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Emmaomotob:
This is a typical woman, always gaslighting men. Who wants to lose power? There is no power without leverage. Women's leverage is food and sex. And food is a more potent source of power. Only a well fed man thinks about sex. Tell me, do you want to loose your leverage? People like this old woman will never teach their sons how to cook in order to keep them dependent on women for their daily bread (literally!). A strong man is an independent man. A woman that loves her son would teach him how to cook and live without a nagging liability.

this issue is very funny because it actually does you more good to learn yourself, reminds me of what happened in my compound, very late, this man's wife is still out, he knocked on my door to come and help him cook for his children.. How did that sound to you? Man can live without sex but can't live without food ,any man who is solely dependent on his wife for food go hear am someday

Kobojunkie:
Where is it written that the one you call the devil gives anything though?

2. God blessings are listed for only for those who obey His teachings and commandments. This is what is written in scripture. OP does not seem to engage God at all and his idea of God seems born of religious leanings. So how could it be said that God blessed him?

it says Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above,
coming down from the Father of lights with whom there
is no variation or shadow due to change in James, so I believe everything good comes from God and hardwork, as for the devil blessing someone, I've argued it on countless times that it's not possible for even the prophets of Baal couldn't invoke their all so mighty God but I'm mostly criticized in church whenever I say that

eleniyan2020:
like you can buy food from a restaurant or food vendor?

how much can one spend each day on restaurant food

bekpo:
Iyanu, na u b dis? Ha, r u kidding me?

eh hen.. Wetin happen?

seguno2:
A woman who is not prepared to survive only with her own money, should wait for death

i believe we were faring before we got married

Sermwell:
Immediately after school, a cousin gifted me some money which I invested in distribution of PMS(fuel). Before I began the business, I told my parents about it and asked for thier prayers. My dad is a heavy traditionalist, who visits some traditional medicine men, while my mum is a very strong christain.

Fast forward to 7 years later, I became very successful in the the business and also invested in other businesses. I made my big break during Buhari's tenure, and I can say I'm very comfortable financially. Apart from sending money to my parents every month for thier upkeep, I also send money to my mum for seed sowing, tithes and some other church donations, while I also send money to my dad for his routine "appeasing the gods" and some other financial obligations to his medicine men.
Last week, I decided to visit home and when it was night time for gist and all, my dad started thanking the gods for thier hands in my success and bragged that his medicine men are very powerful and have the ears of the gods , and that as long as him and his medicine men are alive, I will continue to prosper in my business and legal practice. My mum on the other hand, insisted it was the Almighty God she serves that has been blessing me courtesy of her prayers, fasting and seed sowing.
I'm not a very religious person, but my both parents sounded convincing that thier prayers and spiritual activities is largely responsible for my success. On my flight back to my base, I was wondering who could be right among them.

Who do you think is right in this case?

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do you think the devil will give you something without collecting something more valuable in return? God has blessed for your hard work and you must give thanks to him, the the earlier you appreciate the work of God in your life, the better for you

Oh God this is heartbreaking

Sonnobax15:
. Who told you so?

i just know, everyone is single when they are talking to people that don't know them

A man who is not prepared to cook should wait for death

Sonnobax15:

Let's leave relationship for people wey get the hearts and stomach big enough to contain any kind amount of breakfast they would be served.

but you are currently seeing someone

Think9ja:
The worse thing that can ever happen to any man is to have anything to do with a fat woman.

If she's fat and also short, forget it, you're finished

the way you guys talk at times amuses me

We have no choice, anyone who is still lazy at this time I believe is already dead

shantti:
How

before marriage,when they are interested in someone, they hide (not discard )their bad habits, smoking, drinking, gambling, flirting, but after marriage, they revert back to their old self

Are you sure you are telling the truth?

God, see comments 😂

9182736455O1999:
Will he drink the soup for the 3 days?

i was assuming he had, garri nor dey leave my house

saintkel:
so what will I gain if I marry u?

marriage na parcel, anything you see inside manage am

LMAO, make una come join us for market, tinubu is really doing things

Philanderboy:
I was coming from a friend's house and saw this pouch rat behind a table in front of our house. I fear all these animals but thanks be to Jah my two friends were there with me.

We killed it and rest will be a history 🤣😂

but some people have strong heart sha, I can't lift my hands to kill anything bigger than a cockroach

DCmaverick:
My last card is #1,000 and am thinking of managing it for the next 3days. I need advice on hw to manage it.
please help a brother

that's actually a lot for three days, if you want strong food, garri is better, I believe a pot of soup is less than 1k if you are managing, sometimes I even cook soup without fish or meat

Any man who raises his hand on a woman in scum and worse than trash

gratefulheart:
It is natural to show good qualities side before marriage but like a smoke the bad side will come out too naturally.
We all have good and bad side we project the good side above the bad side while working on improving on the bad side.
Which of the other bad side can we tolerate of each other while we are working to improve each other bad side.
These are the conversation we must always engage in instead of engaging in unnecessary things that won't add values to us and our relationship.

there's a difference between masking and trying to improve ,like a man who hides the fact that he smokes cigarettes or drink alcohol before marriage but after, he freely indulges in it

Votukpa:
Exactly.

This is the expertise of the female.

She pretends to be valuable without having any actual value. E.g Make up for a bland face, push up bra for a pair of tired tits etc. Good marketing for a falling stock.

She is like a black widows (spider specie) that attracts the male into marriage, with her web of lies and deception only to destroy him with her venom later.

the males are also guilty of this, I think it's mostly them sef

This is the funniest post I've seen today 😂

Those men shall never know peace wherever they are and why posting the girls pictures instead of the men?

Working under somebody is a no no for me, I'd rather be the poorest employer than the richest employee

God bless people like you who despite wealth still realize there are the poor suffering masses out there

Lmao, almost everyone must have some sort of good quality,the reason for many failed marriages today is because of the ability of people to show only their good qualities before marriage and after it, they reveal the bad ones which will overweight any other good quality

lawani:
If you are in a group or association in which you will be killed if you leave or you are being threatened of hell fire if you leave, then you are in a cult group. It does not matter if they are non violent. Threatening people with hell fire is enough. When you remain in such a group Oyeku meji is cast for you and you need to watch it.

the reason I support your statement is the stigmatization given to anyone who is not of the same religion as you, Christians are not exempted, God clearly stated love your neighbor as yourself self, he didn't say fellow Christians but what we see today is disheartening, it's what cult groups do, attacking anyone who is of a different group

I don't know why the rich wants to amount fortune he can't probably spend in his lifetime by sucking it out of the poor individuals

Contekbbc:
If they maltreat your children like that, I know you will be barking like a strayed dog.

I don't blame you cos you never start a family let alone having a kid.
It's very evident you're still under your parents roof.
Come back here in 40 year's time, by then, you should have got enough experience to reason like a human.

Dindinrin

it's the average Nigerian mentality, I'm pretty sure if he sees his daughter like that, he won't asked what she did but who punished her like that and

LikeAking:
In a civilised world she will sue this woman.


Oga things have changed.

If you surport this then don't complain when police disci you when you misbehave..

Or your son beat ya daughter..

Try and mordenise..

You can terminate their contact instead of this type of discipline..

Send her away..

exactly, it's their type of people we see on news everyday torturing their helps with all manner of punishment because they did something wrong