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FamilyRe: What Exactly Is A Man's Duty In The Home Nowadays by JallowBah(f): 11:40pm On Feb 13, 2013
dick hardener: y do u sound repulsive?
Excuse me..?

I was just asking if it matters where I live..
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 11:21pm On Feb 13, 2013
nikkyshyne: Michky, can you go and sleep now. Your rant is affecting me here. Please grow up!

JallowBah, can you please stop responding to him?!.
Nah, just waiting for him to get banned. Again.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 11:15pm On Feb 13, 2013
1. How am I acting, that makes you say that? Oh, right...nothing to point your fingers on.
2: School is free in my country, we pay taxes to make that happen.
3: He had his papers many years before meeting me.

Not even a nice try.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 11:06pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: No creativity whatsoever. Obviously, you don't have what to say. Therefore you copy and paste. If i start doing same now, i'll just be wasting the space. Guy, we have a big argument here. Bring forward your points and lets tackle hard. If you have nothing to say, go back to your mama for more milk. Obviously, you've not had enough.
You are repeating yourself more than he is.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 11:02pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: See this one o. She don start another one now. If we enter this new topic, she go weak. B!tch, public toilet. Always starting arguments she can't comprehend.
No, not starting anything new, but small boys who don`t know how to read, need things into their head with a damn tea-spoon.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 10:57pm On Feb 13, 2013
emmatok: Where did you get that.
You women love playing victims.
How is that playing victims? Look at the facts; men do MORE harm to other people than women. That does not mean that women do NO harm.
RomanceRe: Men,do You Truely Support Women Right? by JallowBah(f): 10:45pm On Feb 13, 2013
MsDarkSkin: OMG!!! shocked

that was mean!!

just like kandi said,
the one good thing about being a mod is being able to see hidden posts! grin
Lol.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 10:27pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: In your own stup!d words, you said: Ok may be they lie like men, they dont kill or steal like men. This simply meant women lie but dont kill and steal. You are merely trying to dribble your way out of contradiction but no way for you b!tch. I wont let that happen. Bloody feminist.
Let me translate it for you:

Women do not steal and kill to the same extend as men does.
FamilyRe: What Exactly Is A Man's Duty In The Home Nowadays by JallowBah(f): 9:17pm On Feb 13, 2013
dick hardener: do you mind me asking what your nationality is
Does it matter?
Music/RadioRe: Some lil Bit of "Jiggle it, Jiggle it" dance songs! by JallowBah(f): 9:07pm On Feb 13, 2013
FamilyRe: What Exactly Is A Man's Duty In The Home Nowadays by JallowBah(f): 8:36pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: This girl don enter that thread wey cameroon drop. Check am. She's a big error. Disgrace is an understatement.
Nah, at least I treat my spouse with respect.
You are probably not even married, and I feel sorry for your future wife.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:35pm On Feb 13, 2013
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You should ignore that guy.He has very little skill with relating civilly with people.
Oh, I know. He is bitter at something, probably some girl who did something bullsh*t.
He said he have "experience with women like me", and talk about sweden all the time, so I am guessing some oyinbo chick broke his heart, or was just too much of a feministsmiley
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:34pm On Feb 13, 2013
dayokanu: He could also help her by gisting with her while she does the house work

If its too much hire a maid simple
So..the man is supposed to sit down in the sofa, and look at his wife cleaning, cooking, doing laundry, changing the diapers, feeding the kids, getting them to bed, doing the dishes, swiping the floor, etc, etc, etc...and then expect her to perform in bed?

...what do nigerians say...? NA WA O?
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:29pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: I think you just perfectly dropped the definition of "A POOR MAN". Now, except for the first one, replace the A real man with A poor man rightnow!

By the way, who is saying you should treat your wife like a slave. slowpoke, don't you know the meaning of househelp? We say get a househelp and you say we must work. Its clear that you have comprehension problems.

A real man would get his wife the needed help.
A real man would work hard
A real man would pay the bills
A real man would ensure that his wife is comfortable. etc.
You are the one saying men who help around the house are slaves, and that a man can not go down to the level of cleaning. That is not putting your wife up like a queen, that is saying you are better than her.

A real man would work hard, but spend just as much time with his family as his job. If that means less money, no problem, as long as he helps around the house.
A real man would pay his share of the bills, and a real woman would take her share, as long as they are both working.
A real woman would make sure his wife is comfortable, in the way SHE WISHES. If she want time with you, not new clothes, then what?

And why spend one hour extra every day at work just to pay for househelp, if that hour could be spend home with your loved ones, and all you would have to do, is swipe the floor, or clean some dishes?
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:13pm On Feb 13, 2013
dayokanu: Maybe your household is unique where you are the more tech savvy, the stronger physically, the more knowledgeable in everything but in 70% of households its not like that
He is stronger than me, but I am not weak. If I can take it myself, I am not gonna run to him and ask for help.
Same with dirty dishes: if he finish eating and I am not there, why let the dirty things stand until I come home?

He knows about things I have no clue on, I know about things he have no clue on. I like that, you learn something all the time.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:12pm On Feb 13, 2013
dayokanu: You might do it but most women over 80% of women would call up their husband when there is something very heavy to be lifted because men are naturally stronger than women

He was eating before he got married same way you were getting along before you get married

Its natural in life for roles to be defined along sexual lines
Not where I am from! And that is exactly my point: people are individuals, people are different, and do things differently. They find a spouse that matches them, not someone to change them completely.

My husband have more than once laughed at me because I at times think I am stronger than I really am, and he comes in and just shakes his head, and ask if I need a hand.
His friends have shaken their head more than once at me lifting heavy boxes and chairs under moving, because they expected me to just sit down and look at them do it.
That is not in my nature.
FamilyRe: Dear Nigerian Men That Don't Help With Housework, by JallowBah(f): 8:09pm On Feb 13, 2013
Michky: This ignoramus keeps trying to put words into my mouth. You this girl, you better find something better to do before i vex. Everyone could deduce that i meant women should not be treated specially because they do terrible things aswell. Hey, don't get me to insult you o. Take time.
Look at how you wrote it, don`t even try. I had no way of understanding those lines out of what you wrote.

You must really have been hurt before, am I right? Not all women do terrible things, some of us treat our husbands with more love and respect than you can ever imagine.

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