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Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Launches Deadliest Attack In Months, Killing 18 In Ukraine by Itzi8(m): 10:38pm On Apr 16
Nothing deadly about Russian wepons
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Threatens To Strike Israel-based Drone Production Firm by Itzi8(m): 10:34pm On Apr 16
If Russia gets into another mess, just like the situation with their fellow Soviet, they'll be so badly exposed.

They should be direct with their plans, and See their nation suffer.

It's not a time North Korea comes to help cux they have their own regional issues, or China, who is busy securing it's Assets and interests in conflicted areas.

It's not a good time for Russia to go into something of that category.
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Threatens To Strike Israel-based Drone Production Firm by Itzi8(m): 10:29pm On Apr 16
FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.

You are naive. Putin is not dumb. He knew Trump's war on Iran was targeted against him and waited it out for the west to burn out their interceptors and expose their hypocrisy at the violation of international law by Trump who decapitated the leadership of a country that is not at war with it.

Now, Putin will do exactly what Trump did and heaven will not fall. Putin will blow up strategic military assets in nations not at war with it.

The west always think others are stupid not knowing that they are the butt of jokes. The western population is the least resilient and likely to sack their leaders by the time Putin descends on them.

Meanwhile, Trump's so called blockade is as useless as the p in psychology
Is that how best you understand the situation? Any day your Russia gets into a red situation that involves the USA or its allies, she will regret ever getting involved.

The strength of the American Military force is vast.

The same Russia you glorify, who believed they had strong armoury to defeat Ukraine, but still struggling to do that.

Peace 🕊️
PoliticsRe: N688bn Disbursed, 9 Million Nigerian Homes Receive FG Cash Transfer - Minister by Itzi8(m): 11:47am On Mar 31
They'll capture you more than one could imagine, and yet nothing to show, processes up and down.
CareerPlease I Need Your Advice On What To Do Next 2 by Itzi8(op): 3:12am On Mar 03
In a bid to reduce complications on my end, I left our branch to another, where their system was perfect, and I discovered that the issues we faced on our own side at the time was more technical issues, than operational issues. Either way you give a command to a software, it obeys, so making sure that it actually does what it was demanded was the issue, he did nothing afterwards. Sometimes, my PC would break down and whenever I meet him to tell him, he always said "I'm always looking for excuses" and I begin to wonder if who gives an excuse for his work equipment would be polite enough to call his attention on time to fix the issue, but no way, it will take almost a month to fix, and the same manager will be around again asking, how far I've gone.

Our manager always say you're the most qualified here, and you cannot resolve this issue, that he does not understand, and I told him sir, do not tie operations of a software to certificate, and I always tell him that basic operations of the computer 🖥️💻 does not mean one can use any software without proper training.

After the deployment of the system, there was no training, there was no operational manual or guidance, there was no time any training was initiated, esp for someone who just started using the software.

November salary was past due to be paid, and it was 13th December. I was told by the personnel in charge of pay that manager asked him to cease my salary, and that of my colleague, who happened to be his tribesman because both of us worked as empties storekeepers. I asked him why, and he said that we should meet manager, and stories started flying that our job was not complete, and all other excuses, and I told him Sir, I need my pay seriously to attend to the needs of my family, and my baby needed attention, but he gave me a deaf ear.
To my greatest surprise, the manager went behind me and paid his tribesman under his instructions. When December was due by January, and with 13th month, I was told again that the manager asked that my salary be withheld, meanwhile, his tribesman got paid again 3 good times.
The manager before this period called me up to his office and started blame game and scapegoating me, and I told him politely that I was working on it, gradually I noticed a gang up when the Accountant called me a "Dummy" and I told him; with all due respect sir, do not call me that, and stating clearly that he did not pay my fees in school, and does not know my grades, and that it was unethical. That was the moment the manager asked me to walk out of his office, but I stayed still, he started threatening me with security.

The next day, I was issued a memo from the company stating GROSS MISCONDUCT AND SERIOUS INSUBORDINATION TO SENIOR STAFF, just for standing up for myself, and I was instructed before the end of the day to reply in triplicate copies to the management before closure of business, and I did that, and clearly stating the gaps in understanding and the lack of training, and operational manual or follow-up on the new system.

Five days gone, I was called up again, it was approaching December ending, when everyone has already exhausted their November pay, and mine was still withheld. When I got up, the victimization continued nonstop, saying that I'm showing how stubborn I was for not wanting to do what he want me to do, and I asked him; Sir, what exactly, are you talking about when you say my work is not complete cux I've done everything else, and he couldn't answer that question. I just asked him that I've a family to care for and a kid, that he should pay me, that the victimization was unnecessary, and I walked away. By January 7th, I submitted my resignation letter citing cases of abuse and withholdings of salaries I worked, bias, mistreatment and intimidations by management with immediate effect.


