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Tosinex:
Get behind her Satan!! For you don't seek the things of goodly report but of mundane affections, damn are you!

Congratulations to you @itsmeurlady
Greater heights!! Keep Shining!

THANKS DEAR!!! PLEASE IGNORE HIM/HER. HE/SHE IS IGNORANT!

Intelligentdude:
Congrats dear. Lol@not boyfriend o

Thank You

[quote author=walexzee11 post=74623001]Congratulations!

My own breakthrough shall come soon.[/quote

AMEN!!!

garryi:
CONGRATULATIONS!

thank you garryi!!!

Before i begin the Gist, lemme start by saying "Happy New Year to All NLanders! Wishing You All a Fruitfull and Productive 2019!"

I have joined Nl for quite a while now but i started taking it seriously when i got out of the Uni. Nl encouraged me through some posts to be serious and active with my LinkedIn account. From here, i got a special somebori @intelligentdude (not boyfriend ooo) that helped me profesionally create a CV for my jobhunting experience. Yes, Your Cv and cover letter goes a long way too. I never for once got rejected anywhere i submitted my CV + Cover letter but that's by the way. I Was active on the job/vacancies section here on NL and applied for jobs (excluding bank jobs tho). I also got past questions from here as well, some i bought, some i didn't buy . So i applied to a Graduate Trainee Job in an Oil firm as a Customer Relations Officer and after so much waiting,coupled with the Grace and Favour from God, i finally Got the job and i came here to say Thank You to NL and all the amazing people who continually post jobs on these platform, i am really greatful and also to the owner of NairaLand of course. May the Almighty God continually bless and increase all of you for impacting people's lives daily. Thank You Very Much! I also met a wonderful friend here on Nl, he has been a blessing to me as well. In other words, Nairaland is not totally useless like many think, it is what u make of it at the end of the day, Stay Focused and Positive!

You might be wondering why i am writing this and talking plenty but that's because you don't know how it feels to be jobless and you dont know what it means to be favoured out of many. Just like the story of the 10 lepers, i have come to say Thank You to this FORUM! For those who are still hoping to get employed someday, just hold on, you will share your testimony too. Continue applying and make sure you are doing it right, God's Grace will see you through some day. Dont Give Up, God is not done yet! it wasn't easy for me, there were days where i cried, some days i gave up, some days i felt depressed but i never lost faith and confidence in God. Against All Odds, i believed in myself and i believed in God.

Don't be idle if you don't have a job yet, get or learn a skill like tailoring, shoemaking etc and still be applying for jobs because one thing is to learn a skill and the other thing is to fund your business but just get a skill on standby and God will see you through.

Thank You Nairaland and Nairalanders!!!!!!!!!

50k after NYSC... it was worth it anyways,no regrets only long work hours

Lagos

Happy birthday to my Life Coach and Pastor, God bless you Sir!

This is a nice advice coming from a man! Nice one OP, but the funniest thing is most people won't support this idea, it sounds foolish but it is the best way to do relationships

afroxyz:
so how come with the jazz we are still the wretched of the earth?

Go and ask the people involved in it not me.... Life is 100 percent spiritual, u don't have to believe it for it to be true. Wether u believe it or not, there is the spiritual aspect of life, don't joke!

This is what u get when u allow free thinkers speak... The write up is so naive!

Geenosko:
I'm interested in the info too o

CoolFlame:
It wasn't indicated

But what do u think? When do u predict that they will resume? Check your pm Biko

CoolFlame:
Yeah, but I had the final chat two weeks ago.

Did they say anything about when to resume in the pre employment form?

Geenosko:
I need the info too for a friend mbok

please Go awayyy... Lmao

Noblegod:
Well,from the look of things for people yet to get feeback,nestoil has already completed the recruitment stages with the final informal chat we had with thier GMD and Head of HR as at Friday(yesterday) was told it’s the final group on thier list,guess the next stage is training school mail invite for successful applicants.....

So when did they say they will call people who have gotten a success mail to resume finally, did they mention? Asking for a friend

CAPSLOCKED:
NOT TO OFFEND YOU MY FRIEND, BUT THE TOPIC IS ABOUT MEN AND MOUTH ODOUR... NO NEED TO INVOLVE WOMEN JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE HURT AND TOO WEAK TO TAKE THE HEAT.

MANY PEOPLE ESPECIALLY MEN HAVE THIS ISSUE SO I SEE NO REASON ANYONE SHOULD LASH OUT AT THE POSTERS INOFFENSIVE QUESTION.

