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jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

He is not having any problem in my opinion but when he is ready to start secondary school, send him to Nigeria to attend Deeper Life High School. You will thank me later.

oluwatosink:
Why this coach just dey bench mata.. Mata that mourinho can't do without..

the same mata that is getting older and slower?

princeade86:
still Madrid. google it.

no, manutd's fanbase supercedes others, besides madrid fans are so classless and disrespectful

Abouwaza:
Which class? Mtchew

lol, you are sounding like a chelsea fan

Jokerman:
Ah Ahly is the best club in the world by number of trophies

Real Madrid is the best club in the world by caliber of trophies won

and manutd is the greatest in the world by class and fans

the great manutd! GGMU!!

May God have mercies, marriage is damn scary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am not sure any other country can be close to this number. We have even accomplished a great task by remaining united till now. May God keep helping us

its unfortunate you are in the wrong coutry, if u can source money to travel to europe, you stand a chance. you can also publicise yourself as the other person said

makewetalk2:
Ronaldo feels very insecure. He will remain second to Messi forever no matter how loud he enunciates his achievement.

Ronaldo only won the champions league trophies with two clubs
Clarence Seedorf a Central Midfielder from the Netherlands won the same number of champion league trophies as Ronaldo with 3 clubs

Ronaldo is not the most successful Champion league trophy winner.
Paco Gento has 6 champion league trophies to his name

Messi scored 91 goals in 2012. why not break that record and become the GOAT that you always want to be.

Ororo why not win it with Juventus?

lol, its good as u mentioned this, cr7 breaks every record they dare him to, he will win the ucl with Juve before he leaves. watch this space

yungsmart:
Arrogant son of a bit*ch. You are still second to Messi the GOAT las las.
This is to show how insecure Ronaldo is and feeling threatened by messi who does his talking on the pitch

and Ronaldo does his talking on the training ground?

At the mention of this man's name, we remember Orubebe

Ritaokafor:
Read this book"why you act the way you do". Can't recall the author's name. Your husband is melancholic. Suffers terrible mood swings. Just be patient with him in prayer till he comes out of it.

nice book written by Tim Lahaye

Bibidear:
let's go.....3 more to go

woooow you should be knighted!

wakes:
I saw this and went ahead to load N1k to do it only for MTN PULSE to swallow the 1k and give me 15k for data and 5k for calls.
I should have opted out of the pulse before recharging.

I'm not complaining though

15k for data? ayam not understanding

samutd4u:
Yes oh

WITH LINDELOF'S REVIVAL AND THESE TWO DEFENDER'S SIGNING, THE BACLINE LOOKS GOOD ON PAPER, HOWEVER WE SERIOUSLY NEED A CENTRAL MIDFIELDER!

ManspaceBarber:
£80M?

yes, if you need something and you can easily afford it, its not costly. have you seen the amount quoted for Nathan Ake?

samutd4u:
Good

after many years , it looks like we will be free from Smalling, Young and Jones

after many years , it looks like we will be free from Smalling, Young and Jones

eni4real:
How can they dribble him when he is always avoiding drubbing by calling on others to mark while he shadow Mark?? That Stat is very overrated..
This VVD is not better than John Terry, Vidic or Ferdinand was!!

He had a fantastic season tho!!

you are so right,he hasnt even gotten to Kompany's level

drips8:
Welcome to the the theater of dreams

Glory Glory Manchester United!

next anouncement>>>>>> Bruno Fernandes. Watch this space!

The Red Devils finally landed their man as they look to improve on a disappointing sixth-place finish in the Premier League last season
Manchester United have completed the signing of Harry Maguire from Leicester City in an £80 million ($97m) deal that sees the centre-back sign a six-year contract, with the option of a further year, at Old Trafford.

The long-running saga came to an end on Monday as the England international put pen to paper to become part of Ole Gunnar Solskjaer's rebuild at the Theatre of Dreams.

The move sees Maguire surpass Virgil van Dijk to become the most expensive defender of all time, with the Netherlands international having joined Liverpool for £75m in January 2018.

Fans have been calling for defensive reinforcements for some time at United, with many believing Rio Ferdinand and Nemanja Vidic to have been the last two truly reliable centre-halves at the club.