Be Right Back.
CareerPlease I Need Your Advice On What To Do Next, by Itzi8(op): 1:56am On Mar 03
Greetings fam, I'm happy to return to the forum after a long time away. How have you been guys?

I started working with a distributor here in Awka, who deals on Alcoholic beverages, pet and malt drinks on 14th May 2022.

Prior to my resumption there, I held both OND and HND Degrees from Federal Polytechnic Oko, Anambra state, and I also furthered my education to earn PGD at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka, Anambra state.
During the time I was scheduled for interview, the Manager explained that he doesn't like engaging people from Awka extraction because they failed him so terribly, but that he wants to give me a chance. We discussed salary, I told him between #90,000 and #100,000, but he said the payment structure doesn't work like that at the company, that their start up is from #70,000 and with years and add ons it will get to #100,000. And after the conversation we had, I resumed duties, after fulfilling all requirements.

However, now into the system, the promises made were broken as I was paid less than we bargained, but I remained, hoping that the situation would change, but it never did. It was last year, I got hold of the payment slip sheet on a soft copy on the system I work with at the office, and I discovered, I was denied a lot of benefits meant for me, especially #60,000 special allowance package for persons in my category.
I went back to my paycheck to pay check on many discrepancies, and I discovered that the manager has been playing with my future, some times, I get paid #3,000, #1,000, #4,000, #5,000 and #8,000 respectively out of #60,000 and sometimes, he instructs the personnel in charge of payment to exclude it in entirely from my pay. And meanwhile, looking at what others earn in comparison to what I get, it was "MAN'S INHUMANITY TO FELLOW MAN". Others were paid between #135,000 - #185,000, and I want to stress that the #135,000 paycheck was for a most recent staff, while I was paid just #77,000, before they took it to #80,000. Can you see the difference?

And taking #77,000 or #80,000 pay doesn't end there, as they will do some deductions, including lateness and staff contributions, against your will, at the end of it I'm left with very little to take care of my family.

I met him to ask him why I was treated that way, and he became very hostile and aggressive at me for questioning him, and asking me to show evidences that what I'm saying was true, and I told him I have evidence, and (contained in the evidence we was some ghost workers whose salaries are being cleared, but are not working), and he was sounding so ruthless, and said I should go before he does what he doesn't like out of anger. The only Statement I made to him was that he should be fair to all and not being selective.

Back to the previous year, a new system was deployed for accounting purposes. A new Busywing accounting software.

It was merely, do it this way and that way, and I was following, until, they came another day that it wasn't the right way,(twice) I cleared all my entries, after I've already gone 4 months ahead and restarted again.

I continued doing my thing, meanwhile, the ICT personnel on ground, the manager, we the staff engaged in the usage of the system were missing in Gap to get the situation addressed. Afterwards, the resource person came by and confirmed that what I was doing was in order , that he was waiting on our manager to make a decision regarding the negative sign recorded on the system, because, other tables within the set-up needs to acknowledge some empties backloaded on their systems too, as well as customers buying with their empties, but the manager said nothing.

He started mounting pressures on me unnecessarily. It happens that I work alongside a tribesman from where the manager originated from, and this man always discredits my efforts, ethics and compliance at work. It was constant reporting for one thing or the other and the manager entertained it because he is from his side. There was wherr bias, victimization scapegoating, intimidation, nepotism and tribalism formed the rules of engagement.

I've been reported for not drawing lines on the books, the same staff works with, I've been accused of just pressing phone and doing nothing, I've been called out severally, but yet all these were pure victimization.

Be Right Back.
Business To BusinessPlease I Need Coca Cola Empties Urgently. by Itzi8(op): 10:12am On Apr 20, 2024
Greetings guys, how are we today?

