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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ernecy(m): 7:07am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Brother I know you must be feeling terrible now about ur wife, but somehow you should have noticed this trait before getting married to this lady. My take is, this would not stop anytime soon, bcuz it's in built. This kind of woman can push u to do crime, she doesn't care how u get the money, as long as there's cash she don't care, and she will either leave u for a greener pasture or continue nagging whn the chips are down. The onous lie on you |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by gidjah(m): 7:08am On Sep 09, 2015 |
[quote author=Truckpusher post=37819435]Do not let any woman drive you nuts to your grave , drive her nuts until she locates her family house with speed.[/quote chei !!bros truck pusher ,you dey so ?,how market??long time ! |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ogawisdom(m): 7:08am On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O:honestly u dont ve a wife |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by teddybear007(f): 7:11am On Sep 09, 2015 |
GHoJes: Nice comment ve read so far, though am still reading. Op take note, will notify u wen i see another one. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ogawisdom(m): 7:11am On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O:honestly u dont ve a wife. a good wife supports his husband and encourage him during trying times. nw hw r u going broke too frequently, is it dt ur wicked wife demands is causing it or u dnt ve a family budget or u r a reckless spender. whichever is d ans falls back at u for being a poor money manager n u need to work on it. let me understand this, wen u r broke which family need cant u meet or r they wants. finally ur nagging wife needs a job |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by beejaay: 7:12am On Sep 09, 2015 |
androidroot:enlightening 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by crisngige(m): 7:15am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Your wife may be under the influence of a very materialistic friend of hers. If that is so, even if you start earning N1 million tomorow, she will always nag when the money is down to N300K, as she will see that as you being broke, because she has to keep up with her 'friend'. Think back to the stories she tells you in happier times of when her friend's husband bought a new car or phone for her friend. If she began to nag you for a new car or phone just around that time, discourage her from continuing to keep such a friend, or else you may not be free from nagging, no matter how rich you become tomorrow. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by doubleportion: 7:16am On Sep 09, 2015 |
10 months! And you are complaining? Maybe because you are a newbie. I can see the advice of very mature people over here,if you are not planning to use those naggings as an excuse for other things,simple deductive and inductive reasonings will help you out if you are sincere to yourself.the honeymoon is over! You are in discovery dispensation,that naggings is to teach you some lessons not to frustrate you if you see it from that perspective. Don't play a revenge game,understand her personality. Somebody commented earlier homourously that if she nags whenever you are broke,then try not to get broke.it might not far from the truth,may God give you wisdom. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by KiNiBiGd: 7:17am On Sep 09, 2015 |
[b]Hmmm, my brother I understand ur feelings but there is nothing you can do, I can't advice u to break ur marriage. My advice: 1. Let her know ur salary cos she might think u are earning 100k while is just 30k. 2. Let her know how you are spending the money because she might think you still have enough money in your account maybe you are stingy. 3. When you collect your salary ask her what she needs and your own need for the month how she wants the money to be spent . 4. DON'T BE TOO SECRETIVE IN MARRIAGE IT CAUSES MORE PROBLEM 5. Tell her how you are feeling anytime she nags about money don't assume she knows ur feelings GOD WILL HELP OUR MARRIAGE! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by menxer: 7:17am On Sep 09, 2015 |
the basic definition of a wife is a "helper". if the wife is not helping in your hour of distress what then is her role? her problem may be far rooted than you may imagine, check her family background, was she raised in a dysfunctional home? what was her mother's role in the family or one that play a mother's role in her life? it might be her defense mechanism that kicks in unconsciously out of fear of poverty. was she always like this before the marriage? if yes, teaching an old horse new "tricks" won't be easy, but nothing is impossible if you believe you can do it. all these may not hold true if she is pregnant, which makes some ladies exhibit funny characters. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Bibors(m): 7:18am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Brother its just stages in marriage. U guys are just 10months into this game. Now get it, 1 its not always rosy. 2. Life go teach am lesson. 3. She go tire to nag one day. 4. There aint a better woman out there. These gals appear to understand u and even think what u think until u make them ur wife. 5. Nature uses some of those attitudes of these wives to put men on their toes and make them hustle more. Dont divorce, dont listen to négative advice, just keep moving on and Very soon u will celebrate ur silver jubilee , u will look back and rejoice how she has made u a better woman 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Bollinger: yea am.fvcking single #YOLO |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:27am On Sep 09, 2015 |