READING COMMENTS HERE PUT THE FINAL STAMP ON THE FACT THAT MANY MALE MEMBERS OF THIS FORUM ARE TOO UNINTELLIGENT.

Wish I could like This post of yours a million times ... I tire for NL Men sometimes, some of them have very low self esteem... The OP just brought a very nice question and instead of them to digest and answer it, because the OP is a female, they lash out on her. I wonder how some of them treat the women in their lives because their level of hostility towards the opposite sex is something else.

Blonchilli:
Nigerians really hate themselves. No wonder a foreigner will see this post and play us for a fool not because of what the op posted but because of the comments. And these are supposed to be the leaders of tomorrow

I'm telling you! It's very embarrassing and shameful. See what they are saying about their country. They don't know by insulting Nigeria they are indirectly insulting themselves, it's a shame. Someone said so shld he be proud to be a Nigerian?? No don't be proud, be der asslicking other people's achievements instead of looking for ways to develop your country, it's a pity we have terrible citizens in this country. The problem is US!!! We are our own Problem!

From this thread, u will know Nigerians are the cause of their backwardness... Someone above quoted Nigerians are intelligent but Nigeria isn't and gullible/daft people liked it. Is it not Nigerians that make up Nigeria U people shld continue looking down on yourselves... That's your business... To each man his own. How do you expect Nigeria to be great when we have millions of Negative and unproductive citizens everywhere. What have you done for Nigeria As America is better, please travel out and let the ones that want to build Nigeria remain. All these shortsighted and myopic Nigerians, I am tired of y'all complaining, DO SOMETHING !!! Americans contributed to the growth of their economy , they didn't wait for their leaders. So if you want Nigeria to be great again, Change starts from you and it starts from your mindset.

It's amazing how Nigerians go to Yankee and their mentality changes... It's terrible! The friend was totally wrong and the OP did not do anything wrong saying hi, the friend is the ungrateful one here. When he was borrowing jacket and shoe , shey he did not know where there was market to gaan buy but when it's to check on someone , it's a difficult thing to do. OP your friend is selfish!!! He ought to check up on you at least. Nigerians abroad will tell you they don't have time but they have time to be calling their girlfriends in Nigeria. Nobody is too busy, and life is not all about money.

Please note this: If your mind is telling you to stay in Nigeria, stay Biko, you can go abroad for vacations, no big deal... Everybody has different destinies. For the fact that your friends are der is not a valid reason that you should be der as well. Discover your purpose for life and stop doing follow follow.As for Me and my Future husband, we shall stay in Nigeria and make impact as much as we can, abroad is for vacations only #shikena... Last last, no place like home

Tellemall:
No wonder there are so many scammers and ritual killers in Nigeria. You people think it's always about money. That is the reason I despise Nigerians. Money. Money. Money. There's not a pure relationship among Nigerians. From this thread one can see that all Nigerians are just money hungry opportunists if they think one cannot just want a friendship for the sake of it. No wonder everybody treats you people with caution when you go outside Nigeria. I never knew people were so obsessed with money until I came to Nigeria. It explains the hatred everybody has got Nigeria.

When he begged him for a suit and shoes, it was not money, but when he says hi it means it is money and the UK prices and economy are so tight etc etc. Right. To be unable to say hi is inexcusable. Ingrates are always mean.

Not all Nigerians please! Get your facts right! I was abt to comment exactly this same thing u just said. It is so unfair for the friend not to reach out to him no matter what

Which 1 is Muslim song or Christian song again na.... Is it not God they are praising? Who is Allah to them? Is Alllah not God? S y can't they sing it.some people are just confused here I swear

Don't ask me why we as Christians can't sing Muslim songs... I don't think there is any Muslim song in English, if there is any, the song will be abt praising God and it will na automatically turn to a Christian Song

safarigirl:
if you followed her story since last year, you'd have a different perspective.

This lady is not a victim. What she is going through is self-inflicted. We dey state facts, we no dey judge

Wat do u mean she is not a victim? Someone is going through pain and u are saying something else, ok so because she caused it, she shld be left to die? Pls don't harden your hearts towards your fellow human. Thank God that God is not Man. See the way you are talking as if you never make mistakes... Abi na because the lady flaunt her money, nai make u dey against her? No matter what, no body deserves to go through emotional trauma wether they caused it or not. Yes she will suffer consequences, I am not saying she will not suffer the consequences that is if she caused it but have some iota of love towards your fellow woman.

safarigirl:
she was stupid.

