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CAMEROONPRIDE: @oyinbo, no thanks

Michky: Before i go for now, you're so dumb. I remember the first reply i wrote to your post on page 3 or so. In the first line, i said: Eleyi ti ya were o. I didn't even look into your profile or meet you here before to have uttered that first impression about you. Let someone translate that to you. At this point, i don't regret saying that to you.

Peace out!

kandiikane: Lmao, why are you guys still arguing with this guy? Look at his replies, Gosh!

Michky: You quickly forget that we're all trying to win an arguement here. The last i checked, anything goes during wor. So, i will interprete the Bible to suit me if i have to.

Besides, alot of the constituents of our present law was generated from the Bible. If you want to start question every line in the Bible then you're on your own. As there exist questionable verses in there (such as obey your father and mother so that your days may be long), there also exist verses that are non-questionable ones like: Thou shall not Kill. Get my drift.

Michky: Because his father did it doesn't mean you should come here and start screaming here about how right it should be that men should do same. Just as there was David and Solomon in the old days, there also existed gate men and slave men. I can't remember David doing chores but perhaps the slave men did. hmm..

Michky: Oya, lets handle your problems one after the other, shall we?

*You say i don't know what Proverb 31 contains. huh? I just read it again and i don't see any part of it where it says "Women, ye will allocate chores to your husbands" or "Husbands, ye shall obey thy wives". Infact, taking from King james version, Proverbs 31 verse 13 says: "She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands". Verser 23 says: "He husband is known in the gates, when he siteth among the elders of the land".

Now, the first quote signifies woman to be willingly hardworking while the other quote tells what man's job should be in the home which is securing the wife and children. How will i ensure your protection when am busy washing your undies. Silly.

Michky: You're just trying to dribble your way out of contradiction. No problem. Marriage comes with agreement between the two or more parties involved. Whatever works on you is not my problem. If you'll like your husband to wash your undies and the rest, fine.
Where i come from, men are not accustomed to that and i will keep my family in that line. Y'all talk about marriage like a union of equals. Lol.
By the way, i'll suggest you start addressing your man as "room mate" and not "husband". ok? Marriage comes with duties. If you're not performing those duties, then you're not wife. Ayalegbe lasan lasan ni e!

Michky: One of the lowest points of a REAL MAN's life is when he's without a job. At that point, he's demoralized and some even get suicidal. Now, do you feel that would be the best time to remind your husband about your unwashed bra and undies? eh?!

And talking about Giving in a relationship. Am working really hard. I get my family a beautiful duplex in VI amongst other comforts of life plus security from harm. And you say i have not given enough as a man? Bullshyt!!!

Michky: No matter what i say, you'll never understand my point. But for the opteenth time, i repeat: i dont want to be forced to do any chores. Na by force? A man that loses his job should be encouraged and supported (provided he's not a lazy couch potato) till he gets another. Joblessness should not be an avenue to coerse me to start washing your bra and undies. And YES, hire a maid if the husband is jobless or not (provided you can afford to). If however you cant afford one, then come home early girl. Your chores are waiting. Take it or leave it! You are obviously a: bossy; i-no-go-gre; i-must-have-my-way-always; kinda wife. Many like you dont stay married for too long except for a few. Thread carefully. *Just saying*

Michky: You need to do the growing up girl. Obviously, you've realised that am a principled man. Infact, i believe that IF THINGS MUST GET DONE, THEY MUST BE DONE RIGHT. Women that do all the work at home are the right examples of Wife. Not lazy feminists like some of today's girls. Ofcourse i agree that people are different. You even accuse me of wanting everyone to do what i like but you quickly forget that the same thing is what you're doing presently. You're trying to change men's mentality and am here standing up for us and you're crying foul. Smh. Marraige is about agreement but it wont be in this generation that women will start allocating chores to us! Not in this life!!

Michky: Un-logical huh? So because she is not lazy with work doesnt mean she's cant be lazy at home eh? Smartness doesnt equate ability to speak english o. Hope you know that. Marraige, like other institutions, comes with roles and DUTIES. In school, you dont expect a Vice chancellor to do the job of a cleaner. At home likewise, duties exist whether you like it or not! A husband's duty is provision and protection. A woman's duty is taking care of the kids and keeping the home tidy. If you can't do it, get help or better still, forget marriage completely. Its not compulsory. I see you have been hammering on women working long hours. But did you miss the part where i said get a house help? Duh?!

Michky: Sharrap! You lazy goat. You're determined to be a lazy wife and you dont want to become stereotyped in future. So, you're here trying to start a bandwaggon, that you may not be singled out in future. FYI, it wont work. Ediot, stop embarassing yourself here joor. Have you ever seen or heard of a king doing dishes or chores? I use the King example because they are an almost perfect example of what a home should be. Many have said on this thread that IF YOU CANT DO IT, GET A HOUSE HELP and stop expecting the man to do your duty as wife. Ediot, is this hard to understand?!

lrguru: Now that's where the problem is, I don't like cooking

lrguru: i do not seem to have any choice in this case, cos its whatever she (GF) cooks i'l eat....so sad

lrguru: my dear, i have told her that i dont like it, more than a thousand times

sleekman: Hehehehehe have an agreement. Abeg no let me laff. Only a matter of time b4 that agreement becomes an issue. U better allow ur man be himself instead of u restricting 'animalistic tendencies' with an agreement. You know what why dont u just seat ur man down and ask him if he likes being a domesticated cat?

SniperInADiaper:

Originalsly: ..."And for me that is how I want it"

all4naija: Even if the child is rejecting food she can report it to the mother and let her deal with it than slapping the 5-month-old baby. I can not understand what the nanny was thinking before striking the baby!