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Ivynwa: Wow is huge for that. They made things difficult for such couples, guess it's some form of control by the immigration unit. Everything will be alright okay. Hope your daughter is doing great?

I know..it seems like "don`t fall in love with someone uness you got cash to back it up".

Our daughter is great, she was with my sister this weekend, and I suprised my hubby with a visit down in the capital, hotel-room and all. Two months since last time, I enjoyed too much

greatgod2012: ^^
yes, i have, 16 long marks on each of my cheek.

Hope that satisfy your curiosity.

I hope you are serious. Cause I would love to see it.

In my culture, people do scarifications on their body, some on the face, because they find it beautiful. It is not part of showing which ethnic group you belong to, it is just for what they consider beauty. Like this:

https://25.media.tumblr.com/a1fb0d086be5a98d036bf092700bbcf6/tumblr_mgxt49QoYI1r5cb4co1_500.jpg

I wish people would continue doing it, but that it would be at an age where people can decide for them self to do so or not.

Because I love him. He is a good father, a good husband, and he always knows how to make me smile.

MMotimo: She posted them in the sexuality section, she didn't break any rules

Does that mean he broke the rules by putting them here, in the family section..?

sleekman: Really I don't know much about those cultures? 7yrs in Sweden and a year in Denmark? Will u dispute any of the points I gave earlier? Then u'll tell me its ok for a gay priest 2 hand me holy communion. Rubbish. There are a lot of beautiful things about ur culture as well as very sick ones.

And I grew up here. I do believe I know it better than you do. They have much in common, but they are not the same, no. LIke I said; that would be like saying west-african countries are all the same in culture, which they are not.

1: Men do not HAVE to do anything. The society do not pay enough for a man to take care of his whole family financially, which mean the woman also have to work for them to survive good, and then, yes, both will have to do chores. Unless you have a really good paying job, which some do. There is a big argument going these days, google "vestkantfrue" and translate some of the articles.

2: Some do, some don`t. Most of my friends who are married have taken their husbands names.

3: Same as number 2.

4: Because if they have kids, the man most of the time will leave, and most of the time, the woman have the kids more than the man, so that kinda goes without saying.

5: Of course he can.

6: In Denmark it seems many people smoke inside their house, even with kids inside. In Norway, no. Sweden, I have no idea, and I have no idea about Finland either. A man does not HAVE to do anything. I am pretty sure married people are grown enough to make their own arrangements.

As for gay priests, I really don`t have an issue there, but I don`t consider myself personally christian either.

Lol, you don`t know much about the countries, you think all people of all these countries are the same?
Norway, Sweden, Finland and Denmark all have different cultures. It`s like saying Nigeria, Ghana and Gambia all have exactly the same culture and ways.

Ivynwa: Most times your belief and the things you have in mind (view,wish) concerning an important matter comes tumbling out exactly the way you willed it. As this means a lot to you simply believe and will that you are getting a perfect "yes" not 50/50 chance. Haven't you seen women that go to their country's immigration office to demand why their spouse aren't getting what is due to him? In such cases the immigration officers can't help but grant such couples their heart's desire. You can speak to a lawyer that can explain things to you (your rights and that of your foreign husband) that is if you are haven't done so already. Most countries enable the spouse of a citizen of their country to stay with their wife/husband if due process is followed unless there are other things surrounding it that are making you worry over things. Don't fret much okay.

Today, there is actually a demonstration in the capital, regarding family-reunions in my country. The FN-convention says "to put the need of kids first", and for kids, the best thing would be to have both their parents in the same country, specially when they are married. Still, the immigration law say you need to make at least 43891.04 $, before taxes every year, to get your spouse in the country. They do not care if he have a job waiting or not. They do not care how long you have been married, how long you have been apart, or how the man is as a person.

So, I need a new job. I am looking, and have interviews this week coming. Cross your fingers for me, I need him to come and stay.

And I know what you mean..it is just not easy at all times. Most of the time, I am positive, and keeping my head up, it just HITS at times.
Going to suprise him tomorrow, though Can`t wait to put my arms around my hubby, two months since the last time now!

dick hardener: I mean I have a better inclination to your trend. It's typical.

Mhm, right. Judge me by my country.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkJGTBtkOx8

dick hardener: I seeeeeeee

See what?

emmatok: Show your facts, and don't send me to Google or Wikipedia.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1635092

One about murder.

http://thehathorlegacy.com/rape-statistics/

Rape.

Tgirl4real: And Jallowbah, u need to stop responding and stop quoting him if u want the insults deleted.

Thanks.

My mother always say to stand up when people talk bullsh*t about you, and spread lies. So I do, and I will not stop doing that either.
I have not been rude, I have done nothing wrong here.

But I can stop the quoting

dick hardener: where are you from? what country are you from? Nationality!!!!!! Not country of residence...

....Norway.

You're clearly on a wrong path at the moment. You've decided to insult everyone you choose to and that's very wrong. You sef like trouble. I even tried to call a truce but na you come start am again. haba! Please stop insulting fellow punters. Its disrespectful and will only make others insult you more. And believe me when i say you can't take on everyone here. Na you go tire o.

Wisdom is knowing when to take action. Wisdom is also knowing when to stop . Swallow your pride and stop insulting punters abeg. If you continue on this path, then what you'll get is what you'll deserve.

I rest my case.

Decided to borrow this. Seems like some people should take their own advices.

jidegirl12: Michky I take God beg you please let it go, sebi I don talk am how this thread will end, I guess that's what OP likes( conflict) I just don't get it! If you have a plastic bone get a maid period! God never ordained any chore to anybody talk-less of you delegating chore for anybody, who be you? Like @byvan( I hope I got it right) said let everybody do their part and leave the rest for another day or again pay to do it ( like Michky said)

... And as for you @ jallow , please let it go please, I really don't know what you're gaining from this, I know you'll claim it's nothing but admit it's physiologically draining ( and trust me Michky will NEVER back down for you) ,or don't you have a whinny toddler around like mine sticking her hands in my shirt here ?

Nah, it`s evening here She is sleeping, I am still up.
And I just started not replying to him. It did not get draining before the last two posts..he has done this before, trying to blame me and say I started it, blablabla.
I will never understand how people feel it is ok to talk like he does, even over the internet. And THAT makes me sad.