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What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:08am On Sep 24, 2014 |
In response to Ezegozie, I created this thread! I am really asking because i think some Girls are being used to achieve Sexual needs. Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs. And he is in a so called relationship; he doesn't spend on her, no allowance, yet a bleepful (sexful) relationship and every other sexual activities. But she washes his clothes, does every domestic chores around his home and also satisfies his private needs! Let me ask you officially what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ? For the Boys, If you are not ready to spend on her, why are you ready to demand for sex? 94 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by iceberylin(m): 12:12am On Sep 24, 2014 |
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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:20am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Agreed! Spending on your girlfriend (if you really love her) is something you should enjoy doing, but Nigerian gentlemen see it as a favour which is really annoying And what is more annoying is; if no sex, then no spending!!! 117 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 24, 2014 |
They learn new stuffs like: *Corporate pretence * Professional & sensational lies * Higher Diploma in double dating 61 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Cikoloko(m): 12:22am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Op u mean [/color][color=#000099]she washes his clothes, does every domestic cho[color=#770077][/color]res around his home and also satisfies his private needs! In this generation who does that these days Allowance ni allowancee kor na u giv me work 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:24am On Sep 24, 2014 |
acidosisTM: They learn new stuffs like:Nailed it! 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:26am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Cikoloko: Op u mean [/color][color=#000099]she washes his clothes, does every domestic cho[color=#770077][/color]res around his home and also satisfies his private needs!Na you give me my pu.nani?? Or boobi?? 24 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Cikoloko(m): 12:31am On Sep 24, 2014 |
LifeIsGuhd:lol u take xx a favour 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:37am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Cikoloko: lol u take xx a favourYou take spending on your lovely girlfriend a favour? 14 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by ronald4lif(m): 12:38am On Sep 24, 2014 |
LifeIsGuhd: In response to Ezegozie, I created this thread! This thread is uncalled for, if you follow Eze's thread carefully you will realise that majority of the guys aren't complaining of spending on their women but rather demands that women shouldn't reject getting laid provided a guy sorts her or some of her bills. And as per your post I don't know your gender but if it turns out that you are a lady then it's disheartening to openly admits that ladies shouldn't indulge in sex if their guys doesn't spend on them. Just a quick reminder of what the term prostitute means "A prostitute is a sex worker who willingly engages in sexual encounters for monetary or material gains". Am I right to conclude that (judging by your logic) you and every other girl out there who only agrees to get laid by her boyfriend/man only when she gets financial favours from him is a prostitute, or in subtle phrase a potential prostitute? Please correct me if I am wrong. Thanks 422 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
ronald4lif:Wow!! You went extra miles, am not saying sex in a relationship is bad whether or not he is spending. All I am against is the phrase; if no sex, then no spending! Finito 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Baddestguyp(m): 1:06am On Sep 24, 2014 |
op, u're being biased, all a guy gains from d relationship is sex, yes sex. but a girl gains sex + money and d likes. SCENE 1 if a guy is deprived of sex, wat does that leave him with? at least d girl would still enjoy d other goodies (money) and in such a case d guy loses totally. SCENE 2 if d guy doesn't take care of d girl's financial needs, the girl can still gain sex, the guy also gains sex I.e such is equal. POINT either way the girl gains from the relationship CONCLUSION a guy is expected to take care of some of his gf's needs, sex or no sex but he is free to walk out of the relationship if the girl wants d latter option cos he doesn't gain from it 155 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by ronald4lif(m): 1:10am On Sep 24, 2014 |
