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Aleora:
Comments here dey turn belle honestly..abeg if your papa cheat on your mama and she endured no means other people own dey like that....keep promoting rubbish....so women should take cheating as a normal thing ba?oya let's turn the table around ,can you forgive a cheating wife?yen yen yen,and by the way if your mum is a second wife,na person husband she marry so shut the Bleep up......

If my wife cheats on me, I'm divorcing her straight. That is what I expect my wife to do if she finds me cheating. If she doesn't want divorce, she should silently manage and not go around beating ladies like this mad lady. If I hear she beat my side chick, I will pay thugs to pay her back in the same coin

Mummymahdi:
Would u day the same if the woman is the cheat? Use ur brain. She is pained. Do u know how it feels for a married woman trying struggling , suffering to keep her home then the stupid community penis is found cheating? D only thing is I will deal with him later double than hers.

This is the reason I will immediately divorce a wife of mine who goes around fighting my side chicks. One day, she will attempt to kill me

Liposure:
And somebody will say marriage is an achievement

If you have a successful marriage, it's an achievement

Excuzeme:
You have said the truth even though l hate to admit it because l dont cheat on me wife.
I may be wrong but l think men are not wired to be attached to a single woman.
It takes a lot of self discipline to do so and control your natural disposition, unfortunately, 90% of men dont have that self discipline and control over their urges.
In reality, all men desire another woman, it is natural tothem and we have labelled it "cheating" thus, all men are naturally cheats, but sa tiny fraction of "awsome" men exercise greater control on their natural urges and suppress the desire for another woman.

BTW, if for any reason, including cheating, my wife tears the cloth and run a supposed side-chic naked in public, in my presence, she leaves my home right from that moment! I consider it a very bad, early sign of what is yet to come.
The disrespect (and you can argue a cheating husband does not deserve it) is not tot he side chic but to the husband.

Will l tear my wife's cloth and naked her if l catch her with another man? Hell No, l will just ask her to stick to her lover, because l am done with her. No fighting, No begging, No arguements.
Will l fight the man? God forbid! he saw a willing Hole and entered, he did not force or rape her now, right?
Only stupid and weakmen fight over a woman, if she doesnot want you, she can respect your relationship and you cant force her to want you.
Get real and move on to something better.

...and if l really like the side chic, l will marry her.
Thats just me, no one needs to agree with me though. its all cool.

We share same ideologies

delpee:
How will this guarantee a better relationship with her husband? How many side chicks will she fight? Waste of valuable time. Foolishness of the highest order! The problem is mostly with the men who ho in search of "options".

A wise woman will focus more on her career and her children. Most men like this are full of regrets later in life anyway.

You are wise

djon78:
The way you people talk self, so you think married women are not being chased?
You think it's only men involved in the mad sexual madness going on?

You must be very naive
There are men who only chase people's wives. And characteristics of such women is that they don't bother themselves with there philandering husbands.
Women that come out to fight side chicks are women that still love there husbands. The ones that don't even send the man most times are living there own coded cheating.

If you know the number of people's wife's that are sleeping around codedly you will be shocked. Most especially women that had many male lovers as single. It's very hard for one man to be enough for them. They do there own codedly and the men rarely find out.

See sexual perversion is so much on the increase at an alarming rate both man and woman inclusive. Because many people have thrown away self control and given themselves over to untamed lustful passions of the flesh to control them as masters.

I'm glad you are saying it. Many here think na only men dey cheat. But then, there is no excuse for assaulting someone just because he or she is sleeping with your husband. And it's not love sef that motivates them.

Ebowo:
D woman is not a dummy! Do u know how much women try to protect their home,especially if there are kids? U think that was the first time she saw them together? Or the first n only approach to talk sense into them? I'm sure she couldn't take it any longer.

We are getting wiser in this part of the world. When more married women get sued for assault, they will learn to either bear a cheating husband in silence or end the marriage and find peace

eni4real:
He should MARRY a second wife now!!!
Cheating is just classless!!!

Who has class ever helped?

djon78:
The man met his match. He married a werey woman. Good for him.

If you know you can't be faithful in marriage don't marry at all.
Why agree to a distinguished institution like marriage and not honor it. Better not be involved at all.

You think the man is bothered about this? Lol. He will.still find another side chick to knack. He will be careful this time though

Theyoungmatron:
Their marriage wasn't successful. Those women just lost hope in marriages as they do not have options then, that's why they raise the new generation of women who will not tolerate cheating in any form.

And by "not tolerate", you mean, fighting side chicks?

xynniey:
The society advices women to leave side chics n attack their husband when they find them cheating.

