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goldie! not again

islamrules:
I have never discuss any of my personal issues on nairaland, bcuz based on my experience on this site, at the end of the day, you wont get any answer. What you get is insults and attacks.
But, this issue is burning my heart day-in-day-out.
There is this gal of mine I thought of basing my life on. I deflowered when she was 18 years (2 years ago and I am 25 now). Ever since, we have agreed to nurture our relationship to marriage level. And, we have been trying to keep it.
Last month (Bad Sunday), I caught her red handed with my neighbor who is in his 5o’s Being Intimate with her when his family was away for church service (somebody that is as old as my father and is married with 3 children. One of his children is 18 years old as old as my gal). I came back from church early and I saw her coming out of their apartment sweating and breathing heavily and with a strange odor coming out of her body (she came to my house when I was in the church, and I was not even expecting her that day. I was shocked to see her in my house without any notice). She was shocked when we met. I quickly sensed what has happened. I called her and she panicked and started rushing to the toilet, I followed her, grasp her hands drag her to my room. And I asked her, but it was too glaring cuz her tight was wet with Fluid dripping from her “blahblah”. (What annoyed me most was they didn’t use condom. Women are reckless; if she gets pregnant she will claim its mine).
She saw my eyes and confessed that the man tricked her (weeping seriously). She gave me a rooster and bull story that, he sent her to buy him a soap and when she came back to deliver the soap that the man descended on her and that she was afraid to shout because of shame and trouble it will cause between me and the man, she promised not to do it again and that she will be careful with him.
Last week, I went to her house to visit her mother, she was’nt at home,I waited for her for 5 hours. I left, when I could no longer wait. On my way home, just a stone throw from her house, I saw her coming out of this man's car joking and laughing with this man (I quickly sensed they are using Hotels or somewhere hidden)
I waited for her and confronted her, she just ignored me. On getting home I saw a text message on my phone telling me "never in my life should I call her again"
I made up my mind and forget about her (It wasnt easy but I did, cuz I had no choice).

Last friday my mother called that she came visiting her, that infact she washed her cloth and did all her Job and since then she has started begging again, still pleading and begging till this time on my facebook, SMS, email.

For the 50 years old man, I have a plan for him. I have toasted her daughter and she has agreed (We were both interested in each other before. In fact she expected me to make the move, but I didnt bcuz we are leaving in the same building, I feel its improper). But now, I will "f*****ck" hell out of her and impregnate her.
If she claims its mine I will reject it but I will admit Being Intimate with her, so that that useless man can feel it too.
But, regarding my gal, I am confused, do I take her back? She is just disgusting to me now…

na marathon she do? could it be that the man trully violated her cos i dont see why someone would be sweating and breathing heavily just cos she had s.ex except that she had strugled physically

i am not comparing them cos i made it clear that the difference is that mine is a 21yr old.

Nobody at least myself sees a relation staying with me as an opputunity to get a maid. but somethings dont just add up. if you live with someone, there are some house chores that you must take up automatically.

peaceoo:
Ok, i have this my husband niece come stay with us so we can assist in training her but since her arrival in the house, things are begining to fall apart. She will always look for a way to upset me either by not running the house errand for me or causing me to talk too much. Seriously, it is turning me into wat i dont know and my husband always seems to remain adamant as if nothing is wrong. PLease i need the way out of this cause already the girl is in school. NOTE: this is an 11 years old girl but she behave and acts more than her age. SOMEBODY HELP!!!

@ poster, you are in the same situation with me except that mine is 21yrs old.

Idowuogbo:
Yes dat rite she sings one of wizkid tracks

*Axe your mummy, awon eleyi won bedt gAn ooo*

Madam yincus like play like play na hin i tel d local woman oga employ oo. Imagine she wants to chopulate and ejaculateeee oga and she tinks I go congraluate am, tear your crazee give am. Na your domain so na only u suppose get passowrd unless u wnt 2 authorise me as PA loool

i know better now! so all those PA work na just make she for tell you wetin be password to oga boxers?

the truth is how many of them ever graduate to the level of $1,000? most of them contend with barely getting along.

my bed! i am strugling to stay awake at work

i personally see people that go into prostit.tution as people who sexual urge cannot be satisfied. i say this becos from the way people talk about pros, you would find out that they dont really earn much. there is a place in abuja that they say with as little as N500, you can get anybabe of your taste. no how much does that translate into in a month considering the fact that you have to maintain the body and wear clothes to be in business. my final say, its just an habbit that they realise they can make money from.

you are a nairabrity

sir! erm, i wanted you and madam to finish eating before i eat and besides, i am washing your boxers

El Guapo:
@Iya, But i had the Degrees of the a.c In check before u Slept lastnyt, Er. .am sorry for that!!

Iya my wife is a good and understanding fellow, i do hope u get to like her. . .ok

@Yinks, Ok love n remember its a meal 4 3!

and dat i love mine hot and served in bed

@ Reed, which day my husband don become trap for boko haram dis one you are asking him if he has caught any yet

for a split second, i tot you took me for someone who is out there to snatch your hubby [s]even though i cant promise not to snatch him if you continue with the your long oversea trips[/s]

not fine. the room i slept in was at freezing point! your ac wan kill me and your duvet wasnt warm enof

yinkalink:
Baby am soooooo sorry v not bin around,but now dat am here, m stayin for good.



Iya trustee,er, i um appreciate u keepin my baby company while i wasnt around, but i tink we need to straighten some issues out first.
First n foremost, u do not,n i repeat, do not go into my husband‘s room under any pretext. Secondly, d cookin of his food will b done by me. your work is limited to tidying up d house,n takin care of d twins wen i put to bed. Am sure u‘ll like dis arrangement cos u‘ll v less work to do,n thereby will b able to spend tym wit your sweetheart.

who do we have here? my madam! and on my first meeting with her, she is dishing out rules like i am a slave here

El Guapo:
If u mention my name again i will certainly pour u hot water, dont u know am married to Yinkalink?

runnaway madam! being working in your caban for close to 2mths now and i never see her even once

El Guapo:
[color=#006600]WTF! Bedbugs in my Harlem? Thats unbelievable.

[b]In that case u'ld be sleeping in my room tonyt![/[/b]color]

not fine! bedbugs and mosquitoes just dey disturb me for the room wey you put me!

OOPs! na only me and you dey inside the room singing* today na today, you no go escape, i go put you for corner am ready for you

INK you would deny me like this

but its you my pastor told me about! his description fit you perfectly

yes huni

to me

I never knew you would one day become a forum games regular

ooops!. am late for work

i never knew you would steal my sister's heart

Tosinville:
In addition, if nairaland celeb also count, Iyatrustee gon' be my sugarmummy & i'll always give it to her exactly the way she want it, in d bathroom, on couch, on the dining table, in balcony, anywhere even in the compound.

dats why i asked if we also count as celebrities cos i know someone must want me

^^^ celebrity not celebrities

does nairaland celebrities count?