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@femishosho
Girl I read your other thread where i sympathized with you for being a victim of a very selfish/unfaithful/heartless man. This thread implies that things are getting to a dangerous head between you, this man and his wife. I understand how you feel Sweetie, I truly feel for you. You need to know that you are treading on dangerous ground right now because that feeling that had you (feeling like that, checking on his wife in facebook )is a fatal one. It is the type of feeling that has caused people to commit things and when they blink the next minute cannot believe what they did, I mean the way you are feeling can drive you out of your mind into doing something that may hurt someone or even yourself so please you need to distance yourself from this man and his wife for your own good.

See whether you can find support from a friend/family that will be there for you to talk to when you feel down. Give that man some distance for now because the sight of him and the jealousy that he had you going through are a dangerous mix. If he is supporting you financially, you can have a friend be collecting whatever he wants to give you for now until you deliver. Just help yourself get that ugly feeling out of your system while you are carrying your pregnancy to terms. This man has truly shown you his true colours, he is just using you to satisfy his urges so why do you still allow him do that to you. In your pregnant state he toils with your dignity promising to be in your child's life this minute and changing his mind the next minute and you are still there playing love with him. Don't you keep thinking that he is still around because he loves you, No Baby he is only hanging around your p*ssy (that's the ugly truth). The man is playing with your p*ssy girlfriend, he is playing with your body, with your life, with your future and even with the future of your Baby. What are you still doing with that man, girl? Break away from him, he is not good for your system one bit. Be strong for yourself, don't let him drive you to craziness/jailhouse (if you are not careful).

Exhale----relax a bit. Move away from him, get him out of your system------ everything will be alright, okay Baby? Hugs to you from me.

gerald2: I'm driving EU to south side. Who is inside the train

Omo I dey south side too. It keeps hanging on the first support level and reversing. I hope sellers pull it down home to us.

Sellers seems to be dominating UJ----it seems to be loosing little steam on its upward journey.

Which one is widow's cult again? They shouldn't over do things, can the husbands of 15 women die within the same period for all of them to be toting bald head like that?

Anyway make them they pay better millions to my girls for better shopping things Ojare.

I like Eniola, she makes me smile and laugh in one or two of her movies that i have watched.

@Peelovee

How are you Babes? Hope good?

stevade: @ lvynwa

Thanks, i think i will do that

How are you girl?
Hope good?

infofirst: Market talk is that there was 4 billion (plus) USD/JPY bought to push it through the resistance (there were substantial sell orders 99.50 to 100).

Today in Japan there’s a deluge of data, including the Ministry of Finance release on investment flows into and out of Japan.
USD/JPY breaks 100 for first time since 2009

Little wonder it's riding sweet, up and high like it knows where it's headed.

I love the Africanness of Muma Gee.

We making money, we making money, we making money this year! Sing people--- Hahaha
Great achievers of Naija, I am very happy for them.

Alleluiah, Good to see her looking good, portable and pompous (according to Osuofia).
I thank God for her life cause her earlier pale and thin look got me scared for her.

Cool, I like it.

rozayx5: v8 gives signal on the kijun and tenkan cross, works excellent in trending markets and still works bes together with the kumo clouds, you know they are a whole team , so remove one person and that might be the goal keeper

Attched below in Ichi 360 V8, and the template in the pic below

Yeah, I got it already from where you initially posted it. Thanks very very much.

CFCfan: How do I trade in Forex?

How are you CFC?
Start learning from www.babypips.com. Read online and in this forum too.

@Rozay
How do i change the base of that ichimoku cloud breakout to black, it's white on me and too bright. I have been able to adjust the (9,26,52) part and on the colour part I saw no white colour among the other whites to adjust black.

Yeah I just found it on page 11 & 12, No way am I gonna miss that. "Ichi360"----this ichimoku is getting more sophisticated by the day with Rozay and friends finding improved ones and even funkifying it for us .
Thanks to the beautiful people here that are too open hearted to hoard knowledge

Fabville: rozayx5, i think this ichi360 v8 works most perfectly on H1 time frame than H4. What do you think about this?

I am wondering whether i missed out on this indicator "ichi360 v8". Is it another Ichimoku or the same as the "ichimoku cloud breakout". Is it the ichi cloud breakout that is being referred to ichi360 z8? If it isn't abeg may una attach the ichi 360 for me make i follow use abeg.

The Baby looks naughty there
Mpompo Nwa!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTIbmqiYYn4



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1WVvBXsyyk

zig2ryme04: InstaForex wont kill me with their bonus!

