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1b8m:
I'm not the type anybody can complete, all the feats I achieved I achieved alone. If independent was a man it would be me.
I just don't understand how a woman rendered me hopeless by the mere thought of life without her. That's the point, how did that happen?

Cause you've built your world around her.
Start by obliterating that wall,
the mere thought that she's married and cheating on her husband with you should be enough motivation for you.
Let's assume she leaves her husband for you (which is a rare possibility) she would cheat on you too with the next person that catches her fancy.

Paxxcarl:
well i grew up in a abusive home

You're not alone

1b8m:
My parents are over 70, alive and still fight (abuse each other). They're both born again. The hypocrisy is too much that I swore to stay single than marry a born again. Infact i swore never to get married until i met a lady, the most amazing person I'll ever meet. It turns out she's married to this older man but she keeps promising me that she'll divorce him and be with me.
I'm so messed up now because I doubt that's going to happen. My problem now is I don't know how to move on. I don't know where to find someone like her.
I don't know why my life is such a puzzle

Maybe you should focus on self development rather than looking for someone to "complete" you.

The woman who would marry him would be unlucky

Not just emotionally, psychologically and in all ramifications. The trauma is unbearable

Sunday, I eat good food

see boy she got disqualified for, chilling with another babe already

Buddy0:
Don't mind me... You look like an interesting person, do you mind if we become friends ??

"look like" virtual camera?

Buddy0:
Look at this yeye girl... People are loosing real money, you are here mentioning kobo

You're not serious.Go and steal 5naira na, let's see what happens.

almost 100k:-! pained me

Alexgman1:
Whether you are good or bad people must talk. Just stay cool & greet anyone that needs to be whether they greet you first or not.

Yea they don't need to be greeted I greet other people

Alexgman1:
Why wont u greet them?

cause they are entitled , lousy people that would talk shit the minute I leave their presence.So I won't be an hypocrite and still greet them, but my heart is clean towards them though.

Alexgman1:
Every born again christian who wants to make heaven must be able to make peace with GOD and man. Which ever way you have gone short of GOD'S glory & grace, its important that you RECONCILE with GOD without hiding or holding anything back.

So also your fellow men, GOD has commanded that we should always be at peace with them in any situation & condition (HEB 12:14) without which you can't see HIM or HIS kingdom.

God also made it clear that when you come to HIS presence to serve, praise, worship or present your offerings to HIM, it's important that you are at peace with your neighbour and ensure you have no grudges with anyone.

If not your praises, prayers & presents will not be accepted by GOD, infact everything is in vain! So it's better you RECONCILE with anyone & everyone you are holding grudges with or quarelling with before coming to HIS presence to offer anything to HIM.

The bible talks so much about RECONCILIATION and RESTITION. What can you say about RECONCILIATION & RESTITUTION?

I'm at peace with my neighbours,but I don't have to greet them to prove that do I? I don't like hypocrisy

None. I want good news that'll make me lose my appetite ohhhhhh

Why would you do this to yourself
You didn't even leave your face out of it

Choi me I'm still looking for small money here

lordizak:
if you are on MTN, I go give you hundred mb.

awww thanks much �

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XXLMANDIGO:
This Man gene is so strong on the boys. See the premium ugliness. Chai

which one is premium ugliness again

Rapture4real:
Very sensible question and very sensible response from op.Demons are stubborn always desiring to control us and because we are still in this mortal body, the battle continues till we get to heaven.You can.keep.them off by prayer, Gods word,holiness, spirtual alertness etc.Minister personal deliverance to yourself everyday as a spiritual vacinnation.

thank you

Lostz:
women business? how will be able to feed from such?

Which one is women business, it's not gender based

My own teeth ended on the rooftop

Lostz:
I be think say na dollar. which business ₦120k go fit do for for niaja?

Soap making business.
Food stuff delivery service business.
Affiliate marketing or direct sales business.
Perfume production business.
Fashion production business.
Fashion retail business.
Digital content creation business.

Alexandra22:
They do leave permanently once they are cast out but you have to ensure they do not return by studying the word of God regularly and obeying God's commandments, living a holy, prayerful life. Luke 11:24-26

Thank you sir

Alexandra22:
Cont'd

What you need to do is call on God, pray and study/memorise the scriptures.

Psalm 62:11 "God has spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongs to God."

For:

Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."

Joel 2:32 "And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be delivered."

Ephesians 6:17 "And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God"

There is no one else who can save or deliver you except Yahweh, through his son, Jesus.

Acts 4:10-12

Acts 16:31 "And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house."

Believe on the Lord Jesus, accept Him and you will be saved.

Going into spiritual warfare

Before you pray against any spirit, principality, power or force, make sure you are born again - you have received the Lord Jesus Christ into your life, and you know appropriate scriptures/bible verses to support and back up your prayers.

do these spirits ever leave permanently? or we have to keep praying continuously till we Leave earth?

not yet..i will modify this post when I do

MisterGrace:
Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

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My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

You need to let go and move on