Please I need Coca Cola empties. Is there anyone who can supply to me at Awka?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Ordeal With GNLD Neolife Today by Itzi8(m): 1:28am On Jul 24, 2022
Mikkystorm:
Hi good day!
It's disheartening to pen this down here, but I just have to, so others can learn from it.
I'm a recent graduate, and as body dey hot, I've started applying for jobs.
Just this week alone, I've gone for over 5 interviews. The interview yesterday being the 22nd of July made it the 5th one.
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I applied for the position of a supervisor via indeed.com and few hours later, I was emailed that I was invited for an interview at Asaba! Checked for the company online, and God bless nairaland, I saw that it was one of those Gnld company. I never went for the interview.
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Earlier on thursday , 21st july, I applied for a job of a supervisor, I got the job notice via an aunty. Prepared for it big on Friday!
Waaahla! Friday came. Dressed very nice, took my cv as instructed! And also they said I should get writing materials! Lol... that skipped my mind.
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The text contained the address, along airport road, warri.
I alighted at the junction as addressed in the text, and I started trekking down the street as instructed. In the process, thoughts started flying in, there were no companies in sight, just houses and bungalows! I discarded the thought!
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Finally, I located the place. Met the woman, a young, not bright looking woman, she directed me to a girl they called secretary! I met her, I penned my name, number and signed.
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They directed me through a staircase, the guy I met there told me to put my phone on silent. Hmmm, ethics! I thought! Discarded the thoughts... I was directed to the top floor!
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Guys! To my greatest surprise, i met black people of all types and sizes, in group fragments, having what I saw to be a seminar/lecture!
They saw me and started calling me! It was too much they resorted to dragging me, but a guy they called the director intervened. A young dark guy, with chains/jewelries on him. Sat with him, and the conversation below ensued;
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Director: so, why are you here sir?
Me: *(still perplexed with the whole scenario...) just pointed at the lady that brought me!
Director: so you are here for a job I presume?
Me: yes.
Director: you brought your cv?
Me: (I gave him, still observing the area)...
Director: Hmmm, so how much would you want me to pay you?
Me: Nothing less than 80k
Director: okay, that's nice. Before we discuss, please kindly follow this lady, she'll direct you to a woman that will give you a brief orientation about our company. After that then we can talk.
Me: (wondering why... I asked; Please, why am I to go there? Why cant you brief me here?
Director: No, it's Protocol!
Me: (getting pissed off, I stood and followed the woman)
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( To be continued....)
That was how they lured me to the same Asaba. Surprisingly, I got their notification not long after applying, I was desperate to land a job, cry so when the invitation came the interview was the next day. I was prepared and ready as @ 5:00am and by few mins after I took Keke drop to Aroma Awka and took a bus, before it was few mins to 6:00am, we already departed. And before 8:00am I was @Asaba, even ahead of the interview time which was 9:00am. I was first to arrive there, wrote my name, reference code and phone. They asked me to sit inside, I told them I'll stay at the balcony, I texted two of my friends the location and how the place looks like, I even made a short video clip and sent to them, afterwards,I called my siblings to inform them on the progress so far.

I was there till 9:00am, yet no interview, luckily we're increasing in number and before you know it, we are already 11 applicants. Now, a lady came out and said, the interview will now start by 10:00am, and at that moment it was clear to me that this same strategy was one witnessed @Onitsha embarassed huh, But I was keeping hopes alive.

Finally, the first guy, was shinning with his speeches, after which he introduced their company to us, and after him was another, and immediately, they gave us aptitude test grin wink and they said in 10mins.

I come look the question, they full mathematics for all corners, I finally attempted as much as I could and with the English test with it. Later, a lady came out and told us that their Manager will soon meet with us for the selection process.

If you see how I was smiling inside of me like I don't know anything they were doing us there. When he came out, he said;
All of you failed the test.
Should I expose your score?
If you think you did so well in this test, raise your ✋, at this moment, nobody was intelligent anymore ���

He now said he will share all that we need to know about the company, and that they are willing to take all of us. He shared his life journey and sweet stories that are either true or not, but I'm not from Delta, so to me, they were not probable, but the whole concepts were looking inviting.

They deal specifically on Agriculture and health care seminar and consultancy.

After every long story, it got to obtaining operational licence �� then I remembered, NA DEM! The Onitsha experience now came back to my mind.

If you're here and you're willing to join this business and become financially independent raise your ✋, all of us did. He said ok.


He asked again, if you're here and very serious about joining our logistics company and you're willing to pay #15,000 for the license, and you'll be working directly under me, raise up your ✋, all hands went cold with just 3 still standing tall. �, Me sweating hard. They were taken into their inner office.


He asked again, if you really want to obtain this license but you don't have the full amount, but can make a part payment of #5,000, raise your ✋, ☹️��. Few other people raised their hands, and they were taken inside.


So, what is the problem with you guys, can you tell me exactly?
I gave my own reason shaa�

Me: Sir, I really love to join your company, but I don't have money, and that's the reason for searching for a paying job.
However, I'm interested in the Super Grow fertilizer your company sells cux I'm a farmer, and I think it would go a long way for my crops.

Manager: I'll get back to you on that.


After all attempts to onboard me and the rest that coordinated well. He said if you don't have money at all but still wants to obtain the license, and will start paying instalmentally from next week, raise your ✋, ☹️ me no raise anything, after the whole tiring process, I was changing it for my pals that encouraged me to go in the first place.

