₦airaland Forum

MrTeeo:
Sleep calls no work today

Lazy Nigerian Youth

Apparel Manager

teepha:
Abi o...unlike some people if you call them tailor you will begin to hear epistles that no oo I'm not a tailor I'm a fashion designer...tailors are local people while fashion designer knows all the new fashion trends...as if tailor and fashion designer are not the same

Hisduchess:
l like the car's plate number inscription. He is proud of his work.too much sauce

Yes o! He didn't say fashion designer or outfit consultant

Screwface:
You drink their Asytimin, don't you?

Lol! I worked there for a short time.

Screwface:
This friend of yours is obviously going to be given goods worth in excess of 10 million naira. Asking you to drop the original of your certificate is some sort of collateral for the company. These days, guarantors hardly comply. The only reason the certificate will be returned is if the person completely zeros his account at the point of exit from the company.

If this friend of yours intend to do that, he can go ahead. If he already has doubts, he better hold on to the certificate and rejects the job. Fidson Pharmaceutical, Greenlife, Seagreen and Embassy pharmaceuticals, these are companies I know that requires you to drop off your B. Pharm or any other certificates before you resume duties. Many others are now following that route.

About the legality of this, I don't even know. Anyways, think well before you do.

Hmmm! Fidson sounds very familiar

revolt:
why dont u go and adopt the child na....or arent u a good person...a christain.

Is that how you were adopted?

beinstein:
Very simple, the same reason the wife to the child's father rejected her.
You lots see everything wrong in Op's decision not to accept the child, but ignore the fact that her father's wife rejected her.
Is there any better hypocrisy than this?

Did you read proof what you typed before submitting it? Because it's not comprehensive and doesn't make sense. It's a human being you're using the word reject for upandan like this.

Please don't quote me again.

I really wonder why he can't accept the child, I can't just wrap my head around it

MizMyColi:
Bro, let's look at the issues you raised - one by one.



If there was an agreement that the wife's daughter will never smell the veranda of his compound, trust me, the husband would have made it explicitly clear to all of us.



Do you also know hw many men are willing to take such a woman whom the husband has greatly eulogized into their home, and even gladly accept 2 children from her that are not theirs? For him to have been attracted to her in the first place, despite being - according to him - "an AFTER ONE" --- there are at least 10 other men out there who would want her. Husband is scarce, husband is scarce; that story is not for good, enterprising women who know their God.



If he isn't, he should let his wife know his concerns....and show compassion for the child. It is the same womb that carried your children that carried that 7 year old. That 7 year old is the woman's first fruit. People are being harsh on him because he did not stop for a moment in his post to conider how it must be for that girl. I called him a selfish man because when you love someone, their baggage becomes yours. You don't look in one direction when it is convenient for you, and look the other way when it isn't. I am married too. I know how I carry the things that have to do with my hubby on my head. I know how passionate I am about his family. Is it always convenient? No. But I love him, and that love overflows to his family too. It is the same for him and my family. That's the way it should be.



Anybody who tells you that their marriage is exactly as they expected it to be is lying. sometimes, you get more than you bargained for.



The woman did the right thing. To beg. It's good. But he should know that he is not God. God is the one who drives away flies from the tailess cow. He should also know that he has lost the better part of the woman if after all her pleas, he does not allow the child into the home. Even if it is just to sleep.



Which mental valuations?
What if he were in his wife's shoes, what will he do?
What would you do?



The reason I will not cut him any slack is because he is being selfish by claiming it is HIS home. It is THEIR home. Whether the woman contributed one naira or not, it is THEIR home.
Perhaps, if he saw things from that angle, he would know better and show some compassion despite the difficulties he might be facing in reaching a decision.

MizMyColi:
Such iberiberism.

Don't mind the guy. I thank God I'm not in that space, because you have to marry me and the child together from the outset. Girl child for that matter, it's either she lives with me or my parents.

NairalandFAYOSE:
I don't Think My family will like this. they don't really like her that much Cus she is "AFTER ONE"

Can you just hear yourself "After One" so you're tear rubber

Revised edition

Biglittlelois:
Imagine if your dad never met and married your mum, you wont exist, everyone has a destined partner yeah!!! if you go ahead with this, she may be wondering why she is not married!! i pray you meet her soon so that you'll become lovestruck

She will get married to someone else and be happy. There's no one perfect partner for anyone. In essence, there's no such thing as what you stated. Events of life is what leads you in the direction of who you end up with.

But then, people are entitled to their beliefs.

What about driving with over loaded vehicles, trucks ?

What about the fact that most of the commercial buses are not road worthy yet the LG issues them road worthiness permit?

What about the roads that are not even worthy of most private vehicles?

Well, from my experience, quick home remedies for stroke is to make a cut on the hand or thigh of the person so that blood can follow out and interrupt the spasm. Then you give the person a lot of coke to drink.

pweetiedee:
Doesn't mean. I'm 24 and I graduated in 2012

I'm 25, graduated 2012. I had 1993 age grade in my class, not 1995.

Abeg that 23 no follow.

23years!

You guys are still moving this motion, someone who graduated in 2012.

MizMyColi:
Adim nma.
And you?


It's been a while.
I trust you're good?

Yes, I'm thriving.

I hope you're fine too.

Have a wonderful time.

MizMyColi:
Hi Sis

Nwanyi OMA

Kedu?

Wazobia Bride

Mrs Zainab Balogun-Nwachukwu

Plastic smile

dominique:
I'm waiting for those superstitious people that will come and say that she caused it because she flaunted her bump in public. Was she supposed to lock herself indoors for the entire nine months?

Let's gather here and wait for them

Divay22:
That position is so comfortable..
Most especially when I'm gisting and would just from there sleep.

You're in the spirit

konklushun:
I used to sleep the same way, face down and legs up. My sister too. It is nothing spiritual. I have stopped it sha. And I don't know how I stopped it sef.

Mrs Wife, how are you

I used to put my legs on the wall or face up and cross it, it was just a very comfortable position.

iamJ:
no be today, we are used to soot, the pollution in ph


cancer and other lung diseases loading for most people there

It's not a good thing to be used to, it's really unhealthy and won't get better if the government doesn't intervene.

Even after she spoilt her Oyonyo dress and said all what not, Payporte is still hosting her. I hope she feels some form of shame.

Madam Dearest

Awon Redeemers! So far she pays her tithe she will make heaven.