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Chineke! That is the tallest woman I've ever seen lol.

annawhite:
y'all can hate like y'all want
one thing is certain
most guys here are loosers :tank GOD for internet
nairaland is the only place where they find thier voices
woo woo woo loosers kep hating

Mellyah:
I think you guys are putting all nigerians girls in the same bag ,, as far as i've read  neither me or my nigerians cousins nor friends ressemble the description you gave of nigerian girls .

^I agree with both. They probably scared all the good nigerian women away with their poor attitudes.

This topic again? Seriously

@OP Yes if you aren't shallow

Oh my god!

I just saw this. The people of Japan are in my prayers

9. you must learn yoruba and stop telling people that you're an igbo boy

Slap her  . No woman is worth forgetting where you're from.

Nope . I tend to stay away from the flashy guys who like to flaunt their wealth. I'm more attracted to intelligent men who carry themselves well with a sort of quiet confidence and speak with eloquence. That is soooo sexy to me.

pro01:
Only a weak id.i.ot would fight another man because of a woman's dime-a-dozen 'love'. She is a full-fledged adult that should have her own free-will. If for whatever reason, she allows herself to be seduced by another man's lies, and deliberately welcomes his prick into her life, then to what extent does the man have any blame?

If however, it is established that the man in question violated one's wife/fiancee, or employed some form of threat, coercion or sinister devices to phuck her up, then it would be justified for you to activate code red and visit the wrath of Lucifer upon the guilty dead-man-walking man with a combined team of blood-thirsty underground forces.

But as long as the other player is applying nothing more than his seduction skills/tools in his quest to have a piece of your girl's bubble-but.t, it would be utterly idiotic for any 'boyfriend' to waste his time fighting him off. She's not worth the stress, trust me. If anything, your girl, not the guy, should be the recipient of your fury if it is discovered that her punnanie has been extending unholy hospitality to another manliness.

I don't know why this made me laugh lol

Care to elaborate?

filani:
@ jackieugo
Point taken but did you know that there are good things a woman will get from a good man and much more ? It's always a shame to see threads on NL from girls who keep choosing the wrong type of man then blaming the entire male gender for their problems and their own bad judgments.

The relationship coin has two sides jacki , don't make guys out to be the devils and girls the angels 

Why are you making assumptions from my post? Where do you see me defending those girls who make these same kind of threads lol? Where did you see me call men devils and such? My point was I hate generalizations just cause these guys have bad experiences with women doesn't make all women useless and sure doesn't mean all women don't contribute anything in a relationship.

2buff:
babes, are you a good woman?

Yes by the standards of morality and unselfishness which some individuals in this thread seem to lack

I hope his wife finds out about these girl friends then see all what he'll lose since he thinks his wife is contributing nothing in the first place. "Grown up" my ass.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=617789.msg7872742#msg7872742 date=1299607825]Before now I've not answered this topic directly. Let me attempt to do so.

The Feminine Liberation Movements message has become a confused one in the minds of so many people today both male and female and this is evident in some of the views that have been posted here. The basic message of the Feminist movement was to give women equal social status as men. This includes things like the right to vote and be voted for, the right to the same remunerations as men in the workplace, the right to every level of education and so on.

What has become confused is that these rights have come to make it seem like if men and women are the same. They are not. Don't get me wrong I didn't say equal I said same. For example a grape fruit is like an orange but they are not the same. A four wheeled caterpillar can take you from A to B like a car but they are not the same and will not be used for the same purposes.

You will have erroneous expections of the opposite sex if you believe that equality is sameness, Which is why people are confused of what to give and what to expect in relationships come marriages.

Now follow me since a woman is not a man what can you expect of her in a relationship or what can she contribute.

1. Empathic Care: Women are very empathic that is they know how to feel for you. Add that to a caring nature and you've got a person who will sooth your hurts in ways that you couldn't reach yourself. Some people say that this is neediness, weakness etc Really? Every man is an island right? LoL Please even businesses acknowledge the power of team work. Who is that miserly loner who doesn't need empathy? Even nurses are better if they are women.

2. Unique Communication: Someone people wants women to yarn like men on every issue. Wrong! Try squeezing apple juice from oranges you'll get better results. Women communicate like women. Period. What to do? Enjoy their unique communications. O I went to that shop, I saw that person, I ate this icecream. Women talk, just enjoy it. Don't substitute it for guy talk o! Thats frustration looming. Just enjoy it for what it is. Participate with some enthusiasm if you can if not just smile and laugh at their "silliness".

3. Sex: For those in sexually active relationships you know the hand can't beat the punny. Basic.


4. Support: You must be a truely privileged one if you've have never shed a tear or needed anything from others. For those of us who shed the occassional tear it is great to have support around right. Women play this role with ease because that is their designated role. Their empathy also helps so that sometimes even without talking to her she does something nice for you. Those dark times will make you value support the more especially when it is done with out grudge or selfishness.

There are other things women can and do bring to the table but let me stop here for now.

On the mistaken impression that relationship is not needed to get these things permit me to laugh a little and that shallow thought. Everyday some way some how you make and break relationships. How? For instance that customer service personel you spoke with you, initiated an exchange that allowed that a free flow of either service or information. This is relationship distilled to a basic form. Even if you went somewhere and stretched out money and without words you good was handed to you there was a relationship because that money spoke for you. The LovePeddler or escort or maid you hire still forms a relationship with you so spare me the bull. This is one reason harakiri and his ilk will never open their mouths to any lady they want to mate with and say, "Y'all are useless but I wanna do your vj".

On the issue of relationship again you must note that quality people and behaviour in any relationship business, social etc will bring about quality results. So first choose with care.
Next be yourself an example of the kind of quality you require and you'll see people respond back at you like that. Bring aggressiveness to the table and watch a fight blossom.

Once again WOMEN ARE NOT MEN AND VICE VERSA. STOP LOOKING FOR MANLY CHARACTERISTICS IN A WOMAN AND VICE VERSA.[/quote]^Truth. These are things you'll get from a "good" woman and much more, It's a shame to keep seeing threads like this from men who keep choosing the wrong type of women then blaming the entire female sex on their problems and bad judgments.

Ugly and smart. Beauty fades

lol OP! Your heart got broken after only 3 days because you didn't get a Mouth Action? And that means the woman can't be trusted? Omg at this logic. That's what you get for thinking with your manliness.

The problem is men don't choose what is good for them; they choose what is good to them.  They think with their manliness instead of logic.  Some men are so shallow, they don't want a women who is this complexion or this size.  Just because she looks like your dream girls doesn't men she isn't a beast inside.

Some men wouldn't know a good woman if one walked up to them and hit them on the head.

@OP & all the men bashing women in this thread - If women contribute nothing then you should all do us a favor and just turn gay. I'm tired of seeing all the bashing and unfair generalizations about women. If you hate women so much, just have sex with men. Problem solved. 

If you love and care about the person you're with, you will stop. If you continue, it means you are weak-minded/hearted and then I feel sorry for your mate when they learn the truth .