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Maybe hez not into you. If he asked for a date and at the end he seems disinterested, it most likely means hez not into you. Anyway, maybe he just wants to start off as friends first.
You know him better, is he immature? Mature guys won't take you for granted if you tell them how you feel. But if his not feeling that way too, get ready for a really awkward situation

What are you still waiting for? The moment you finished posting, you should have hit the deactivation button
Why you waiting For others to comment

Heliesha: let me say u think you bestie is probably a shy guy who's scared of ruining your frienship by probably taking the other step well from you storie everyfins of ave bin in ma room wif ma then bestie on top of me common sense told me to tel her to leave .buh for ur bestie to cuddle wif u even wif boxers on it obvious he's either gay or he's madly love wif he's gf or he believes u're not in the same class as her and he cant score a betteror hotter chick than her and probably see's u as a practise machine for the main thing,buh thats on the moral level.on a spiritual level you're going to hell

You again always bout this naija babe
Are you trying to tell me that over the years of creating threads about her , your still confused
You ned help

Honestly I hope some people actually know that that's not her daughter

Dear op, your post kind of makes no sense

This is not a thing you should even consider.
Online dating works like this
1) Meet online
2) Be friends
3) A crush ,liknes, fondness, maybe even love can occur depending on the persona of the person or how well you relate to the other party
4) You get to actually meet the suposed person, spend quality time know his good,bad, ugly ' you get to OBSERVE( you get to match the perception you've had of him over the phone to actual reality)
5) Then you reconsider, reevalute, give your heart out,fall in love totally, fall out of love e.t.c (this is actually the stage you can decide if your going to accept a marriage proposal

You don't knw him, all his crying out for is marriage and he wants it fast fast. He doesn't even know if your good natured or not Abeg! Except your one of those ladies who wouldn't care less, all they want is marriage now now, it can't work. Unless ofcourse you have started growing some fondness for him

Because there's an element of truth in it blame your fellow guys for it

gedtalks: @Op...Paste your profile pics many guys would check you out through this thread (its trending).

I already did, but I saw umbrellas. Show us your beauty, we've heard a bit of your voice. Lets see

Am going to have to agree with this poster. This isn't your first thread about this issue so am guessing you want or need results fast.

The funy truth is, men first get attracted to what they see. Gradually the get to fall inlove with who you are based on your character, upbringing , persona etc.
Long story short, I think it would be a good idea to have your pic on your profile. Please don't upload in here,but your profile. That should help a lot

While I would advice you never to go for something less than you want, I'd also like to bring your attention to reality.
In truth, most men and women into pastoral busineses aren't there bcoz they were called by GOD. Many are into it only because of the money. The worst part is, its hard to really tell. Why? Well because they have to perfect the performance they put up as pastor and pastor mrs.

In my opinion, all you need is a man who loves, respects and strongly believes in God. A good natured man. What if Gods plan for you isn't a yoruba man or a pastor in the making? Do you then continue to search fruitlessly? Or perphaps you finally do get the pastor you want and then few years into the marriage you find out it was all a facade?

Coz I tell you the human skin is deep and has layers of hiden scary truths. Anyone can be just as evil and satanic and pastors aren't secluded. Infact some people who claim to be good christians or fanatics for the Lord have the worst character traits.

Hence, your coming to tell us here that your a good christain does not necesaryly mean your good natured.

My basic point is, look out for the primary values a woman looks out for in a man she wants to marry. Don't restrict your scope to just pastors and men that come from the same tribe as yours. Most importantly make sure you fall inlove genuinly, make sure your loved in return.
Don't just dabble into marriage because you think your time is long over due.

Wishing you the best

vickyO: What happened to your mouth when you saw her?
Why ask us?

Thank you see question

SpicyMimi:
Your what? U gotta be kidding me!


This aint some movie right? *spreads tent*

your aproko is geting too much

Ravenwolf: I haven't "DONE" it with her, the most physical i have gotten with her is her holding onto me while we walked. I will not "do" it with her!

