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mikolo80:
Is this Nigeria or biafra

Before Mary slessor it sad tradition to kill twins

Should we continue murder

Pls think before you talk

Don't mind these mumu people. Dem think say na Biafra dem dey. Chioma's father should try shit na. The way Nnamdi Kanu disappear, na so him too go pick race comot for naija

Oracle23:
Don't ask any other silly question.


There is nothing like igbo or yoruba customary court. Nigeria has a customary courts. Simple.

Customary courts located in different parts of the South. Don't be a mumu. This paternity thing is between two tribes, Igbo and Yoruba. Who tradition the customary court wan respect? You no dey use your brain think?

Oracle23:
The customary court would hear the case and not a civil court.

And I asked, which? The one in Igbo land or the one in Yoruba land?

Oracle23:
Have u ever heard of customary court/customary law before?

Which customary court wan hear the case? The one for Igbo land abi the one for Yoruba land?

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That ideology is somehow because spacing really helps your body adjust back to appropriate health before going another round of birthing.

I have a 13, 8 and 4year olds and there s no mumu mumu acts in my home....but if let's say they are 4, 3 and 2year olds...u can imagine the rate of mumuism.

My point is spacing helps a lot if you're healthy, space your kids.

This is actually why I wanna space too. But if we are talking health, 18 months is very OK to get pregnant again.

wirinet:
False. Child spacing is very relevant today. Each child birth takes a serious toll on a woman's body, it needs between 2 to 4 years to fully recover, and prepare for the next pregnancy. sometimes a woman's body does not fully recover after child birth. You wonder why Nigeria has some of the highest maternal mortality rate in the world.



Why marry, when he can impregnate chioma as many times as he wants? and when he is tired, dump chioma and the children at her father's place, since the children belongs to the father as it is in Igbo culture. He can then move on to the next igbo girl without any consequences.

And the United States of America has the highest maternal mortality rate amongst the developed world. Yet, child spacing is very well practiced there. So, no. It isn't about child spacing. Truthfully, the women who no dey space child are doing better health wise than those that do

smiliyB:
Your mum try oo, after my 2years experience with my neighbour's kids. I promise myself I must give enough space, not just space like 3 to 4 years. And I also reduced the number of children I want to give birth to ...I pray hubby agree tho

Which experience? Tell us please

greggng:
This boy is very childish. ..he has not finish paying for ifeanyi ...he is trying to impregnant her again...,igbo people don't believe In baby mama

That's why Davido is changing the narrative

Onyi22:
My question is when will he marry her legally?
Just asking for a friend

Who has marriage helped in this life? Goan ask Cristiano Ronaldo and his girlfriend, Georgina Rodriguez. They are living the best of their lives. They have a baby girl from their relationship and she relates well with his other children. What more do they both need? Marriage na scam abeg

genius43:
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In that link you will see differences in photos taken by both.

Well

Ijawwomaninoyo:
This is one of them who married an Igbo woman, another one was thrown down from a 5 story building because the man hated what he saw when she washed off her Dulux paints. Who wants to die in the hands of Igbo women who even call their mothers to come and carry corpse.
That's why their men are now marrying outsiders and Chinese.
Coronavirus, na dem go pack am Nigeria because they are avoiding their women.

A dark version of them is a nightmare! Light people bleaching and smelling. You hardly see anyone of them that doesn't bleach.

Children are even bleaching.

True. Even the ones wey fair small must still use bleaching cream to become complete oyinbo.

NOC1:
My mum is educated and exposed but her views on child spacing is different after some cases when some women could not take in again after child spacing.

Sh will say “once you’ve started making babies do it at once and rest”.

I think I go with my mom ideology.

For safety, I actually think the bolded is true. My mum has such mentality too. My elder bro use 1 year 4 months senior me. And I senior my sis with like 1 year 9 months. But I would do child spacing sha. After all, na two pikin I need. We grew up seeing each like age mates, so respect dey at all. I don't want that for my own kids

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AdedoyinO:
Oga, please miss me with this debate. This thread is not about what Jesus said or not.
And yes, the Bible says 'a fool says in his heart there's no God'. Don't argue with me, argue with the Bible.

Well, I just wanted to let you know that holy spirit can lead someone to call someone names, if he or she deserves such

genius43:
But with a different Processor and a the mi 10 Pro has a better camera algorithm than the mi note 10 Pro.

That is why one is a flagship and the other an upper mid-range

Well, shots taken with both would be very similar sha

AdedoyinO:
The Holy Spirit led you to call another human useless? What kind of heart do you have? Are you sure the Holy Spirit dwells there with all the vile and venom you poured on this thread? Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

The holy spirit lead Jesus to call people "fools"

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With almost same main shooter

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lx3as:
Nigerian constitution; which mainly tailored after British and American constitution. A DNA test at the worst scenario and the father takes his child if he is capable. Nigerian Constitution supercedes customary laws. One customary law does not supercede another in Nigeria as Chioma people are claiming.