ststyreal: Tank you ma #YOLO |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by smarttm: 7:29am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Get her a job or business so that she can contribute too and feel the pain.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by endeedike(m): 7:29am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Truth is bitter but its the truth...this thing called love has sent so many young men early to their graves...Ask Romeo Poseidon000: |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by player007(m): 7:30am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Women don't know that when they nag it affects the man's body, spirit and soul. It makes him feel unappreciated and incompetent every single time and that's what every man hates. My question is has she always been like that or its a new habit she just picked up? If the later is the answer then watch the kind of friends she keeps. They may be the ones telling her what to do or say. Or it could also be that she wants to be on the same level with her friends material wise. And if she has always been like that before you proposed and eventually married her, then see that aspect of her's as a CROSS you will have to carry. Every marriage has its Cross. I can tell you Love your wife and will do anything to keep this marriage of yours. My advice is NEVER let her nagging about money push you into things you will end up regretting. Communication is Important and Pray without ceasing. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by EmekaBlue(m): 7:30am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Thats how women r..when d money is flowing they r hapi but when money seems to b hard to get lately,they start acting awkward bcoz no money WOMEN=MONEY |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:30am On Sep 09, 2015 |
lastpage:oga na d only way sure pass Ladies re after rich guys now. . .they dont care if u re handsome or uglee. #We cant trust dese beetches #YoLO |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:31am On Sep 09, 2015 |
It's so simple bro.... keep getting money, find a way outta ur being broke, brokeness state. . |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:33am On Sep 09, 2015 |
onoja12:u re 100% correct. . .ladies re like flies dey follow money like sh!t. . we its no longer der. . .dey flee. #YOLO |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:34am On Sep 09, 2015 |
sonofananimal:na true u talk sha. . .i reason am too #Yolo |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by lamrose: 7:35am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Good talk..... from a lady Ginaz: |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Johnnoo(m): 7:35am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Get her something doing anytime you are on bucks... |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by aderonkedeborah(f): 7:36am On Sep 09, 2015 |
The men in dis forum are indeed wonderful. I hope u ll take ur tym to read what they wrote and make a wise decision may GOD give u wisdom to put tinz in d right shape |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:39am On Sep 09, 2015 |
zomoears: i wl neva accept her back. cos she jst displayed who she truely is. When they see u re kinda broke. . .they feels thats your permanent downfall. Honestly these ladies thinks like babies atimes! #YoLO 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by MissMakas(f): 7:40am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Some women do not really understand how this life works. It must not be all rosy all the time. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 09, 2015 |
GHoJes:Sir you nailed it perfectly with your post. This is definitely the most sensible reply I've read on this thread 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by stonecoldcafe: 7:41am On Sep 09, 2015 |
ogawisdom: You are a bad adviser and probably a bad friend. It is your type that will make a brother or cousin leave his wife. So many people advising on this thread like they are giving advise for bf/gf matter. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by teddybear007(f): 7:43am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Op, i would ve continued reading but so far from d comments ve read it seems like there are more of children or should i say unmarried peeps here giving u advice on marriage, those people that thinks that relationship and marriage are on d same level. A marriage guidance counsellor once said that half of the major problem dat couples normally face is financial management ie ability and inability to manage ur finance, that once u re able to overcome dat problem, ur marriage is 70% going to succeed. Therefore at Op, i dnt knw how ur wife nags, i cant give a definite suggestion based on ur one sided story and i cant also fault d woman cos i didnt hear her own side of story. All i can say is for d both of u d sit down and strike a balance for ur finance, if she is working what will be her quota? And if she is not, jst knw d responsibility squares mainly on ur shoulder and u ve to man up and plan very well both for d seen and unforseen circumstance that might come ur way, but dnt forget to plan it together with her. I would ve continued but ve got to stop here, wish u God Grace in ur marriage. Gracias. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by sekzy99(m): 7:49am On Sep 09, 2015 |
As I don't have friends and families to wish me happy birthday as most of them will forget. I have decided to wish myself a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Sept 9 pikin 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by janefrancisca(f): 7:50am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Poseidon000:Hmm so you advised him to leave his wife and what next?? move on to another woman who may b another gold digger? (shebi na una say all nigerians gal na money dem need from una)...so who is kidding who They should try and work things out first, before considering quitting. So if ur sister or brother like money, u go ''de-sibling'' am, it is wa o. |
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