Is it that bad

The truth is shez not appealing to you in some way. Maybe shez shallow or could be just something else. Either way, you aren't telling us the whole truth.
Since you aren't interested, ignore and move on. You don't have to like every hot chick that comes your way

San Miguel: Sms

SpicyMimi: Ok guys, i just figured it out...its deejay-Harry..

no b small thing oo! Check her posts, she quotes him likee...kilode gan! Nd she backs him up alwys!

*spreads mat*

You too like aproko

I blame you really. Your phone "conversation is something your gf musnt see" so it means you kind of encourage her alittle how did you guyz exchange num in the first place I tink your enjoyin her attention if not soo much but alittlw you should run from such gurls,if she could do it to your friend, then she could do it to you too.
Wondering why you gave her audience considering how she treated your friend

xynerise: If you think you have courage, say his name/moniker

Abi Finish it up with a name so we can help you beg him

Nifemi aren't you the one who felt she was ugly and couldn't get a guy to look her way just some dayz ago

Lik someone said have you considered the fact that your gf knows about this and its probably a test. You've started failing sef.
Y would you encourage her to come over
Can't you say No
Even if it isn't a test give yourself and your girlfnd some respect and knw where not to cross the boundary with her friend.
She has no biz at all in ur house especially when your gfz not around.
If you want to du someone, not your gfz friend.

U wanna knw the truth.
1) He is immature
2) He wants that green card
3) Once he gets the green card, things are only gona get worse between you two
4) Ofcoz he luvs his child plus wanting another child from you does not means he is gona stick with you forever

I might b wrong. But majority guyz who would ordinaryly not get married at age 26 in naija but can get married at that age to an older woman in a developed country, are just out for the green card.
I said majority not all. Be on the alert, don't be fooled plus communicate extensively with him. Noone outside ur marriage can really help you. Its gona be between the both of you.

1)Chaircover

2)Tgirl

3)Babe

4)Humbledbygrace

5)Ogugua (can't remember her new moniker,one of the most cool headed on here )

6)mondisweets

7)Caracta

Idowu(shez not a fake,she doesn't try so hard to present a perfect persona on nl, she is who she is)

9)Skydeep

10)Sweetlemon (she sounds emotionally fragile)

11)Nd ofcoz nikkyshyne (I hope I got the moniker right)

First of, the girl could be very beautiful but not photogenic

Secondly, she seems young by the time she starts wearing nice cloths or starts using a makeup that suits her, story will change as she gets older, she cld get finer so you all shld stop sounding like shez ugly. Afterall most of we ladies use makeup to enhance our beauty

Thirdly, op your post ricks of immaturity

pickle_juice: Thanks bro. We are both the same age(24) and will be graduating at the same time next year. And you are right we are from different tribes. i am from edo and she is an igbo girl( a very fine one).lol. And yeah malaysian boy who has said that he did drugs in the past( like they all do in malaysia), however i believe he still does drugs.


The question i ask myself is how do you leave a prospective engineer that you have been with 3 years for a drug dealer that randomly added you on facebook all in the name of match making prayers? how?

Am almost getting angry at you. There's something about love I mean when your inlove with someone you get really defensive when anyone tries to say or do anything that could have a negative influence on your relationship.
Let me get down to my point, going to a spiritual man to foresee the future is WRONG christianity wise. While I might undastnd why a mother wil tell her daughter to provide a list of suitors to give to spritual men, I can't undastand why a gurl who's supposed to be inlove wit you would actually provide the list (means she chats a lot with these guys to the point of marriage consideration). A gurl who's really inlove and contented with her man will tell it to her mums face that shez alredi inlove and will commit into marriage with the man shez inlove with.therefore the will be no need for a list.what wrong with telling your mum you've got only one man in your life?

Longstory short, your gurl played you and am angry coz shez taking you for a fool. Shez actually somewhat interested in that other guy . You don't need all her stories about going to naija and meeting that guy
Coz your only goinna hurt more. So stop inquiring. Another fact is, she gona start dating the other guy. Shez G0NE. Its going t0 be hard but please move on

IAMBREEZY: shutup! Is your bf more finer than he is all this nl girls with wide mouth self...

More finer Most finest?

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