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Eve62:
and wot happens after dat? wot er u reasoning wit sef?

DoraCuzz:
Please...if u need my job, comman have it!

I'm coming. . Where you @?

otikpoko:
Pm me his Number.
I will Offer him a better Job in My Company.

Shey make I send you PM too?

it may not get better for awhile

Neither. Desperate.

. Those 'melons' don't look real though.

vault:
so she should tie wrapper abi

help me ask the bros oo

But I can't

is it me or is South Africa weird? They seem to have funny customs.

Mother~ICE(In Case of Emergency)

spend the night how? What do you want to spend the night doing?

I sincerely admire his panache but it's still very dangerous.

Atlantis, the Palm, Dubai

Cutehector:
lol ur shakara too much....

na lie joor... in her heart of heart, mama no dey happy. but weyin she go do?

Cutehector:
can't even see myself marryn a yoruba woman to start with..

Cutehector:
why I nor go provoke.. see dat husband, u go find am tire.

Cutehector:
afta nw dem go say husband dey scarce.. infact, let the husbands be scarce in Jesus name, Amen!

Cutehector:
babe ah gat d eyes of a sniper.. dnt worry, ma bullet soon gona hit ya.

Cutehector:
he who findeth a wife.......

Am sure you knw d following phrase

babajeje123:
@op, you are one in a million! You are a rare and special breed of a woman. I pray that God will give you joy in your home. The first question I will ask is if your husband loves you. If he does, then with some patience and heart-to-heart discussions, he will do your biddings, otherwise, you've got a lot of work to do.

It is funny to see that we share so many things in common. I am married and you see, I was once what your husband is to my wife. The only differences are I don't like MouthAction and make-up. You and my wife are the same in terms of cooking and house chores. I can't remember what she could cook well. My marriage will also be 4 in December. We had a baby girl that we lost as a result of our irreconcilable differences. But you know what, everything has changed now!!!

You have a lot of work to do on your knees. Prayers work like magic. You need to pray for a change of heart for him and you must be very patience and sacrificial. Don't do anything silly and don't act in a haste. Don't forget that a wise woman builds her home and some of the building materials are prayers, patience and unconditional love.

Also, I will advice you to stop reporting him to his people. I hated that when my wife was doing it and every man hates such. If you want to bring anyone in, prayerfully do so. It may not necessarily be your pastor because some of them are also having marital issues or are not sufficiently knowledgeable about how to resolve marital crises (I am not castigating pastors o). So, you may need to look for someone that he fears and will not want to disobey to report him to. You will have to let the third person know that you are bringing him/her in not to chastise your husband but to help you talk to him.

As per sex, you will need to tell him what you want. Don't assume he knows. You may need to buy him books like "The Act of Marriage" by Tim La hale if he is a reading type. Also, use make up if he wants it, at least till you get his heart back to you. Improve on your cooking skills, google is your friend. Try your best to please him and I am sure he will realise his errors and come back to you.

As you make every effort to bring joy into your home, the Most High will honour those efforts and sacrifices in Jesus' Name.