Solskjaer said upon the announcement of Maguire's arrival: “Harry is one of the best centre-backs in the game today and I am delighted we have secured his signature.

"He is a great reader of the game and has a strong presence on the pitch, with the ability to remain calm under pressure - coupled with his composure on the ball and a huge presence in both boxes - I can see he will fit well into this group both on and off the pitch.

”He has a great personality and is a fantastic addition to the club.

“I would like to welcome Harry to Manchester United and we are looking forward to working with him as we prepare for the new season.”


Maguire added: “I am delighted to have signed for this great club. I have thoroughly enjoyed my time at Leicester and would like to thank everyone at the club, and the fans, for their fantastic support over the past two seasons.

"However, when Manchester United come knocking on your door, it is an incredible opportunity.

”From my conversations with the manager, I am excited about the vision and plans he has for the team. It’s clear to see that Ole is building a team to win trophies. I am now looking forward to meeting my new team-mates and getting the season started.”

A sixth-place finish in the Premier League last term following Solskjaer's appointment to replace Jose Mourinho in the dugout was considered a hugely disappointing return for a club of United's stature and Maguire is seen as a ready-made edition to aid in their mission to return to challenging for the English top-flight crown and the Champions League.
source: goal.com

Deeper Life High School! I'm proud of the school

sholarr12:
FourFourTwo has ranked the 101 greatest footballers of the last 25 years and Messi and Ronaldo unsurprisingly make the top ten. Here is the list of the top ten:

1. LIONEL MESSI

If Cristiano Ronaldo is Rafael Nadal – never stopping in the relentless quest for perfection – then Messi is Roger Federer. The most naturally gifted athlete his sport has ever produced, the Argentine normalises the superhuman, achieving apparent perfection with an insouciant swish of his left foot.

“I feel sorry for those who want to compete for Messi’s throne,” Pep Guardiola once said. “It’s impossible, this kid is unique.”

Trying to make sense of Messi is to give up on football, to forget the reason why you first started watching in the first place, cross-legged in the front room or open-mouthed on the stands. Suspend your disbelief and follow what most opponents do. Admire.

2. CRISTIANO RONALDO

3. ZINEDINE ZIDANE

4. RONALDO

5. RONALDINHO

6. THIERRY HENRY

7. XAVI

8. ANDRES INIESTA

9. PAOLO MALDINI

10. ROBERTO BAGGIO

https://www.fourfourtwo.com/features/101-greatest-football-players-last-25-years-full-list?page=0%2C4#lDOoEUWfOdQC385K.99

With that La Masia Ben Arfa as number 1, the list is trash!

slapandfall:
We need to understand that Ronaldo and like some other European players are not native English speakers.
So their use of English is not the best.

Hence they use some words which they do not know it sounds rude or has some form of pride. "not like they themselves are really rude or proud" but that is just the way they can speak English because they speak by word to word translation.

If you get what i mean

you are very right, this thing you explained at times put Jose Mourinho into trouble

pyro62:
Evra bustop . This guy was very solid that year

yes oooo, until Aaron Lennon happened

obembet:
Manchester United

no wonder you are this awesome! Glory Glory Manchester United!!!

Griezmann should be worried, seems Messi is jealous and doesnt want him

logon599:
Though if I was Solskjaer I'll do a swap deal. Lukaku for Mauro Icardi

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May God bless u o.they said manutd board and Ole dont like him

MubarakMukhtar:
Please are you guys serious about what you are saying cox it's really panicking and terrible, am just a fresh graduate waiting for service, my mind always telling me that I will be posted to federal government institution for ppa where after my successful service year they wouldn't hesitate to retain me be their temporary worker b4 being parmanented, definitely my salary going to start like somewhere from 120k above per month.





To me own surprise am here seeing 800 2k and highest 18k per month as personal salary.
What a shock? Was it am ambitious ����

may God grant your wishes, but about this retaining of a thing, only very very few are retained especially in a federal government job, maybe about 1% . Just start planning and praying towards your ex nysc days, it's not easy

greetings to the messi fans in the house oooooooooooo