The worse part was the fact that I already had a job processing initiated already with a Private firm which has been taking long to mature, I almost turned my attention off from there, but thank GOD I didn't, if not I wouldn't have gotten any job by now.


These job vendors should stop messing with people's head, mind and time, even finance, cux they'll make sure you travel far to get there.
PropertiesRe: Part Of My Farmland's Fence Fell Down For The 2nd Time (Photos) by Itzi8(m): 4:13pm On Jun 25, 2022
ThisisBuhari:
This particular side of my farmland fence failed for the second year running as a result of rain water. The back of the fence is sloppy, so all the rain water coming down from behind lodge at the back of the fence. So last year after the fence failed, we constructed four concrete pillars, and still it failed yesterday again. Although, someone suggested that I do a drainage to pass through the farmland but I am not disposed to the idea because of reptiles that may be gaining access into the land, so we didnt do that.

Engineers in the house, please what do you advice I do to stop this recurrence.

Thanks
That side of the fence should be erected with solid mixtures and blocks as well. Not 9 inches hulu blocks. Blind the floor with 1 inch thick stones and strong mixture with (42.5 cement grading) also create possible holes on the laying patterns of the block work underneath, to allow water passage without affecting the structure.

Do well to also chain the pillar rods by each partitions next to each other and same should run half way of the fence going up.

Watch your masons and make sure they're running it well, I mean the cement and against the blocks.
RomanceRe: My Trip To The Market With My Landlord's Son... by Itzi8(m): 1:20pm On Jun 04, 2022
BoredBerry:
Just came back from the market... Went there with my landlord's son... This afternoon he saw me going out and asked where I was heading to... Told him... He asked if he could accompany me and I said yes! He was getting a few things too (a mop and buckets and so on...)

I've never spoken to him before... I thought he was an arrogant self-absorbed snub... Not my type... He's a few years older... I'm nineteen so he's between twenty one to twenty three... Very fair... Has curly hair which he dyed dirty blond but left the roots black... Pierced both ears... Dad is a police man... So it's insane he allows his son go out looking like a yahoo boy... grin

Anyways... He and I trekked a little... We barely spoke... I was extremely shy... grin

We stay in a very quiet predominantly hausa- fulani- yoruba muslim community... After some minutes we finally stopped a bike... He said we would ride together... I told him 'No'... I never tried that sh** with my exes and sure a as hell wouldn't start with him... But after waiting to no avail... I relented... grin

It was uncomfortable and extremely exciting! Being really close to cute guy! A lot of bad thoughts but I was also scared a neighbour would see he and I and report us to my mum... grin

We got to the market which is extremely disorganized! We split up... He went his own way to get what he wanted to buy... And I went to the stalls selling tomatoes and pepper and bought some onions from a mallam...

He and I met again... He asked if I was done so we would head back to our compound together... I told him I had to grind them cause the blender at home was faulty...

In the market... There's a section where yoruba women grind tomatoes or egusi etc... We got there... The lady I chose cause her engine was the cleanest started to tease us... My landlord's son is an aje-butter... He was choking turning red... grin

It felt good... Cause he was a bit humiliated which made me confident...

The woman asked if we were dating... I couldn't say no... Kept laughing throughout... He didn't say anything.... I think it's a good thing... He made it seem as though we were together...

We finished there... Started talking really well... He's funny... Smart too... Plus he's cute so I enjoyed us being seen together as much as being with him... grin

We went to a cold room to get some chicken... Nothing much happened there... He paid though... I refused cause I had the money... But I couldn't make a scene... We later spent the money on sweets and soft drinks... Which was fun...

His mum called... Asked him to go to his aunt's wine shop to get something... I didn't follow him cause it's already late... Went home alone...
See as you're gradually losing yourself just because you find someone cute who hasn't even made a position with you, just imagine how you're enjoying your fantasies, when you throw yourself at him now, and it goes south, hope you'll come back here to share it with us. I don't even know what is learnable from this post. Come on dear, define your boundaries ooooo, this is how some ladies become victims and look for who to blame. Please be careful with your fantasies. I'm just telling you the fact, I also understand that you're an adult, but breakfast without foundation is more difficult to get over, esp when you feel there's nothing to lose, while you're losing yourself.


Let's be careful please. More grace dear.
HealthRe: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by Itzi8(m): 11:47pm On May 25, 2022
You've to check what and what you eat. Cut down on your sugar level and have a regular check to be sure your sugar level is moderate. Then make Okro soup your favorite and watch as that wound starts to heal. Above all, May GOD heal you and bless you with your desires. AMEN.
CrimeRe: My Father Told Me “Holy Spirit” Instructed Him To Have Sex With Me - Teenager by Itzi8(m): 8:42am On Apr 10, 2022
This is wickedness.

