[quote author=Coolgent post=129778234]

Sorry for this unfortunate situation you found yourself in.
Firstly... communication is the key gather evidence and confront your wife and she must tell you the reason why she engaged into adultery.
Secondly... cut any kind of relationship even if it us churchy thing between your wife and the adulterer.
Lastly... tell her you will forgive her only if she swear that this gonna be tha last time she will do such appalling thing!


Thanks so much!!!

[quote author=Trueprophet91 post=129778907]

Well if your story is true, I'd advise you get hard evidence,then find out why she's cheating.
Since you're bent on keeping the family unit, which is quite admirable![/quot

Thanks!! The welfare of children is so important to me. i cant marry another woman also bcs i see women to be same

gr8cany:

From your write-up, I think you have a very good heart. Bros, knowing fully well that your wife is good to you and inside you, you have decided that you will forgive your wife, I would advice you to call your wife, sit her down in the middle of the night, talk every sense you can talk to her about her sexual relationship with you guys family friend, be very stiff in making it real to her that you are aware of the shameful escapade but dont go extra miles in proofinhg it to her. Just be strict in letting her, she should seek her emotions and stop the menace. after this, allow her to judge herself and watch her from afar. Escalating this issue will not make you an alpha male, deal with it a man's heart, with leniency on her too but not be fooled forever

Thanks!! The welfare of my children is of paramount importance to me. If i get divorced now at 41 years, then, i will look for another wife. The new wife would want to give birth. Am ready for another child? No. My family will be divided and my children will now have a step mother who will no stands as their mother? My dear i am in serious dilemma now

Thundafireseun:

Oga do a DNA test on all your children before you talk of forgiveness

The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

Unclebayo:
a cheating partner will always be a cheating partner, if you forgive her and you catch her cheating again she will blame you for forgiving the last time.... You don't know woman, she can even kill you because of that your boss.

Be a man!

Thanks!! I have been awake thinking of what to do.

Ynix:


Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after

Thanks!!

Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

I know this guy. We served together at Ogun state. Waooo!! God is good

400k is neither too small nor too big. What would have happened if u were earning 300k? Life is all about choice. So, if u decide to save, u would comfortable achieve so. You know urself and lifestyle u live; so my candid token is for u to adjust ur lifestyle. I earn less than 400k with three kids and aged mother. I live in one of the cheapest houses around my area though not comfortable but i am almost completing my three bedroom apartment. My rules are:
1. I will not pay any school fees thats more than 100k.
2. Stop using car as it was draining my pocket.
3. Buys food stuck in bulk.
4. Irrespective of anything, must save 25% of my income.
5. Buys cloths once in a year.
6. I dnt drink nor smoke
7. Dnt invest on any business i dnt see.
8. I bab myself and my two boys
7. I b

Babcock would be the best option for you bcs cost of living is affordable and also off campus is allowed. I am schooling there with family also

[quote author=Post22 post=123778149]Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen

U just got registered today....

Happy birthday dancing governor!!

Nearly been a victim. My cousin brother continued calling me but i declined the offer and told him to help his siblings first. After all, am looking for any job. Since then, we dont communicate well.

At whose detriment? Do not suggest such to anyone considering the socio- economic effect.

Discuss with her and find out what the problem is.

Good morning friends. I graduated above 30 years. Based on the Nigeria settings, getting a job above 30 years is not always easy. So, I decided to do masters and of which I am almost done. I have passion for lecturing job. What could be the possible criteria to getting a lecturing job as I don't have Abraham as a father?

Pls, how do 1 post on this platform

HBD

Good day every one!! What are the likely reasons for a woman to always delete charts and messages?

Noted

Try more

Lol. Every tin na packaging

Happy bir5hday my G

Its well

Good evening all!! Am about completing my masters programme in economics. I wish to start PHD immidiatley am done. However, am having financial contrain to study abroad or private universities in Nigeria. Thus, left with no other option than public universities. Which public university would be prefareble for you if you were in my shoes?

Try Babcock university

Nawaoo