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Money Soldier: Listen 2 dis but no laugh 2much. If u think its nice then I ll do another one:lovely! |
WackyJ1: had a to do a redoStill empty |
Thugnificent: check this outNice nice ![]() |
dynamicbuzz: .Wow! ![]() |
TEA esq™:I love your voice ![]() |
mayapop: Enjoy! My wack voice!Sweeet |
dopeJemi: listen y'alLGreat Voice |
Congratz dear stay true to eachother ![]() |
ejim blessing: I keep telling my friends that my husband is gonna be a very lucky man. It's not as if I'm not beautiful. In short I'm a very pleasant person- creative, expressive, a Poet, good height, an undergraduate of a reputable federal university( that's not under ASUU lol) , brilliant, tenacious, diplomatic, humorous, with gap tooth sef and a blessed upper region. Lol. I'm not advertizing myself hereBut you were advertising yourself. That's why people really don't wanna agree with the sincerity of your post. You should be proud of yourself. Regardles am sure everyone knows there are still virgins on earth some older than you sef. Virginity should be a personal thing, no need to even tell your friends about it much less a public forum. A lot of ladies aren't virgins nomore, most guys see no biggie in it hence, you aren't gona get no award in here or IRL. Just live a happy and proud life cause you have every reason to be proud of yourself ![]() |
His not straight, most probably he has concluded a long time ago that the relationship wil end nowhere and he has decided to move on though his wondering if he cld gain some favour from you still. Hence, hiz trying to be here and there. Who knows maybe when you guyz see and he getz a reminder of just how beautiful you are, insecurities wil set in again and he would want to reconsider sticking with you but that will b just so he doesn't lose to another man Well that kind of man is no good to you. If distance chips in once again, hez gona bolt yet again. So nope, move on and 4get about your relationship with him but you can still help him get a job if you can |
1) Shez mad 2) Shez a LovePeddler How can she go back to your friends place? that first move is simply crazy and then having the guts to describe how he touched her? Heeheee are you sure you took time to understand who she really was before you aproached her ![]() Lesson: don't just go about asking girls with pretty faces out, test the character too |
BIGVAJINA: but i am he may consider me a slut if he finds out my name because i am totally opposite from my online character. what do i do?Hummmm you dont want him to find out its you and yet you create this thread and you don't think he may read this post if ur online persona or name isn't who you are, then he alredy knows that cause his your husbi,he shld know the real you.Wats the rational behind this thread ![]() |
DARREG: i joined nairaland since 2009 thinking i would be able to enjoy myself but one thing i have noticed about the girls here is that they are not ready to mingle. Most of them have this holier than thou atitude like they are above all guys. i am tired of socializing with this kind of girls.Dream on |
jay bee: No be our fault naThis is exactly what she wantz to hear. Ignore its simple really ![]() |
Kollins12: May be he should have included other denominations:because I know Christianity is not a Ticket to heaven,all Christians are wasting their time.Islam,xtianity, hinduism and the rest is no ticket to make to heaven. Men of God do all shady sort of things. So give mi a break. All I know is therez only One God, serve him with a pure heart. And stop thinking your better than others or your way is the right one. Focus on the God your serving please |
El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Though its aint cool to judge or criticize -- Dude might just be making a point.Get your facts straight before you say things. Pays less reference to Christ? You just proved you know NoTHING about the church |
Some women don't enjoy what they cook personally, so how will you expect her to cook often When she's, married and has her husband and kids to cater for, you think she is going to keep eating out? You need to be clearer here. Does she find it hard to cook for you at your crib? Inshort is it that you have no idea if shez good at cooking?You said shez a banker, hence she has little time for herself. Let me tell you one little secret; when some people live alone, they don't bother to much about things especially when they aren't always around. Maybe she was runing late and probabli if there was extra time she would have been able to wash the dishes. Am not saying that's what hapened but you need to watch out for when shez relaxed and less busy and her home is unkept and she stil does nothin about it. Don't jump into conclusion yet. Drinking. Unfortunateli that's a no no Trash things out? Some men hold the concept of respect too dear that they read more into words. I think your one of them. Nevertheless I still think shez rude and I doubt if you can change this about her. Either you accept this by being the calmer one or you just say goodbye to the relationship. The trick for this kind of behaviour, is to avoid arguing with her. Just leave her hanging, walk out or something . When you keep talking, you keep encouraging whatever it is shez saying. But when you keep mute and distant, shed find her way back to you sober. Nobody or relationship is perfect. Your first assignment should be to find a way to handle and manage her negatives. When it becomes clear that this is more than you. Take a bow. |
