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Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 9:31pm On Dec 14, 2013
Money Soldier: Listen 2 dis but no laugh 2much. If u think its nice then I ll do another one
:lovely!
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 9:24pm On Dec 14, 2013
WackyJ1: had a to do a redo undecided
Still empty cry
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 9:22pm On Dec 14, 2013
Thugnificent: check this out grin
Nice nice cheesy
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 8:51pm On Dec 14, 2013
dynamicbuzz: .
Wow! cheesy
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 8:35pm On Dec 14, 2013
TEA esq™:
embarassed
I love your voice cheesy
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 8:25pm On Dec 14, 2013
mayapop: Enjoy! My wack voice! grin at least my own is sure as heck better than god of music's own undecided tongue
Sweeet
Music/RadioRe: Nairaland: So You Think You Can Sing? by ivyy(f): 8:24pm On Dec 14, 2013
dopeJemi: listen y'alL
Great Voice
RomanceRe: The Official Engagement :) by ivyy(f): 5:06pm On Dec 13, 2013
Congratz dear stay true to eachother smiley
RomanceRe: I'm 24 And Still A Virgin! by ivyy(f): 9:52am On Dec 11, 2013
ejim blessing: I keep telling my friends that my husband is gonna be a very lucky man. It's not as if I'm not beautiful. In short I'm a very pleasant person- creative, expressive, a Poet, good height, an undergraduate of a reputable federal university( that's not under ASUU lol) , brilliant, tenacious, diplomatic, humorous, with gap tooth sef and a blessed upper region. Lol. I'm not advertizing myself here
But you were advertising yourself. That's why people really don't wanna agree with the sincerity of your post. You should be proud of yourself. Regardles am sure everyone knows there are still virgins on earth some older than you sef.


Virginity should be a personal thing, no need to even tell your friends about it much less a public forum. A lot of ladies aren't virgins nomore, most guys see no biggie in it hence, you aren't gona get no award in here or IRL. Just live a happy and proud life cause you have every reason to be proud of yourself wink
RomanceRe: I'm In A Complicated Distance Relationship!i Need Ur Help! by ivyy(f): 4:02pm On Dec 09, 2013
His not straight, most probably he has concluded a long time ago that the relationship wil end nowhere and he has decided to move on though his wondering if he cld gain some favour from you still. Hence, hiz trying to be here and there.
Who knows maybe when you guyz see and he getz a reminder of just how beautiful you are, insecurities wil set in again and he would want to reconsider sticking with you but that will b just so he doesn't lose to another man

Well that kind of man is no good to you. If distance chips in once again, hez gona bolt yet again. So nope, move on and 4get about your relationship with him but you can still help him get a job if you can
RomanceRe: Why do some women have fish brain? by ivyy(f): 12:12pm On Dec 09, 2013
shocked its simple really
1) Shez mad
2) Shez a LovePeddler
How can she go back to your friends place? undecidedthat first move is simply crazy and then having the guts to describe how he touched her? Heeheee cry

are you sure you took time to understand who she really was before you aproached her huh undecided

Lesson: don't just go about asking girls with pretty faces out, test the character too
RomanceRe: My Husband Spoke About My Username On Nairaland by ivyy(f): 7:28pm On Dec 08, 2013
BIGVAJINA: but i am he may consider me a slut if he finds out my name because i am totally opposite from my online character. what do i do?
Hummmm you dont want him to find out its you and yet you create this thread and you don't think he may read this post huh undecided if ur online persona or name isn't who you are, then he alredy knows that cause his your husbi,he shld know the real you.
Wats the rational behind this thread huh
RomanceRe: Most Nairaland Girls Are Very Local And Unadventurous by ivyy(f): 1:06pm On Dec 08, 2013
DARREG: i joined nairaland since 2009 thinking i would be able to enjoy myself but one thing i have noticed about the girls here is that they are not ready to mingle. Most of them have this holier than thou atitude like they are above all guys. i am tired of socializing with this kind of girls.
i dont know if i'm the only guy experiencing this or i am the one meeting the wrong girls but i am pissed and gat to say this.
i look forward to a nairaland with classy chicks!
i have a dream that one day i would not have to show my PICTURE and my place of work before my PMs are replied...
Dream on
RomanceRe: Are Nairaland Men This Desperate? by ivyy(f): 8:46pm On Dec 07, 2013
jay bee: No be our fault na