Dear mothers please stop leaving your daughters with these animals.

I agree with you that it's wickedness, but you sounded uncivil when you referred to men as animals. Let's be cultured with what we say cux tomorrow you'll become a mother, chose not to become toxic cux all men are not the same.

If the mother in question is responsible enough on her own part as a mother, would she travel in the first place, and leaving an almost grown daughter with her husband, while that stage would have been instrumental in her guiding her.

The man no try at all.
BusinessRe: Loan Apps: I Have Used My Hands To Bury Myself by Itzi8(m): 12:04pm On Jan 12, 2022
Degunners:
I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.

Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.

Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.

Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.

I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).

Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.

Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.

I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.

I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.

I'm owing the following apps:
1. Fastmoney 70k
2. Imoney 50k
3. Gocash 38k
4. 40k
5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due.
6. Kuda 50k
7. Next credit 21k
8. Mint loan 35k
9. 9jacash 12k
10. Add money 9k
11. Ncash 9k
12. Ducredit 70k
13. Ajeloan 15k
14. Easy Naira 12k.
15. Cashsea 26k

I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.

I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?
I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?[/quote]Greetings bro, no body is coming after your head here cux everyone has their own bad, so yours is not different. If you had a reliable source of income that attends to your needs, you shouldn't have gone ahead to borrow, especially from the legitimate ones as much as you're owing them.

It's no longer news that texts are flying round now about persons owing some loan companies currently and before, so it's not a good feel at all as I can relate to your situation.

Please work hard to pay off registered institutions like;
Carbon Micro finance �, Kuda, Fairmoney, Branch, Palmcredit (Somehow), Ren Money if you owe them... The good news here is that they have no business calling your contacts or disturbing you to pay, even after due date is passed, but as it lingers it accumulated interests, and if they send you reminders and nothing is still done, the bad news will be to report you to Nigeria Credit Bureau, from there your nightmare begins.

For these other loan apps, 7days with huge interest and 14days with huge interest for peanuts, please and please, do not borrow again to pay any of them, if you don't have the money to pay now, brace up and be strong, don't harm yourself or run High BP, just when you get the money, start your repayment, and before then, you discuss with them to forgive you the interests accumulated, cux they just mess things up from that angle.

Please be strong, I encourage you, and don't fall back on depression cux all those calling you to blame you may not help your need or do not feed you, but want to gossip about it. By the way, was your privacy supposed to be breached and handed to the public cux you defaulted.

I encourage you to join this group SAY NO TO SOKO LOAN on Facebook. When you do, just take your time and read through people's experiences and public opinions, before you think of judging yourself.

You don't deserve to be stoned, but loved,you deserved to be encouraged and lifted. The government is coming for them. Please stop borrowing from anyone to pay cux that's more soul punishment and depression. Concentrate on your job, and try to be saving oooo, like very very important.

Speak often to your loved ones esp now, stay away from blamers or shakers, they are worse in their closets, and be happy again.

Join the group today.
CrimeRe: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Itzi8(m): 12:09am On Nov 09, 2021
Harddiskng:
At the bolded is the way love works.

That babe babe had disconnected with op for a long time he was just too foolish to realize it. Him trying to force her was wrong. Just let her go.

When a babe/guy truly loves you, no matter how she/he tire reach. Them would make effort #fact.
You're right. Trust me, when a lady under your roof changes wing without announcing it, her body language can never be hidden for too long.
It's in the guy's best interest to walk away now, and not fight over what's already crashing.

Women loves adventure, so let her enjoy while it lasts for her.
CrimeRe: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Itzi8(m): 11:26pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
She's tried, means she can't satisfy you at the moment.
You're in the mood, but she's not means that she went through a lot for the day, you find a soft spot to talk her into doing it.

For her to even wear pant to sleep means a whole new concept bro, someone has more to offer, but you don't have to raise any hell. You let her be.

But for you to tear her pant and forcing yourself on her was wrong; will you even enjoy it?

Since she kept resisting, you should have left her.

Last time in love, I can be in a room with my ex for 1 week, and in that 1 week, we only had sex thrice, not that I no sabi do, or she no sabi give me, but there's more we can do outside sex.
Though I don't demand for it, but I'm free to take it at will, she too can be in the mood, but I may decline, but sometimes I have to do it to make her feel better.