Wislet: Lol. Seriously, some comments here are hilarious.Let me get you straight , I go to my bfs crib am not in that stage of my life where I want to get married, he probably isn't too. We are both hungry there's food in the house we cook together or I cook For two. Do you you honestly think am cooking cause I need tu be given a marriage stamp on my head And if you know marriage is where your heading tooo, do what you know you can to keep your man and he should do the same too. Its both ways. But don't tink one ultimate thing wil make him stick with you. Hence, don't enslave yourself.But What's the biggie in cooking For a bf you may or may not end up marrying. It should b voluntary and if he begs me equally why not? As long as you don't expect me to cook morning til night For you or call me up and say come over now, come and cook! Its understanding that matters most. No one is dumb only if you allow it. if you see your girlfrnd wants tu turn you into a maga, then you prove your not likewise if your with a guy who's too primitive and only wants to take undue advantage, shine your eyes. Theres a limit to everything shikena Know your limits! |
emalekuo: in a relationship nothing is by force, you do the one your power catches, you visit your boy friend and he is just back from the market, is it a big deal if u decide to help him cook or wash the dishes? he picks the broom to sweep and you watching African magic abi? AND FOR GOD'S SAKE WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN HIS HOUSE IF YOU CAN'T HELP HIM OUT WITH SIMPLE TASKSense. How can some girls come here and tell me cooking is slavery and some guys wil agree. When you act like an house girl thatz entirely your biz. So don't come and confuse people here (to all the girls who can't differenciate btw acting human , or sensible and acting like a slave (washing clothes, ironing, sweeping, washing toilets, cooking 24,7 . Praticallyy living your life for him and all the while his, insensitive, non reciprocal, snoring and watching football or he has gone out to party hard) with the mindset that it will land you marriage. Ohhhh please! Give yourself respect Cooking For my bf should not b beacuse he must marry him. Its part of the little gestures you give when inlove. if cooking for two when you guys are hungry automatically turns you into a slave in your bfz eye |
zeb04: You com to my house I cook nd dats all. those who make it a duty 2 cook are the desperate ones. Babes dnt let dis dudes decieve u. Weda u cook or no cook,if u lik give him snake in the monkey shadow style of sex,if he won't marry you,he won't. Respect urself nd pack ur bags nd go home wit al d guys on nairaland sayin this,I must count my self lucky to have met levelheaded nd educated guys. .My point is why on earth would you cook for your man because you think you can trap him with that? Itz common sense really, am in my bfs crib am hungry and there's food in the house, you think am gona say "oh honey am hungry,wanna go grab something outside, will catch you in 20" dahell And there's food in the house? Can only do that if am not interested in what's in the house.Or probably I start cooking and then he says "o babe please include mine and I will refuse" Or I'd b munching solo in his presence when I know my baby is hungry?If am tired but hungry and can't cook he cooks or goes out to get me something. If he does that, why can't I do that for him too And when we feel like its snack or eating out day, then we go For it.Lik I said early on, if you don't drag yourself in the mud, no one can. If you apply respect to yourself in anything you do, you will be respected. So please it is a poor mentality to think cooking for your bf wil land you ultimate marriage. It should be done willingly, a gesture of love and kindness. Therez absoluteli no wrong in it. |
Abeg Cooking for your bf can't mk him lose respect for you. When you act lik a slave without bearing then he can. Herez a little thing about respect,Once you don't drag yourself on the floor no one can. Give yourself respect,respect will follow. Everything has limit girls who act too clingy tooo, choking n cheap are the ones who face that risk. Once you notice your bf has started misbeaving cause of something your doing, time to stop. But cooking For your bf is NO SLAVERY as long as both of you agree it isn't. |
Homguy: see thinking!His jokin na |
Enegod: this thread is so unholy... I refused to be corruptedI totally agree ![]() *sprinkles thread with holy water* |
In honesty I hated it shege. When I go to my bfz crib and he begs me to coook especiali if some friends are over ( for my mind I done turn to slave abii) ![]() You need to see boning. Bone of life and sharp sharp he wil join me in the kitchen But With time I got used to it. Looking at it critically, you and your bf in the house and then when one or both of you gets hungry, you guyz have to go eat out? Haba! You guyz can eat out once in awhile , other times you cook, he cooks(that's if he can, if not u bear it all) either way,we all know that as a girl you wil do the cooking more ![]() Why would a guy disrespect you cause you cook for him once in a while For some guyz if not most, its the fastest way to their hearts oStill I don't expect guyz to force their gfs to cook for them if they don't wana |
This early morning and your mission is to ask this question ![]() Please how does it concern you ![]() Direct your questions to the parties involved ![]() |
The topic is pretty annoying. " Advice: my girlfriend is pregnant for another" dahell!! Are you a mumu ![]() |
Olugbenger: Op, you need advice. ![]() |
Enh do you say confused? Carry your carrier and vammuse. Eye opener (1) shez has practically been living with him (2)Mother inlaw to be hates you. How do you think it will ever work? (3)Preggy? My friend dust ur slippers and run. Then kneel before God and thank HIM ![]() |
Enough with the sexkillz obsession u aren't even that fair ![]() |







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