I will never have a turn to be this stupid and go on to advertise my stupidity.

My papa no born mumu. Tomorrow is what you make of it, your actions and inaction determine what will happen to you. As long as you don't cover another woman's husband, you are not likely to end up like this one.

This is her second failed marriage by the way, it just goes to show how terrible she is at choosing men.

Hmm I guess you know much abt her, that's y.... I don't know her from anywhere tho, I am just trying to say it can happen to anyone... So it's better not to judge

HardMirror:
will you shut your stinking mouth there!!! So because she posted a picture of the baby in hospital, that is evidence that the man is a ritualist? This girls are just dumb. So a child cannot fall ill anymore? So all the children in hospital or even dead were used for ritual according to your peanut brain.
She is obviously bitter because the man is about to marry another lady and you are here talking trash

Is it that as a man, you can't construct a sentence without being insultive That's a big turnoff, don't gaan beat your wife at home oo because you sound violent and bitter

Colourich:
All I see is a woman that is bitter and vengeful because she saw her husband us engaged to another lady, just so we are clear, I've made mistakes in life but I cannot make this kind of mistake, I cannot marry a divorcee or take a man away from his wife, I can't even be a second wife for money, also I can't marry for money. So you see, one have to be smart and wise these days, she ain't smart and wise. Simple

How did you know she married for money? Was that Wat she told you That was how Linda said she cannot be baby mama but at the end, she ended up being one. Just pray people don't judge you wrongly sha, then you will know it's not by power nor might. These days, when a lady dates a wealthy guy, people, especially ladies are always quick to say she is dating the guy for money. *smh... Dats a wrong mindset

safarigirl:
wrong choice oshi!

She shamelessly snatched somebody's husband and was throwing her useless engagement and wedding in everyone's faces. Did she remember the first wife that suffered through such a charade when she was doing so? Is it that she couldn't find other men? Why take the husband of another woman knowing who he was?


This is not bad choices, this is karma coming to deal with her and I hope she suffers very well. She should stop crying, after all, she was laughing at the first wife and others that chastised her for her shamelessness over a year ago. She should keep wailing.


She kuku get money, so, make she no disturb the rest of us.

Are you even a lady Because ryt now u are talking like you are not one. Can they really snatch a man?? Apart from using jazz, can a woman actually force a man to marry her The man Wanted to marry her, not like she forced him. She is not the first to be a second wife and men are having second wives everyday, so it's never the woman's fault, it is the MAN. Even if the woman rejects him. The man will move to another woman and make her second wife. Don't ever pass blames dear, nobody knows tommorrow ooo. That was how Linda ikeji was bashing baby mama , nothing she no talk, las las, how e come be na? Don't judge people, tommorrow might be your turn

Colourich:
For evey action we take, there are consequences. She made this choice, she should live with it and don't disturb us.

She is not disturbing you, she never disturbed you... Bloggers are the ones disturbing you, she posted it on her page so that her followers can learn from her mistakes. That's why In Nigeria people don't come out to say their real experiences because people like you will judge and condemn her for doing so. yes she made her choice but it was a wrong one and she discovered late, so what? Haven't you ever made a wrong choice before Let him that is without sin be the first to cast the stone!!! The lady is a strong lady, not everyone can post all those things she posted, some rather die with it. Sometimes we go through things for the sake of others to learn from our experiences but if we don't speak out, how will others learn?

policy12:
marrying yearly to steal destinies... I rebuke you ... you met the wrong chick this time ... AM GOD'S OWN'


Hoelosho when he was giving u money, you didn't rebuke him, when he was smashing ur yansh and u are screaming his name u didn't rebuke him, when you decided to choose him among all numerous suitors that come ur ways purposely cos of the money u didn't rebuke him, when that lady close to you warn u about him been a serial cheat, u didn't rebuke him,

Shey you were with her when she was rejecting the men!? Bitterness will not take you far , let love lead in your heart

Aww... Just take a look at the baby the lord is your strength Madam...Thank God u were smart enough to know all these things on time.

Mr/Miss Perfect bashing her, I hope u have never made a wrong choice in your life before? I hope when you do, you don't get criticized like this because only then will you know that when it comes to other people's experiences, u shld not talk anyhow because what you do to people is what they will do to you in return. That's why, people are dying out of depression because of sharp words from unknown strangers all in the name of savagery. NLand might be a faceless forum but know that every idle/useless word you post here, you will give account. The words you posted, did it lead people to sin? Did it hurt others? Did it make people contemplate suicide?

THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE!!!!!