For slapping her, you failed the test, beg her like a baby who lost his toy, but if she still insists on leaving and not forgiving, then let her go for good.
Jobs/VacanciesNpower Commence With The Payment Of October Stipend. by Itzi8(op): 11:12pm On Nov 08, 2021
All Npower Beneficiaries are advised to go to their dashboards and confirm the status of their payroll.

Read below;

Dear Beneficiary,

PAYMENT OF OCTOBER STIPEND OFFICIALLY COMMENCE TODAY 8TH NOVEMBER, 2021.

Payment of October stipend has officially commence lately today 8th November, 2021 after the delay as encountered by beneficiaries.

While some Beneficiaries has begun receiving payment notification (alert) on their phones, others are still pending. You are enjoined to log in to your Nasims self service portal and assess under payroll tab.

Based on Banks, some payment statuses are PENDING and will be processed at shortest possible time.

Above all, ensure your bank account details are correctly captured on your NASIMS dashboard to avoid not being paid.

Thank you!
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couple Wear Isiagu For Their Church Wedding (Photos) by Itzi8(m): 11:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
Congratulations to the newly wedded couple. Npower has commenced the payment of October stipend.
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Itzi8(m): 7:42pm On Oct 25, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Hello, can you hear me? You've a better chance of leaving now, while you still can. Furthermore, with such bitterness and sadness in your expression, you will live in regrets for the rest of your life.
Every lady deserves better; Life first, marriage can wait, don't swallow saliva in style and watch your life crumble for the rest of your life.
Foreign AffairsRe: Biden Administration Urges Judge To Block Texas Abortion Law by Itzi8(m): 2:39am On Oct 03, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
I don't support abortion but if I find out that the man is not willing to take up the responsibility, I would abort.

Better to abort than to bring irresponsible souls to the world.

Cases of robbery, raping and other social vices done are done by children whose dad rejected their pregnancy.
Ewwweh, you concluded so fast on that,but it's not entirely true. Nature and Nurture are concepts that defines a child's lfestyle or choice of behavior, and not due to father's rejections.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power Redeployment Issues. by Itzi8(m): 8:04pm On Aug 31, 2021
Benitogucci:
Good afternoon everyone. I'm having serious challenge with my Npower deployment. My PPA in Kaduna is situated in a very vulnerable area in terms of security. I managed to find my way around and went there only to find the school locked. In fact there's no one around the area. Virtually all the people there have relocated from that environment. I really don't know what to do and how to sign the deployment letter. Anyone with an idea should help me please. Thanks.
I encountered the same issue. My PPA was not only deserted, but outgrown by weeds and the structures are already falling side by side, the worse regret was the huge sum I spent to transport to the area and I learnt that the area was formally given to herders, but due to conflits in the area, they were told to relocate, and it's a long way into the place with thick bushes and limited human presence, while the school has remained closed for the past one year plus.

After one of my friends called to tell me, he has signed his deployment letter, I was sweating, cuz neither was mine signed nor rejected.

I just got back home, and looked through the deployment letter, and saw Nasim customer care number 018888340. I called them, and less than a minute, they answered, I explained my issues to their customer representative, she was apologizing for the stress and everything and kept apologizing at any chance, she gave me the number of the supposed supervisor in the area to call, and follow his directives.

I called the line, and behold, it was switched off, so I called them back, and thank goodness, this same amazing lady was at it again, that lady attended to me like an angel, unlike the Customer care experiences I've encountered, and she asked me to hold on, and my call was transferred to a senior supervisor, he spoke to me like a brother, asked me the issues, and after explaining to him, he told me when the call reverses to the customer representative, that I should provide her with 1) Full name, 2) Application Number, 3) Registration phone number, 4) PPA and It's LGA, 5) Current LGA, 6) And my home address.

I provided the informations to the lady, and she told me that my redeployment will take effect in the next 48hours, that they'll take it up from there, and put me at a place closer to me within my address. I thanked her so much, and again she was still apologizing.

After reading this, please follow it up, just this simple way and have your issues resolved please.

Good luck bro.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower: There Will Be Physical Verification Before Deployment And Not Vice Versa by Itzi8(m): 2:13pm On Aug 31, 2021
ezenwaez:
Lots of N-Power Batch C applicants have been making the error of saying that there will not be physical verification, please I repeat although some processes have changed from the previous process used in engaging N-Power Batch A and B, but the template still remains the same.

Please there will be phyiscal verification of Npower Batch C applicants, anyone telling you that there will be no physical verification the person might just be decieving you, it is not done anywhere, engaging an applicant without physically verifying the applicant.

Currently as we speak some N-Power Batch C applicants are beginning to see their physical verification details and address on the N-Power NASIMS portal.