Don't mind these ignorant lots.

Oracle23:
Ur post is false n stupid.

The kids are back home with their father on what grounds/ conditions? Stop being foolish. As long as the man didn't pay her bride price, He would not have those kids. Simple.





U can come from Kotangora if u like, I dont give a bloody damn.







"don’t practice such barbaric tradition"

And we practice this barbaric tradition and it suits us fine. It goes a very long way to prevent cases of women giving birth anyhow out of wedlock as seen in the SS. IGBO are way ahead of u.

Na mumu culture be this o. This culture is actually proof that Igbo girls do the most abortions. And that is not being ahead of anyone, thats pure stupidity. Anyway, make I find one Igbo girl knack, I don't have to be afraid of pregnancy announcement from her. Even when she calls me, I go tell her say I want my pikin, but I don't want to marry her. Easy way to dodge

Oracle23:
Oga as long as u don't pay the bride price of an igbo woman and impregnate her and she gives birth, the child does not belong to u, it belongs to the father of the woman.

Dont argue this any further.

When I win custody case for court, lemme see how the child go still dey with her papa. Una think say na 1914 we dey abi?

Armaggedon:
If you get pregnant and delivers in your mothers house, the child belongs to your father.

If you eventually get married, your father may either keep your child or hand you over to your husband with your child. That is if your husband is ready and kind enough to father the child.

If you get married to a lady while pregnant the child definitely belong to you, not her father not to talk of the person responsible for the pregnancy.

If you get pregnant for another man in your husband's house and your husband is "over kind" to pardon such abomination, the child belongs to him your husband. This is Igbo tradition.

I smh for some people citing cases to over rule tradition. Tradition is law, culture as well as religion. Most of this things have spiritual implications.

Pls if you live in a normless society don't think it is so for others.

In other words, na only Igbo get tradition?

PFRB:
See, this is Igbo culture. Iko adighi eku nwa. That is boy or man lover does not take a child. As it is now, if I marry her and perform the necessary rites, I take the child and he becomes mine. There is nothing Davido can do about it. If I marry her and refuse the child, the child belongs to her father with full traditional rights and privilleges. Kpam.

Stop deceiving yourself. This can only happen in a case where both father and mother na Igbo. Davido is Yoruba and he has his own culture too. You think say na Igbo court Davido go carry the matter give? Lol.

alizma:
Before you bring in law, you need to first think of the situation and check the jurisdiction. This is a customary case and the question is, does the Igbo culture permit such and the answer is capital YES

Does the Yoruba culture permit what the Igbo culture permits? No. So which culture go prevail?

Omon605:
Is a bit more complicated than you thought. It all have to be a matter of culture and tradition. Yes Davido is wealthy he will be able to withstand all the push and resist anything throw at him but if they are able to take that child to ibo land and Chioma and her father agree that the said child is not for Davido, I believe that settle everything. because I had witnessed the same till today my friend family are still doing everything within their power to get the son back from and ibo lady and the father. They have exploit all available means but nothing good comes out. My friend dated and impregnated the ibo lady and had a son for him. Unfortunately my friend had and ghastly accident and died at the spot. The lady and the child live with him before this incident happened. This happened about 8yrs ago, till today nobody have see the little boy. I do see the lady, all what she's saying is her people have collected the child from her and my friend family had seen her parents severally to see if there's anything they needed to do to take the child all to no avail. They had involved litigation and mediation with full proof, nothing positive comes out. The son don't even have and ibo name. From what I realise, it is the tradition and culture of the land that will determine

Lmao. This is a different case. Even court of law will allow for this. The father of the child is late. The child is the sole responsibility of the parent who is living, in this case, the mother. She can decide to give the child to whoever she deems fit. In this case, na her own family get am. Davido is very much alive. Chioma's father has no right to his child

wirinet:
But that's not the culture of the other party. Which of the 2 clashing cultures should be respected?
You also have to respect the tradition of others.

If you guys don't want others to disregard your cultures, then train your daughters not to open legs for non igbos

Gbam

bykes:
Traditional laws are sacrosanct. For instance if you wed your wife in court and still go further to marry another wife traditionally having not ended the first, you have committed bigamy. Ask layers.This is how strong tradition is. Davido stand the chance of loosing his son to Chioma’s father if he hasn’t paid her bride price even if his DNA 999%. Everyone is saying 21st century but forgetting our laws and constitution are made in 20th century

You are just being naive. If the issue is whether Chioma is Davido's wife simply because he did introduction, then it's clear, SHE ISN'T. But thats not the issue here. It is about the paternity of the child. You don't need to be married to a woman to claim your child. Davido cannot lose his child to Chioma's father. Even Chioma's father no go argue this thing sef