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They're all corrupt if you most know but, we're talking about who's best to govern amongst them. My major problem with Buhari is the statement he was allegedly to have about Sharia Court. It doesn't sound like someone who's accommodating to me. If this statements attributed to him's wrong, pls help correct it

I dated one b/4 even though everyone has a different definition of what the word DATING really means. If dating means having fun together, personally I think that might be OK, but if your definition of dating means a precursor for something higher, then, the equation changes at that crossing and I'm completely against it for obvious reasons. If you're already married to a different race,you know what I'm talking about and if you're thinking about it,just remember DATING & MARRIAGE are two different words and meanings. Dating will usually involve just TWO people and marriage'll be the opposite. USE YOUR TONGUE AND COUNT YOUR TEETH is a good African proverb and I wish all well.

A good relationship should be open, so the man and woman should unlock everything.

Learn how to spell these words "STUPID & FUNNY", you'll be surprise to know the 2 words are not the same

How about NWEKE-EZUIKE or AZUANUKA

Most of these type of divorce cases are mostly the Yorubas, or are other State News papers not reporting their own cases. Is it me just noticing this?

I'm not in the least surprised at all. God help us

Ifyalways, you're just being honest,real and refused to play "word games" with the poster. You know what they said, THE TRUTH HURTS. The fact is that marriage's over. Either the poster is not being truthful or he's a fake. The poster's wife is not just a cheater, she's also VERY DANGEROUS. How else can one defined evil. The poster can play dume if he wants, its his life. If the poster's looking for surport here, perharps he's come to a wrong place.

Once a CHEATER always a CHEATER, I'm so sorry. You might be sincere about keeping your marriage, I really wish you luck and well but don't count on her not doing it again and again. This time was a pastor next time may be JUJU man or woman to make sure she caries her cheating life style without detection. You need to really know who you're married to. This's not the type of thing one starts and stop and so the saying,"ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER" and I sincerely wish you well.

Was  that the first or the 4th wife?

why are Igbo girls sooooo beautiful and SEXY

Vivaladiva, shu t up.If you can't say anything good about ones culture, just shu t up your mouth, you're far from being intelligent. That list's not of the Ibos in the first place and even if it is, its our culture. Stay in Europe, marry them and practice their culture if they have any. Your behavior stinks and ethnocentric and that's not civilization, neither are you civilised. Shu t up, you have a loose mouth and annoying one. you've become a hybrid, neither an African or European, what are you? Our culture is just what it is, our culture, get use to it. Some of the things you see in that list are ceremonial, don't knock it because you don't understand it or just playing stu pid or ignorant. Throw up if you want to but get this in your stu pid fish scull. ITS OUR CULTURE, YES OUR CULTURE.

I don't know any other definition of Ex except what it is. If you cannot permanentely and completely erace your past escapes, I'm sorry you have a problem. one needs to channel all those energy to the present relationship. Don't forget the word "TEMPTATION", even God was tempted. Why take the risk if you really want to move on?

You don't have to have an Ex. Ogugua88, don't wear that label as a proud one. Its not a proud thing and it shows character and more. No one want to know about your runway stream of sexuality. People like you'll come back here at 42 like the lady who was sleeping around with the Northerners seeking advices. I hope you'll some day settle down for good, not very sure about that though and I wish you well.

I didn't see anything in that long list, NOTHING except a long empty list. Your friend fainted because of the bag of rice, salt or the 10Naira or just the long list of nothing. you must be birds of same feather. You said your friend has been married for 3yrs, why then is he receiving the list, LIAR or maybe that's why he hat 2kids before receiving the list. Some people just live their lives not knowing how tribalistic they really are. Some of the worst tribalists in that country, whether they're your corrupt politicians at Abuja or just playing Omosexy are the ones who don't think they're tribalist. The next time you post your divisive trade, be a little more balance

I don't think anyone here can help or advice this woman. This's a totally confused person that hid behind her Religion but leaved all her youthful age running around the Mallams and the Allahajis in the North for obvious reason. Lets be real for once here. How many men in that path of the world,pls don't even play foolish asking how I know the part of the country, will date a woman for that long if he's not already married. let just assume she was dating someone of her own age. This people has used and dumped her as a side kick. I think she used the right word, DATING to discrib ed what she was doing for 11yrs because it has lots of sexual conotation to it. If she meant courtship, that's a precursor for something higher and 11yrs is dump in that regard. There're thousands of Christians from the south running around the Allahajis in the North, just do what many had done, settle with one of the Allahajis as one the wives.

I wonder the type of advice you're expecting to hear. You know, I have heard the word MUMU a lot, sometimes its misused. Do you think, maybe, just maybe you might be a MUMU? Goodluck with your CHEATER girl friend.

