₦airaland Forum

That's why women need self defense training.

I actually was going to open a thread on something like this.

For ladies, when a man doesn't meet your specifications as per your ideal partner, yet you want to continue in the relationship, what do you do?

cococandy: I cant even stand such. I'll have to force myself not to dissolve in tears if a guy yells at me.

Lol.

Can't say the same.


If you yell at me, I yell back, unless its not expedient for me to do so.

Why are you yelling at me to begin with? You never chop?

For the record, mother is anybody you consider a mother figure, or who fulfilled that role in your life.


Not everyone is ok with their biological mother, this thread shouldn't be turned into missives directed against your mother.


Instead, just reflect on whoever you consider a maternal authority in your life.

Chimdim: wonderful advice, God pls bless my mother

Amen, mine too.

Odunharry: my mother says honey be careful if anybody tel u dat "i lov u"

Wise advice.

Guykhena: The CGI was too much abeg,,
I always never enjoy Transformers movies

I find them hard to follow but nevertheless, they're somehow intriguing.

^ hmmm

Where's the how to?

Before nko?

Isn't everybody migrating from nigeria?

Missonas: Thought they said it takes 21 days maximum for quarantine then if tested positive complete isolation.However if the patient beats the virus the patient will be monitored for another 3 months .

That's what one would expect.

hardbody: Ok. So they went on strike from government hospitals so they can improve on the number of people that will have no choice than to access the private hospitals? In that process, the poor and indigent are further denied of an otherwise accessible medical care. I see the reasoning. That Oath they take is actually 'Hypocritical' especially in the Nigerian context.

As for the lady that has been reported dead, i have had the benefit of additional information as to why she died. I salute her courage and the sacrifice she made to save 170 million Nigerians who would all or mostly have been consumed by the scourge if the index carrier had been allowed to leave or escape from the hospital.

I understand she practically held the man down physically (with apparent knowledge of the consequences of her action and also the effects of any inaction at that point in time). May God remember her for good and may this silly country of ours immortalize her.

By the way, IGNIS, when next you disrespect me by asking me question like a KG pupil........

I wonder why he was so bent on heading for calabar.

ba7man: Why are Liberians acting so daft??

They looted an Ebola care center, chased the patients out and stole the beds and sheets (most likely tainted with the virus).

Now, they want to start flocking out of their country in search of a cure spreading it along the way.

Its being spread intentionally, don't you get it?

Where did the liberian get it from?

.

BobbyDean: celebrate even when you have other pressing matters? Aiit

What exactly concerns you?

If people want to celebrate, what is it to you?

What are the pressing matters that concern you more than them?

Well, maybe aunty p hired her to check oga j while she's away.

Who knows.

hmm, lord have mercy sha.

synopsis?

seems they changed all the main characters, didnt see them in the promos.

coogar: see me thinking you are a feminist.

i always consider you a misogynist too.

anyway, i already said, married peeps should reduce the rate at which they discuss their families if the audience is not conducive to such.

broaden the conversation arena.

coogar: tpia, stop making your own argument....
it ruins what should be an interesting debate. bukatyne said it's abnormal when the only topic some married women want to talk about is husband/kids.

she didn't say it's abnormal to talk about one's family. the operative word here is only. it then means no matter the topic you raise with these women, they still find a way of bringing husband/kids into it everytime.

Like I said, I did not mean to sound harsh or discourage her, but the issue of "only" here is subjective.

Besides, as a woman, being empathetic is something females need to work on, we can't always copy males in everything.

honeric01: Hehehe but you wouldn't say you haven't been tempted to give more/go against ethics due to "pressure" from those who visit your office on petty "medical" excuses

Like those who can't even explain why they are in your office in the first place because they have no medical reason to be there

You might find the experiences more tripping if med school was a breeze for you and not stressful at all.

SAMBARRY: and he said he wanted to date me in fashion section .

Lol

Why abusing him nah.

Maybe he's into kinky sado mado stuff

What's ose state? Where was it carved from?

And why create a state called oil rivers when there's already a rivers state?

Why not just join oil rivers with rivers?


In short, I just see where more of nigeria's money wants to be going in the usual manner.

You may want to wait until your wedding day or any occasion, after receiving threats of this type, to find out if the op and his/her ilk said they are going to harm people.

So the man who logged on today, rained abuse on me severally, I only responded with one word, "buffoon", and the fellow went bonkers saying i insulted him, what do we call that?

Womanish behaviour?

Even the bible says people will be marrying, giving in marriage, holding whatever ceremonies they need to, till the end of the world.

So, if you are going to end the world because you do not like people having a party or whatever, go ahead and do so, but do not, under any circumstances, attempt to harm individuals because of your jealousy.

That will not work.

Just because you disapprove for whatever reason, doesn't mean people should not do what they feel they need to do at some point in time. As long as its not illegal.

Its wrong to dictate to others as if you are God, just trying to control their lives for no other reason besides bad belle.

If it even stops at bad belle alone, that is manageable, what I would strongly have issues with, are attempts to go beyond bad bele and physically harm people out of envy.

That, is a sin which anyone indulging in, will pay for.

Guaranteed.

You are supposed to make new friends at some point.

Which set of friends you'll be closer to, is your decision.