Please note every documentation process requires you to take all your documents uploaded on the N-Power NASIMS portal, original and photocopies plus passport picture, after the N-Power physical verification and the N-Power Batch C applicants is successfully verified, then the N-Power Batch C applicant will proceed to his or her PPA with your deployment letter, it is at your PPA or at the local District whichever the case maybe that you will be given either acceptance or rejection form, all forms must be duly endorsed by the assigned authorised personnel on site, after endorsement the N-Power Batch C applicants is to resume on or before the third day of receiving his or her engagement letter.
Bros, I'm getting more confused by the day about the processes involved. Could you believe that after I went as far as I don't know today to locate my PPA, and finally when I got there, the residents were telling me that it's been about a year plus the school was closed down. The school was already taken over by weeds on all sides, and it's a deserted area kinda. I just turned and left the place, I also took some short clips and photos of the place.

In my case right now, what can I do to get redeployed to another school, or at most a school closer to me here at Awka?

Please I need your response Boss.
NYSCRe: NYSC: Where Did You Do Your PPA? by Itzi8(m): 8:09am On Aug 31, 2021
BennyDon:
You know my darling state too well. God bless you for being part of the story in your PPA.

May the Lord bless you so richly.

Amen
AMEN, I claim it.
NYSCRe: NYSC: Where Did You Do Your PPA? by Itzi8(m): 11:10pm On Aug 30, 2021
Chuky7:
Please you guys should drop where your Place Of Primary Assignment (PPA) was done and can also add how you got it and what the journey was like.

This is to show my friend who I have been arguing with that private company do take corpers as PPA. he feels they are few and it mostly government institutions which he doesn't want.

so my focus is on private coy but that shouldn't stop you if you did yours in a government establishment.

looking forward to your responses
You really wouldn't wish my PPA for your siblings at all. It was Community Secondary School Ago-Oja Ilorin Kwara State. I taught the students two courses from SS 1 to SS 3.

Our allowance was just a thousand naira, which also does not come on a regular.

However, the principal, and staff were super nice, at least appreciates our efforts, and when I was there, they gifted me to my surprise, I and my colleague who were through at the time.

Basic communication was really a difficult one, but Las las, I did a great job with the students.


Anyone at Ilorin, please try out Olam, some private schools there, pays as much as #40,000 to teach Geography, Biology, Chemistry and any other science
Related subjects.

There are some other wonderful places over there in Kwara that you should ask questions of to be on a safe side and enjoy your service year.

I will not forget T&K Eatery, they rock in the food chain industry, and they offer all dishes on a classy level (I love good food; don't worry they've you covered, I mean you my sister that likes soft and garnished pomo) at a very low and affordable cost.

Make a good deal with your Local Government inspector for favourable posts (deployment) or before hand.

Food items are also cheap to an extent there, the likes of kpanla fish, chicken soup packs, yam and other food items. It's also a great opportunity for you my igbo brothers to try out food business, it rocks.

Goat rearing business is also profitable, when you venture into the system, then beat a fair/favourable price and the goods are yours.

If you find yourself in Kwara, make sure to also visit this great man called Pastor David, this good man breached the gap between intolerance amongst religious divides and made us become one. His church is at Laduba, before Ago-Oja community.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Trick To Download Your N-power PPA Letter by Itzi8(m): 10:53pm On Aug 30, 2021
SegZ24:
So many applicants are finding it difficult to download their N-Power PPA Letter, this trick that worked for me might be useful for you also..

First thing first, make sure you are using Chrome browser,
Change the view to desktop view,
After you might have input your details,
Tap on the download button. (As usual an error message pops up)

Now here comes the trick,

Ignore the error message and keep tapping the download button non stop.

As for me, I kept tapping the download button for more than 5min non stop, still I saw a download completed pop up on my notification..

So many people are trying to download at the same time, causing the error message.

All you need is patience.
Keep tapping the download button non stop.

This trick worked for me, might also work for you, that's why am sharing with you.
Give it a try.
Thanks bro for the encouragement to try again, could you believe that since Saturday, I've kept repeating that same process you shared, until I gave up on trying, but your discovery has indeed uplifted many people to try back, and indeed,it worked out almost for everyone that tried, I also called a friend I know just now to try his also, just the same way.
This means that I'm going straight to my PPA tomorrow morning to have this ironed out once.

GOD bless you, all nairalander, and GOD help us all.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower: Deployment Have Started, Please Check Your NASIMS Portal by Itzi8(m): 1:35am On Aug 28, 2021
ezenwaez:
All Npower Batch C applicants are to check their NASIMS portal for their deployment status, on clicking on the deployment tab, an Npower Batch C applicant should be able to see his or her place of primary assignment, entitled monthly stipend and his or her PPA letter for immediate download (see attached screenshot).