Woman: U attack side chic
Umuwa: she is a stupid woman. If she was takibg care of her husband he wouldnt be looking outside.

Woman: attacks husbands private part with hot water.
Umuwa: this woman is a wicked jezebel. She is a witch

So what should be the remedy for women? Jumping from one ministry to another praying for husband, or getting a sidecock.?

She should get a sidecock. When the husband finds out, he divorces her since she's so stupid, she couldn't think of divorce herself

Meninmen:
Shut up your gutter. I am a man. Some men (just like some women) are naturally unfaithful. Did the husband tell you that his wife has irritating character? Stay on nairaland and be assuming nonsense. What the wife did was wrong, but be careful the extent you blame her. You don't know the pain she has endured in that marriage.

Stay on Nairaland and be assuming nonsense

If she is tired of the pain, she should file for divorce. If I cheat and my wife fights the side chick, I'd add more side chicks. When she is tired of fighting, she go tell me

Epistasis:
I just love what married women are doing these days. A man has this inherent trait of being promiscuous but his woman must put him in check.
A woman who is ready to make her marriage work must be confrontational in nature, stand up and defend her territory. Let's the side chicks take the risk she took and make the life of her man better, they love to reap from where they didn't sow.

If I'm the cheating husband, I will get more side chicks. Let's see who gets tired of fighting

James289:
I ain't got time for this shit.... U get a side chick, I get a sidecock.... Case closed!

This is the ONLY right thing to do. Instead of fighting innocent girls

UgoManchester:
Now, As the wife is prettier and more classic than the shameless side chick, where are the people who says the man cheats on his wife because his wife looks dirty and tattered? Look, there is nothing you can do to stop a CHEAT from cheating. That Serves her right. Side Chicks continue,Crazy Wives will continue to disgrace and ruin your life.

The crazy wives are disgracing themselves

AfroKnight:
Useless wife.

You went to disgrace the babe. Why? This is the irritating character that made your husband look elsewhere. When all you give him is stress, Man will seek succour in the arms of a mistress. The ministrations of a mistress will help him calm down. If not he would have kicked your troublesome yansh out of his house.

The man is the victim here. What a pity.



Edit:

all of you quoting me to disagree. Ori yin ti gbale. Shey you cannot see the garage behaviour of this cantankerous wife? A pity the man has to live with her under the same roof.

Any wife that embarrasses her husband like this is not worthy to be called a wife. She must be returned to her father’s house and the bride price must be refunded with interest to cover inflation.

ThIs innocent hapless man is enduring a toxic woman in marriage. Sad.

I agree

sinaj:
I guess March's Theme is Operation Possess your Possession


Side Chicks be warned!!!

I wonder how worldly children will judge this matter coz its obvious the wife is finer and sexier than the side chick.

But obviously more foolish that the side chick

Adex2442:
I don't trust realme products

They av very bad ram management

Which Realme gave you this experience?

genius43:
Until Redmi drops theirs. If you Notice Redmi are using Realme's cards against them, before Realme waits for Redmi to drop then they pounce but it seems the tactics have changed hands

Las las, na we the consumers dey gain

Elslim:
Ermmm REALME 6/6 PRO

As in eh. Realme is winning o

DJEhimond:
Hi guys ...
Note 7 4GB/64GB or Note 8 3GB/32GB
Which is better?

Note 7

Kallmerb:
wow.. Lovely.. Seems am dumping Xiaomi soon for realme

If photography is all you need, it isn't a bad choice

dessz:
Realme 5 pro macro lens, stock cam no edit.

Realme phones take superb pics

blacqueen:
Somebody should be pls recommend a xiaomi phone with good camera quality to me.

Thanks in advance

Mi 10 pro

Illusioneffect:
Sorry about that. Although I don't use it much, I use the Canon speedlite 430EX which is very expensive and I don't think I will be selling it any moment from now because sometimes it could be very useful. But if I get notified of my free canon packages I will check the cheapest one you could get now

Thank you very much. I use a Nikon D3200 cam though. You don't use speedlite often?

Illusioneffect:
You guys are really talented here.....
I am a pro photographer and I have travelled to different countries with this job and worked along side amazing photographers and to be concise, you guys have a lot of potential and i commend u to keep up the great work u all are doing. You could be the next Peter McKinnon if you strive hard..... hard enough.
I can't. post any of my pictures here because they are all for sale and besides I don't use a phone to do any of it.

I will be glad to be of any help to any of you.

You have any used speedlite you wanna sell? I do photography too, but not having a speedlite has really made my work poor of late. As a student, can't afford a brand new speed lite now.