this 21st century. Mind you, you don't have a clue of how men act, if you think you do, you need to change your circle and meet positive folks