You be fine gal. We just dey appreciate good things
This is exactly what she wantz to hear. Ignore its simple really undecided
Christianity EtcRe: All Catholics Will Go To Hell - Chris Okotie by ivyy(f): 11:14am On Dec 02, 2013
Kollins12: May be he should have included other denominations:because I know Christianity is not a Ticket to heaven,all Christians are wasting their time.
ISLAM is the only way through which you can serve GOD and stop attacking the Old Man,go and ask the recently retired Pope Benedict if you are in doubt. Al'hamdullilah
Islam,xtianity, hinduism and the rest is no ticket to make to heaven. Men of God do all shady sort of things. So give mi a break. All I know is therez only One God, serve him with a pure heart. And stop thinking your better than others or your way is the right one. Focus on the God your serving please
Christianity EtcRe: All Catholics Will Go To Hell - Chris Okotie by ivyy(f): 11:08am On Dec 02, 2013
El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Though its aint cool to judge or criticize -- Dude might just be making a point.

When a faith pays less reverence to Christ, i wonder what u're then on about.
cool[/color]
Get your facts straight before you say things. Pays less reference to Christ? shocked
You just proved you know NoTHING about the church
RomanceRe: Confusion About What To Do In A Relationship. Should I Propose Or End It by ivyy(f): 8:11pm On Nov 29, 2013
Some women don't enjoy what they cook personally, so how will you expect her to cook often huh When she's, married and has her husband and kids to cater for, you think she is going to keep eating out? You need to be clearer here. Does she find it hard to cook for you at your crib? Inshort is it that you have no idea if shez good at cooking?

You said shez a banker, hence she has little time for herself. Let me tell you one little secret; when some people live alone, they don't bother to much about things especially when they aren't always around. Maybe she was runing late and probabli if there was extra time she would have been able to wash the dishes. Am not saying that's what hapened but you need to watch out for when shez relaxed and less busy and her home is unkept and she stil does nothin about it. Don't jump into conclusion yet.

Drinking. Unfortunateli that's a no no

Trash things out? Some men hold the concept of respect too dear that they read more into words. I think your one of them. Nevertheless I still think shez rude and I doubt if you can change this about her. Either you accept this by being the calmer one or you just say goodbye to the relationship. The trick for this kind of behaviour, is to avoid arguing with her. Just leave her hanging, walk out or something . When you keep talking, you keep encouraging whatever it is shez saying. But when you keep mute and distant, shed find her way back to you sober.

Nobody or relationship is perfect. Your first assignment should be to find a way to handle and manage her negatives. When it becomes clear that this is more than you. Take a bow.
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 4:09pm On Nov 27, 2013
Wislet: Lol. Seriously, some comments here are hilarious.

Did someone say you cook for a man at his place, not to prove you are marriage material or get him to marry you, but because you CARE FOR HIS WELL-BEING?
Seriously?
The person that said that, I say YOU LIE.

Are you trying to convince us that you spend months and even YEARS of your life cooking, cleaning, etc JUST because you care for his well-being? Seriously? Then please, do it for all his single male friends too, and all your male friends who are single.

Some comments leave you dumbfounded.
Let me get you straight , I go to my bfs crib am not in that stage of my life where I want to get married, he probably isn't too. We are both hungry there's food in the house we cook together or I cook For two. Do you you honestly think am cooking cause I need tu be given a marriage stamp on my head huh And if you know marriage is where your heading tooo, do what you know you can to keep your man and he should do the same too. Its both ways. But don't tink one ultimate thing wil make him stick with you. Hence, don't enslave yourself.

But What's the biggie in cooking For a bf you may or may not end up marrying. It should b voluntary and if he begs me equally why not? As long as you don't expect me to cook morning til night For you or call me up and say come over now, come and cook!


Its understanding that matters most. No one is dumb only if you allow it. if you see your girlfrnd wants tu turn you into a maga, then you prove your not likewise if your with a guy who's too primitive and only wants to take undue advantage, shine your eyes. Theres a limit to everything shikena
Know your limits!
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 2:09pm On Nov 27, 2013
emalekuo: in a relationship nothing is by force, you do the one your power catches, you visit your boy friend and he is just back from the market, is it a big deal if u decide to help him cook or wash the dishes? he picks the broom to sweep and you watching African magic abi? AND FOR GOD'S SAKE WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN HIS HOUSE IF YOU CAN'T HELP HIM OUT WITH SIMPLE TASKhuh?? EVERYBODY SIT IN YOUR HOUSE UNTIL MARRIAGE.
Sense.

How can some girls come here and tell me cooking is slavery and some guys wil agree. When you act like an house girl thatz entirely your biz.