LifeIsGuhd: Well, my apologies if I sounded offensive. The undisputed fact still remains that sex is enjoyed by both sex and not only to men so the discuss of one gender rejecting it should never have arise. Myself and most guys (and I am sure you will agree too) out there will hardly have money and refuse to share with our woman if the needs arises. I know there are some naturally stingy guys but here is about the majority of us. The reason why guys resorted to taking of their women as a bait for sex for favours is apparently from bitter experience. A lot of us have put out our all financially in a relationship only to be jilted at the end, many were deceived by the 'wait till our wedding before sex talk' in the past and lessons learnt. The speed at which a lady quits a relationship when sex wasn't involve is different from the speed with which she calls it quits when there was sexual encounters. Hence, guys unanimously decided that I will spend no problem but not without eating the cookie so that in events of a break up no one feels cheated. 146 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by naturally: 2:23am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Maybe she enjoys d kerewa 1 Like |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by mrbamo(m): 2:49am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Who get blue biro make e borrow me? i wan write open letter to Jonathan.......*** **** 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 4:57am On Sep 24, 2014 |
LifeIsGuhd:She can gain future prospects and brightness of the student when He graduated ..... What makes sex parasitic when the lady also enjoy the show and it is not as if anybody is taking anything away from eachother ... two ways enjoyment ..... Why should the guy pay for what the lady will enjoy most Sex aint a blessing joor ,only to Ezegozie, she can close her boot if she doesn't wanna give !! 19 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by LMAyedun(m): 5:56am On Sep 24, 2014 |
iceberylin: ŚĔЖ ĨŚ ŚŐMĔŤĤĨŃĞ ĔVĔŃ ŤĤĔ ĹÁĎĨĔŚ ĔŃĴŐŶ ßÚŤ ŃĨĞĔŔĨÁŃ ĹÁĎĨĔŚ ŚĔĔ ĨŤ ÁŚ. Favour ÁŃĎ ĨŤŚ ÁŃŃŐŶĨŃĞYou spoilt your sensible post with the annoying font you used. 1like for you. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by alaladakosta(f): 5:56am On Sep 24, 2014 |
A lot. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by davidflipcy(m): 5:56am On Sep 24, 2014 |
When has it become a responsibility for a guy to spend on his Gf 44 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by sammieguze(m): 5:57am On Sep 24, 2014 |
How to be good housewives......lol 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by gbaskiboy: 5:57am On Sep 24, 2014 |
The use of sense of Faculty is called for here, I still shake my head for those that found themselves in such web of life, 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 5:59am On Sep 24, 2014 |
For your information, they enjoyed the intimacy more than men...they need to pay us, if so broke, then they will have to do chores like laundry 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Pavore9: 6:00am On Sep 24, 2014 |
l expected this thread and l have not been disappointed! lt is like the right to fornication is what is being analyzed here. The society today is continually re-enforcing the conviction that pre-marital sex is d way to go but promiscuity is no bliss! 67 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by freshness2020: 6:00am On Sep 24, 2014 |
No one should expect anything from each other. Be it the lady or man! It should be based on a free will term! The problem is "expectation".. When ♈όϋ live a life of not expecting anything from anybody in whatever regard, I bet ♈όϋ will live happier! It shouldn't be on a basis of "as I give, I must get in return". Let's try and live above that mentality ! 78 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by kurajordan(m): 6:01am On Sep 24, 2014 |
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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Ivanspring(f): 6:02am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Sin of the flesh 10 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Hemanwel(m): 6:02am On Sep 24, 2014 |
OP,you cant even find most Nigerian girls in such relationships. Their mantra has become, "na love I wan chop??" 14 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Rapmoney(m): 6:04am On Sep 24, 2014 |
This nonsense Nigerian mentality that guys should pay in a relationship is total trash! Nor be two pipo dey enjoy sex? How many girls on NL have bought boxers or singlet for their BF on his birthday? Una just wan dey collect! 32 Likes |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by YoungDaNaval(m): 6:06am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Sex 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by datguru: 6:06am On Sep 24, 2014 |
first ask your self if a girl in our contemporary world would be in a RELATIONSHIP without benefit Abeg wey chiiedu 8 Likes
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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by drkay(m): 6:07am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Hot orgasm, advice etc. 1 Like |
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