You said you filed for divorce after 13yrs, so you must have decided to move on, why then are you running around looking for this man. If your idea of filing for divorce is get rich, then you're not just wrong, you're dead wrong. You've shown your other side, the side that made you fill for divorce, the side that made this man ran away not caring that he left a child behind. You've probably cleaned him up here in US and that is not enough for you.I surgest you do something useful for yourself, get a life. You've shown so much greed, pains, and jealous in you, cut it.

That's kids play comparing to what your own corrupt ministers do, I'm sorry

That could be a fairly accurate figures judging from the numbers of cows in that area. The least those corrupt INEC would have done was to educate the Fulani/Housas to just count PEOPLE and nothing else.

There're Two Sides To Every Story, Expectialy If The Story's Told By A WOMAN

You know what they said,"There's always two sides to every story". I read your sad story over and over trying to make sence of the whole thing. I think there's some element of truth in what your wife told you, assuming you did not over paraphrased what you think happened. People who indulged in that shameful behavior usually covers themselves very well. I believed your wife that your uncle told her not to tell you because I think he was setting his sinful plans in motion. on the other hand, I'm not sure about telling her over the phone about the rest of the things you added. My advise, don't start a war you cannot fight and win. DO NOT DO anything that may put our wife in a vulnerable state. You'll be like a General who went to war without his lieftenants. PLAY IT SMART. Call him and tell him that your wife'll return the money and thank him for CARING. DO NOT say anything further. Just keep him gazing. Sometimes, silence is the best responce expectially when you're not sure of the best way to handle situations and I wish you and your family well my friend.

Just continue to care for the child as your biological child. He'll eventually ask and at approperate age.Remember, every child is different, you know the child better

Yes,Yes,Yes,Yes, and Yes. My sincere prayers to all of you's to enjoy happy marriage. I consider myself one of the luckiest man. Married for 17yrs to my best friend, when I tell people that we don't fight for anything, they don't believe me. I want to take this opportunity to announced that my baby'll be 40yrs young this April and I'm already going crazy on how to celebrate it. any advise? My wife's the back-bone of my carrier and has never for one day taken credit for it. sometimes I'm not even sure why I'm so blessed with this wonderful woman,beauty and brain, but I thank God.

Gag me with a spoon, I'll said it again, that her sole responsibility before sex with no protection,should have been to figure out if the guy.s interested in her or sex. Its an easy distinction, he is a student. Dose she want more breakdown on this? Don't have sex if you don't know the answer. Personally, I think she's waisting her time seeking emotional support here. If she cannot handle the emotional consequences of making mistakes like this one, she should not have slept with this student without protection until she's in a committed relationship. Maybe now she can get one of those T-Shirts that reads "No committed Relationship,No Sex" and wear around, I'm sorry

In all these crying Wolfe, you never for once mentioned your own family or how stupid you were in the first place. You're getting exactly the very prize for loose and stupid women. Take it with pride and sallow it, that's your own making. You planned for this pregnancy, he didn't. You've been knocked-up. The sexual relationship with you was never intended to produce any baby. Personally, I think you should have berried your head in the sand if you have any shame in you. Next time, learn how to spell the word CONDOM and take your problem to a different section, like the FOOLS CORNER. By the way, his father's not your father in law, the young man was never married to you

Mrs Chima, stop given advises that you're not qualified or trained for. What has sudden drinking after marriage has to do with not loving her. this's a woman that dated her husband for 7yrs, never see this part and never see anything wrong with herself except that she looks 16. You should have stoped at surgesting counselling. STOP,STOP, STOP!!! This woman maybe more than 16, but chronologically, she's still functioning at that age level

Its in your head sir, Without realising it, you brought tribe in your own posting. My advise for people like you expecially the girls, STAY WITH YOUR OWN TRIBE. I dated a Yoruba girl during our college days here in US, and we  even cohabitated,not proud of it, just trying to make my point clearer, but when it comes to marriage, I know what can and cannot work the way I want it. Reading 190s comments, you can tell how tribalistic and haterate some Yorubas are towards the Igbos. I said SOME Yorubas

I don't support the man's action, but there's what's called "temporary insanity" and that was what happened with this man. as a married man, I felt his pains inside my own bones. In most states in the USA and State, there's another defensive words in the law book called "hit of passion" wish the man could have used as a defence. again, I'm not in anyway supporting his actions. I also with interest have read through comments expectially from the girls with disappointment. Ladies like hanniebomb and Imai whose value system is zero, will do exactly what that adulterous woman did.Imai mentioned leaving the woman alone at night, so your husband will always be there 100% every night. What a shame.

I think she was also seeing him the same time she was dating you. I think you are probably a better marriage material or just proposed b/4 her ex. To hear low life people like Plappville who is neither married or know anything about marriage is unfortunate, that'sexactely people like that will do and that's sad. Go immediately and get a DNA test for the kids if there's one. She neither love or have any respect for the marriage. Her relationships with her ex's far from over. She knows why she married you, love is not one it, and I wish you luck