Please after downloading the PPA/deployment letter, you are to take it to your assigned supervisor at your place of primary assignment not exceeding three days from the date of printout.

Your assigned supervisor will screen your documents and tick the accepted or rejected box, if you are accepted, you are to reupload the acceptance letter to your NASIMS portal again, this is the process, please when going to your PPA please go with all the documents you uploaded on the Npower NASIMS portal.
Please note, if the Npower programme is not available in your local government area, then choose another program and exercise patience and keep checking your NASIMS portal for updates on your deployment status.
I must acknowledge the unquenched courage of @ezenwaez in providing back to back updates and guidelines on how to go about the stages.

I succeeded in checking my deployment status, and I was amongst those already deployed, "Thank GOD" , my place of primary assignment is far though, but I think I can cope with it, at least to change environment a bit, and at the same time,a rural area.

The issue now is difficulties in downloading the deployment letter. It keeps saying "Something went wrong refresh" or " Too much request, please try in a minute time" and still yet, it's not working. Please what can I do about this?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower: Deployment Have Started, Please Check Your NASIMS Portal by Itzi8(m): 1:33am On Aug 28, 2021
ezenwaez:
All Npower Batch C applicants are to check their NASIMS portal for their deployment status, on clicking on the deployment tab, an Npower Batch C applicant should be able to see his or her place of primary assignment, entitled monthly stipend and his or her PPA letter for immediate download (see attached screenshot).

Please after downloading the PPA/deployment letter, you are to take it to your assigned supervisor at your place of primary assignment not exceeding three days from the date of printout.

Your assigned supervisor will screen your documents and tick the accepted or rejected box, if you are accepted, you are to reupload the acceptance letter to your NASIMS portal again, this is the process, please when going to your PPA please go with all the documents you uploaded on the Npower NASIMS portal.
Please note, if the Npower programme is not available in your local government area, then choose another program and exercise patience and keep checking your NASIMS portal for updates on your deployment status.
I must acknowledge the unquenched courage of @ezenwaez in providing back to back updates and guidelines on how to go about the stages.

I succeeded in checking my deployment status, and I was amongst those already deployed, "Thank GOD" , my place of primary assignment is far though, but I think I can cope with it, at least to change environment a bit, and at the same time,a rural area.

The issue now is difficulties in downloading the deployment letter. It keeps saying "Something went weong refresh" or " Too much request, please try in a minute time" and still yet it's not working. Please what can I do about tgis,?
CelebritiesRe: Tony Umez Celebrates His 57th Birthday (Photos) by Itzi8(m): 9:35am On Aug 25, 2021
Onyi22:
Four months remains for 2021 to run out n am still yet to meet my rich, famous, wealthy man.. Oh God! what is really happening?
Father lead me to the right path to meet my destined Man. Amen

To the celebrate, Happy birthday
Is really not late for you. How do I reach you? Let's see what happens from there.
BusinessRe: Which Business Did You Regret Starting Because It Ended Up In Huge Loss by Itzi8(m): 12:05am On Aug 24, 2021
abuuthmaan:
You can bring up a proposal, send it to 'uthmaanmuhammed@gmail.com'
Ok, I'll work on that sir. Thank you for the opportunity.
BusinessRe: Which Business Did You Regret Starting Because It Ended Up In Huge Loss by Itzi8(m): 12:02am On Aug 24, 2021
Smileychoco:
What is your location please.
I need to ask you somethings
Location: Awka South, Anambra State.
Reach me through 08030885250 or kosoluchukwu8@gmail.com.

Thanks.
FamilyRe: Help! An Unwanted Pregnancy Is Ruining My Life. by Itzi8(m): 10:45pm On Jul 24, 2021
Greetings bro, you're more concerned about just yourself in all you wrote,and little attention to the embarrassment you put the Young girl through.

I don't know how best,but just take a brave step and do the needful,your reconciliation with life,peace and ease startup, as the family will give you guys all the needed support.

So now, consider yourself lucky that anytime and anything you plant in this country grows, apart from some stubborn European crops�.

Both raining and dry seasons as we call them, are not seasons, but weather conditions that still Favours your planting, that's if you take the bold step today.

Plant plant plant
Cassava, vegetables and raise the dust to Grace, GOD is compassionate, merciful and able. HIS judgements are not for men to decide.

Start Farming now.
InvestmentRe: I'm Calling For Investors In Cassava Farm Project. by Itzi8(op): 1:32pm On Jul 24, 2021
tolugar:
Which side in Awka south
Amaenyi. Do you know the place?

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