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Although they stole the show (that was her sister's day), i guess everyone was happy because it was a marriage proposal.

Wish them the best.

Buildingacastle i wouldn't mind chopping some naira oh...

On a more serious note, you have a point about hiding your identity until you know who's for real. Its just a pity that you've exposed yourself here. I will suggest you take some months out, probably 6months. Change your address to some place average. Don't drive your car, take public tranportation during that period. You will get to know people in your new environment. It will be worth it. Or just visit another state of your choice during a festive period like and meet people. You just have to meet people.

Mr cork are you dark skin? I only like guys with dark skin. No offence!

This is not news na. Its been going on for a very long time now. Its just that guys like living in denial. Very soon, someone who's more educated than education itself will come and tell you its all superstition.

Hmmm...interesting. Let me meditate on the strategies first. I'll choose later...

All these relationship 'Dos' and 'Don'ts' don tire me.
Ah ah! Warrisit?
One would think that with all these tips, divorce rates would come down to zeroe level. But that's not the case!

I usually run away from such guys. Most of them are wolves in sheep's clothing.

Well...op, you can't say you weren't warned. You get over your shock and move on with your life. There are many good girls out there waiting for serious guys to find them. Good luck.

Very Funny

Nice one. However, with your money you can still get the right woman

Kids...

Exjoker: So just stick to the basic so that you dont get thrown out..

I usually don't follow the multitude... I don't like rules.

covenantchild33: Can u pls assist in reducing the stress of my adventure by helping to recommend one! Who knows, u may just be a God sent!

Sorry dear, i don't match-make. I think experiencing that adventure is necessary and also good for you. It will enable you appreciate better that 'special woman' when you finally find her.

Exjoker: I cant tell what really beyonce mean in that song, just look around you...who do you really think rule the world?

Its obviously a man's world. It has been right from creation.

@op, you were only unfortunate to meet the proud and arrogant ones. There ladies who are very beautiful, very intelligent and yet are still humble. Not easy to find, but they do exist.

kilokeys: girls, u folks dont get it at all. is this how u reason?
a counter thread clearly stating that

sex.. is to guys as money is to girls?

lemme clear u ignorant pple of ur obvious stewpidity.

guys are innately designed to crave se,x.. more than women
and also NoTE that it is natural for a Man to give and cater for a lady.


so if u r dating a thing that just wants se.x. u r dating a BOY.
thats ur fault.

real MEN give se.x and MOney.
shallow BoYs Pay for Se.x.


stwpid girls endure/enjoy se.x for money
ideal Ladies date for companionship( with or without se,x or money)

Real ladies date serious men with futuristic tendencies ( they date when marriage is in view, and the man is ready)

I think i agree with you. if the couples were matured and truly in love, then the op's question would be very unnecessary. The difference between boys and men; girls and women is too obvious.

If a man truly loves a woman, and she in turn is sincere with him, then he will patiently wait till marriage (if that is what she wants) and this doesn't stop him from taking care of her needs as his woman.

The op's question stems from distrust.

A healthy dose of jealousy is a part of human beings. It is normal and expected in a relationship and it occurs if you trully care about someone.

Jealousy is that emotion that makes a person fight for love in the case of two rivals.

Jealousy is when you can't bear the thought of another person having any form of intimacy with your partner.

Jealousy is that emotion that allows you to get hurt when you feel your partner is cheating on you.

Jealousy makes you put in your best in your relationship so that your partner sees no one but you.

Its not about being insecure. I may be secure in a man's love for me but he is human and humans have weaknesses. If as a result of this weakness he cheats on me, or just looks at another woman with desire in his eyes, i will be hurt. I will be hurt because i love and care about him. That feeling of 'hurt' stems from jealousy. But if it doesn't bother me. If i have no qualms about his unfaithfulness whether true of false, then i don't love him. And whatever he does will have no effect on me.

Sin of the flesh

Exjoker: Women cheatin on men is barbaric

Hmmm...and Beyonce said women ruled the world...

adonbilivit: ladies and i guess you are one

To answer to your question, that's the beauty of choice. It is what they want.

Exjoker: Dont even try it cuz ama dumpin you on first discovery after all na women plenty pass for this world

But...what a man can do...

You have a point there...

Who are you asking?

tpia1: and this.

What happened?

Go for the one you love.

Who murdered innocence in these little ones?

I don't know how many bf(s) can do it but you can if you're capable. However, be warned that changing an entire wardrobe isn't a joke. We're talking about clothes (all the type she puts on), shoes, bags, lingerie etc

Such things are not common in Nigeria. But if you have the boldness to do it, why not?
I was kissed on the road once by a bf i hadn't seen in a while and i just couldn't stop blushing. Although I was embarrassed, i still liked it.

She needs prayers, counselling and deliverance.
But wait oh, didn't your friend notice this trait while they were dating. It couldn't have been possible to hide going by the writeup.