Whew Whew! Enough bonus conditionalities in the link below, I haven't been giving it attention. Will find time and digress that, I knew there's no way they can be dashing out that bonus without protecting their own end of the bargain.

https://secure.instaforex.com/en/forex_bonus_agreement.aspx

zig2ryme04: InstaForex wont kill me with their bonus!

Please tell me a little about it. I have been planning to use style get a little $1000 foc bonus from Instaforex recently. I was also wondering whether their bigger amount bonus goes with some conditions like giving a time limit which one is bound to withdraw from the account etc like some other brokers do.

rozayx5: go to filecrop . com
check for ichi360v8

and check out my signature and download the system in the link below
http://www.larslarsson.com/ichimoku-cloud-breakout-strategy.html

Rozay boy thanks for sharing this better Ichimoku. I like the Ichimoku indicator, babypips mentioned that the one in the meta4 template is mainly for the yen(Japanese) pairs yet i find that one irresistible and apply it around other non yen pairs. Good to have an Ichimoku that is friendly to other pairs and not just the yens.


@Rozay
You mean you really skipped school in preference to Fx trading? You can be an inspiration sometimes without knowing it. I mean my younger brother once asked me to teach him what I've learnt in Forex and I tried to discourage him (because i didn't want him to experience the lil pain that goes with losing sometimes) and when I remembered Rozay, I started gisting him about the 21/22 yr wonderboy and was like if Rozay can do this he sure can.

Kudos to some of the eloquent/intelligent Fx traders like Ayox2003 that really defended the ability of us all to choose our path of life. I agree with Kcc515 that "what you think is real is your reality' and our realities are different". If we keep generalizing because some people lost out in fx and other spheres of life, we sure can't make any leap in life. One love to everybody.

naijababe: I am thinking Seun did this. Just saw it now too. Expect a barrage of ..................... fill in the gaps, na una sabi

I thought so too, I am not sure that the Kcc515 fella needs all that attention right now. It's going to be alright dude, you are richer in knowledge and when that is quantified it is worth more than you lost.

The topic of the thread should be changed into "Nigerian woman jailed for abusing children" because she didn't just flog them with all those everlasting scars described there as given to them by the woman. She deserves to be jailed, I mean she she is getting served in her own coins. Why adopt children to go maltreat them? Fr*aking woman.

carmelion: Hello house goodmorning.Please there is something I want us to discuss today,cos am even confused myself.

A married friend of mine told me that she and her husband never had carnal knowledge of each other until their white wedding night.

Now they got married traditionally,five months earlier. She said that after their traditional marriage,she did not follow her husband back to his house,rather he went home alone. Can you imagine?hmmm...

When people saw her the following morning,they were suprised ,so they asked

"Were you not the one that got married yesterday"?what are you doing here?".

So she tried explaining to them that she and her husband are doing it the christian way.

Now she told me that she was not a virgin but her husband was. She started practising secondary celibacy
after the last relationship she had before meeting her husband. So meeting a virgin man made it easier for her to abstain.


Now I want to ask?what's your take on this?Isn't traditional marriage the main wedding?Isn't it recognised before God?Am a christian but I don't understand why I should wait for five freaking months before being intimate with my own husband !,all because am waiting for one white wedding.All those weddings we hear of in the bible,are they not traditional?After which the man retires to his room with his bride?

I might be wrong ,I might be right,but to me,white wedding was borrowed. Or what do you guys think?

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When I read the bolded I smiled, you are indeed an honest person.
I also consider traditional as wedding proper in our own culture but if two decides to wait to get things done on their white wedding day, it is their choice. I use to hold all that view of "sex-should-wait-till-the-wedding-day" mentality too and actually avoided sex and waited into my thirties. Over the years, reality and the things that happen in our world has made me realize that sex is part of us humans. I am not supporting for any to get wild, romp and sleep around. I've come to understand that we all sometimes have s-exual needs whether single or married and that part of the reason marriage was instituted is to put control on things so that people can't be running amok sleeping around with whoever cares and procreating disorderly and all over the place. I have nothing against two adults living their honest and faithful life fulfilling each other's sexual and emotional needs etc and going on to marry if they wish or remain single all their life if they wish.