So don't come and confuse people here (to all the girls who can't differenciate btw acting human , or sensible and acting like a slave (washing clothes, ironing, sweeping, washing toilets, cooking 24,7 . Praticallyy living your life for him and all the while his, insensitive, non reciprocal, snoring and watching football or he has gone out to party hard) with the mindset that it will land you marriage. Ohhhh please! Give yourself respect

Cooking For my bf should not b beacuse he must marry him. Its part of the little gestures you give when inlove.
if cooking for two when you guys are hungry automatically turns you into a slave in your bfz eye shocked then something is wrong with him
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 12:34am On Nov 27, 2013
zeb04: You com to my house I cook nd dats all. those who make it a duty 2 cook are the desperate ones. Babes dnt let dis dudes decieve u. Weda u cook or no cook,if u lik give him snake in the monkey shadow style of sex,if he won't marry you,he won't. Respect urself nd pack ur bags nd go home wit al d guys on nairaland sayin this,I must count my self lucky to have met levelheaded nd educated guys. .
My point is why on earth would you cook for your man because you think you can trap him with that? Itz common sense really, am in my bfs crib am hungry and there's food in the house, you think am gona say "oh honey am hungry,wanna go grab something outside, will catch you in 20" dahell huh And there's food in the house? Can only do that if am not interested in what's in the house.

Or probably I start cooking and then he says "o babe please include mine and I will refuse" huh Or I'd b munching solo in his presence when I know my baby is hungry?

If am tired but hungry and can't cook he cooks or goes out to get me something. If he does that, why can't I do that for him too huh And when we feel like its snack or eating out day, then we go For it.
Lik I said early on, if you don't drag yourself in the mud, no one can. If you apply respect to yourself in anything you do, you will be respected.

So please it is a poor mentality to think cooking for your bf wil land you ultimate marriage. It should be done willingly, a gesture of love and kindness. Therez absoluteli no wrong in it.
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 10:01pm On Nov 26, 2013
Abeg Cooking for your bf can't mk him lose respect for you. When you act lik a slave without bearing then he can. Herez a little thing about respect,Once you don't drag yourself on the floor no one can.
Give yourself respect,respect will follow. Everything has limit girls who act too clingy tooo, choking n cheap are the ones who face that risk.

Once you notice your bf has started misbeaving cause of something your doing, time to stop. But cooking For your bf is NO SLAVERY as long as both of you agree it isn't.
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 9:49pm On Nov 26, 2013
Homguy: see thinking!
His jokin na
RomanceRe: Does He Truly Loves Me? by ivyy(f): 8:52pm On Nov 26, 2013
Enegod: this thread is so unholy... I refused to be corrupted
I totally agree angry angry angry
*sprinkles thread with holy water*
RomanceRe: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f):
In honesty I hated it shege. When I go to my bfz crib and he begs me to coook especiali if some friends are over ( for my mind I done turn to slave abii) angry
You need to see boning. Bone of life and sharp sharp he wil join me in the kitchen


But With time I got used to it. Looking at it critically, you and your bf in the house and then when one or both of you gets hungry, you guyz have to go eat out? Haba!

You guyz can eat out once in awhile , other times you cook, he cooks(that's if he can, if not u bear it all) either way,we all know that as a girl you wil do the cooking more wink

Why would a guy disrespect you cause you cook for him once in a while huh For some guyz if not most, its the fastest way to their hearts o

Still I don't expect guyz to force their gfs to cook for them if they don't wana
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Sexkillz And Ogugua..! Are They Really Dating? by ivyy(f): 9:35am On Nov 26, 2013
This early morning and your mission is to ask this question angry
Please how does it concern you huh
Direct your questions to the parties involved undecided
RomanceRe: Advice...my GF Is Pregnant For Another by ivyy(f): 8:04pm On Nov 25, 2013
The topic is pretty annoying. " Advice: my girlfriend is pregnant for another" dahell!!
Are you a mumu huh undecided
RomanceRe: Is This Love Or Obsession? by ivyy(f): 11:22am On Nov 25, 2013
Olugbenger: Op, you need advice.
grin
RomanceRe: Pls Urgent Advise Before I Hurt Myself by ivyy(f): 11:16am On Nov 25, 2013
Enh do you say confused? Carry your carrier and vammuse.
Eye opener (1) shez has practically been living with him
(2)Mother inlaw to be hates you. How do you think it will ever work?
(3)Preggy?
My friend dust ur slippers and run. Then kneel before God and thank HIM angry angry
RomanceRe: Sexkillz I Need Your Advise by ivyy(f): 8:27pm On Nov 24, 2013
Enough with the sexkillz obsession angry u aren't even that fair undecided

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