I also think that a couple should understand themselves enough before marrying, you can't go marry somebody that detests the things you like and come to nairaland tomorrow to sing songs of lamentations. I was telling my cousin this evening that I don't even want any relationship getting started between me and a man that I don't find desirable enough to kiss or peck. I mean you have to be attracted to the person in the first place. A woman once opened a thread here about how she realized after marrying her husband that he cannot get an e*rection, i think she also mentioned divorce too. Another man was lamenting and sulking in another thread recently on how he likes "Oral s*x", how his wife refused to bulge and let him enjoy that and how he is thinking of getting his satisfaction outside etc.

The Bible did say that marital bed should be undefiled which if you think about in the spiritual context does matter and is important as there may be more to the relationship between the s*exual things we humans do and spiritual things we can't see with our human eyes yet the much I have been able to understand with my human eyes and thinking is that a couple should communicate during courtship and be sure that they can tolerate each other before tying the knots.

Sexiest??
Why is it that when some men see two curvy lumps peaking out from the hip region of women they immediately think sexy. The lady is not proportionally built please. It's true that when such hippies peak out through a tight jean that they look lovely but you need to check out the overall profile make up and how proportional they all are.

She looks good all the same but she isn't the best thing that ever happened to the Nigerian/Ghanaian movie industry(I hate to use the word Nollywood/Gholywood to imitate Hollywood like y' all, can't you guys be initiative enough to find a unique name for your own movie industry? ).
Jeezy!

I am very happy for Uchenna Nnanna, days ago I saw a movie where she is one of the main leads and smiled for her because she has been acting supporting roles for a long time and was hardly on the front line. I was happy to see now that the camera is beaming on her good and she is getting recognized too. We lived in the same neighbourhood growing up and One of her sisters use to be friendly with one of my girlfriends back in the days. She has this very very beautiful sister that would have set Nollywood crazy for her if she is still alive, unfortunately she is no more.

Uche Ogbodo has great looks. Happy for them.

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@Poster

You really did not say it all out enough for us to view everything and say that she is too proud for not saying sorry when we don't even know what she is being asked to say sorry for. I mean if she is being asked to say sorry( and make you feel like the head of the family) for something that affected her greatly and meant the world so much to her that she can't stand anybody doing that to her then she does have her good reason for standing her ground. As long as we do not know what really happened, we can't fault her there.

Most of your posts showed that you've been carefully putting a lid on the actual thing that happened, you have your reasons for that which may be good for you but you can't write an unclear stuff like this, tell us a little part of it and expect us to agree with you verbatim. If some posters side you and say "Oh she is too proud and should say sorry", you feel cool and good and if some post in comments that blames you a little----you get sweetly smart, defend yourself and exonerate yourself from the loop yet your problem remains where it is: Waiting on wifey to say sorry or we are going straight to Reno/Divorce to teach her that I am the head of the family.

What you posted here may not be enough to get you good advice that will solve your problem unless all you needed to chat over is "Why can't some women say sorry?" and get off your laptop to perhaps continue looking at your wife's face to know when it will soften and finally say sorry so that you can cancel out the divorce paper. You seem good hearted though and truly truly want no divorce except that she has to be taught that lesson you are trying to teach her now. All I am saying is that we don't know why she is holding her shoulder up against saying sorry because you didn't tell us and she may have a reason which when we get to hear plenty people here may turn around and say that she shouldn't say sorry for that. The other thing I could grasp from your post is that some relatives meddle therein making wifey feel hated. You do have a work to do in making her not feel so instead of simply telling her that they don't hate you. Have you made efforts to talk to those relatives that give her that feeling through their behaviour towards her so that they can be treating her more respectfully. Please leave that "I gotta be made to feel like the man" and sort your problem with your wife or else I am foreseeing a divorce where a month after the two of you have greased up the lawyer's pockets and gone your separate ways one of you calls the other to say "Sweetie, I can't live without you anymore" and the next minute you will both be flying across the city to lovey dovey and curl/hug up under the sheets again . Dude don't waste your money and energy divorcing to teach her the "I'm the man lesson" cause that may wear off in a day or two and you will realize that that divorce is only a waste of resources. Thank you.

Markets ranging here and there. What's causing the consolidation, hope it all brings good tidings at the end of the rainbow.

aguiyi: buy usdcad @1.0200,sl/tp is 50pips each

When you posted this initially I wanted to doubt that that is a buy thread as it looked bearish,I've been watching it make some bullish moves that is if it isn't ranging like others too.

@Honerico
Andrew's prediction about NZD/USD is true. It's a buy buy trade, i entered the trade last night when the MACD showed it looking bullish good and it has been friendly, may not show great leap today because of the hols though. It has some strength for sure.